Easiest to most challenging

[coastalkid]

I have an unquenchable thirst for learning and knowing everything I can about the cuckold/hot wife lifestyle. I have two simple requests/questions. I’d like to know what has been the easiest part of being a cuckold/hot wife for wives or husbands? Naturally, I’d also like to know what has been the most difficult/challenging part?

There’s a lot of real life experience from members of this site that can be VERY beneficial to wannabe’s like me. As a former classroom teacher it was common thing to often discuss things that were “Best Practices” and what were the common mistakes. I realize that this may not be universally applicable.

I also understand that this isn’t exciting masturbation fodder but I figure there’s something on the site for everyone. Thanks!

[knight4princess]

A nice new topic! Of course, my wife and I might answer differently from one another -- and the answers might change as we go through time. But my quick response is:

Easiest -- Finding men who are interested in fucking my wife.
Hardest -- Finding QUALITY men who are interested in fucking my wife more than a few times. A lot of times there are reasons guys are divorced, never married, etc. Nice to begin with but not really too compatible as time goes on.

[Ready2StartAgain]

A nice new topic! Of course, my wife and I might answer differently from one another -- and the answers might change as we go through time. But my quick response is:

Easiest -- Finding men who are interested in fucking my wife.
Hardest -- Finding QUALITY men who are interested in fucking my wife more than a few times. A lot of times there are reasons guys are divorced, never married, etc. Nice to begin with but not really too compatible as time goes on.

I agree with this! And probably many will. Ill add though, since I was unaware, becoming PussyFree was hard!

[Jujube]

I would think being PF would be the hardest along with being locked up.

[Jujube]

I would think being PF would be the hardest along with being locked up 24/7.

[Jujube]

Sorry about that.. I got a notice that I might want to edit since someone else posted.

[theothercuck]

The easiest for me is how much fun my ex-wife could be at parties. She could turn a b+ hang out to an A+ hang out why taking her tits out. Life was seldom boring. She also used to encourage other women to do the same, so I wound up seeing a lot of boobs when I was married.

The hardest part is probably the envy. The worst experience I ever had was shovelling my driveway, while a lover stayed at my house getting his dick sucked by my wife and his girlfriend, knowing my wife was too jealous to ever let me have a threesome.

[hubudig2]

Hardest -- Finding QUALITY men who are interested in fucking my wife more than a few times. A lot of times there are reasons guys are divorced, never married, etc. Nice to begin with but not really too compatible as time goes on.

I hear this a lot.
I'm married and have essentially been with the same woman since we were at school.
When I was a "bull" in my late teens and early 20s, it was all through word of mouth. I would be fucking a mate's girlfriend and she would tell her girlfriends about me and they would want to experience me for themselves despite having boyfriends too. I didn't understand the concept at the time, I just enjoyed it for what it was.
When I started getting back into it last year, I was having to find couples online and found it difficult. Couples I did talk to admitted they were talking to me on the off chance and were sceptical that it could work with me being married or because I didn't have a rugby player physique or a tan or tattoos or not being black etc.
The 2 couples I've actually met and see regularly now have said that I'm perfect for it after a long time of trying and failing to find a good bull.
I wonder if guys like me get filtered out early on in favour of the more vain types, only to find that the vain types don't make good candidates?

I have an unquenchable thirst for learning and knowing everything I can about the cuckold/hot wife lifestyle.

I have this unquenchable thirst too but for the psychology of it.

[dinoo]

Easiest: to accept being a cuckold. I had even before we married.
Most difficult: to suck a lover's cock. But that was only in the beginning of our LS...........

[sconesy73]

I would think being PF would be the hardest along with being locked up.

Being PF certainly difficult to begin with but once you come to terms with it, it's surprisingly easy. For me anyway it was more of an acceptance thing and surprisingly refreshing- I'm not in competition with anyone else S has sex with!

2.5 years now since PIV with S.