My wife's first date with another man, and it's her ex!

[Jujube]

Good! I’m getting the feeling she’s going to be cuckolding you hard! Pun intended!

[venus-can99]

BC - hope Lisa and Nathan have a wonderful night and you get partake in the fun by watching at least for a bit. Sounds like Nathan is good third

[milehinbi]

OP keeping us in suspense on this one...

[BadCandy]

hey everyone! thank you for your patience with the time between my updates!

It's been a little over a week since Nathan was here, and then went out of town. Lisa and I have talked a little bit, as per suggestions from a few people on here, about her flying out to see him while he's away, it doesn't look like it's going to happen. She was hesitant in the name of saving money. I told her I'd be happy to pay for her ticket, but she smiled and brushed it off... I'm not ruling it out, but we'll see... I feel like if she doesn't do that, then she'll likely end up spending a significant amount of time at his place when he gets back... perhaps a full weekend... i dont know, we'll see...

in the mean time, it seems like people want to know what happened when he came over!

shortly before Nathan arrived, Lisa told me that she remembers, from when they dated before, that Nathan is a "breast-man." he really likes boobs. So, when they dated, she used to spend a lot of time topless around him. she said he loved her boobs, and it turned him on when she did that, and turning him on turns her on, so she wanted to know how i felt about her doing that again, now. I told her i loved the idea. I told her that him getting turned on by her turns me on, so if her being topless turns all three of us on then why not?? ...so, right then and there, she took her shirt and bra off, and was topless when nathan arrived, and for the rest of the night...

this was not something she had ever done with me. The most she would do is sleep topless after sex, but as far as casually being topless, she never really did that. She also told me that since we have been together for as long we we have, me seeing her naked doesnt really turn her on as much as it used to, its kinda just the way it is... she doesnt hate it, but its not as exciting as nathan seeing her topless in a casual setting... so she waited for him, topless, and i could tell she was already getting turned on.

when he finally arrived, she greeted him, topless, they hugged, he had this naughty smile as he said, "just like old times" and instantly his hands were all over her... there was a little bit of break-the-ice casual conversation. he told us about his business trip, and what he would be doing... all the while his arm was around Lisa like she was his girlfriend, again... and I could tell he was turned on cause she was topless... and cause it was understood by all three of us that he was there to fuck her...

I watched the two of them get more and more frisky, it wasn't long before I suggested that his time was limited, and im sure he didnt want to spend it all talking to me... They made their way to the bedroom, and left the door open... I had told them before that Ididnt have to be there every time, and they could keep the door closed if they wanted, but i think the openness of all three of us, being up front about everything and having nothing to hide, left them not caring if the door was open or not... and while I initially felt like i should give them some privacy, i could not resist... I gave them a little time, to get going, then I quietly went in and sat in my desk chair... my computer desk is in the bedroom... and I watched from there!

I walked in to her laying on her back with her legs open, while he went down on her. Neither of them noticed me. walking in the room to see that was hot as fuck! ...after she came on his face, he got up and moved into position to enter her... the way they moved from position to position was really like they were in each other's heads... i loved it!

as he moved into position, he saw me watching and said, "Hey! I wondered if you were gonna join us or not." I told him I wasn't going to, but decided i wanted to watch. He asked if I enjoyed the show, I said, "Yeah! but don't worry, I'm sure I wont be watching every time" ... then he said, "I wasn't worried" as he slid his dick into my wife's pussy... and my wife moaned and told us both to shut up!

I watched them go from position to position, like a choreographed dance... each position his dick instantly found its way into her pussy... it was magical and hypnotic... I started thinking it's a shame they had ever stopped sleeping together, cause they are clearly so good at it! so I'm happy they are able to again, and I hope they keep sleeping together... I specifically remember watching them, his dick in her pussy, in a position I would have difficulty describing without posable figurines, and thinking to myself, "I know she's my wife, but I see no reason this would ever have to end."

After he came in her, and collapsed next to her, they cuddled for a bit so he could catch his breath. After which, she was clearly not ready to be finished. She asked him if he'd be up to going at least one more time tonight. he said yes, but in a bit... so she asked him if he minded if she sucked me off. he said of course not, put his boxers on, and excused himself from the room.

then she called me over, with just one finger and a smile... I joined her on the bed and she asked me if I was enjoying watching them, as she pulled by dick out and started nibbling on it... I told her I was loving it, i told her i was happy she was able to fuck him again, and i told her I didnt see a reason it should ever stop... when I said that she smiled, and took my entire cock into her mouth... she came up for air twice more, once to say she loves me, and once more to say she was very happy I was okay with her fucking nathan cause it made her happy... then she asked if I minded sleeping on the couch again, and I said thats fine... and then I came HARD, and she swallowed every drop!

I got dressed in my pj's (shorts and a t shirt), she put on panties, and we went out to the living room to find Nathan chillin on the couch playing on his phone. He asked me if I had fun, I said very much so! She sat next to him on the couch, he put his arm around her... I got us all some water and I came back to hear her telling him that I was fine sleeping on the couch again. I concurred, "Yeah, I'll sleep on the couch again, no worries."

They sat together on the couch, and I leaned against the wall, and we talked a bit more about his plans for the morning... He had to leave early to catch his flight, so he couldnt be up too late. I told him to go ahead and go to bed, and dont worry about me... so they did...

Having just came in her mouth, I was tempted, but less so, to join them. I decided to let them have privacy, so they could do what ever, and then maybe he could get some sleep... in my bed, next to my naked wife...

I grabbed a throw blanket out of the closet and made myself comfortable on the couch... I noticed they left the door ajar. closed enough they could feel private, but open enough I could hear, and peak in if i wanted to... it wasnt long after that I heard them fucking again... I didnt get much sleep that night!

The next morning Lisa came out to wake me up, still in just panties. Nathan was in the shower. She was checking on me to see how I felt sleeping on the couch while she slept with nathan. I told her it was fine, i told her I was happy she got to spend the night with him. She smiled and said she was happy i was alright with it, and she loved me... and, "remember, i dont love him, it's just sex." I said, "I know! I love that you're having sex with him!" ...she cuddled with me on the couch, and though it was, for me, super erotic, cause she was just in panties, and had just spent the night with nathan, it definetely seemed like she was having a more emotional moment with me on the couch there... as if she had just got off, and was needing some emotional connection with me... so I let it be that, and refrained from trying to make it sexy...

She stayed topless until after Nathan left. She kissed him goodbye, let him feel her tits on his way out the door, and he was gone. Then she said she was gonna take a nap cause she didnt get much sleep and was worn out. I kissed her and asked if I got a turn, and she said yes, "of course, but can it wait? I'm tired, and my pussy is really sore."

When I got home from work that night we had some CRAZY hot sex! ...her spreading her legs for Nathan has absolutely improved out sex life as well! ...even if I had to wait for my turn... which, I honestly dont mind...

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the description of Lisa and Nathan's night in your house. You are supportive of Lisa having sex with Nathan while you love each other .

[milehinbi]

Hot night. Thanks for the update.

[playwifeplease]

Excellent update BadCandy, this is all working out beautifully well for everyone concerned. You are 'living the dream'. Please continue to keep us updated as to whether Lisa chooses to fly out to Natahan, or if she spends the weekend with him on return?

[King_Mr]

Really enjoying this thread. Are you interested in her ex becoming more dominant with both of you?

[Ready2StartAgain]

Hott update!! I can see this guy convincing your wife to go exclusive with him! How would you feel if she cut you off for a while?!

[BadCandy]

Hott update!! I can see this guy convincing your wife to go exclusive with him! How would you feel if she cut you off for a while?!

I could be good with it, maybe if it was a short term kind of thing where she wanted to reacquaint with him, and it only lasted maybe a month or two... but I don't think I could stand any more than that, really...

I don't mind giving him some of my time, an waiting my turn, but I dont think I would want to be cut off completely. Yes, I'm getting pretty addicted to my wife having sex with her ex, but part of whats making it fun is the hot sex her and I have after, and because of... I imagine without that I'd start getting jealous...

of course, I'm still new to being a cuckold, so I'm only assuming how I would feel.

[Ready2StartAgain]

Hott update!! I can see this guy convincing your wife to go exclusive with him! How would you feel if she cut you off for a while?!

I could be good with it, maybe if it was a short term kind of thing where she wanted to reacquaint with him, and it only lasted maybe a month or two... but I don't think I could stand any more than that, really...

I don't mind giving him some of my time, an waiting my turn, but I dont think I would want to be cut off completely. Yes, I'm getting pretty addicted to my wife having sex with her ex, but part of whats making it fun is the hot sex her and I have after, and because of... I imagine without that I'd start getting jealous...

of course, I'm still new to being a cuckold, so I'm only assuming how I would feel.

Thats hott! I hear ya... going a week would be hard, let alone a month!! She'd surely have to get you off somehow, to keep from going crazy! Lol

[milehinbi]

Nathan's trip out of town for a few weeks almost wrapped up by my reckoning. Have to wonder if the all the players have been anticipating a reunion with Lisa.

[BCiym]

Anyone have any advice for a first-time cuck home alone while his wife is on a date with her ex?

Obviously, I can only speak from my own experience and talk about what worked for me. Given that, my suggestion is to wallow in it: feel scared it may be a huge mistake; experience being lightheaded and even nauseous at first; then take a look at some amateur cuckold porn knowing that what you’re watching is what’s really happening with your wife; look at wedding pictures of your wife while jerking off into a pair of her panties; know that you’re a cuckold and there’s nothing wrong about it

For me, the 3 most important things in this sort of relationship are communication, communication and communication.
If you and your wife have that sorted- and it certainly seems like you do- then go for it
It's going to be a wild ride for you- an absolute roller coaster of emotions- but it'll be worth it!
As for you being home alone? Keep yourself busy- wash the car, do those little jobs you've been putting off.. My partner's just started back up with a guy after 2.5 years of no playing and she's suggested I tidy up the garage
I've been at this for over 30 years with my partner and it's still as enjoyable as ever.. Congratulations

[BCiym]

Anyone have any advice for a first-time cuck home alone while his wife is on a date with her ex?

Obviously, I can only speak from my own experience and talk about what worked for me. Given that, my suggestion is to wallow in it: feel scared it may be a huge mistake; experience being lightheaded and even nauseous at first; then take a look at some amateur cuckold porn knowing that what you’re watching is what’s really happening with your wife; look at wedding pictures of your wife while jerking off into a pair of her panties; know that you’re a cuckold and there’s nothing wrong about it

For me, the 3 most important things in this sort of relationship are communication, communication and communication.
If you and your wife have that sorted- and it certainly seems like you do- then go for it
It's going to be a wild ride for you- an absolute roller coaster of emotions- but it'll be worth it!
As for you being home alone? Keep yourself busy- wash the car, do those little jobs you've been putting off.. My partner's just started back up with a guy after 2.5 years of no playing and she's suggested I tidy up the garage
I've been at this for over 30 years with my partner and it's still as enjoyable as ever.. Congratulations

I just noticed that the paragraph above starting with “obviously” is from me and the one beneath is starting with “for me” is from someone else.

[sconesy73]

Anyone have any advice for a first-time cuck home alone while his wife is on a date with her ex?

Obviously, I can only speak from my own experience and talk about what worked for me. Given that, my suggestion is to wallow in it: feel scared it may be a huge mistake; experience being lightheaded and even nauseous at first; then take a look at some amateur cuckold porn knowing that what you’re watching is what’s really happening with your wife; look at wedding pictures of your wife while jerking off into a pair of her panties; know that you’re a cuckold and there’s nothing wrong about it

For me, the 3 most important things in this sort of relationship are communication, communication and communication.
If you and your wife have that sorted- and it certainly seems like you do- then go for it
It's going to be a wild ride for you- an absolute roller coaster of emotions- but it'll be worth it!
As for you being home alone? Keep yourself busy- wash the car, do those little jobs you've been putting off.. My partner's just started back up with a guy after 2.5 years of no playing and she's suggested I tidy up the garage
I've been at this for over 30 years with my partner and it's still as enjoyable as ever.. Congratulations

I just noticed that the paragraph above starting with “obviously” is from me and the one beneath is starting with “for me” is from someone else.

I think you quoted my post

[BadCandy]

hey everyone! I realize it's been forever since I updated! I've been pretty busy with real life stuff lately... but a few people have DM'd me asking for an update, so...

Lisa did not end up flying out to see Nathan while he was out of town, but the morning after he got back she went over to his place and spent the whole weekend with him. That was a few weeks ago, since then she has been seeing him about 2 or 3 times a week. some times he comes here, some times he goes there. it's usually always an overnight thing, though a couple times it was just a quick fuck and go...

When ever they get together at our place I get to watch, whenever she goes to his place, I hang back at home. I have seen them have sex many times now, and i fucking love it! ...they are so good together! its like they can read eachother's minds! he knows exactly what she likes, and vice versa...

I also think that, in the few weeks since he's been back, she has had more sex with him than with me... which is just the way things seem to have been working out... its not intentional or anything... though, im not mad at at it... her and I average about once a week, to their 2 or 3...

but damn if the rest of the time isnt just hot as hell!

and when Nathan does come over, he and I get along great! we are becoming fast friends! we actually have a lot of things in common, beyond just fucking the same woman... we like a lot of the same music and movies, and nerd-out over a lot of the same stuff... so a lot of the time the three of us end up hanging out... her topless... just shootin' the shit! ...its hot as fux!!

If things keep going like this, this might turn into a long term thing, and I aint mad at it!

She just left to spend the night with him, tonight, and I couldnt be happier about it!


BUT, and also... there has been a new development... I don't know if it'll go anywhere, or how I feel about it... we'll see...

She has been basically non stop horny lately. this morning she needed to get off, so she had me finger her... while I was rubbing her clit and she was moaning and all that, she mentioned that now that she's been seeing Nathan for a while, she might want to try hooking up with another guy, one she doesnt know... a one night stand with a stranger, just for the experience...

she said shes never had a one night stand, and has been thinking about maybe wanting to try it...

while she was saying this, I made her cum, and she came pretty hard!

she didnt mention it again, after, and she is now headed to nathan's so I wont see her again til tomorrow... so i dont know if it was just "horny bedroom talk" or if she meant it...

but im sorta thinking i could be on board with it, if she meant it

[milehinbi]

Great to see an update here and hot as hell. My cock hard as fuck. You're handling your shot at the cuckold scene excellently. Whatever gets her off is the way to go. Cheers to many happy dates sharing that honey.

[venus-can99]

Thanks for the update BC. Sounds like Nathan has become a fixture in your lives and if things work out well for all 3 of you hopefully a long term deal

[mickey151947]

Loved the story. I hope one day you guys are comfortable enough to share how your lovely wife looks. Cheers.

[mickey151947]

Loved the story. I hope one day you guys are comfortable enough to share how your lovely wife looks. Cheers.

[ferrisandrews]

... she mentioned that now that she's been seeing Nathan for a while, she might want to try hooking up with another guy, one she doesnt know... a one night stand with a stranger, just for the experience...

she said shes never had a one night stand, and has been thinking about maybe wanting to try it...

I'm happy for you! It sounds like she's really embracing this lifestyle and wants more. If the random guy doesn't do it for her, maybe she'll consider finding another steady bull / boyfriend in the area.

[BadCandy]

hey everyone! I know its been a VERY long time since I last posted an update! sorry bout that, life stuff gets busy. Thanks for all the support from everyone, all the comments, and DM's I've been getting have been very encouraging! it's been a crazy and exciting time for our new dynamic!

Nathan and Lisa have continued to see each other. It hasnt been planned out this way on purpose, but its sorta worked out that she has sex with Nathan more than with me... I'd say they average about 3-4 times a week, where as I might get once a month... but I'm actually loving it that way!

for valentines day we set up a special treat. I took my wife out on a very romantic date. we did what we did on the day i proposed. we went to the beach and had a bonfire, watched the sunset, and a long night walk on the beach. i was laying it on thick, it was super romantic. it felt like it did when we first started dating!

it felt that way because I had made Nathan a copy of the key to our apartment, and we knew he was waiting for her in our bed! ...so I loved her up with all the romance, then took her home where her ex / fuck buddy, who def fucks her better than i do, and has a bigger cock, was waiting for her! ...I got the romance, he got the sexy pay off...

she likes to always be wearing nothing but panties whenever shes around Nathan. He likes her boobs, so she likes to always have them out for him... the literal second we got home, and walked in the door, i took off her dress.

she wears wearing one of those strapless short skirt dresses that are meant to cover a bathing suite, with nothing but panties underneath. (it was quite cold at the beach, so we shared a blanket, which added to the romance) ...soon as we walked in the door, we knew nathan was waiting in our bed, so I just pulled her dress right down, leaving her in just panties... kissed her one last time, and sent her to the room.

I joined them a little later, and sat in my chair across the room, and gooned while I watched them go at it!

It was the perfect arrangement! Nathan got all the sex without the pressure of romance, I got all the romance and none of the sex, and my wife got the romance with the guy she loves, and the sex with the guy who has the bigger dick and fucks better! win /win / win!

the next day, after Nathan left, she told me she prefers to fuck him instead of me if given the opprotunity, but since he was now gone, I had a turn... she loved it, cause its me, but did make it clear I wasnt as good, she likes fucking him better...

that led us to have the discussion... She said she likes fucking Nathan more than fucking me... and I said that works out great because I like her fucking Nathan more than her fucking me!

shortly after that we got together with Nathan, of course with her wearing just panties, as always, and we told him that we both liked her fucking him more than her fucking me, which of course he liked also... so it's official, thats how our dynamic is gonna be!

they both said it was up to me what the ratio would be, and I said I didnt want to give up fucking her completely... but I'd be happy if I got once a month to their 3 - 4 times a week.

so thats what out relationship dynamic is now, moving forward, and honestly not only am I finding myself extra happy all the time now... little added spring in my step... but I'm finding myself more attracted to my wife than ever!

as of right now, its just actual intercourse sex that he gets more than me, but I find myself wondering how far we can push this... can we get it to a point where its sexual activity of any kind? I sleep next to her every night, but can we push this to the point where I dont even get to see her naked or touch her body at all as much as he does? pussy? tits? blowjobs? hands? heck, legs? tummy, anything? I find myself turned on by the idea that everything is his more than mine! that all i get is hugs and kisses, and non-sexual cuddling... except for my once a month turn, while he gets it all?

can we get to that point? would i like it as much as I think I would? would she? I dont know... but those are the thoughts in my head!

I've read other posts on here talking about the wife's body being off limits to the husband... I find myself wondering if we could get to that point...

anyway, for now, I'm really happy with the way things are!

[54321]

What a wonderful thread!

Beautifully written and fascinating to read, the three of you seem to have a great relationship.
Thank you for sharing your experience with us.

54321

[wannabecUKold]

The critical point about denial like this is that it must be active. You don't become a brother to your wife, with a standard taboo against sex. She must actively taunt you that you are denied. You must show her how turned on the denial makes you. Erotic frustration. You in fact have an active sex life with her by her positively refusing you, and she goes to her ex instead. And there must be exceptions: you don't see her naked except her tits once a week; you can't touch her except one zone. That way you remember what it was like, and so does she, and she is denied and erotically frustrated as much as you, because she is ordered to keep her body for her ex. But she remembers you and is aware of your body: She can see your naked erection. She wants it too.
And keep this limited. Run it for one month. Otherwise she will emotionally just switch over to her ex as her partner, curtains for you.

[janetsexy77]

Great update BadCandy. Have you considered wearing a chastity cage? It might feed into your denial desires...