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Personally I find the whole thing so hot. I told my wife long time ago she was welcome to cheat on me if she preferred it to making me her cuck, just take the wedding ring off and no arguments over go out or fuck anyone…. With me not knowing it has even happened.h

The thought of her having a group of bulls and I’m not one of them - nothing idea at all is something I love!

SOS, the question above

Problem with cheating is its a breach of trust. Being said the idea is a turn on and surely for many women too. So maybe an understanding can be set, so ethical cheating can occur!!

Ready2StartAgain wrote: ↑

Wed Jul 16, 2025 1:05 am

Problem with cheating is its a breach of trust. Being said the idea is a turn on and surely for many women too. So maybe an understanding can be set, so ethical cheating can occur!!

Ethical cheating! I love it

Yeah I’m kinda ignoring lots of negatives but it’s kinky so..z

Duplicate post, sorry ! X

I've got an infidelity kink so yeah I'd love it!

My first gf cheated on me at a party- I wasn't going then changed my mind and went. I couldn't see her at first but then found her upstairs getting fucked in a bedroom.. I was turned on so rather than say anything, I watched for a bit then went to a bathroom, locked the door and masturbated..
I then went home. Next time I saw her, I asked her how the party was and she said it was pretty boring..

sconesy73 wrote: ↑

Wed Jul 16, 2025 1:23 am

I've got an infidelity kink so yeah I'd love it!

My first gf cheated on me at a party- I wasn't going then changed my mind and went. I couldn't see her at first but then found her upstairs getting fucked in a bedroom.. I was turned on so rather than say anything, I watched for a bit then went to a bathroom, locked the door and masturbated..
I then went home. Next time I saw her, I asked her how the party was and she said it was pretty boring..

Wow, that is awesome. I’d have been ready to burst . Did she continue to cheat on you?

Thanks for your story!

ohtobecucked wrote: ↑

Wed Jul 16, 2025 1:44 am

sconesy73 wrote: ↑

Wed Jul 16, 2025 1:23 am

I've got an infidelity kink so yeah I'd love it!

My first gf cheated on me at a party- I wasn't going then changed my mind and went. I couldn't see her at first but then found her upstairs getting fucked in a bedroom.. I was turned on so rather than say anything, I watched for a bit then went to a bathroom, locked the door and masturbated..
I then went home. Next time I saw her, I asked her how the party was and she said it was pretty boring..

Wow, that is awesome. I’d have been ready to burst . Did she continue to cheat on you?

Thanks for your story!

I was - I wasn't long in the bathroom Very probably did continue to cheat but I never saw it happen again and we split up not long after but because she was unhinged ‍

Actually I sort of did see something! Back in the late 80s/ early 90s there was a TV show in UK called "Hitman and her" (hit man was Pete Waterman of SAW fame). They went round nightclubs in UK and filmed - did stupid stuff on stage. On one episode, she was on it playing a game. She was on stage with another guy and they had to strip down to their underwear and swap clothes.. She got almost naked in front of a packed club while it was being filmed for tv Dunno if anything happened afterwards but I'd be more surprised if it didn't!

You're welcome- I've got more memories in my sig link but I feel like I'm talking to myself on my thread!

Thanks so much - I’ll be checking your thread out shortly

No I would not be happy if my wife cheated on me. My wife can have sex with anyone she wants but we agreed she would never do it behind my back and she would always tell me. I don't worry much anymore because my wife has a BF that she see regularly and she loves him very much.

I found out second hand from one of the wife's workmates. I wasn't shocked really. We had discussed the lifestyle a few times during pillow talk. I got to meet the guy at a company Xmas party. I pulled him aside to let him know that I knew and had no "hard" feelings.

No, because if I don't know it happened then how can it excite me? If Hannah did cheat again, with someone I didn't know about then told me after, I would probably get hard but I don't think it would be nearly as exciting.

My wife can't cheat on me because I long ago released her form any vow or promise for sexual fidelity. I would prefer to know but if she were to be too embarrassed or guilty to tell me she was with another man I could accept that too. I would just hope she would let me participate in the tryst by asking for head as she knows I would enjoy that.

I would be the happiest person on earth if my wife cheated on me. I am living with a huge guilt that I am not able to satisfy her due to my small limp dick. I have had ED from my teenage years, my dick has always remained floppy unless I talk about her having sex with another guy. I am super sad to get a life with a limp dick but I have to live with that pain.

Thanks for all the replies - each one carries a lot of weight and I don’t think any one answer is right or wrong.

For me, it just boils down to the kink. I don’t know how I’d take it if it happened, but the thought makes me beyond excited! It’s a scenario that pretty much only has upsides for me.

Maybe if I had worded the hypothetical as ‘does the thought of her cheating on you get you horny’ I’d maybe get different answers. So yeah, less inclined to say YOUR wife, but as a concept it’s a plus for me.

And as far as not knowing she’s doing it, so there’s really no point / benefit to you - again, I get it, but there would be scenarios where you / we could find out piece by piece and it becomes part of the relationship.

ANYWAY - thanks again! It’s good to indulge in fantasy every now and then.

I have had it happen. I know something is going on, because all the signs are there. Things like new thongs, taking a call and leaving the room, loss of weight, dressing slutty. She knows I am a cuck but she denies me pleasure in anyway possible. Eventually I find out because of notes, emails or someone else telling me.

She says it's hotter for her if I don't know. She blames me for her cheating plus she likes to "dabble in other men". It's not really hot while its going on but I beat off to it everyday.

4incheslong wrote: ↑

Wed Jul 16, 2025 6:26 am

I have had it happen. I know something is going on, because all the signs are there. Things like new thongs, taking a call and leaving the room, loss of weight, dressing slutty. She knows I am a cuck but she denies me pleasure in anyway possible. Eventually I find out because of notes, emails or someone else telling me.

She says it's hotter for her if I don't know. She blames me for her cheating plus she likes to "dabble in other men". It's not really hot while its going on but I beat off to it everyday.

Sounds like heaven to me - especially the new thongs etc and I’d be beating off yoo (if I was allowed )

I used to hit on guys wives who secretly fantasize about their wife cheating. Eventually stopped mainly because I got blasted by the cuck community. But when I was doing it I can't tell you how often I shocked a husband who never thought his wife would cheat under any circumstance and often I'd prove them wrong.

I made a suggestion on the "feedback" portion of this forum to open a new group called, "cheating stories." I think there are a. lot of husband who got here by either their wife cheating or someone in their past and eventually figured out how much they like it.

firef503 wrote: ↑

Wed Jul 16, 2025 9:48 am

I used to hit on guys wives who secretly fantasize about their wife cheating. Eventually stopped mainly because I got blasted by the cuck community. But when I was doing it I can't tell you how often I shocked a husband who never thought his wife would cheat under any circumstance and often I'd prove them wrong.

I made a suggestion on the "feedback" portion of this forum to open a new group called, "cheating stories." I think there are a. lot of husband who got here by either their wife cheating or someone in their past and eventually figured out how much they like it.

Oh wow, that’s amazing! Sounds like you’ve had some great fun.

Honestly I’m delighted that my wife eventually turned me into a cuck but I loved the idea of her out somewhere with friends but actually getting fucked left, right and centre.

From the cuck perspective and thinking from a sex point alone, it’d be great if ALL women chose to cheat for say, 6 months a year - really learn what it’s like to get fucked by someone not your other half. If they like it, it certainly opens up a lot more options for them in the future - and from a lifestyle perspective it also makes her the immediate dom because she’s getting fucked and you don’t know anything about it.

Also to add to your point they may [mine did] try other things she wasn't comfortable doing.

Strongly against a cheating wife deliberately deceiving a husband when she has
the 'freedom' to have fun and involve her husband .
(unless it was an unplanned purely spontanteous meeting which quickly escalated).

That is unforgivably self orientated and it will invariably end badly.

Paulnlinda wrote: ↑

Wed Jul 16, 2025 11:14 am

That is unforgivably self orientated and it will invariably end badly.

I wouldn't say that. There's no such thing as a model that works for everybody. Generally speaking cheating in a traditional marriage if one partner cheats and gets caught, there's a pretty good chance it will end the marriage. But there's no universal rule that works for everybody. For some it can save the marriage.

Then there's the other perspective of "less than traditional marriages." For closet cuckold husbands that might want their wife to cheat. In my experience MOST of the time if the husband gets that wish it ends up making their marriage better and it many cases even save it. That's just my own observation for similar situation I've been involved in as the "other guy" which is more than I can remember. But again there's no hard set fast rule for every couple.

firef503 wrote: ↑

Wed Jul 16, 2025 11:37 am

Paulnlinda wrote: ↑

Wed Jul 16, 2025 11:14 am

That is unforgivably self orientated and it will invariably end badly.

I wouldn't say that. There's no such thing as a model that works for everybody. Generally speaking cheating in a traditional marriage if one partner cheats and gets caught, there's a pretty good chance it will end the marriage. But there's no universal rule that works for everybody. For some it can save the marriage.

Then there's the other perspective of "less than traditional marriages." For closet cuckold husbands that might want their wife to cheat. In my experience MOST of the time if the husband gets that wish it ends up making their marriage better and it many cases even save it. That's just my own observation for similar situation I've been involved in as the "other guy" which is more than I can remember. But again there's no hard set fast rule for every couple.

EXACTLY!!! Didn’t want to just have my opinion on this but I COMPLETELY agree that for a lot of ‘wannabe’ cucks, this would seem like a huge win, not for everyone sure, but 100% this lifestyle shows it to be true).

Wannabe123 wrote: ↑

Wed Jul 16, 2025 5:22 am

I would be the happiest person on earth if my wife cheated on me. I am living with a huge guilt that I am not able to satisfy her due to my small limp dick. I have had ED from my teenage years, my dick has always remained floppy unless I talk about her having sex with another guy. I am super sad to get a life with a limp dick but I have to live with that pain.

Don't see it as pain, see it as freedom..
Because of surgery, I have permanent ED and atrophy and once I accepted that, it was liberating.. I now have no concerns about my lack of performance, small size, failing to get or stay hard etc. When I'm allowed to, I get to perform oral sex on S and I make sure I do an amazing job. She gets to fuck other guys and I don't even have to think about being "competition"..

firef503 wrote: ↑

Wed Jul 16, 2025 9:48 am

Eventually stopped mainly because I got blasted by the cuck community.

Not by me you wouldn't

I would and was.

Long ago I had given my wife my complete permission to fuck anyone she wanted, she only had to tell me after the fact. She seemed disinterested in this freedom. After many years though, she ended up fucking a guy at her out of town high school reunion which I did not attend. The problem is she didn’t tell me for literally years after. I guess she thought I couldn’t handle it IRL. So you could argue that it was close to cheating although she definitely knew she had my consent. When she finally tearfully “confessed” (not sure what finally prompted her), I told her I was thrilled and immediately dragged her in the bedroom for some hot and enthusiastic sex.

The next day she was out for some errands and when she returned she found a beautiful vase of flowers that I rushed out and bought with a card that said something like “I’m so proud of my adventurous wife! I love you!”

The next week I took her to a jewelry store and had her pick out a very nice necklace that we now refer to as her “hotwife” necklace.

Needless to say she no longer has any doubt that I would love her to be fucking other men whether I knew about it in advance or just at sometime after. Actually, I’d kind of like her to keep it from me for awhile. That way I’d always be on edge not knowing, but hoping!