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After about three years of major stress trauma in our family the dark clouds have lifted where returning to looks like a new normal. My wife dealt with the brunt of it as her siblings were kind of helpless and needy. That took a huge toll on her. As things started returning to normal the stress caught up to her and she began developing severe panic attacks that put her in the emergency room. Luckily, she was able to find a good physician whi prescribed the medication Buspar. This medication is also known as the female Viagra.

A few weeks into the medication I began to notice some very positive changes in her. She became more confident and less apprehensive. The biggest change that came out of the blue was increased sex drive. I was not expecting that. I had always known that she suffered from general anxiety disorder and I think that’s the case with a lot of women.

We are having incredible sex. Unfortunately, for her, I am not always up to the task of satisfying her with penetrative sex and even when I managed to get an erection it often doesn’t stay in her and I’m not able to last very long. I can only pleasure her with my tongue and mouth but I could just tell that she needs a lot more. She needs penetrative sex and she needs hours of it. Me eating her magnificent sloppy pussy is actually foreplay and she needs a masculine bull with the equipment and stamina to give her what she needs. As she develop more confidence, she is opening up to the idea introducing a bull into our relationship. When I am eating her pussy and tell her how much eating another man’s come from her she gets even hotter and has a series of explosive orgasms but compared to a long pounding session by a well hung bull, clitoral orgasms are merely a starting point.

The other reason I think that a bull would be a good idea for us is that my orgasms, with my dicklette are weak and I would like to experience a good long ass pounding from her/our bull. Maybe it’s just wishful thinking and the way things are progressing I believe there is a distinct possibility she and I will be able to take it to the next level and maybe beyond. This could be an opportunity for us both to embrace my sissy nature.

I would like to help her get more comfortable around real men. I’m thinking about having a handsome male massage therapist come over and give us both massages as a way to break the ice.

Since she continues to gain confidence and is becoming more adventurous and less inhibited I become more optimistic this could end in a long-term hot wife bull situation. If her newly found confidence and sense of adventure continues things will make it better and every aspect of our relationship. Happy wife happy life.

Any suggestions?

Dear Androgynous sissy

Thanks for sharing.

I think you are on the right track. Telling Her you would love to clean Her pussy after a real man comes in Her and experiencing your Wife having strong orgasms clearly indicates that She is on the right track.

I think you need to be careful not to attempt to push Her into this, She must in my opinion feel that She is in control of this, it needs to happen on Her initiative and with Her control progress.

I also think that stepping up on performing the domestic chores to leave Her with more free time is important, always say yes and do what She asks whenever She asks for something to happen. Compliment Her and tell Her how much you love Her, when it is nature keep telling Her that a Lady as sexy as She deserves a Real Man lover who can satifsfy Her the way you can't.

Sincerely
elina
(submissive male)

Do you both have a friend she likes? Or a coworker? With a friend or coworker, you can talk to him about him flirting with her. Let you know you enjoy seeing this. Once he starts kissing her, you can walk up behind her while they are kissing. Feel her up as they kiss. This will make her hot.

Motive and opportunity as they say. Seems she has the motive, be honest with her and give her opportunity. Ask her if she would do it who she would prefer, stranger? Someone she know who pays attention to her? Give her nights out at a bar or Casino if she likes that? Ask if you can help pick out what she wears and eat her pussy before she goes. It don’t let her orgasm. Let us know how it goes please

elina wrote: ↑

Sun Jul 20, 2025 1:07 am

Dear Androgynous sissy

Thanks for sharing.

I think you are on the right track. Telling Her you would love to clean Her pussy after a real man comes in Her and experiencing your Wife having strong orgasms clearly indicates that She is on the right track.

I think you need to be careful not to attempt to push Her into this, She must in my opinion feel that She is in control of this, it needs to happen on Her initiative and with Her control progress.

I also think that stepping up on performing the domestic chores to leave Her with more free time is important, always say yes and do what She asks whenever She asks for something to happen. Compliment Her and tell Her how much you love Her, when it is nature keep telling Her that a Lady as sexy as She deserves a Real Man lover who can satifsfy Her the way you can't.

Sincerely
elina
(submissive male)

I’m treading lately. She told me a guy flirted with her to the supermarket today and I told her that it’s only natural because she’s so hot. I also told her that I really liked it and that as long as she’s treated politely and respectfully and find I’m fine with it.

I think gradually she will become more comfortable.

I think if she had some slutty friends and hung out with them it would be a plus.

Wantsomefunto wrote: ↑

Sun Jul 20, 2025 6:24 am

Motive and opportunity as they say. Seems she has the motive, be honest with her and give her opportunity. Ask her if she would do it who she would prefer, stranger? Someone she know who pays attention to her? Give her nights out at a bar or Casino if she likes that? Ask if you can help pick out what she wears and eat her pussy before she goes. It don’t let her orgasm. Let us know how it goes please

That’s some really good advice.

We went out last night to a brewery and another club. When we got to the brewery a couple guys there thought that we were both women. I always loved that. None of them were even close to the standards she deserves.

It got even more interesting. I was wearing mid thigh shorts. I was getting up from the barstool to show off my legs to these guys. My legs have become naturally hairless.

We will be joining a new gym in a month and hopefully she’ll get hit on. I may make an excuse and tell her to go there and then I’ll show up later. Normally we go to the gym together. Anyway, I hope she gets a lot of attention from the right guys.

Have you tried buying her a dildo?

A great suggestion by Judge! Get your wife a very life like dildo or vibrator that is larger than you length wise and especially girth wise. Don’t make it a monster just yet, but it should be larger than you y sow he can feel the difference. Introduce it one night when she is really revived up and horny. Have her give it a man’s name, preferably a man she fancies. Then fuck her with it but have her close her eyes and pretend it’s him fucking her and call his name out while it’s fucking her until she cums. Extra points if she calls/yells his name out while she cums.
As time goes on introduce bigger and bigger dildos/vibrators to her collection, giving each a different name. Do you or her have an interracial fetish. Make the big ones black or brown.
Once she gets into fucking these dildos, take her out to bars and club or the gym and ask her which men she finds attractive and who she thinks might have a large cock.
See if any men approach her and encourage her to be flirty, and then when you return home home have her imagine it’s those men fucking her as you use the dildos on her.
From there it might just be a short step for her to do it for real.

Used dildos in the past and really huge ones. They were freakishly large. I’ve fisted her many times when she was younger. It certainly would be nice if we could move back to that. It could backfire because don’t say I remember with a massive dildo or she’s able to handle fisting again she will end up being all fucked up after having an hour or two of orgasms and then she may not want a bull.

I want to get her craving the real thing and I want her to be fully assured that it is something I will enjoy as much if not more than she does. On the other hand, if she gets a good long fucking with a dildo that irk her curiosity for a real man.

I fantasize holding her hand while I sit in a chair next to the bed while her bull lays the dick to her and awakens her inner slut.

Thank you Androgynous Sissy

This response makes so much sens to me.
The important objective here is to stimulate your Goddess to exercise Her rigth to find Real Male Bull who can take care of Her sexual needs in the ways you can't.

I really hope that you are stimulating this by acting like a proper sissy should, only focusing on pleasing Her and serving Her, emphasizing Her authority over you.

Good luck

Sincerely
elina

Empower her to make decisions and accept it. Even when it puts you out of your comfort zone. It could be even small things, like let her decide on every dinner meal, do what she says. Eventually she will be confident enough to flirt with other men and find a bull without having you to think about it. Recently my wife decided she would no longer have a smooth clean pussy as I always preferred, instead she's growing a trimmed bush. She didn't ask for my opinion about it, she's doing it and I accept it.