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Have any of you been in the situation where your wife said she either couldn't or didn't want to have sex with you only to be willing to have another guy fuck her?

Yep - all the time now but has always happened to some extent throughout our entire relationship. I can't actually think of a time she'd said no to a bull if he'd wanted to fuck her.

Yes.
Sometimes it happened to me.

She doesn't want me in, because she was meeting him later and wanted to be "fresh" for him.

She didn't want me in because she have had him before and was to sore now (never ever heard this when we did it) or (also shameful for me) was 100% satisfied when she was with him.

Sometimes she just doesn't wan to have Sex. Even If I try to have... Making her hot, massage her back or tease her pussy.

But... she is also telling me, she sometimes met her BF and wasn't in the mood for Sex. But when he is just a bit dominant in his way, she gets wet and can't resist.
She to me: "I can't explain this... Everytime he pushes the right buttons on me. And then we are doing it like rabits in every position. Its crazy."

NowACuck wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 11, 2025 12:48 am

(also shameful for me) was 100% satisfied when she was with him.

That's nothing to be ashamed of- that's something to be proud of

To me, the point of a bull is for him to give her what I can't and for her to enjoy it. I'd be ashamed if she came home and was "meh, the sex was a bit disappointing".

sconesy73 wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 10, 2025 12:40 pm

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I can't actually think of a time she'd said no to a bull if he'd wanted to fuck her.

You are right, it is like my wife.

He got her nearly when ever he want her.

sconesy73 wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 11, 2025 12:57 am

NowACuck wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 11, 2025 12:48 am

(also shameful for me) was 100% satisfied when she was with him.

That's nothing to be ashamed of- that's something to be proud of

To me, the point of a bull is for him to give her what I can't and for her to enjoy it. I'd be ashamed if she came home and was "meh, the sex was a bit disappointing".

Of course, I am proud and I want her to be satisfied everytime.
And I agree to that point, that her Bull have to give her all this.

But it is at least shameful for me to hear her saying this.
I know about our "problems" in bed (even If she doesn't point it out directly).

NowACuck wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 11, 2025 1:07 am

sconesy73 wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 11, 2025 12:57 am

NowACuck wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 11, 2025 12:48 am

(also shameful for me) was 100% satisfied when she was with him.

That's nothing to be ashamed of- that's something to be proud of

To me, the point of a bull is for him to give her what I can't and for her to enjoy it. I'd be ashamed if she came home and was "meh, the sex was a bit disappointing".

Of course, I am proud and I want her to be satisfied everytime.
And I agree to that point, that her Bull have to give her all this.

But it is at least shameful for me to hear her saying this.
I know about our "problems" in bed (even If she doesn't point it out directly).

I can completely relate to that- I've had "problems" my entire life- too small/ soft/ quick to cum etc. As a guy it's not an easy thing to admit but the fact you can admit it speaks volumes about you.

Don't be ashamed

sconesy73 wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 11, 2025 12:57 am

I'd be ashamed if she came home and was "meh, the sex was a bit disappointing".

Heard this particular line from my wife some times, and yes, it felt disappointing to me.

Oh yes not had sex with my wife for years now.
That is her lovers domain and i am not allowed any where near her pussy.
I am also locked full time in chastity.
Wife tells me i gave up all my rights to her pussy and sex with her when i became her sissy cuckold.

When we were married, my wife would only let me make love to her if it was spontaneous, not planned. She was always on top and we had to cum at the same time. It was different if it was after a date with her boyfriend, then she'd either wank or suck me off or sometimes we'd make love after telling me the details. I guess it was my reward for letting her go with another man. If she'd just come back from being with a woman, she wouldn't tell me any details but she'd wank me off.
With her lovers she was totally different. They could fuck her all day or all night, in all sorts of positions and whenever they wanted. She knew when they would see each other next and always knew she'd either fuck them or suck them off. One boyfriend was a work colleague and after their nightshift they'd stop off in a quiet layby and she'd give him a blowjob every morning. I usually had to beg for one. She also swallowed their cum unless I was with her, then she'd pass it into my mouth; she very rarely swallowed mine.
I often used to put my penis against her anus but she refused to let me go up there but I did see her allow one boyfriend fuck her butt and when I asked her why she'd let him take her anal cherry, she said she'd wanted to let him do whatever he wanted with her at that moment.
I was a little jealous of the way she'd let other people have her but also very proud that they wanted her and she gave them what she wanted.

Thebestdays1 wrote: ↑

Mon Aug 11, 2025 3:51 am

When we were married, my wife would only let me make love to her if it was spontaneous, not planned. She was always on top and we had to cum at the same time. It was different if it was after a date with her boyfriend, then she'd either wank or suck me off or sometimes we'd make love after telling me the details. I guess it was my reward for letting her go with another man. If she'd just come back from being with a woman, she wouldn't tell me any details but she'd wank me off.
With her lovers she was totally different. They could fuck her all day or all night, in all sorts of positions and whenever they wanted. She knew when they would see each other next and always knew she'd either fuck them or suck them off. One boyfriend was a work colleague and after their nightshift they'd stop off in a quiet layby and she'd give him a blowjob every morning. I usually had to beg for one. She also swallowed their cum unless I was with her, then she'd pass it into my mouth; she very rarely swallowed mine.
I often used to put my penis against her anus but she refused to let me go up there but I did see her allow one boyfriend fuck her butt and when I asked her why she'd let him take her anal cherry, she said she'd wanted to let him do whatever he wanted with her at that moment.
I was a little jealous of the way she'd let other people have her but also very proud that they wanted her and she gave them what she wanted.

Out of fairness to my ex wife, I ought to add that we've been talking online for the past few years and regularly masturbate together as we talk about those days and we started meeting up again nearly a year ago and have sex in my campervan. Even more recently, we've been having foursomes with her elder sister and their nephew, who they've both been fucking for about 27 years. Nowadays. she lets me have as much fun with her as I want during these meet ups and since finding out she's always allowed her nephew to have anal sex with her from the beginning of their affair, she now allows me the same privilege.
She gets the same thrill from cheating on her current partner as she did when she was with someone else when we were married.

Hopingshewill wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 10, 2025 12:02 pm

Have any of you been in the situation where your wife said she either couldn't or didn't want to have sex with you only to be willing to have another guy fuck her?

I am not sure if the responses are dressing his concern. OP...do you mean she never wants sex with you at all? Regardless of when she is having sex with another guy?

If so, "Houston...we may a have a problem"

Unbeknownst to me my wife had been cheating for about 5 years when she for all intents and purposes cut me off, blaming it on health issues. The cheating was in addition to the occasional hotwife activity I was aware of.

Now over 10 years removed from the cheating, her confession and any hotwife fun, the interesting thing to me is what she did for lovers that she never did for me, or stopped doing at some point.

She'd always enjoyed licking and kissing my asshole, but looking back after she'd confessed to cheating I realized that somewhere during that time she stopped doing it. I then figured that was something she reserved for her #1 lover, who was no longer me.

After the confession there was much hysterical bonding between us. One night on the balcony where we'd been passionately kissing, she slid down off my lap, took my cock out of my shorts and began working on it with her mouth. She'd always given great head but could never swallow. It took a few years to coax her into even trying. She did try, but gagged and from then on flatly refused. She loved taking a load on her tits, and once she'd had some hw experience also enjoyed a facial if that's what her date was into.

But this night of hysterical bonding on the balcony was different. Her experience with other men had taken her cock sucking skills from great to other worldly. After about 5 minutes she knew I was by getting close. She deep throated me for a few strokes all the way in and nearly all the way out. I was trying to not to cum so fast but losing that battle. She slid her sexy wet mouth off my cock, smiled and said something to the effect of "I want to do something special for you." A few strokes later I exploded, and she swallowed every drop.

Before I was even done shooting my load into her mouth I realized that she absolutely had been swallowing for her primary affair partner for years.

I had a similar experience. I knew my wife was cheating on me a few years ago. Doing things for him she never did for me like shaving her pussy. She never sucked my cock even though I always licked her to get her wet enough to take my cock. Her panties were often soaked in her pussy goo on the days she came home late and a couple of times there was what looked and smelt like cum on the front of her top. Even with all this she denied it until one night when I was again probbing her to confess she finally in a fit of rage said well I never had anyone before we were married. Stupidity I didn't follow up

Hopingshewill wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 10, 2025 12:02 pm

Have any of you been in the situation where your wife said she either couldn't or didn't want to have sex with you only to be willing to have another guy fuck her?

Wow, there are so many things like that, that I have seen, with her current boyfriend, in just the last year. There are a number of things that she seems willing to do with him that she has always avoided with me.

There are things she has said that she doesn't like, has never cared for, isn't right for her, that she does with him. When I have asked her about it, she says, that it's because I'm her husband and she knows our relationship is solid, but that she feels the need to do these things to keep a boyfriend happy and coming around.

It includes things like "getting in touch with her inner slut", as she calls it. She has always said that she doesn't care much to give blowjobs, or be taken doggy style, but I know she has been doing those things regularly with her boyfriend. She has shown me pictures he took of her kneeling in front of him sucking him off, and getting cum facials. She just laughs it off as them playing around.

Recently, I found out that he bought my wife a restraint harness with handles for controlling her during doggy style sex.

https://www.weloveplugs.com/products/bd ... st-harness

My wife's boyfriend will have her wear the doggy position restraint harness when they are together, so he can more easily control her and put her in whatever position he wants her in. My wife tells me that he has taken her out before and ordered her to wear her doggy style harness under a sundress, because it turns him on to know that she has it on and then he can pull her into their hotel room, or even a bathroom, pull her sundress up and take control of her.

There are other things she has done with him that she has never been willing to do with me. She has never shared my interest in motorsports. But her boyfriend has friends who ride motocross motorcycles competitively, and her boyfriend as a bike he rides sometimes. She has accompanied him to several motocross meets this summer. She has apparently become some kind of pit girl when she goes to these events.

As a submissive male, my Dominant wife rarely chooses to let me in her pussy or even out of chastity for a handjob. Blowjobs are completely out of the picture entirely- I'll never ever get one.

In the last 7 weeks I was taken out of chastity once, which was this Saturday. She made me face the wall of the shower, with my hands above my head. She soaped up one hand, stood behind me, and methodically jacked me off. The whole time she's invisible, whispering in my ear talking about how I will always only sit and watch her fuck her bulls. I hear them induce moans I would never hear from her. For me it's permanent chastity... As soon as I start to cum the hand disappears and I'm left to stand there and enjoy a dribbled ruin... with my hands still above my head, unable to stroke to a real orgasm.

I've seen a guy pick her up and she'll do his friend too. She'll suck one for days while the other destroys her pussy and then take on the other one while she sucks the first guy back into action. She insists I watch. For her it's all about the power play, she's an incredible slut but she enjoys the power over her submissive far too much to be a slut for me.

This is the key to at least the cuckolding I experience - it's all about a power exchange. She gets off completely on her power over me.

I don't have sexual contact with my main bf- but I do with other guys.

This is my everyday relationship with Sue and we are at the height of denial. I am no longer allowed to even see Sue’s pussy and have yet to see it in 2025. Last time denial reached this stage with her and her man I was convinced I would never see her pussy again but that changed when they parted ways. No pussy on my birthday or wedding anniversary but she put a chair outside their bedroom door both days and let me listen to her get pounded while beating off. I am also no longer allowed to check out Sue’s curves in her LuLus and Sue warned me this morning about checking her out and having fantasies about her without express permission. I got permission to post this from Sue who reminded me to use her first name and started in on our coming out. She says she wants more friends to know about our relationship. She laughed and said all my friends already know you’re a boy I tell people that all the time!

The only sex I have with my wife is I take care of her orally. Her boyfriend takes care of her with his cock.

submissivedanny wrote: ↑

Thu Aug 14, 2025 10:53 am

The only sex I have with my wife is I take care of her orally. Her boyfriend takes care of her with his cock.

Same here and I actually find it quite liberating!

Hopingshewill wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 10, 2025 12:02 pm

Have any of you been in the situation where your wife said she either couldn't or didn't want to have sex with you only to be willing to have another guy fuck her?

Last week early morning, wife was getting ready for her day and to see the bull after work. She did her hair and make up and put on a tight dress, I got hard watching her. When she saw me she said she didn't have time to mess around and couldn't take another shower if we have sex. Then gave me a kiss, said goobye and left home.

Uncertain9901 wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 15, 2025 2:29 am

Hopingshewill wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 10, 2025 12:02 pm

Have any of you been in the situation where your wife said she either couldn't or didn't want to have sex with you only to be willing to have another guy fuck her?

Last week early morning, wife was getting ready for her day and to see the bull after work. She did her hair and make up and put on a tight dress, I got hard watching her. When she saw me she said she didn't have time to mess around and couldn't take another shower if we have sex. Then gave me a kiss, said goobye and left home.

Very hot!
In our agreement, when she has a date schedulled, I get caged in the day before and usually I help her to get ready!!

Yeah definitely. She lets me out of my cage for edging only, but not to let me cum except for about once a month. Usually she edges me with two fingers, but when I do get to “fuck” her, it’s with a penis sleeve

sml_peterBR wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 15, 2025 7:02 am

Very hot!
In our agreement, when she has a date schedulled, I get caged in the day before and usually I help her to get ready!!

Helping her to get ready is the best. I help iron her dresses, get essential things ready and packed so that she doesn't have to stress before a date. What's it like with the cage? I thought about it but I have a fairly large cock, much bigger than the one in your pic.

Uncertain9901 wrote: ↑

Sat Aug 16, 2025 12:09 am

Helping her to get ready is the best. I help iron her dresses, get essential things ready and packed so that she doesn't have to stress before a date. What's it like with the cage? I thought about it but I have a fairly large cock, much bigger than the one in your pic.

Yeah helping her get ready is such a mind fuck. Doing it with the cage on and seeing her pack lingeree and get all pretty and even sometimes pack multiple slutty outfits since she’s going to spend the night…

The cage is a mind fuck too. It’s like having a tight hand gripping your cock at all times. It gives a low grade pleasure most of the time but when you’re trying to get hard and you just can’t, your penis will be throbbing with the blood trying to flow in and the precum production will be sent into overdrive. Extremely frustrating especially when you haven’t cum in several weeks