Marriage types

[surry]

"In a traditional marriage, a husband’s erection simply means arousal – which translates into a typically selfish interest in his own sexual satisfaction.

In a cuckold marriage, a husband’s erection becomes a physical manifestation of his support for his wife getting her own gratification as a priority instead. This is why a wife – and her boyfriend – can value every moment a cuckold spends erect for his wife."

In so many ways a happily erect cuckold penis is a triumph for humanity. A triumph of masculine sexuality. It's not something to mock or despise. It should be something to celebrate.

In her podcast, the Venus Cuckoldress has made some efforts to shift opinion in this direction. I'm not sure that people really get it.

A cuckold penis is an enormous benefit to gender equality, proclaiming the idea that a husband or boyfriend can find intense fulfillment in surrendering, to a more capable male, his exclusive right to penetrate his female partner. It celebrates a woman's need for pleasure, variety, freedom, power, and happiness.

I personally think that cuckolds should be proud of their erections.

[namitha157]

What about the disrespectful erection concept?
That kind of sounds hot too And empowering.

[ferrisandrews]

Well said!

[MartasBoy]

What is the value of a cuckold's erection if he is not desired for sex, by his cuckholdress, because she prefers to get her needs met by her bull? Is his erection inconsequential or an inconvenience?

[surry]

What is the value of a cuckold's erection if he is not desired for sex, by his cuckholdress, because she prefers to get her needs met by her bull? Is his erection inconsequential or an inconvenience?

Great question. Guys get a hard-on when they enjoy what they see or do. The wife is turned on when they sees their husband is hard because another man is replacing him. Women are attracted to strong men, and when their husband talks to them about becoming a cuckold, they see them voluntarily giving up being a man. So she will look for a strong man. When they see their husband with a hard-on as the new strong man is fucking her, it changes the wife. She now wants to deny her husband sex and start to order him to do stuff that excites her but demeans him. One of the ways to do this is to have her husband swallow the new man's cum. This can be by cleaning her pussy, or kissing him with cum in her mouth or having him suck the man off. The husband will start to do the woman's work around the home. This power change in the home excites the wife. She wants to give everything to the new man. The husband may start to complain about her denying him or the wife being to bossy. But she will remind her husband he wanted this and now she can't go back because she is now happy. She is in charge of her home 100 percent. She also sees that her husband needs this new life to be happy. His hard-on gives him away. They both realize this should have happened years ago. They no longer argue. She will listen to him, but now her decisions are listened to and obeyed.

[Cdncuck]

And sometimes it's just a hard on.

[Cdncuck]

And sometimes it's just a hard on.

[MartasBoy]

What is the value of a cuckold's erection if he is not desired for sex, by his cuckholdress, because she prefers to get her needs met by her bull? Is his erection inconsequential or an inconvenience?

Great question. Guys get a hard-on when they enjoy what they see or do. The wife is turned on when they sees their husband is hard because another man is replacing him. Women are attracted to strong men, and when their husband talks to them about becoming a cuckold, they see them voluntarily giving up being a man. So she will look for a strong man. When they see their husband with a hard-on as the new strong man is fucking her, it changes the wife. She now wants to deny her husband sex and start to order him to do stuff that excites her but demeans him. One of the ways to do this is to have her husband swallow the new man's cum. This can be by cleaning her pussy, or kissing him with cum in her mouth or having him suck the man off. The husband will start to do the woman's work around the home. This power change in the home excites the wife. She wants to give everything to the new man. The husband may start to complain about her denying him or the wife being to bossy. But she will remind her husband he wanted this and now she can't go back because she is now happy. She is in charge of her home 100 percent. She also sees that her husband needs this new life to be happy. His hard-on gives him away. They both realize this should have happened years ago. They no longer argue. She will listen to him, but now her decisions are listened to and obeyed.

Wow! You just described pretty closely how my wife is.
I hadn't realized a lot of this stuff until I read the way in which you described it. I realized now that I have lost a lot in this arrangement. It is brought about some big changes in the way she views me.