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I know there are many topics on wives playing alone, which is a topic my wife and I go over. She started playing alone, and now we play together. As we become more comfortable with regular sessions, she will opt for private sessions, as that is what she prefers. She has also mentioned the idea of not just going to their place or a hotel but them taking her out to dinner first or drinks and then getting fucked. More like she is getting taken out on a date by them. She said this makes her feel like less of a "sex toy" and makes the connection with her bull feel more legitimate.

Do you like the idea of your wife going on dates and such with her bulls? Does it add to the excitement, or is this even more risky and make for more emotional connection? I'm curios what peoples thoughts are on this and make sure I'm not overreacting to this. My wife already talks to her our bull daily.

My wife's first date, to dinner, at a hotel restaurant that slowly revolved 360 degrees, overlooking the sky line of Chicago ended up in one of the hotel's rooms and I was cucked. They subsequently went on an out of state, overnight date, to see a country/western band and an overnight to a Chicago motel called the "Sybaris" that had sex swings, in room pools and mirrors on the ceiling. He was a cook at a country/western venue and he bought tickets so that my wife and two daughters could see the show while I stayed home experiencing cuckold angst. While I was at work and our daughter's were in elementary school, wife fucked him 4-5 days per week, 2-3 times per day. He insisted that she/they be naked at his apartment. Wife could not wear any jewelry including her wedding rings. I believe that was to indicate that her body belonged to him. Not sure, how much they were talking?

naivecuck2 wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 24, 2025 3:27 pm

My wife's first date, to dinner, at a hotel restaurant that slowly revolved 360 degrees, overlooking the sky line of Chicago ended up in one of the hotel's rooms and I was cucked. They subsequently went on an out of state, overnight date, to see a country/western band and an overnight to a Chicago motel called the "Sybaris" that had sex swings, in room pools and mirrors on the ceiling. He was a cook at a country/western venue and he bought tickets so that my wife and two daughters could see the show while I stayed home experiencing cuckold angst. While I was at work and our daughter's were in elementary school, wife fucked him 4-5 days per week, 2-3 times per day. He insisted that she/they be naked at his apartment. Wife could not wear any jewelry including her wedding rings. I believe that was to indicate that her body belonged to him. Not sure, how much they were talking?

All you write, Naive, is past tense...is it over? Were they/are they in love? Tell us more.

Troilus

surry wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 24, 2025 7:53 am

Do you like the idea of your wife going on dates and such with her bulls? Does it add to the excitement, or is this even more risky and make for more emotional connection? I'm curios what peoples thoughts are on this and make sure I'm not overreacting to this. My wife already talks to her our bull daily.

Initially when we first started the lifestyle, the plan was for me to watch her with other men but she asked for time for her to warm up to being with other men with my permission before eventually introducing me into the bedroom when she was with other men.

Unfortunately my only sharing experience with my then girlfriend strictly remained as her dating other men and never actually being present for her encounters. She needed a connection before being intimate so all of her encounters started as her going on dates with men and if she connected with them, she continued dating them and hanging out with them to the point of becoming close friends.

Funny enough my girlfriend already only had male friends when we started dating at 15 (with the exception of 2 girls) but once she became a hot girlfriend at 19 and started dating guys to become friends (with benefits), she now had more than 4 to5 times the amount of male friends than I did. I literally only had 4 Close guy friends who I hung out with routinely meanwhile my girlfriend was now actively hanging out routinely with 18 to 20 different guys. These guys were all fuck buddies on her rotation.

This resulted in her being close friends with all of her lovers and thus having a bunch of fuck buddies whom she spent tons of time with doing fun activities and eventually wound up in bed with them at the end of their date, their road trip, their BBQ, their mall outing, their gym session/workout, or whatever countless fun plans she always had with all her different guy friends. Since she already only had male friends, it helped mask the fact that she was making more and more guy friends at a rapid rate and it wasn't suspicious to anyone at first that she was always out alone with another guy. Although shd eventually stopped holding back in public and some connected the dots.

Besides hanging out and ending up in bed, she still had romantic dates with her guy friends where she wore little tight dresses to dinner/dancing afterwards and obviously spending the night with them.

I originally wanted to be present and I still would like to but I accept that seeing my girlfriend date men more like a single woman pushed my boundaries farther and allowed my imagination to run wild thinking of what all these different guys could be doing to my girlfriend during her often multiple outings per week with multiple guys. If I could go back and start over again, I think that I would do it the same way and actually would embrace being a cuckold a lot sooner instead of rejecting it and trying to hold on to being a stag.

Answer to Troilus: yes, she is now my ex...she was addicted to the sex , however, after our divorce, he demanded that he be allowed exclusive use of her car and she dumped him.

Answer to Troilus: yes, she is now my ex...she was addicted to the sex , however, after our divorce, he demanded that he be allowed exclusive use of her car and she dumped him.

surry wrote: ↑

Sun Aug 24, 2025 7:53 am

Do you like the idea of your wife going on dates and such with her bulls? Does it add to the excitement, or is this even more risky and make for more emotional connection? I'm curios what peoples thoughts are on this and make sure I'm not overreacting to this. My wife already talks to her our bull daily.

From my limited experience it's essential for my wife to have an emotional connection and go on a date with her bull. Sex is just a part of the fun. She's seeing a close friend, they've known each other for a long time and just got close this year. They often go out together, for a drink to a bar or to a night club to dance until early hours. She goes see him for a dinner to his place. He's a great friend and has a good sense of humor, far beyond just being a fuck buddy. All of that makes part of a stronger connection and leads to great sex. She's also attracted to some other guys she finds sexy but hasn't played with any strangers.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts

Hi friends. My wife has started seeing her new bull more seriously and I am encouraging her to go out on more non sexual dates. Like dinner or walks in the beach. I feel it is important for them to develop good feelings of love between each other. Have others thought that way too?

My wife goes on dates with her boyfriend. They usually go away on weekends and during the week they get together on Wednesday after work to fuck at our house. My wife loves her boyfriend very much but also loves me and she never wants to change that.

submissivedanny wrote: ↑

Sun Sep 07, 2025 12:39 pm

My wife goes on dates with her boyfriend. They usually go away on weekends and during the week they get together on Wednesday after work to fuck at our house. My wife loves her boyfriend very much but also loves me and she never wants to change that.

Hi Danny. Very nice to hear this. I hope their love blossoms well. Does it make you happy as they fall in love? It made me very happy for my wife and I was proud to have been a part of making that happen.

Yes I'm very happy that they fell in love. My wife is one who won't just sleep around, she has to have feelings for someone. I always helped my wife pick out sexy clothes to wear on dates or when they go away on weekends or for a week long vacation. I even help her dress for her dates. I'm happy she found someone who she loves and who makes love to her and doesn't just want sex.

submissivedanny wrote: ↑

Mon Sep 08, 2025 4:03 am

Yes I'm very happy that they fell in love. My wife is one who won't just sleep around, she has to have feelings for someone. I always helped my wife pick out sexy clothes to wear on dates or when they go away on weekends or for a week long vacation. I even help her dress for her dates. I'm happy she found someone who she loves and who makes love to her and doesn't just want sex.

Hi Danny. I am very happy to hear about the things you do for your wife to let her enjoy the love between her and her bf. It's a very special feeling and I believe all the cucks should be proud of it.

I too enjoy dressing my wife up for her bull and hearing her tell me how much she loves him and his giant penis. I feel like her bestie and it is a nice feeling. I have also been honoured to watch their lovemaking and know that I am also part of why they fell in love.

My wife doesn't let me watch them making love because she feels it's private between the two of them although I can hear the making love and it's a good feeling.

submissivedanny wrote: ↑

Mon Sep 08, 2025 12:03 pm

My wife doesn't let me watch them making love because she feels it's private between the two of them although I can hear the making love and it's a good feeling.

Hi Danny. I am sorry you have not watched them making love. It really is quite special to share such a moment with them.

Listening outside the door is what ius3d to do when wife and her bf requested private time. As bf penis quite big and wife usually makes alot of noise during their lovemaking and it is very nice to hear as well.

But watching is special. Especially slow lovemaking and when they cum together in each other's arms at the end and then kiss for a long time, it is like watching such a magical moment.

Do you think they will let you watch one day?

They might let me watch someday but I think my wife doesn't want me to see how intimate they are together.

submissivedanny wrote: ↑

Tue Sep 09, 2025 2:22 am

They might let me watch someday but I think my wife doesn't want me to see how intimate they are together.

Hi danny. I hope she changes her mind when she necomes more comfortable. Would you want to watch?

I'm not sure I want to see her and another guy making love. I hear them and I hear the telling each other how much they love each other but watching them kissing while making love is something I'm not sure I want to see. Also watching his big cock going in and out of her while I have a tiny cock will make me really feel inadequate.

submissivedanny wrote: ↑

Fri Sep 12, 2025 1:25 am

I'm not sure I want to see her and another guy making love. I hear them and I hear the telling each other how much they love each other but watching them kissing while making love is something I'm not sure I want to see. Also watching his big cock going in and out of her while I have a tiny cock will make me really feel inadequate.

Hi Danny. I understand you are not sure. I have a very small penis too. First I saw wife with the old bull i was shocked. After that I really enjoyed watching him pleasure her and how attached they grew. Not sure if you would like that.

My wife (51) has 3 lovers, 26, 30,36, the 36 yo her first and she's been seeing him for 8 years now. They are all VERY well hung an she's addicted to their big cocks. That being said there is genuine love between each of them and them for her. They ARE a couple when together, act like a couple it's very heartwarming for meas her cuckold to see this genuine love between them.

masculinecuck wrote: ↑

Fri Sep 12, 2025 10:00 am

My wife (51) has 3 lovers, 26, 30,36, the 36 yo her first and she's been seeing him for 8 years now. They are all VERY well hung an she's addicted to their big cocks. That being said there is genuine love between each of them and them for her. They ARE a couple when together, act like a couple it's very heartwarming for meas her cuckold to see this genuine love between them.

Hi masculine. I am so happy to hear that for you. It's good that all her bulls are quite young and able to service her better than us. Young guys are better at that.

Happy to hear that they behave like an actual couple. As a cuck, it is very nice for us to see. I used to love watching wife and old bf for hours as they made love and snuggled and had pillow talk in between rounds

While my wife has had many one night stands and had a great time, she prefers to date her bulls/boyfriends. She finds the sex is better and she also gets excited at being out in public with them with the chance of being caught by someone we know.
I prefer her to date rather than have one night stands.

Johnann2227 wrote: ↑

Sat Sep 13, 2025 12:21 am

While my wife has had many one night stands and had a great time, she prefers to date her bulls/boyfriends. She finds the sex is better and she also gets excited at being out in public with them with the chance of being caught by someone we know.
I prefer her to date rather than have one night stands.

Hi Johann. I like this thread very much as I also like my wife to date the bull. I like sitting a few tables away and watching them have dinner. Or walking a distance behind them as they go for walks hand in hand. It can be quite thrilling to see them together.

I wouldn't classify any of my wife's lovers as bulls, they were all boyfriends. They'd talk on the phone, go away weekends, go shopping, go to dinner etc. Of course, sex was the main catalyst, but and I agree, sex without a relationship of some kind is never as good as sex with someone you care about.

luvwives999 wrote: ↑

Sat Sep 13, 2025 2:15 am

I wouldn't classify any of my wife's lovers as bulls, they were all boyfriends. They'd talk on the phone, go away weekends, go shopping, go to dinner etc. Of course, sex was the main catalyst, but and I agree, sex without a relationship of some kind is never as good as sex with someone you care about.

Hi luvwives. You are right. When there is no relationship it is difficult for them to feel the connection and be into the sex. So the relationship part is important.