Cages and Cleaning

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Cages and Cleaning

Unread post by handye12 » Tue Aug 26, 2025 4:24 am

Although Mistress Sally insists on wearing a chastity cage on certain occasions, it would be misleading to say Sally's instructions came 'out of the blue' for me. Throughout my ' wannabee' years, like cleaning up, I always saw being ordered to wear a cage as a necessary part of being a proud Cuckold. And during the early conversations on the subject, Sally picked up on my hidden subservient slant and immediately joined the site to conduct her own research as to whether my desires were isolated purely to me, and in doing so, was surprised to discover that being a dominant HotWife to a subservient Cuck rung her bells as well.

So cage wearing soon became part of our relationship however I quickly learnt that being a hardcore cage wearer is not easy, and I don't mean from the abstinence point of view, but purely the administrative part. Firstly. finding the correct cage has been a very long winded expensive exercise, and despite being over 2years. I still haven't got the perfect cage. Although my penis is barely average, (Sally describes it as "'the very 'small' side of average), my testicles are relatively smaller again. and therefore I have learnt that the collar had to be no bigger 35mm, with a very small gap between cage and collar, otherwise a testicle would slip halfway and necessitate a quick painful dash to the men's room to readjust. This also meant that I had to carry a copy of the key, which contradicts my cuck ethics.
This compromise continues today, so although i have found accetable dimensions for my 'meat & 2 veg' that are also in line with my exacting ascetics, I sill carry a cage key.

Which leads on to my main topic, 1- carrying a spare key for emergencies and 2- the Cleanliness issues.

I try and do a level of vigorous exercise daily, and experience has proved to me cycling, mountain biking, hit classes, etc are not practical in a cage, so there is usually a time during the day when I have to remove the cage.
The act of going to the toilet. I used to sit down to pee, but even though my cage is quite open and stainless steel, it also meant my scrotum would end up wet and although a bidet (when at home) and toilet paper would get me relatively clean and dry, it still doesn't negate the scent especially after a full day. So am I correct in thinking there is certain level of cuckold licence is happening to those that say they only get released weekly, or monthly, for cleaning purposes?
(Now that I have found relatively easy fitting cage, I take my cage off when taking bathroom breaks, but always leave the collar in place, because for me this is the most difficult and time consuming part of the process.)
Thanks for reading, Handye
PS I must have amassed a collection of over 20 redundant cages, including custom ones, in the last 2 years, and there is no way of recuperating any costs as apparently all the local pawn and charity shops are not interested in secondhand male chastity cages 🤣
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Re: Cages and Cleaning

Unread post by dreamer72 » Wed Aug 27, 2025 10:56 am

Wearing a cage during vigorous exercise could be very dangerous, good way to tear something or crush one of your nuts.

As for cleaning, I think anyone who claims to have been locked up for weeks or permanently is just blowing fantasy smoke. It would need to come off pretty much daily for hygiene reason. Keeping it compressed in a tight cage, even the kind with like open bars could quickly lead to a skin infection or fungal infection. The solid tube kind (like a CB type cage) would need to come off daily to allow the skin to be cleaned and fully dry. Your little guy will sweat in there alot even without much activity. So I think stepping out of fantasy and into reality a cuck with a real life would need to be able to remove it when needed. There would certainly perhaps be days where if you knew there was nothing major going on that your Mistress could send you out and about for the day without the key.

I think one of the best cages, especially for the cost, is the Cherry Keeper. Lightweight, good, low-profile locking setup, customizable to get the perfect fit. And especially if you're a guy on the larger size the "funnel" shaped cages allow for much easier compression of your larger flaccid size into a shorter package. Unless you're really tiny most of the Chinese made metal one on like Amazon or whatever are a waist of time and money.

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Unread post by ferrisandrews » Wed Aug 27, 2025 3:09 pm

Yes I could relate to several things you both said, but removing it routinely is just what you have to do. I have larger testicles and mine tend to flare with the kind of ring I use. I found that Hanes makes a pair of pouched boxer briefs that do a good job of keeping the boys from rubbing my legs when I walk, since that's nice. The pouch basically fits the caged part of your junk and keeps it separate from your legs when you walk.

My thights rub together, so the briefs has an added benefit of keeping my thighs from rubbing directly, allowing me to go on walks and such without it being a problem.

Yeah any kind of exercising above walking (biking, climbing, etc.) that thing is coming off. Most of the time it's more practical to only put it on at night time if I'm working in the office. I've worn it to the office plenty of times and in the last few years I have a standing desk that I use exclusively so I'm okay wearing it then also. When I go into meetings and have to sit in a chair I do notice, so if I had to do that full time I'd definitely not wear it at all at work. It's just too big of a hassle.

I also have accumulated a bunch of cages over the years, it's very hard to find one that works and isn't a pain. The two I'm okay with are a metal one and one plastic one. Plastic is lighter and better for night time in bed, but you notice it more when you're on the move since it requires baby powder, petroleum jelly or something else to keep it from catching. Metal is obviously smooth and generally is more comfortable when I'm up moving around, but it's too heavy when I toss and turn at night.

The cleaning should probably be a daily routine. I feel like the cages made nowadays are easier to do your business through but still, going too long on that stuff isn't cute. For the metal ones where there's much more room for water to come in, I've been in the shower and kept it on and cleaned that way before though, so taking it off may not be 100% necessary every time.
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Re: Cages and Cleaning

Unread post by handye12 » Thu Aug 28, 2025 4:54 am

Thank you both, Dreamer and Ferris, for your answers and putting my mind to rest on cleanliness and practicality.
My best cage to this point is stainless steel. It is Chinese, and like you say the cage is too small. The collar is really good, shaped 38mm in diameter , looks forged, and its quite thick, and crucially has two rectangular guiding pins, so it's easy to guide in place. I have cages with round guiding pins but every time is hard to get it located exactly. If they did larger cages in both length and width they would be perfect. For me anyway.
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Re: Cages and Cleaning

Unread post by dreamer72 » Thu Aug 28, 2025 5:12 am

handye12 wrote:
Thu Aug 28, 2025 4:54 am
Thank you both, Dreamer and Ferris, for your answers and putting my mind to rest on cleanliness and practicality.
My best cage to this point is stainless steel. It is Chinese, and like you say the cage is too small. The collar is really good, shaped 38mm in diameter , looks forged, and its quite thick, and crucially has two rectangular guiding pins, so it's easy to guide in place. I have cages with round guiding pins but every time is hard to get it located exactly. If they did larger cages in both length and width they would be perfect. For me anyway.
That's what I always found with the Chinese cages is the cock ring is to heavy so you're constantly fighting gravity. The cherry keeper is the most comfortable I've found for all day wear especially with the oval, curved base ring because despite common thought penises are not round LOL. There are some knock off cherry keepers available on like Amazon for about $30 and that come with multiple rings if you wanted to try one out. I love the look, feel and statement of metal, but perhaps that can be reserved for times of more direct play when it it will be displayed, the the lighter plastic ones for daily wear during normal life.

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Re: Cages and Cleaning

Unread post by Sparkcuck81 » Fri Aug 29, 2025 7:36 am

I have worn both metal and plastic cages 24/7 for more than a week at a time. It is possible to keep open metal cages fairly clean, but only with meticulous cleaning several times a day. My routine involved thorough showering, followed by drying and using Q-tips to reach tucked away spaces. I would also dip a Q-tip in rubbing alcohol to clean the nooks and crannies followed by a clean Q-tip. This worked fairly well with my Badassworkroom BA-28, but not 100%. In reality, I think you need at a minimum a good weekly release for cleaning. I have also tried longer lockup in my Evotion Orion, the problem here is that a nylon or plastic cage will absorb odor over time and be nearly impossible to keep clean. Btw, I recommend titanium over stainless as it is truly bio-inert (and, of course, lighter). The nickel and chromium in stainless cages can be problematic long-term. Anyway, good luck, keep us posted on your adventures.

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Unread post by MartasBoy » Fri Aug 29, 2025 9:41 am

dreamer72 wrote:
Wed Aug 27, 2025 10:56 am
Wearing a cage during vigorous exercise could be very dangerous, good way to tear something or crush one of your nuts.

As for cleaning, I think anyone who claims to have been locked up for weeks or permanently is just blowing fantasy smoke. It would need to come off pretty much daily for hygiene reason. Keeping it compressed in a tight cage, even the kind with like open bars could quickly lead to a skin infection or fungal infection.
No, I have been locked in my device for as long as 3 weeks without coming out, with no ill effects.

I have been locked up this long in both the Cherry Keeper mesh cage, and the Holy Trainer. I wear a very small length gauge, so that my urethral opening is maintained at the end of the tube, lined up with the pee hole. This allows me to pee normally, with a normal stream, without making much mess.

I shower daily washing it with the liberal amount of body wash worked all in and around the device, using the spray nozzle shower head to rinse. I will also sometimes sit in several inches of water in the tub, and soak it for a minute or so, swishing it all around.

I also found a dental syringe in the tooth care section at my local pharmacy. It is a syringe with a curved narrow tip that I can use to squirt water through the vent holes in my device, to wash, and rinse it well.

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Re: Cages and Cleaning

Unread post by submissivedanny » Fri Aug 29, 2025 12:58 pm

I've been locked up for over 15 years but my cage comes off every night for cleaning then it goes back on within about an hour. It is important to keep it clean.

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Re: Cages and Cleaning

Unread post by handye12 » Fri Aug 29, 2025 10:58 pm

Once again thanks guys, I appreciate your honest and detailed answers. I can imagine Marta and Spark being very happy with your housework if your dilligent approach continues throughout your more mundane duties.

I know this subject matter is not 'stimulating' in comparison to all the other topics on here, but it certainly helps me with regard to being the best cuck I can be for my Mistress, Sally.
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Unread post by WSCuck » Fri Aug 29, 2025 11:15 pm

Suite a heap of liquid soap into it through the hole in the end, put the shower head on max and squirt it as much as you can. I’ve been doing this for years and it’s not dropped off yet.

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Re: Cages and Cleaning

Unread post by elina » Sat Aug 30, 2025 11:13 am

Dear Handye

Did you ever try a cage that was custom-made to fit to your measurements?

I tried a number of different cages untill I ended up inside a jailbird from maturemetal.com
Expensive, but I have not had to shop around for anything else after I got this one.
I have been locked for up to three weeks without taking the device of.

The design allows you to wash while locked.
If you get the option with security screw that replaces the padlock, it requires less space and is difficult to spot under your pants.

If you want to try, please let me know and I can answer your questions.

Sincerely
elina

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