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This isn't for everybody but just a few thoughts on things I would consider on the extreme end of cuckolding. I left any forced bi stuff off the list as I don't like to dabble in the world of non consensual acts:

1)your wife leaving you for another man and the reason she give you is he fucks her better
2) Bull fucks your wife then moves on to your mother in law, step daughter, and any other women who are important in your life
3) Letting everybody in your real world know including friends, family, and coworkers you get off by your wife having sex with other men.
4) Wife fucks almost everybody you know in your normal life including your friends, family and coworkers.
5) Raising another man's child who knocked up your wife
6) Bull moves into your house full time, sleep with your wife in your bed while you sleep on the couch
7) Your future wife walking down the aisle with cum from her bull still oozing out of her snatch.
8) Wife doing things she would never consider with her husband. Like never having anal with her cuckold and her requesting it from her bull on day 1.
9) Financial abuse, bull starts spending the cuckolds money. (slippery slope but I find it acceptable only if I'm spending it to facilitate dates and fucking his wife better).
10) Creating a past with a bull (this is one of my favorite "gifts" to a cuckold). Husband sets up a date, wife tells the husband it didn't go that well and she's no longer interested in pursuing the hotwife life. But secretly she is fucking the guy on the side only to tell him a year or two down the road for an anniversary present. Bonus points if she does something he can remember later, "remember my gf's vegas bachlorette party? I never went to that, instead I went on vacation with my bull to hawaii and we had a week long fuck fest. Everytime I called you I played audio in the background to distract you so you wouldn't wonder why it sounded like a dick was in my mouth. Happy anniversary honey! Now I'm going to let you watch me fuck him!"

I'm not so sure '8' is so extreme. For example I think a lot of cucks don't get some form of sex from their wives that bulls get, for example BJ's.

I would hate most of the things on this list, although a number of them I would accept even if I didn't necessarily ask for them.

3 is getting less and less extreme as cuckoldry becomes a more well known and mainstream kink. I have a couple friends who don't hesitate to tell everybody they know what they're into...

5,6,7,8 I find a connection with and would experience with the right Lady. Also, Bull consummates the wedding, permanent chastity for the husband, not allowed to touch his Wife nor see Her naked, taunted daily by Her sexy dresses, his only allowed contact tongue cleaning the soles of Her stiletto shoes or getting painfully fucked with Her big strapon. At his Owners' wish he is occasionally allowed to sniff his Wife's panty clad pussy to increase his desperation. He sleeps at the foot of Her bed. Wife is extremely dominant with the cuck but accepts to be a submissive orgasmless cuckquean for the Bull. Husband serves the Bull sexually and otherwise, is kept in diapers and is a full toilet for both. These are by the way the main themes of the captions I enjoy.

Nice list. I’m personally not a fan of making it public or raising another man’s child.

One new one to add is if the bull and wife regularly punish the cuck for disobedience or disrespect. This could include lengthy time in chastity or corporal punishment.

3. Not everybody, but we have told some friends, family and colleagues that I am turned on by my wife fucking other men.
4. My wife can fuck anyone she wants to, including friends and coworkers, but is very choosy so is nowhere near all of them
5. She was pregnant by a boyfriend, but miscarried. Years later, for 6 months we were sure that she was pregnant by another boyfriend, but it turned out to be mine. We agreed from the beginning that if she did get pregnant by another man that we would raise the baby as our own.

7. Not my wife, but I had sex with an ex-girlfriend 2 days before her wedding, so although she wasn’t oozing my cum when she walked down the aisle, she did still have my sperm swimming around inside her.

We have no interest in the other choices.

We experienced # 3 & # 5 . My wife has two of his babies and couldn’t be happier. She didn’t want my babies so she had his. He signed the birth certificates for both babies.

sissy pauline

SubSnuggler wrote: ↑

Wed Aug 27, 2025 12:27 pm

I'm not so sure '8' is so extreme. For example I think a lot of cucks don't get some form of sex from their wives that bulls get, for example BJ's.

I thought 8 would be pretty normal in most cuckold relationships. I've never had anal with S, in 35 years I've nearly always had to use a condom, she'll have her pubic hair however her bull wants it, she'll rim a bull or let him cum in her mouth etc. Not for me though!

For me, 3 and 4 are kind of together. My wife could fuck anyone she wanted anytime she wanted. She worked night as a cocktail waitress back then and sometime model for local women's clothing shops and department stores some days. So sh was around a lot of men most of the time. Our families were not aware of our cuck style life style, and me being an artist that art world crowd didn't either. She did sleep with a few of my friends that weren't into the art world, but mostly co-workers and customers from the club where she worked. The people she worked with know of our lifestyle and some I became friends with when I went in the club on business. I did a lot of posters for local bands and the clubs in our city.

Occasionally I might meet someone new in the club business and would not know if they knew my wife or maybe slept with her. Sometimes one of these new guys might ask if I was married to D. I always answered that I was, but it was also a bit awkward for a minute or two as t how this new person might know her. Sometimes they would tell me other times I never was quite sure.

#3. Slightly different take in real life was a bull who fucked my wife several times and told some mutual work acquaintances. The hottest part of the story was when he was in town on a work project with 3 other men, and she went over to his hotel room and fucked him after work. He introduced her to the guys and then kicked his roommate out to stay next door with the other two while they fucked for a couple of hours. Of course the walls were paper thin and these guys got to listen while he mounted my wife with his big cock very successfully to multiple (loud) orgasms. This was only the third time they were together and when she got home I got a complete account of the "fantastic" sex while I licked her well fucked married pussy. The word got out that I was a cuckold and it still turns me on to this day. He screwed her regularly for the next year and a half, and their relationship became common knowledge to the extent they didn't even bother trying to hide it.

#3. Slightly different take in real life was a bull who fucked my wife several times and told some mutual work acquaintances. The hottest part of the story was when he was in town on a work project with 3 other men, and she went over to his hotel room and fucked him after work. He introduced her to the guys and then kicked his roommate out to stay next door with the other two while they fucked for a couple of hours. Of course the walls were paper thin and these guys got to listen while he mounted my wife with his big cock very successfully to multiple (loud) orgasms. This was only the third time they were together and when she got home I got a complete account of the "fantastic" sex while I licked her well fucked married pussy. The word got out that I was a cuckold and it still turns me on to this day. He screwed her regularly for the next year and a half, and their relationship became common knowledge to the extent they didn't even bother trying to hide it.

#3. Slightly different take in real life was a bull who fucked my wife several times and told some mutual work acquaintances. The hottest part of the story was when he was in town on a work project with 3 other men, and she went over to his hotel room and fucked him after work. He introduced her to the guys and then kicked his roommate out to stay next door with the other two while they fucked for a couple of hours. Of course the walls were paper thin and these guys got to listen while he mounted my wife with his big cock very successfully to multiple (loud) orgasms. This was only the third time they were together and when she got home I got a complete account of the "fantastic" sex while I licked her well fucked married pussy. The word got out that I was a cuckold and it still turns me on to this day. He screwed her regularly for the next year and a half, and their relationship became common knowledge to the extent they didn't even bother trying to hide it.

#8 as mentioned above is probable the most common on the list. My wife has done things with her lovers that she would never do with me under similar circumstances. When we talk about some instances, she always say, "I could never do that with you".

Example, many years ago she shut me down from anal claiming that it hurt her too much to endure, but it "is different" when one of her lovers asked her to let him him do it. Of course she would do virtually anything risqué to make him happy, while she is always too proper with me. She often would drive to his local watering hole and he introduced her to a couple of his close friends. They could easily see that she was married. Can't confirm, but we are both pretty sure he shared his relationship details with his guys. Fortunately none of his friends knew me.

None of the others on the above list apply to us, as they are too extreme or impractical.

#5 Ouur first chilld child is by her co woker she was sleeping with
#6 Her lover moved in and straight away there was no question that he would take the martial bed while I slept in the spare room. This went on for 9 months

The anniversary reveal idea is especially creative

firef503 wrote: ↑

Wed Aug 27, 2025 8:42 am

But secretly she is fucking the guy on the side only to tell him a year or two down the road for an anniversary present.

Regarding #10, Fireman, you might enjoy reading about my exact experience with my cheating slutwife in the library forum: 25th Anniv. of Troilus and Cressida. Best gift I EVER received!

Leave a comment there -- I'd like to hear what you think about it.

Troilus

Hubbytells wrote: ↑

Fri Aug 29, 2025 1:32 pm

#5 Ouur first chilld child is by her co woker she was sleeping with
#6 Her lover moved in and straight away there was no question that he would take the martial bed while I slept in the spare room. This went on for 9 months

Same guy, Hubbytells? Why'd he leave? Did he only stay until the baby came?

Troilus

While none of my current desires or past extreme cuckold experiences match these in the list you provided. There are some similarities.

For example, here are similarities of what you listed that I'd like:

7. Future wife walking down aisle full of cum
My version that I'd accept from my current gf:

*Ok to be honest, Realistically it's not something that I'd "accept" from my girlfriend/fiancée but moreso hoping that her and life take us down this path of her getting a long term boyfriend and she preps us both to be ok with each other and trains us both to know our roles in her life.*

Long before walking down the aisle with me she already has a long steady relationship with her boyfriend who is her primary sex partner. 2-3 months before our wedding she cuts me off sex and limits me to only getting it on my birthday and anniversary. On our wedding she walks down the aisle full of him and he goes on honeymoon with us where he is the one who will be doing 99% of pleasing my new wife. I may get a quickie with her at least once before heading back from our honeymoon. When back, he will assume full sexual exclusivity.

Some of the one's I've experienced but not exactly as listed by OP:

5. raising another man's child who.knocked up your wife

While she never got pregnant, she did tell me when we were both around 23 or 24 years old that she wanted her boyfriend to get her pregnant. She told me she wasn't actively trying but she also was not doing anything at all to prevent it from happening including having gotten off birth control shortly after cutting me off sex and becoming exclusive with him. I wasn't man or trying to stop her, I just quietly hugged her and told her I loved her. It was only s matter of time.

Another extreme not mentioned but similar:

My girlfriend moved out for 18 months. She went to live with her boyfriend in their own place that they rented together. A couple of months later they broke up and she kept the place as her bachelorette pad where she continued living as a single woman and having men over several nights per week.

I'm not allowed to jerk off anymore, but a few years ago, i used to get in the pool, hang on the side, pull my dick out, let the water jet give me a "blow job"

the whole time I would fantasize about her dating someone, falling in love, going to Paris with him, getting a proposal, asking me to be her maid of honor, me choosing her wedding night lingerie, then a year later we would meet for a girlfriends lunch, and she would be pregnant

I never came so hard in my life

I'll take a #2

SubSnuggler wrote: ↑

Wed Aug 27, 2025 12:27 pm

I'm not so sure '8' is so extreme. For example I think a lot of cucks don't get some form of sex from their wives that bulls get, for example BJ's.

I would hate most of the things on this list, although a number of them I would accept even if I didn't necessarily ask for them.

Agree, my hotwife used to half heartedly give me a 15 second blowie for Father’s Day and my birthday but she never liked it and just stopped completely. She made it no secret that she gave her bulls head to “help them along” for the next round of sex. Which kinda meant that they likely had some sex juices on their cocks, which was the main reason she didn’t like giving me head, my pre cum. She also had some lingerie and sex toys that were “for bulls only”. Denial is a huge kink of mine, so this turned me on a lot. From what she told me, most of her bulls were rougher than she would ever allow for me, she’d say things like “and then he flipped me over” whereas she really only let me have missionary with her. The thing is, a new sex partner I think just lets a woman let loose and lose her inhibitions versus a long term husband.

firef503 wrote: ↑

Wed Aug 27, 2025 8:42 am

This isn't for everybody but just a few thoughts on things I would consider on the extreme end of cuckolding.
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1)your wife leaving you for another man and the reason she give you is he fucks her better

Those things seem rather on the extreme end of irresponsible abusive behaviour (safe than for #8).
#1 is the negation of cuckolding. Your wife leaves you and suddenly there is no couple and thus no cuckolding anymore.
I don’t even comment on the babies’ things.

#5 gets a lot of naysayers, and for good reason. But people forget about couples that want to have kids but the man has fertility problems. There's a lot of us out there and low-testosterone cuckolds have more than their fair share. In these cases, I would argue that having the bull father the child is a strictly better solution than a sperm donor clinic. You know the man, it's free, the wife gets to enjoy intimacy.

My wife and I had two kids of our own but it was a very long battle due to insufficiency of my sperm. We always wanted a third but it was not to be. In hindsight I should have let her get pregnant with a lover. To me it would be halfway between adopting a child and having another of our own, and I would have treated it no different than my biological children.

#7 is probably on every cuckold's list – marrying your beloved wife while she's filled with another man's seed. For me the fantasy is complete if her lover joins us on the honeymoon and fucks her at every chance while I'm excluded. The nice thing about trips to exotic locations is that one can be somewhat more open in public about the nature of your relationship.

woodfellow wrote: ↑

Thu Sep 04, 2025 3:15 pm

#5 gets a lot of naysayers, and for good reason. But people forget about couples that want to have kids but the man has fertility problems. There's a lot of us out there and low-testosterone cuckolds have more than their fair share. In these cases, I would argue that having the bull father the child is a strictly better solution than a sperm donor clinic. You know the man, it's free, the wife gets to enjoy intimacy.

My wife and I had two kids of our own but it was a very long battle due to insufficiency of my sperm. We always wanted a third but it was not to be. In hindsight I should have let her get pregnant with a lover. To me it would be halfway between adopting a child and having another of our own, and I would have treated it no different than my biological children.

#7 is probably on every cuckold's list – marrying your beloved wife while she's filled with another man's seed. For me the fantasy is complete if her lover joins us on the honeymoon and fucks her at every chance while I'm excluded. The nice thing about trips to exotic locations is that one can be somewhat more open in public about the nature of your relationship.

WF
- Testicular cancer in my case. Wasn't in a relationship at the time but later it did flicker through my mind from time to time.

Numbers 3, 4, and 7:
It took 15 years for her to finally cuck me. In retrospect, I would have LOVED being cucked on our wedding night.