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My wife has been a church secretary for ten years. All the preachers have been young men. Two years ago, they hired their first black preacher, who is close to my wife's age. My wife used to really like sex, but since she became more religious, sex is just put it in and get it over with. Then she cut me off last year, and I found out she is in love with the preacher. Everything he says is like it came from GOD.
My wife has always said she did not find black men sexually attractive. So this is her first.
He has a degree in therapy and has been grooming her. Last year, I found a note from him on how to leave your husband and protect yourself. We worked this out and is OK, but still say they love each other. I am a cuckold and want to approach the preacher and tell him I know about him and my wife, and I am OK with it. I want him to know he can have his cake and eat it too. I want him to groom my wife and use her as much as he wants. I want to tell him he can use my home as their love nest. I want to ask him to be our black bull, not just my wife's. When I mentioned it to my wife, she said she does not want to share him. She will listen to him if he tells her he wants to own both of us.
This way the church does not find out. The three of us in public look like best friends. But in private, he's our bull.

That's up to your wife if she wants to share. Maybe eventually she might come around.