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blanently cheating right in front of you without a prior conversation
Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2025 7:33 am
by firef503
I'm curious has anybody ever been in this position? I hit on wives pretty often in front of their husbands. I won't pretend It always works, I won't even pretend it works very often. But it has a few times. I'm pretty cautious about it, throw out some test flirts that can be received different ways then just see where it gets me. There's been one single time I've been able to pull up a blanet, right in front of the boyfriend hit on and she changes the arm she's latched onto. I started talking to her at a halloween party. She was drunk he was standing on the other side of her. Pretty soon she wrapped her arm around me. He grabbed her other arm and said, "come on we need to leave." She turns back to him and says, "no I'm going to stay." While she's hanging on me they get into a little tiff and eventually he ends up leaving her there and I take her home. It's happened a few other times but those times it was more hidden. It became obvious the wife was being flirty with me and slipped me her number when the husband went to the bathroom.
I'm curious is anybody has ever been in a spot where a guy hits on your girl right in front of you. Up until that point you have never talked to her about cuckolding or that turning you on. And she takes the bait ends up with her arm around this guy and leaves with him. Tells you that she is going to go with him now. I'm sure it's much more common with a GF than a wife. But what about your wife?
Re: blanently cheating right in front of you without a prior conversation
Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2025 8:46 am
by ncnj1
No, but it would be hot as long as she came back in the morning!
Funny - I think you're chatting with my wife as we speak...
Re: blanently cheating right in front of you without a prior conversation
Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2025 8:49 am
by DavaoMike
firef503 wrote: ↑Fri Sep 26, 2025 7:33 am
I'm curious has anybody ever been in this position? I hit on wives pretty often in front of their husbands. I won't pretend It always works, I won't even pretend it works very often. But it has a few times. I'm pretty cautious about it, throw out some test flirts that can be received different ways then just see where it gets me. There's been one single time I've been able to pull up a blanet, right in front of the boyfriend hit on and she changes the arm she's latched onto. I started talking to her at a halloween party. She was drunk he was standing on the other side of her. Pretty soon she wrapped her arm around me. He grabbed her other arm and said, "come on we need to leave." She turns back to him and says, "no I'm going to stay." While she's hanging on me they get into a little tiff and eventually he ends up leaving her there and I take her home. It's happened a few other times but those times it was more hidden. It became obvious the wife was being flirty with me and slipped me her number when the husband went to the bathroom.
I'm curious is anybody has ever been in a spot where a guy hits on your girl right in front of you. Up until that point you have never talked to her about cuckolding or that turning you on. And she takes the bait ends up with her arm around this guy and leaves with him. Tells you that she is going to go with him now. I'm sure it's much more common with a GF than a wife. But what about your wife?
Sounds like a good way to get your butt kicked. lol
Re: blanently cheating right in front of you without a prior conversation
Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2025 1:06 pm
by OldChap
That sounds like the start of Tolliver's thread.
Re: blanently cheating right in front of you without a prior conversation
Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2025 1:48 pm
by surry
Love it when it happens. I saw this happen when a nerdy guy took a guy's wife from him at a party. She and her husband had a fight.
Re: blanently cheating right in front of you without a prior conversation
Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2025 1:52 pm
by surry
Love it when it happens. I saw this happen when a nerdy guy took a guy's wife from him at a party. She and her husband had a fight over the nerdy guy flirting. She went home with him.
Re: blanently cheating right in front of you without a prior conversation
Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2025 3:07 pm
by ferrisandrews
I admire the gall, since most men aren't very brave these days, especially if they know the woman is married. I wouldn't recommend it. In addition, if the guy was just that gutsy then that bravery comes with baggage. It's rare for our ideal guys to act this way, because our ideal guys tend to be much more confident (not arrogant), intelligent and deliberate in what they're doing. Approaching a wife when he knows the husband / s/o may not be into it is just dumb and reckless. I guess it depends on their approach and how it comes off.
A much better approach is to buddy up with the husband / boyfriend, remind him how hot she is and maybe even ask "jokingly" if she is open or allowed to date other men. The husband will begin to make clear whether or not these comments are exciting or offensive and the comments can be dismissed as joking (alcohol is always a good excuse). Once the husband is no longer an obstacle he can begin to see how the wife responds to him.
I'm sure there are many tricks and approaches involved with 'game' but I've seen this approach work successfully (with us and others we've spoken with)
Re: blanently cheating right in front of you without a prior conversation
Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2025 3:14 pm
by SouthernGent25
Yep - happened to me once. Hottest thing ever. Two guys took my wife away from me at a party. It was as if I wasn’t even there. She told me I could go home and that she would be fine and not to wait up. They brought her home around 2am completely used and I got to eat some dessert :-)
Re: blanently cheating right in front of you without a prior conversation
Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2025 4:33 pm
by cantbelieve
My answer is, tread lightly. If you get too pushy with me and force the issue, I'll kick your teeth in. Play your cards right, take it slow, don't act like you're in control, and I just may tell my wife to "give him the time of his life"
Re: blanently cheating right in front of you without a prior conversation
Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2025 5:10 pm
by ucaneffher
Never happened with the ex gf who was actually a hot GF but baby steps did occur with the current GF before she was aware of the fantasy.
She has been flirted with in front of me without me realizing it and she was definitely engaged and flirted back. Once I caught on that she was responding/signaling and smiling at the man who was sitting near by I stopped her by asking what she was doing. She laughed and apologized but less than 5 minutes later she was back to smiling and signaling him. I absolutely loved it.
I think that if the man is smooth and not overly pushy or cocky, I can definitely see myself watching her cheat right in front of me without prior discussion.
Re: blanently cheating right in front of you without a prior conversation
Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2025 7:21 pm
by noreaster
Many years ago on our softball team we had a husband, a real decent guy and his wife used to come watch us play. She was a flirt and like to dress the part. On our team we also had a guy that was well built and could hit the ball a ton. After games we used to retreat to our team sponsors bar and carry on. One night it was getting late and most of us guys there playing pool and drinking along with this guys wife. Eventually the husband was there but the wife and the other guy had disappeared. Never did find out where they went and I don’t recall her coming back before we left. The husband was a little upset but everyone just kept drinking and playing pool and nothing was said.
Re: blanently cheating right in front of you without a prior conversation
Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2025 11:10 pm
by Ready2StartAgain
One should be careful doing this unless they like enacting the law of "Fucking around and finding out!"