Absolutely not is no longer her response....
Posted: Wed Oct 01, 2025 2:51 am
For years (decades) I've made it known that I wanted to be cucked. I've told her that she has total sexual freedom if she ever wants to fuck someone. She has always maintained it's of no interest to her and sarcastically dismissed my assurances of sexual freedom with "I know I do".
About a month ago I threw out the idea of listening to a podcast episode about a cuckolding couple and I was shocked when she said "sure". We wound up listening to two episodes: one was a cuckold interview and the other was a cuckoldress interview. Both were newbies and the slant was 'how did the wife wind up going from absolutely not to fucking other men?
I asked my wife what she found most interesting about the episodes, what she likes about the idea of cuckolding and what made her nervous. Here were her answers:
Liked:
I liked how they showed the progression of going from 'never' to the point of actually doing it
I liked how the wife was in control and felt sexy
I liked how the husband seemed to be really happy even when he was talking about the times he actually watched
Excites her:
If we ever did it, it means that she'd managed to progress from 'never' to actually doing it and that it would please me
It would mean that she'd dealt with all the mental hangups that originally prevented her from doing it
The actual pleasure from the act itself is exciting to think about
Nervous about:
Getting too crazy/excited in the moment and doing something she'd regret
Things getting too out of control (I didn't fully understand her concern here)
People finding out about it
I shared with her my thoughts under the same headings, mentioned that I loved hearing about the women being in total control on the podcasts, loved the idea of her cumming hard on another mans cock, and the thought of cleaning up after; told her my fears are that I pressure her too much on this journey, that she winds up doing it just to try to please me, and the possibility that I don't actually like it if/when it ever happens.
Long post, but I had to share. I honestly thought the idea was dead in the water. I'd love to know why she's agreeing to listen to podcasts and discuss the idea but I'm treading VERY softly - I've managed to fuck it up many times in the past by pressuring so taking it very easy now. Wondering if any cucks on here have similar progression stories and would love to hear suggested next steps....
About a month ago I threw out the idea of listening to a podcast episode about a cuckolding couple and I was shocked when she said "sure". We wound up listening to two episodes: one was a cuckold interview and the other was a cuckoldress interview. Both were newbies and the slant was 'how did the wife wind up going from absolutely not to fucking other men?
I asked my wife what she found most interesting about the episodes, what she likes about the idea of cuckolding and what made her nervous. Here were her answers:
Liked:
I liked how they showed the progression of going from 'never' to the point of actually doing it
I liked how the wife was in control and felt sexy
I liked how the husband seemed to be really happy even when he was talking about the times he actually watched
Excites her:
If we ever did it, it means that she'd managed to progress from 'never' to actually doing it and that it would please me
It would mean that she'd dealt with all the mental hangups that originally prevented her from doing it
The actual pleasure from the act itself is exciting to think about
Nervous about:
Getting too crazy/excited in the moment and doing something she'd regret
Things getting too out of control (I didn't fully understand her concern here)
People finding out about it
I shared with her my thoughts under the same headings, mentioned that I loved hearing about the women being in total control on the podcasts, loved the idea of her cumming hard on another mans cock, and the thought of cleaning up after; told her my fears are that I pressure her too much on this journey, that she winds up doing it just to try to please me, and the possibility that I don't actually like it if/when it ever happens.
Long post, but I had to share. I honestly thought the idea was dead in the water. I'd love to know why she's agreeing to listen to podcasts and discuss the idea but I'm treading VERY softly - I've managed to fuck it up many times in the past by pressuring so taking it very easy now. Wondering if any cucks on here have similar progression stories and would love to hear suggested next steps....