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Has your wife ever got with the most unlikely of men? A guy you would have never thought she would get with?

I ask the question because my wife is currently away with work, gone with a guy work colleague who she is friends with and has gone before with him, unfortunately he is kind of geeky and the chances of him hitting on my wife less than zero, I would say… however my wife always says how nice he is and how well they get on. She called me last night and said that when they get back, we will have him over for some food one night, which kind of got me excited a little bit. My wife always says for her It’s not so much about physical attraction like it is for us men.
She’s never mentioned him in a sexual way, but my mind can still wander, it would be great if I could persuade her to be naked the night he comes over for tea, but I think the chances are pretty low.

Long suffering wannabe whose wife gets fed up of me talking about it. But we do have lots of fun in the bedroom.

Maybe suggest to her to flirt with him and see if she can touch him and make him hard?

My wife has indeed fucked guys whom i never thought she would. you know...definitely not attractive to. But if they have a nice personality - and a big cock - they got lucky with her.

Yes she has. Often.

It is kind of a funny story, but my wife worked in technology for a while. She went to her first tech conference and by midday she texted me that it was weird because it was like 150 geek/tech guys and a just a few females and all of the other women were geeky tech girls too, while she was in a short skirt, CFM heels and looking hot. She said all of the guys were offering to let her sit with them, offering to get her a drink or snack while they were up, etc. She joked that she finally understood how Penny on Big Bang Theory felt. I asked her if any of them were getting laid and she said she was going to try and limit herself to three a day lol.

BD8280 wrote: ↑

Tue Oct 21, 2025 7:10 am

Has your wife ever got with the most unlikely of men? A guy you would have never thought she would get with?...


...My wife always says for her It’s not so much about physical attraction like it is for us men. .....

My wife has gone both directions in her choices, that have surprised me. For a while she got involved with her supervisor at work. He was what I would describe as kind of an older grizzled looking guy. But something drew my wife in. She used to say that she really wasn't sure what it was that she found attractive about him, and why she ended up in bed with him. She has told me that he was a rather selfish and clumsy lover, who would climb on her, grunting and sweating, until he came, and then would roll over and go to sleep, with little awareness of whether or not she had an orgasm. Later, she said she realized that she was attracted to his power, and status because of his money and career success.

The other choices she has made that have surprised me, are some of the really macho guys she has been with. My wife is a very strong minded feminist and has always said that she is not into guys who try to act really macho and seem overly full of themselves. My wife often talks about guys who have toxic masculinity, and act like misogynists.
I am tall and slender, and have never had a lot of upper body muscle. My wife has always told me that I have the body type she is most attracted to. But several of the guys she has played with, are guys who picked her up at the gym, she has never been attracted to the really extreme muscle bound guys that look like they are an aberration of nature, with muscles that look like tumorous growths. But she has done some extended play with some who I would describe as light to moderate bodybuilder types.
When I've asked her about this contradiction in her attitude versus her attractions, she has said that, sometimes it's fun to be with a guy who can pick her up and toss her on to the bed from across the room like a little rag doll, and ravage her.

MartasBoy wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 22, 2025 8:55 pm

The other choices she has made that have surprised me, are some of the really macho guys she has been with. My wife is a very strong minded feminist and has always said that she is not into guys who try to act really macho and seem overly full of themselves. My wife often talks about guys who have toxic masculinity, and act like misogynists.
I am tall and slender, and have never had a lot of upper body muscle. My wife has always told me that I have the body type she is most attracted to. But several of the guys she has played with, are guys who picked her up at the gym, she has never been attracted to the really extreme muscle bound guys that look like they are an aberration of nature, with muscles that look like tumorous growths. But she has done some extended play with some who I would describe as light to moderate bodybuilder types.
When I've asked her about this contradiction in her attitude versus her attractions, she has said that, sometimes it's fun to be with a guy who can pick her up and toss her on to the bed from across the room like a little rag doll, and ravage her.

Your wife is right, in my opinion, to avoid the overly masculine, misogynistic types.

But I see no real contradiction in her being attracted to physically fit and strong guys, providing they treat her with respect. She probably enjoys the contrast with you.

Physically I'm probably similar to you. And my wife is also attracted to a more muscular 'fit' guy.

My wife literally has no specific type in men. Many, many times, she has surprised me with who she would let fuck her. She has let much older, younger men. Men of all different shapes. Some have been very fit, others not fit at all. Many different races.

For her, it is all about connection. She hates pushy and cocky men. Besides that, if there is a connection, she will let any type of man between her legs.

It's definitely a major turn on for me because any man could be a potential bull.

Out of all the 10 guys there's one (maybe the 4-5th guy she's fucked) who I thought would have NO chance! He was from out of town visiting we connected coz he was going to visited. He looked like Alan Harper from Two and a Half Men but super polite, very courteous so after we met casually for drinks at a bar she says she's not sure but we could call him over for drinks and maybe get a massage from him (he claimed he was good at it, but she later said I was much better than him LOL). Anyway we meet at a Air BNB (without any pressure) and hang out over drinks for and they go for a massage and she got into the mood and they ended up fucking. Turns out he was a gentle lover as well and the FIRST guy who made her cum while fucking her (since that time her anxiety levels were low in subsequent meets) and she cums fairly frequently but I would say he started it all. Played with him one more time since the first time same result

I blame the husbands. This is what happens when a courageous loving husband facilitates the ability of a wife to explore sexual and emotional freedom from the safe cocoon of her marriage. Incredible things can happen. I have dated some wives I would have thought would in no way would find me attractive but had some very nice relationships because of it.

johnswan wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 22, 2025 10:32 pm

Your wife is right, in my opinion, to avoid the overly masculine, misogynistic types.

But sometimes it seems like she has chosen guys who border on being those types. She has never chosen one like that for long-term play, but brief encounters. I think it might be a case of her engaging in some sense of adventure, or risk-taking. Like walking a little close to the edge or venturing closer to the flame. It has puzzled me when she's chosen guys like this. When I have asked her about it, she has no good answer, other than to say that she just felt like it at the time.

johnswan wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 22, 2025 10:32 pm

But I see no real contradiction in her being attracted to physically fit and strong guys, providing they treat her with respect. She probably enjoys the contrast with you.

Physically I'm probably similar to you. And my wife is also attracted to a more muscular 'fit' guy.

Yes, That part I understand. It makes sense. We have a marriage that is pretty much dominated and dictated by her. My sister teases me and says I'm the most delightfully pussy whipped husband she knows. She and my wife are good friends. My wife has often been critical of some of her women friends, who she believes allow their husbands to control them too much. But I have observed my wife become uncharacteristically submissive to a couple of guys she has been with.

I blame the husbands. This is an example of what happens when a courageous loving husband facilitates a wife exploring sexual and emotional freedom from the safe loving cocoon of her marriage. She gains the opportunity to explore relationships she might have never tried before which is such a gift to the wife.

I blame the husbands. This is an example of what happens when a courageous loving husband facilitates a wife exploring sexual and emotional freedom from the safe loving cocoon of her marriage. She gains the opportunity to explore relationships she might have never tried before which is such a gift to the wife.

As a BF, I believe a connection is the biggest factor in a relationship happening with a married woman. Not considering what type of man I am, if I feel a two way connection with a wife I will probably fuck her !! Light, fun conversations, dual meaning comments and suggestions, normally will set the comfort and compatibility levels, as well as expose deep hidden sexual desires. Once those levels are met, the kind or type of person becomes a very small part of the equation. Hell, neither one is looking for marriage material.. just exciting sex in hot wife/cuckold lifestyle !!

In my opinion….

Brad

bradisalpha wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 23, 2025 3:41 pm

As a BF, I believe a connection is the biggest factor in a relationship happening with a married woman. Not considering what type of man I am, if I feel a two way connection with a wife I will probably fuck her !! Light, fun conversations, dual meaning comments and suggestions, normally will set the comfort and compatibility levels, as well as expose deep hidden sexual desires. Once those levels are met, the kind or type of person becomes a very small part of the equation. Hell, neither one is looking for marriage material.. just exciting sex in hot wife/cuckold lifestyle !!

In my opinion….

Brad

I think you've hit the nail on the head !!! For married its all about comfort and connection

Wife? No, my ex wife had a type and stuck with it. They were mostly variations of me. But I have been sharing since my 2nd serious gf, and many of them spread their wings, so to speak. One gf told me of a fantasy about fucking an older guy like 50+. We were freshly out of college when she told me about it. Another girl actually specifically fucked guys she didn't like while we were together.

1. My sexy latina wife made me a video with a short pudgy young guy. He looked like the type of loser that still lived with his parents and plays video games all day. That short pudgy guy had a short pudgy cock that drove my wife crazy though.

2. My petite wife is 5’1”. She hooked up with a guy that was a 6’6” 350 lbs offensive lineman. I actually feared for her life when he got on top of her. Thankfully he got too excited and shot his load within a minute.

3. A guy that was old enough to be her father. She said he didn’t fuck her, he actually made love to her. She really like being with him because of that.