Our Hotwives

My wife has started down the hotwife/cuvk path. I encouraged it and it started out with me watching her suck him once a week. Now she's having sex with him 3-5 times a week, texting, and she calls him Sir (3 solid weeks now)
He asked her on a dinner date (she told me) and is considering going.
She let it slip to me (while high) that hes the best sex ever.

She told me directly she doesn't plan on falling in love or feelings and will not blow up our lives.

She's also too sore to have sec with me but will give me a blow job. Especially after he leaves.

David
If you are asking the question, you’ve already answered yourself.

Yeah, I’d be worried, as your post has no context and is borderline incoherent.

I agree with the members before me. We need more to go on. This could be a concern or it might be the start of some exciting times in the near future. You really need to have great honest communication with your wife on all things and not just in the bedroom. You also really need to know yourself and how you feel about all of this lifestyle. It can be a great experience for you and your wife, but not handled right and full open honesty it can be a disaster. Know what you really want and let her know.

Maybe, sounds like she has become addicted to sex with him?

Agree with others, more context and more background.

You're story sounds exciting to me but I'm too far gone and irrational lol.

Best thing to do is be clear or rules and boundaries from both parties and make sure that you two remain the main parties.

Yes a cuckold should always be worried when their wives first enter the lifestyle, I don’t care how close you are or how long you’ve been married. That first guy is exciting for her. He finds her sexy and attractive, gives her great sex, tells her wonderful things. She feels younger, sexy , excited. I bet she’s even glowing! Mine was. They call it NRE, new relationship energy and it’s a powerful aphrodisiac, just like a drug, she can’t get enough. You can only hope that your marriage and your love is strong enough to endure or that he doesn’t fall in love with her. That being said , it’s the wildest, most exciting, and the most nerve wracking ride that I’ve ever had. My marriage survived.

I think going from zero to 3/5 times a week is a but much. and now dinner dates? Is she having sex alone with him?

You should help her exercise some control over things. This is worrisome.

Yep.

You should be worried.