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lifestyle update

Posted: Sun Oct 26, 2025 6:39 pm
by dbcraleigh
Just coming on to post again after awhile.....

Quick backstory: in the lifestyle about 15 yrs. Started out looking for DP, swing clubs, swing parties, then wife found a DP guy she thought was so hot so I let them play solo and that started on solo play for her and her bull for 3 yrs, whole weekends away, one small beachtrip together, probably 300+ creampies.....he sadly moved away after 3 yrs for a better job....

Wife had a crush on a local guy we know from a friend group....told him one night we were swingers and kind of shocked him....yr or yr and half goes buy finally get a text late one night to her how she's so hot......meet for a date a week later and now...

She is maybe more insatiable than I've ever seen her, even with her 3 yr bull, one is he is local where our other bull was a 1 hr drive away, so local is a whole diff ballgame. No random drop bys but they've fucked every week since date 1.....my bed, multiple hotel rooms, no condoms from date 1....and I can tell she is obsessed with his cock.....what is also hot is her prior bull and this bull both make her gush....she can squirt for me but not a ton, like once during a session but these guys I mean nonstop flooding....

I'm just coming here to update and get out some energy as she's been away for 6 hrs fucking him in a hotel 5 mins from our house...a few text and one pic....

So hot, took me a minute after this to re cal it had been a long break since bull 1 and I got so comfy with him but I rememebered we love each other and this only deepens our connection. Also, the local aspect is so so so hot, no driving just hey want to fuck this weekend.....it's funny after all these yrs though I did have to remind myself why we do this, why it is amazing, and how lucky we are and how i LOVE her being pleased.....welcome to any thoughts, guidance, congrats, lol

Re: lifestyle update

Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2025 12:55 pm
by ucaneffher
That's an awesome update, you're living a cuckold's dream for sure! Nothing makes us cucks happier than seeing our women absolutely consumed and infatuated with the lifestyle

I vividly recall when I was still living the lifestyle and in the beginning when she first started showing signs of getting really hooked or addicted to a guy, I would start to get scared and worry that she kept wanting to go see him, that she kept staying countless hours with him every time, that she wanted to spend the night with him on most weekends first, and eventually that started including weekdays.

Eventually I accepted that she was just really into the guy and into sex with him. I channelled that fear of her being addicted and learned to not only like it but I learned to absolutely love it. At that point we were both in sync now and she knew she didn't have to hide her addiction because she knew that showing her interest would result in more encouragement from me and oftentimes it would mean me doing everything to make her outing with him possible. This is how Tuesday and Wednesday night sleepovers came into play as well as Friday to Monday sleepovers.

I loved that she loved it and the more she wanted it the more I wanted it. I got to a point where I would now excourage her and push her to spend more time with a certain guy if I saw her addicted to him and unable to hide her desire for him. I'm not in the lifestyle with my current partner but I would not mind getting into it the same way that you two got into it.

Thanks for the update