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When I was a Police officer, a couple of the other officers would have me call my wife to let her know they were coming over. This happened on the night shift. I would cover their zone until they said they were back. One neighbor asked about the police car being parked at my home when I was at work. I told them my wife was being paid to help with their college papers.
I find it exciting that someone wanted to fuck my wife. My wife was shy, and she only dated me. She loved that other men found her attractive. Even if they stopped by for a fast fuck, she loved it.

I have often given this some thought and there isn't one individual thing that I can pinpoint, but my submissive side seems to be a prominent factor.

I have always been quite submissive in sexual settings, no doubt because my dick is so small, so I tended to assume the role of the sub. I always have done that. Even when I dated I always allowed my girlfriends to have most of the control in the relationship and bedroom. Most of them cheated or openly slept with other guys too.

As a husband I really love seeing her get fucked. I love seeing other men enjoy my wife and I love seeing her enjoy herself and them. I enjoy the lack of control it represents. Even if I told my wife I didn't want her to fuck other guys anymore, she still would, and I would accept that.

I didn't realize until later in life that I had always been drawn to girls who had a reputation for being slutty. Nearly every girl I dated all through school was known for being easy. Somewhere in my subconcious I was just drawn to them.

I can't pinpoint the reasons 100% but I have a few theories:

• Jealousy greatly turns me on.

• The feeling of no longer being in control and having to accept unfavorable situations that I would normally avoid if I were be in control as usual.

• Living a promiscuous life vicariously through my partner

I find it that when those three elements are combined, I am at my peak cuckold moment and enjoy every part of those 3 working together.

Jealousy:
I love the jealousy that she provokes when she gives other mean things that I should get as her partner. This can be acts such as giving him/them more of her time, dressing more special for him , or giving herself to him sexually in ways I have never gotten, no longer get, or very rarely get.

No longer in control:
It's a crazy huge turn on for me when she takes control and takes me for a wild ride. When She no longer asks me or consults with me. She becomes fully autonomous meaning that she decides what, where, when, how. If she wants to sleep with a certain man/men, wants to spend the night, go on vacation with another man, wants to date freely and frequently, wants to have an official boyfriend or two, then I am simply informed of her decision. I find out when tells me.

Living promiscuity through her:
Love it when she doesn't hold back and isn't afraid to pile up sex partners. I find it that the more men who have had my partner undressed and have gotten to intimately know her body in ways that only I as her partner should know, the more attractive she becomes go me. This doesn't have to be about quantity but also quality or simply going outside of our relationship.

When you combine those three, I'm in cuckold heaven. An example is that she takes all control from me by dictating her sex life and relationship approach, this in turn leaves me feeling jealous when when I see that she has decided to fully reserve herself for another man and this reminds me at all times that she is being promiscuous by giving herself to another man completely without restrictions and without me having a say. It's a win-win situation as she gets to be single and be with men while she has her cuckold for safety. As a cuckold I simply accept her decision but I also get my arousal and companion out of it.

One last bonus element, I see it as a compliment when men admire and want my partner. Seeing her being desired makes me proud and I love that it serves as an ego booster to her and I reminder that I am a very lucky man to have such an attractive woman by my side.

It's hard to pinpoint exactly what makes me love being a cuck. I wish I was able to satisfy my wife but with my tiny cock it's impossible so I really enjoy knowing my wife is being satisfied sexually. I am glad she only has one person that she sees and fucks on a regular basis. I have all my life been submissive and being a cuck helps me fulfill my submissive tendencies so my wife is being satisfied sexually and I am being satisfied in my own way.

submissivedanny wrote: ↑

Thu Oct 30, 2025 8:40 am

It's hard to pinpoint exactly what makes me love being a cuck. I wish I was able to satisfy my wife but with my tiny cock it's impossible so I really enjoy knowing my wife is being satisfied sexually. I am glad she only has one person that she sees and fucks on a regular basis. I have all my life been submissive and being a cuck helps me fulfill my submissive tendencies so my wife is being satisfied sexually and I am being satisfied in my own way.

Pencil dick cuckold here, love to watch her having intense sex with her well hung BF's. Eating her cum filled pussy is what I crave and receive.

stubbyhubby wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 29, 2025 5:43 am

I have often given this some thought and there isn't one individual thing that I can pinpoint, but my submissive side seems to be a prominent factor.

I have always been quite submissive in sexual settings, no doubt because my dick is so small, so I tended to assume the role of the sub. I always have done that. Even when I dated I always allowed my girlfriends to have most of the control in the relationship and bedroom. Most of them cheated or openly slept with other guys too.

As a husband I really love seeing her get fucked. I love seeing other men enjoy my wife and I love seeing her enjoy herself and them. I enjoy the lack of control it represents. Even if I told my wife I didn't want her to fuck other guys anymore, she still would, and I would accept that.

I didn't realize until later in life that I had always been drawn to girls who had a reputation for being slutty. Nearly every girl I dated all through school was known for being easy. Somewhere in my subconcious I was just drawn to them.

"I enjoy the lack of control it represents.I love that line and so agree. Mine is 63, admired the "slut" girls in school but was from such a conservative family she was too timid to come out. I have so enjoyed helping her on her journey, for the past 4 years she has fucked a play date about every 7 to 10 days.

stubbyhubby wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 29, 2025 5:43 am

I have often given this some thought and there isn't one individual thing that I can pinpoint, but my submissive side seems to be a prominent factor.

I have always been quite submissive in sexual settings, no doubt because my dick is so small, so I tended to assume the role of the sub. I always have done that. Even when I dated I always allowed my girlfriends to have most of the control in the relationship and bedroom. Most of them cheated or openly slept with other guys too.

As a husband I really love seeing her get fucked. I love seeing other men enjoy my wife and I love seeing her enjoy herself and them. I enjoy the lack of control it represents. Even if I told my wife I didn't want her to fuck other guys anymore, she still would, and I would accept that.

I didn't realize until later in life that I had always been drawn to girls who had a reputation for being slutty. Nearly every girl I dated all through school was known for being easy. Somewhere in my subconcious I was just drawn to them.

"I enjoy the lack of control it represents.I love that line and so agree. Mine is 63, admired the "slut" girls in school but was from such a conservative family she was too timid to come out. I have so enjoyed helping her on her journey, for the past 4 years she has fucked a play date about every 7 to 10 days.

The arousal. Being cucked is like popping a double dose of viagra. I had a girlfriend once not come home. I keow why, I've never cum so many times in one day ever. Caught my lovely wife cheating in 2018 I've been in a permanent state of arousal since. Its almost 2026!

It is so incredibly arousing. I think it is mainly the humiliation and emasculation coupled with the frustration. It is hugely thrilling, often like an adrenaline rush. It is like an addiction I can't shake. At the time, if I'm allowed to jerk off, my orgasms are really powerful, far more intense than actual sex with a woman. Afterwards, maybe after a couple of days, I can feel ashamed, frustrated and regretful and sometimes I think I don't want Dottie to keep doing it, I want it all to stop and for us to be proper lovers again. But then I kind of know I can't fulfil her like her lovers can. And then, when Dottie brings her lover back home for sex the next time, its like a drug addiction, in my head I might not want it and I might even hate the idea of it, but I'm so addicted to it and it feels so right that I am just compelled to go along with it all again. It is not something I want, but nature must take its course and the urge to serve her bull and submit to life as a cuck is too strong to resist.

Loserpaul wrote: ↑

Mon Nov 03, 2025 2:13 am

It is so incredibly arousing. I think it is mainly the humiliation and emasculation coupled with the frustration. It is hugely thrilling, often like an adrenaline rush. It is like an addiction I can't shake. At the time, if I'm allowed to jerk off, my orgasms are really powerful, far more intense than actual sex with a woman. Afterwards, maybe after a couple of days, I can feel ashamed, frustrated and regretful and sometimes I think I don't want Dottie to keep doing it, I want it all to stop and for us to be proper lovers again. But then I kind of know I can't fulfil her like her lovers can. And then, when Dottie brings her lover back home for sex the next time, its like a drug addiction, in my head I might not want it and I might even hate the idea of it, but I'm so addicted to it and it feels so right that I am just compelled to go along with it all again. It is not something I want, but nature must take its course and the urge to serve her bull and submit to life as a cuck is too strong to resist.

You sum it up rather well. I both want and need the humiliation and emasculation coupled with he frustration.

surry wrote: ↑

Wed Oct 29, 2025 4:54 am

When I was a Police officer, a couple of the other officers would have me call my wife to let her know they were coming over. This happened on the night shift. I would cover their zone until they said they were back. One neighbor asked about the police car being parked at my home when I was at work. I told them my wife was being paid to help with their college papers.
I find it exciting that someone wanted to fuck my wife. My wife was shy, and she only dated me. She loved that other men found her attractive. Even if they stopped by for a fast fuck, she loved it.

I don't know that it's love for being cuckolded that drives our experience. It just kind of the natural way of things for us. My wife discovered that she likes a certain kind of man, and it is a man who is very different from the man that I am. I don't want to lose her, so I have learned to accept the things that she needs to make her happy. I guess I came around to liking something about it.
It just sort of seems like the natural thing.

I absolutely love seeing my wife get the pleasure she sometimes needs from a man with a bigger and thicker cock. The different and intense orgasm that only a guy who is well endowed can give her. It's a beautiful thing for me to witness. Her toes curling, eyes rolling back in her head as she is stretched and filled. Giving her physically what I just cannot.

Loserpaul wrote: ↑

Mon Nov 03, 2025 2:13 am

It is so incredibly arousing. I think it is mainly the humiliation and emasculation coupled with the frustration. It is hugely thrilling, often like an adrenaline rush. It is like an addiction I can't shake. At the time, if I'm allowed to jerk off, my orgasms are really powerful, far more intense than actual sex with a woman. Afterwards, maybe after a couple of days, I can feel ashamed, frustrated and regretful and sometimes I think I don't want Dottie to keep doing it, I want it all to stop and for us to be proper lovers again. But then I kind of know I can't fulfil her like her lovers can. And then, when Dottie brings her lover back home for sex the next time, its like a drug addiction, in my head I might not want it and I might even hate the idea of it, but I'm so addicted to it and it feels so right that I am just compelled to go along with it all again. It is not something I want, but nature must take its course and the urge to serve her bull and submit to life as a cuck is too strong to resist.

Exactly--the heady combination of humiliation and emasculation, all the more so now that I am totally pussy free (caged into the bargain), reminded every day by her that she will never ever let me fuck her again. (Or anyone else for that matter.)

For me it is two things that make it the perfect life for me:

1) I am a masculine Alpha type man in my normal life and always in charge. The pressure of all that fades away when I accept my cuck role and let her make all the decisions and let my submissive side out. It is relaxing to not be in charge.

2) Seeing my wife let her naughty side out and truly enjoy the sex that I cant give her. Seeing her be slutty and enjoy much larger cocks, younger men, and the stamina that i no longer have. Knowing that she is getting al the pleasure she wants, because she gets to decide how often and with whom.

oklacuck1972 wrote: ↑

Tue Nov 04, 2025 5:55 am

For me it is two things that make it the perfect life for me:

1) I am a masculine Alpha type man in my normal life and always in charge. The pressure of all that fades away when I accept my cuck role and let her make all the decisions and let my submissive side out. It is relaxing to not be in charge.

2) Seeing my wife let her naughty side out and truly enjoy the sex that I cant give her. Seeing her be slutty and enjoy much larger cocks, younger men, and the stamina that i no longer have. Knowing that she is getting al the pleasure she wants, because she gets to decide how often and with whom.

Well said. To Point #1 I would add, I find the humiliation aspect to be a very exciting element. It is a huge turn-on to know that my only existence in the bedroom is to be used for their mutual, selfish pleasure.

tn_cpl_4bull wrote: ↑

Tue Nov 04, 2025 10:43 am

oklacuck1972 wrote: ↑

Tue Nov 04, 2025 5:55 am

For me it is two things that make it the perfect life for me:

1) I am a masculine Alpha type man in my normal life and always in charge. The pressure of all that fades away when I accept my cuck role and let her make all the decisions and let my submissive side out. It is relaxing to not be in charge.

2) Seeing my wife let her naughty side out and truly enjoy the sex that I cant give her. Seeing her be slutty and enjoy much larger cocks, younger men, and the stamina that i no longer have. Knowing that she is getting al the pleasure she wants, because she gets to decide how often and with whom.

Well said. To Point #1 I would add, I find the humiliation aspect to be a very exciting element. It is a huge turn-on to know that my only existence in the bedroom is to be used for their mutual, selfish pleasure.

I agree, the humiliation aspect is huge. Knowing that I am not man enough to truly please her like she needs and that she needs a Bull to give her the fucking that she craves.

oklacuck1972 wrote: ↑

Tue Nov 04, 2025 5:55 am

For me it is two things that make it the perfect life for me:

1) I am a masculine Alpha type man in my normal life and always in charge. The pressure of all that fades away when I accept my cuck role and let her make all the decisions and let my submissive side out. It is relaxing to not be in charge.

2) Seeing my wife let her naughty side out and truly enjoy the sex that I cant give her. Seeing her be slutty and enjoy much larger cocks, younger men, and the stamina that i no longer have. Knowing that she is getting al the pleasure she wants, because she gets to decide how often and with whom.

This is exactly how I feel. Loss of control is
#1 liberating. Being caged, submissive and pussy-free is the most intoxicating mind fuck ever.

I love the combination of jealousy and humiliation

Loserpaul wrote: ↑

Mon Nov 03, 2025 2:13 am

It is not something I want, but nature must take its course and the urge to serve her bull and submit to life as a cuck is too strong to resist.

It's the "nature must take its course" comment that sums it up for me. I don't like it. I don't want it. But nature has planted a seed inside me that makes it exciting so I don't resist it

Her confidence which opens up so much more for her.

I love that our lifestyle makes us live on the edge. The sluttier my wife is the happier and hornier I get. To vanilla contacts and family she is a confident, sexy and professional woman. Seeing her mix with vanilla contacts while knowing she has fucked hundreds of men and women is mindblowing for me. But finally, to see the glow she gets from being a hotwife is everything for me.