Could be happening
Posted: Sun Dec 07, 2025 6:57 am
Long time lurker and thought I’d share what’s going on. My wife is 39 and I’m 38. I’ve had cuckold fantasies for a long time and my wife knows about them but has always said she isn’t interested and that it will never happen. However, that might be changing.
I know everyone wants to know what she looks like so I used ChatGPT to find her celebrity look a like. It said the best match is Mandy Moore in the later seasons of “This is us.” Also, I don’t want to use our real names (for obvious reasons) so I’ll call her Rebecca (which was Moore’s character name in the show).
Back to the story…. So she had been acting strange for a few months. And back in October I confronted her about it. I basically just asked her if there was anything she needed to tell me and that she had been acting strange for a few weeks. She told me for some reason she started flirting with a guy from work, Mike (not his real name either), and the two had been texting a flirting a lot since late July. She said nothing physical has happened, besides a hug, and that she felt super guilty about it all. She let me read through the text messages and it didn’t seem like anything physical happened and she’s never lied to me before so I believe her. However, there was a lot of flirting and innuendo in there. Well I was upset, mainly more at the deception than the actual flirting and she agreed to stop talking to him.
Fast forward to a few days ago and I was getting a weird vibe from her again. I went through her texts while she was in the shower (I know I shouldn’t have, but I did). And I saw a text from Mike which just said “mmmm”. There were no other texts in the thread so she obviously deleted their convo. The next day while she was at work I texted her and asked her if anything was going on again with her and Mike. She said no and got upset. Then texted me that we needed to talk later.
Later we sat down and I told her I went through her phone and what I saw. She then admitted she had only stopped talking to Mike for about a week. She said they’re more just like flirty friends and that nothing physical has happened still. We talked for a while and came to the agreement that she could keep him as a friend and flirt but she had to be open with me about everything. She seemed relieved now she doesn’t have to actually hide their messages from me or if she sees him. She did admit they’re both attracted to each other and she wants to kiss him, but hasn’t yet. She also said that he told her if she wanted more out of their relationship he wouldn’t say no to anything.
So today she’s going Christmas shopping and he’s going to try to meet her while she’s out. Unfortunately this morning she said she wanted to make a rule that we don’t talk about any of this over text. This is kind of a bummer and hopefully I can get her to loosen this up later depending on how things go. Anyway, she just left the house and said she would text “I have to go run an errand,” if she’s able to meet up with him. She will also send me 3 hearts if anything happens between them. I’ll have to find out the details later in person.
Typing this out on my phone while trying to watch our two kids so hopefully it makes sense.
I know everyone wants to know what she looks like so I used ChatGPT to find her celebrity look a like. It said the best match is Mandy Moore in the later seasons of “This is us.” Also, I don’t want to use our real names (for obvious reasons) so I’ll call her Rebecca (which was Moore’s character name in the show).
Back to the story…. So she had been acting strange for a few months. And back in October I confronted her about it. I basically just asked her if there was anything she needed to tell me and that she had been acting strange for a few weeks. She told me for some reason she started flirting with a guy from work, Mike (not his real name either), and the two had been texting a flirting a lot since late July. She said nothing physical has happened, besides a hug, and that she felt super guilty about it all. She let me read through the text messages and it didn’t seem like anything physical happened and she’s never lied to me before so I believe her. However, there was a lot of flirting and innuendo in there. Well I was upset, mainly more at the deception than the actual flirting and she agreed to stop talking to him.
Fast forward to a few days ago and I was getting a weird vibe from her again. I went through her texts while she was in the shower (I know I shouldn’t have, but I did). And I saw a text from Mike which just said “mmmm”. There were no other texts in the thread so she obviously deleted their convo. The next day while she was at work I texted her and asked her if anything was going on again with her and Mike. She said no and got upset. Then texted me that we needed to talk later.
Later we sat down and I told her I went through her phone and what I saw. She then admitted she had only stopped talking to Mike for about a week. She said they’re more just like flirty friends and that nothing physical has happened still. We talked for a while and came to the agreement that she could keep him as a friend and flirt but she had to be open with me about everything. She seemed relieved now she doesn’t have to actually hide their messages from me or if she sees him. She did admit they’re both attracted to each other and she wants to kiss him, but hasn’t yet. She also said that he told her if she wanted more out of their relationship he wouldn’t say no to anything.
So today she’s going Christmas shopping and he’s going to try to meet her while she’s out. Unfortunately this morning she said she wanted to make a rule that we don’t talk about any of this over text. This is kind of a bummer and hopefully I can get her to loosen this up later depending on how things go. Anyway, she just left the house and said she would text “I have to go run an errand,” if she’s able to meet up with him. She will also send me 3 hearts if anything happens between them. I’ll have to find out the details later in person.
Typing this out on my phone while trying to watch our two kids so hopefully it makes sense.