Life when well into the hotwife relationship - sometimes different than the fantasy

[stevens4fun]

I’ve been very lucky in my marriages – been married more than once and each of my wives liked to play, although at different levels. My wife and I are older now, but both of us have experienced threesomes with extra males in our bed and we found we preferred longer term relationships with an extra male for her – it kept her feeling good and kept me horny. Speaking only of my current wife of 30 years, - although she had three 9 year or more relationships within our marriage, she would also engage in the occasional “one-night stand” with the right guy. For my wife, these relationships were a source of orgasms on a consistent basis (she doesn’t orgasm with me inside her) and excitement. I loved hearing about her trysts and our sex life was improved as a result.

Each of my wife’s lovers was a married male and a friend. Coworkers she knew well. All were good looking, with at least average equipment, but most important, they were fun and intelligent guys who knew how to treat a lady. In the event she conceived with one of them we wanted guys who we wouldn’t mind having in our lives as we raised the child. Thus, nice guys we could and did explain to family as co-workers.

As much as we like the fine videos at some of the hotwife or alternative lifestyle sites, the vids don’t always portray the hotwife/cuckold/polyamorous relationships work for a married couple over time. It isn’t always a “first time,” and the fun doesn’t always take place on top of the bed where it can be video’d or photographed by hubby. Sometimes there’s little foreplay. I’m not so sure reality could ever be portrayed accurately, but here goes! The wife doesn't always greet her lover in heels, and a hot outfit - although that scenario adds incredible heat to an already hot situation!

When my wife’s lover was staying with us, I was sometimes invited to stay in bed with them, sometimes not. Either way, it was very exciting for me. But in many cases if the lover was spending the night with my wife in our home, they’d be sleeping together under the covers (especially in the winter time) in our marital bed and although they might have intercourse several times during the night, it was under the covers. If I was lucky enough to be offered seconds or called to join them and clean her or make love to her while her lover recovered it was an extra special night. On a weekend, my wife and I would have sex all morning after her lover left (they ideally had sex with her before he left). On work days, sex didn’t often happen in the morning although my wife loved (and still likes) feeling cum running out during the day. It can be pretty hectic with three people all getting ready for work at the same time.

Many times, my wife’s lover would arrive after we’d already gone to bed. While she'd invited him to do so, it was sometimes awkward on a work night! And.....She wasn’t dressed in heels and sexy lingerie when he arrived, - she would be nude or in a nightgown. Might even be asleep already! She loved being woke up by a lover with a raging hard on, already naked, next to her in bed.

Over time we preferred her lovers shower before jumping into bed with her, but sometimes that doesn’t happen – the sex takes place immediately. On the weekend, my wife and her lover would sometimes shower together, as foreplay.

As a hubby with a wife who enjoys a long term lover – one has to be prepared to NOT see much of the action, and be adatable to schedule changes - the thrill comes with knowing what is happening, and the possibility of enjoying the wife afterwards if she’s still in the mood. Once again, I’m a lucky guy. If my wife has been satisfied by her lover and isn’t in the mood, she still visits me in the other bedroom and invites me to enter her and cum as quickly as possible. She will come into the room to “kiss me goodnight,” guide my hand to her slippery and dripping vagina and climb on top of me or straddle my face, then return to her lover. It’s win-win for everybody, but we don't get much sleep.

[36DDwife]

Interesting read. Did any of your previous wives like to hit it & quit it? Or did they all do the steady FWB thing?