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With her being an exhibitionist at times it surprises me they never talked her into a strip club.
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You mean that your surprised that I never suggested it? It never crossed my mind actually. I don’t think I’d be for that and definitely know she would notPhotofunshop wrote: ↑Thu Jul 03, 2025 1:42 pmWith her being an exhibitionist at times it surprises me they never talked her into a strip club.
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My wife once went to a Strip club with me and was surprised by the guys and girls flirting with her. That was before I found out about her photos.
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You were concerned that the running an ad approach made it more transactional. It seems like the applicants felt the same way.
I can see why both these new guys wanted a 'date'. It would be a good way to develop a more romantic atmosphere.
And the date was set!
SO exciting!
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I can see why both these new guys wanted a 'date'. It would be a good way to develop a more romantic atmosphere.
And the date was set!

SO exciting!
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Wow ... this sounds promising. Can't wait to hear more about how things progress with Jen and Austin.
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I’m glad you’re updating again. Thank you!
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Bust…
For some reason the date was hard to schedule. And Jen started to get resentful. It was like pulling back on a gift. As time dragged on into January they communicated less and less to the point where Jen lost interest all together.
And this is the point, January 16, 2024, at which we received the most dreadful news. Her mom had developed an aggressive form of cancer. The rest of 2024 was spent traveling back and forth to Maryland to see her mom and family. All of our activities of any kind stopped. Our time was spent working, working out and traveling south. It was a very painful period. Jen’s Mom passed just before Thanksgiving. Life slowly started to regain some normalcy after that. So that’s all I need to report on that timeframe.
After the Thanksgiving holiday, which we spent in Maryland with her family, we began to discuss and entertain getting back to some excitement in our sexual lives. We had been very intimate with each other regularly throughout 2024 but our hotwife type desires had been placed on hold. In the month of December we read a lot, particularly on Reddit, about hotwife and cuckolding life styles. Other peoples experiences. These reads gave us a lot of ideas. We DM’d with different Redditors about our encounters and likewise theirs as well. It was very enlightening.
BTW, Jen does not know I am posting on this site nor has she ever seen this site, at least that I know of. She is not one to search for this sort of thing on the net, it is more myself bringing it to her.
But the pain of the loss was still fresh and we did not explore anything for the remainder of 2024.
For some reason the date was hard to schedule. And Jen started to get resentful. It was like pulling back on a gift. As time dragged on into January they communicated less and less to the point where Jen lost interest all together.
And this is the point, January 16, 2024, at which we received the most dreadful news. Her mom had developed an aggressive form of cancer. The rest of 2024 was spent traveling back and forth to Maryland to see her mom and family. All of our activities of any kind stopped. Our time was spent working, working out and traveling south. It was a very painful period. Jen’s Mom passed just before Thanksgiving. Life slowly started to regain some normalcy after that. So that’s all I need to report on that timeframe.
After the Thanksgiving holiday, which we spent in Maryland with her family, we began to discuss and entertain getting back to some excitement in our sexual lives. We had been very intimate with each other regularly throughout 2024 but our hotwife type desires had been placed on hold. In the month of December we read a lot, particularly on Reddit, about hotwife and cuckolding life styles. Other peoples experiences. These reads gave us a lot of ideas. We DM’d with different Redditors about our encounters and likewise theirs as well. It was very enlightening.
BTW, Jen does not know I am posting on this site nor has she ever seen this site, at least that I know of. She is not one to search for this sort of thing on the net, it is more myself bringing it to her.
But the pain of the loss was still fresh and we did not explore anything for the remainder of 2024.
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Aruba!…
January 19th we left for Aruba on a much needed get away. I surprised Jen with this trip. She needed some distraction from our tumultuous 2024. 7 days at an all inclusive resort. We had flown to Florida on the 18th and stayed at an hotel near the airport in Miami. The next morning we caught a flight to the island.
Neither of us had been to Aruba before. Our room at the resort was on the third floor of a four story hotel looking over two rectangular pools and the blue waters of the ocean a short distance away. We went to the beach after settling in to our accommodations. Free food and booze, we indulged. We went to dinner that night and had a few more drinks and I could tell that this was just what Jen needed. After dinner we went to one of the pools and relaxed with some more cocktails. Of course we had passionate sex when we retired to our room.
The next morning we rented some electric bikes and toured some of the island. When we returned we hit the beach again. She wore her green bikini that day (day 2) and I just was awash in admiration of how sexy she looked. And I was aware that I was not the only one looking at her. At noon we went and had lunch, a cocktail and then took a short nap in our room. We then went to some shops and walked around taking in some of the amenities of the island.
Around two o’clock we went to the pool that was below our room and sat at the canopy bar drinking some fruity drinks and occasionally taking a swim. After an hour of sipping cocktails and lounging by the pool we sat back at the canopy bar to get out of the sun for a while. At some point I noticed Jen looking across the pool, staring really. Curiosity got the best of me and I looked in the direction of her gaze. And there he was. A stud of a guy sitting on the edge of the pool on the opposite side with a drink in his hand. He seemed about my age. Jen saw me looking and smiled at me. She said to me “where do you think his wife is?” I looked around and then looked back at him and noticed no wedding ring on his hand. My reply to her was “you must mean his girlfriend, he has no wedding band.” She immediately looked back at him to confirm my observation.
For an hour she intently watched him. Waiting on his female companion to show up. At one point he came over to our bar to get a fresh drink and she/we got a better look at him. Dude was ripped. Taller than me, maybe 6’1” or so. He went back to the spot he was sitting previously, occasionally taking a swim. Jen could not break her gaze, she was intently looking at him. And her nipples were on the high beam setting!
I teased her. “Take a swim in front of him”. She said that he must be here with a SO, it is a resort after all.
January 19th we left for Aruba on a much needed get away. I surprised Jen with this trip. She needed some distraction from our tumultuous 2024. 7 days at an all inclusive resort. We had flown to Florida on the 18th and stayed at an hotel near the airport in Miami. The next morning we caught a flight to the island.
Neither of us had been to Aruba before. Our room at the resort was on the third floor of a four story hotel looking over two rectangular pools and the blue waters of the ocean a short distance away. We went to the beach after settling in to our accommodations. Free food and booze, we indulged. We went to dinner that night and had a few more drinks and I could tell that this was just what Jen needed. After dinner we went to one of the pools and relaxed with some more cocktails. Of course we had passionate sex when we retired to our room.
The next morning we rented some electric bikes and toured some of the island. When we returned we hit the beach again. She wore her green bikini that day (day 2) and I just was awash in admiration of how sexy she looked. And I was aware that I was not the only one looking at her. At noon we went and had lunch, a cocktail and then took a short nap in our room. We then went to some shops and walked around taking in some of the amenities of the island.
Around two o’clock we went to the pool that was below our room and sat at the canopy bar drinking some fruity drinks and occasionally taking a swim. After an hour of sipping cocktails and lounging by the pool we sat back at the canopy bar to get out of the sun for a while. At some point I noticed Jen looking across the pool, staring really. Curiosity got the best of me and I looked in the direction of her gaze. And there he was. A stud of a guy sitting on the edge of the pool on the opposite side with a drink in his hand. He seemed about my age. Jen saw me looking and smiled at me. She said to me “where do you think his wife is?” I looked around and then looked back at him and noticed no wedding ring on his hand. My reply to her was “you must mean his girlfriend, he has no wedding band.” She immediately looked back at him to confirm my observation.
For an hour she intently watched him. Waiting on his female companion to show up. At one point he came over to our bar to get a fresh drink and she/we got a better look at him. Dude was ripped. Taller than me, maybe 6’1” or so. He went back to the spot he was sitting previously, occasionally taking a swim. Jen could not break her gaze, she was intently looking at him. And her nipples were on the high beam setting!
I teased her. “Take a swim in front of him”. She said that he must be here with a SO, it is a resort after all.
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I appreciate the difficulty in finding a really good match. One might think that our willingness to share our hotwives would attract enough interest among potential bulls/lovers and make finding a good guy (or two) pretty easy. First we have some fakes. They seem good but communication slows or maybe they ghost you after making a date. Then there are those who look good but cannot get hard of perform,which is more of a problem for older guys. Some just have a personality that doesn't fit.
So finding the right guy for MFM wife sharing takes awhile and some effort....especially if you are seeking someone for a long-term relationship, which is our strong preference.
So finding the right guy for MFM wife sharing takes awhile and some effort....especially if you are seeking someone for a long-term relationship, which is our strong preference.