Our story part 1

[alan137]

Hi everyone,

As the husband I have written our story from my perspective. It is not intended to be a literary master piece but a true reflection of our journey.

It was the mid 70s when I felt the first I felt the first stirring of wanting my wife to have sex with other men. But it was to be many years before that desire, that fantasy, became reality.

I'm sure like many others before me, the desire had been hidden in my subconscious but it surfaced in a volcanic like eruption when I read a story in the old Forum magazine. You know the ones, letters and stories from readers. Well, I read a story about a guy catching his wife having sex with another man, and, as usual in these stories, he didn't get mad - he got horny.

Well, so did I. I clearly remembered thinking and even saying out load. That is what I want. I am a voyeur and I knew in that moment that I want my wife to have sex with other men and I wanted to watch her.

And so it was and the dreams began.

For the next 30 years that's all I could do. Dream about her with other men. One day many years later, I dragged up the courage to share my fantasy with her as we were making love. She didn't respond to me at all.

However, like most males I guess, I didn't understand the meaning of finesse, patience, and the softly softly take it easy approach. Of course I over did it and she told me to stop bringing the subject up. She got annoyed and stated that she did not want another man. I was all she needed.

So my dream may have gone to ground again but the of the fantasy increased and grew in intensity until it had pretty much become an obsession, an obsession that has never gone away.

In the days before the internet material on this subject was very limited and most of it was rubbish. But it was rubbish that I was hungry for and I devoured every story I could find.

This went on for many years and strength of the fantasy varied. I had an affair with another married lady. She was also desperate for some spice in her sex life. However, I didn't like the guilt that went with the affair and I ended it. She understood.

I also realised that my true dream was for my lovely wife to be in bed with another man or men. There, I said it - men as in plural.

And then along came the Internet like a knight is shining armour. Of course, with even more material to read you can guess what happened to my dormant fantasy.

Yes, it ignited like a fire fuelled with gasoline. The desire for my wife to go to bed with other men started to burn so bright that I began to consider ways to turn my dream into reality.

The Internet provided a wonderful outlet for me. I found a site called our hot wives and I started chatting with several men and women. I found that I wasn't suck a freak after all. A lot of men have the dream of sharing and watching their wives have sex with other men.

Whew, what a relief!

I chatted with husbands and their wives and found out that my fantasy was being lived by other couples. I learned a lot and received some very good advice. Unfortunately that site closed. It took me a long time to find a similar site called Our hot wives forum. If you have this dream, male, female or a couple not sure how or if you want to proceed this forum is terrific.

I received a lot of wise advice from both husbands and wives. Be careful what you wish for. Be patient, proceed slowly and with great care. Do not push her but let her proceed at her own pace.

One day I decided to broach the subject again. Well, it didn't go well. She went ballistic and that was the end of that for another few years.

However, I didn't give up and when the desire began to burn within me again I decided another try was called for.

One of the husbands on the forum suggested that I read a book called 'Mating In Captivity'. I did and that was the turning point.

I can't recall the exact words I used but the message was there are two people in our marriage. I have this fantasy and I need to be able to talk about it and have fun with it. I would like you to read this book and then go away with me for a weekend where we can talk about it without argument.

We ant away for the weekend and arrived at a compromise. She said that she would never go to bed with another man and that it would remain a fantasy but she would explore it more with me.

She agreed to chat with a couple from the hot wives forum website but wouldn't chat with any local men.

It was with a great deal of hope that I put her in touch with the two couple. One of the main battles for my wife is her conservative upbringing. Not overly religious but the influence was still strong.

It was in the days of sex before marriage just didn't happen. Well, it was serenely discouraged anyway and the fear of pregnancy was always present. In those days unwed mothers were shunned by society.

It was the couple she was chatting to that helped her thought this barrier, and although it was still present, she was able to let some of the guilt and social conditioning go. I will be eternally grateful to that couple that help us so much.

After chatting for a couple of times over a day or two my wife started shutting with a guy from overseas and when she came to bed she was hot and super turned on. She was loving stand so was I.

One night I went into the room while she was chatting and she was sitting there topless. Wonderful! I went up to her and stood behind her cupping her breasts and realised that she had the webcam on and was chatting with a man. WOW, instant hard on for me and the mental rush I experienced was fantastic.

She looked up at me and I leaned in and kissed her.

I read the screen and the guy had asked her to completely undress and to stand up. She had responded in the negative but I encouraged for to do it for him and for herself. "Not while you're here" she said. So I left the room with a raging erection.

Some time later she came to bed and we made love in a w ay that we never had before. What I mean is that the emotional and psychological intensity was probable even stinger than on our honeymoon.

This was the first indication that of my dream, my fantasy would become reality. Was I ready for it? Oh yes, I was more than ready.

[roadrunner]

I hope there is more to come!

[Foot69loose]

I second Roadrunners request for more!