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Well, let's see - we were both 23(!) and both still virgins. It was our wedding night, 1974. It was lousy sex. It was almost consensual rape. It was also extremely significant for both of us. We are still married - yes, to each other. (Although I occasionally remind her of the list I'm keeping of all the things my NEXT wife will, or will not, do.)

We had planned ahead - our wedding was 1:00 in the afternoon especially so that we could have a reception, and start making love at a decent hour. We had known each other for about a year, and been engaged for 10 months. In the last few months of the engagement we had done just about "everything but . . .". I helped her to her first orgasm (her thighs around my ears) and she had done me orally, manually, and dry humping so we weren't exactly ignorant of each others' responses.

We had talked about postponing it, but I think we both knew we were going to do it. We got to our room about 7:00 pm and started deep kissing before the door latched. She gave me a choice: she'd get into one of her "honeymoon nighties", or I could undress her, or she could undress herself (while I waited in the bathroom - I never quite understood that part!) and wait for me under the covers. I selected the nightie. She went to the bathroom to get ready, and I got into pajamas and waited on the bed.

She came out wearing a yellow gauze creation that was only faintly see-through. We talked and stalled a bit. We read each other some love poetry (not original) and Bible verses. This wasn't agreed upon beforehand - we each intended to surprise the other with this romantic touch. We embraced and started necking. Probably 30 - 45 minutes later the clothes were off and I was eating her. After a LONG time of this (we agree that it was 15 minutes or more) I was frustrated that I couldn't bring her to climax, as I'd intended immediately before entry.
(During our lovemaking while engaged I had noticed how open and wet she was immediately after orgasm, and knew that was the best time to enter her. I also knew that it took only 5 - 10 minutes to bring her to climax.)

She said, "I'm ready." Big (sexual) mistake! I should have known she wasn't ready. She probably knew she wasn't. We put a pillow under her bottom and put KY Jelly onto our genitals. From some book we had read together we thought these steps would make it better. She raised her knees and spread her thighs. I'd never been so excited - pounding heart, dry mouth, etc. I climbed on top. She hugged me and I tried to make entrance.


It hurt! I couldn't find the opening! I mashed my cock head against something. OUCH! I thrust and bent my erection. Extreme OUCH!! I was embarrassed, frustrated and impatient. Eventually, I found what felt like the right place. I knew I wasn't really in - my cock head was painfully pinched. When I tried to push in, she'd pull back. When I pulled back, she moved with me so I never could get a run at her.

After 5 - 10 minutes of this we were both tense, frustrated, embarrassed and sore. This was NOT what either of us expected. I paused to catch my breath. We looked into each others' faces, without a clue of what to say or do. I should have rolled off and started a long session of cuddling and fondling. But I felt her relax just a little, and without thinking about it or meaning to I rotated my hips in a full circle. I didn't actually feel her tear, but I felt myself slip in.

She felt it too. She didn't scream, but she definitely vocalized her physical discomfort. She jerked and pulled her knees up, toward her chest, trying to squirm away. Bad tactic - it made everything line up just right, and I went all the way in. Again, not that I planned it, it was just the way we were positioned, how she moved, where my weight was, etc.

I HAD NEVER FELT ANYTHING SO GOOD!

She began to cry.

GOD IT FELT GREAT!

I thought, "I'm raping my virgin lover on our wedding night.".

THIS FEELS SO WONDERFUL THAT SHE MUST CERTAINLY FEEL IT TOO!

Instinctively, I started stroking. She was sobbing. Mercifully, I only lasted about 30 seconds, probably half a dozen strokes.

The contractions were still running through me when I felt ashamed and sorry for what I'd done. I uncoupled quickly, and saw what a bloody mess we'd made. Previously, while she was getting dressed to be undressed, I had run warm water in the sink and had a washcloth and towel ready. It was probably the only thing I did right, although I expected to be cleaning up love juices rather than blood. Nevertheless I spent a long time bathing her genitals in warm water and assuring her that I loved her (which was true) and she was a great sex partner (as if I really knew!) and it was everything I'd hoped it would be (I should have been struck by lightning for telling that whopper!). We cuddled for a long time - she didn't say many words, but her body recited an eloquent love poem.

About 11:00 we went down to the coffee shop and had ice cream. While sitting there, she noticed a slightly pink stain in the crotch of her white shorts. Thinking her period had come a week early (she's always been very irregular) we hurried back to the room. Well, that's not what it was. In all of our sex education, nobody had pointed out that "what goes in, must come out", and her maidenhead was bidding an oh-so-faint farewell. She came out of the bathroom with no pants on, and said "Let's do it again.".

The second time was much better. We were more relaxed, unpressured, and we put her on top. The next day, on our fourth session, she finally had her first married orgasm. It was from cunnilingus, not intercourse, but we were both pleased with that. (It was almost a week before she started coming from fucking.) All told we did it 5 times in the first 24 hours of our marriage - and haven't kept count since.

Since you shared your story I'll share mine!! ANd I totally know what you're talking BELIEVE ME!!!

Mr. P and I had been dating forever and he of course began bugging me for sex!! Now before I get into the graphics do know I was glad Mr. P had sexual experience reason why was because I was virgin and very frightened about sex because my mother raved and raved about how the first time a girl has sex its the MOST painful thing you can imagine! I thought this was a scare tactic to keep me a virgin BUT when I asked my older sisters about it they both shook their heads in total agreement! So I knew there was truth in it! Popping the "cherry" was gonna hurt like hell and I knew it in advance! So I didn't wanna be with a man that had no idea on how to handle things correctly..Which was why I didn't care he had a few people before me. Anyhow, after months and months of waiting Mr.P grew bothersome.. "When are we gonna do it baby?? Come on please!!! Am I gonnna have to wait till I'm an old man? Come on!! Come on!! Give me, give me!!!!" So I told him the famous words all women tell a man when they are putting off sex because they are scared, "I want it to be special." So Mr. P created every damn date SOOOOO darn special that once we got our hands on each other it was, "I think tonights special don't you sweetie?" ARGH!!!!! Then I'd say something else like the location was wrong anything I could think of!! Then he got down to brass tax with me, "It's because your scared it's gonna hurt?" WELL YEAH!!!! "I'll do it slow, I promise!!! I won't hurt you I swear!!!" I was like, "It's not you I'm worried so much about it's that dick of yours!" So tried conning me into believe it would feel equal to being fingered! The man was trying anything now! I was like no it won't your dick is not the size of your damn finger buddy NICE TRY! Then after many moons pasted and he worked on getting me so worked up with foreplay I finally said it.. "I've decided we will have sex on Easter when your mother is at church and no one is home. That is the correct time to do it." The man about hit the roof in excitement! "I'll make it perfect!! I promise! You'll see sweetheart!" ok ,ok Sunday it is! So Sunday rolls around and I buy this pretty lil bra and pantie set that matches all pretty and head over his house in the cutest lil sundress! He saw me and we headed to the sofa he was all over me like white on rice trying as fast as he could to get me naked! So then we head to the bedroom and he's got candles burning etc...I took a deep breath and said to myself WE ARE DOING THIS!!! So we get on the bed and he knows exactly where to put it and then I feel it! OMG it felt like a knife inside me I swear to GOD! I make this loud sound and he goes "relax, relax.. I promise it gets better.. " ANd I go OH NO IT WON'T!!! OUT!!!!OUT, OUT !!"After maybe 5 mins of bearing it!! And I get all mad and crying and I yelled at him calling him names, "You lied!!You said it wouldn't hurt that much!" Man I made him feel like shit he was soooo upset!! He ran and made me a hot bath too and kept telling me he was sorry it hurt and next time it wasn't going to hurt at all..And I go YOU think there's gonna be a next time? HA! NO WAY!I'm never having sex ever ever again!" He goes, "Next time I swear it won't you have no cherry now! We just have to wait till your not sore!I promise sweetie!" So I take a bath and get over the shock of it all and we end the day on a good note! The very next day he was bright eyed and bushy tailed asking me, "feel any better?" And I was like "Yes but you're not getting any so don't even try it!" So he just looked down at the floor and said, "Ok but I promise it will be different this time!" And I knew he was probably right BUT I was still mad at his dick really not so much him! So days later we do it again and OMG it was awesome and I say, "That felt sooo good!!! All I had to do was get rid of the cherry and now it's working right!! YAY!" Then he was all like, "I told ya so babydoll wanna do it again?"

That wasn't my wedding night and I'm glad it wasn't! BUT it was when I lost it!

I voted no, I wish she was a virgin. I was a teenager. My first time and in love. We already had talked about protection. She had already told me she was with three other guys. That hurt, well, just cuz. Our first night, I tried to enter, and she was "closed up". Tried and tried. Couldn't get it in. Was she that tight or I that big? No, because we screwed a thousand times over the next year or so.

So she proceeded to give me a blow job to completion, which was fantastic. And now, to this day, decades later, that is the only time, ever, I have come from a blow job. I don't understand, but later girlfriends and wives - none can get me off orally. Other departments AOK.

wifeishot wrote: I don't understand, but later girlfriends and wives - none can get me off orally. Other departments AOK.

Me too.. I seriously wish it was THAT easy to get me OFF orally!!! But- It takes alot of SKILL and a person during there homework!!!! 5 to 10 min's JUST isn't cutting it!!!! YOU'RE barely opening the door!!!!! I admitted to Mr. P at age 25 I had never really came orallly! He made it his mission in life to do! At that point I wasn't interested in oral sex because I'd never had an orgasim from it! Mr. P was a lil annoyed at me for lying about that! BUT I didn't wanna be a person that said, "OMG I'm not cumming from that! I realize you're working hard BUT" I mean JEEZ, who wants that kinda pressure?? Well he turned it into a puzzel and he was gonna figure that puzzel out! That man did sooooooooo much "homework" he turned himself into the master! And one day he did it and my legs shook like crazy!!!I didn't know anything could feel so good! Mr. P was the first person to make me cum ORALLY!! And holds the title! It's not something that can be done by the common JOE BLOW! It takes a master! I swear! Men brag they have skills doing this BUT it's not easy if they believe EVERYTHING you say now.. Sometimes we ladies say things because we realize THAT AINT WORKIN' so please fuck me!!!!-Maybe that will work? I had a guy with a tongue ring once brag and tell me he was the bomb at that... ONE dayI allowed him to try.. NO DICE!!! Nothing special!!! Where's Mr.P????

mrs_palmetto wrote:

wifeishot wrote: I don't understand, but later girlfriends and wives - none can get me off orally. Other departments AOK.

Me too.. I seriously wish it was THAT easy to get me OFF orally!!! But- It takes alot of SKILL and a person during there homework!!!! 5 to 10 min's JUST isn't cutting it!!!! YOU'RE barely opening the door!!!!! I admitted to Mr. P at age 25 I had never really came orallly! He made it his mission in life to do! At that point I wasn't interested in oral sex because I'd never had an orgasim from it! Mr. P was a lil annoyed at me for lying about that! BUT I didn't wanna be a person that said, "OMG I'm not cumming from that! I realize you're working hard BUT" I mean JEEZ, who wants that kinda pressure?? Well he turned it into a puzzel and he was gonna figure that puzzel out! That man did sooooooooo much "homework" he turned himself into the master! And one day he did it and my legs shook like crazy!!!I didn't know anything could feel so good! Mr. P was the first person to make me cum ORALLY!! And holds the title! It's not something that can be done by the common JOE BLOW! It takes a master! I swear! Men brag they have skills doing this BUT it's not easy if they believe EVERYTHING you say now.. Sometimes we ladies say things because we realize THAT AINT WORKIN' so please fuck me!!!!-Maybe that will work? I had a guy with a tongue ring once brag and tell me he was the bomb at that... ONE dayI allowed him to try.. NO DICE!!! Nothing special!!! Where's Mr.P????

Mrs P, your major problem is a thicker skin covering your clit. I have only had one woman who had this problem and said she had never had an orgasm in her life so I made it my mission to give her one. Her covering was so thick that you could actually bite down on it before she started feeling anything. But between that and a couple fingers inside where I found her g-spot and between the two she had her first orgasm ever. Poor woman, I do not know if she ever had another one but I advised her to talk to her obgyn and have that skin cut, which is the common fix, so that her little head would come out and be a little more sensitive.

Hmmm.. Interesting.. I'll have someone check for me!!! I always thought it was because men don't do it right or long enough...

mrs_palmetto wrote:Hmmm.. Interesting.. I'll have someone check for me!!! I always thought it was because men don't do it right or long enough...

Tisk Tisk You're not saying that us guys are lacking in some of the finer skills ..are ya???lol

mrs_palmetto wrote:Hmmm.. Interesting.. I'll have someone check for me!!! I always thought it was because men don't do it right or long enough...

Think of it as a man's foreskin over the head of his cock. If it does not pull back then he will also have a problem cumming. Women have that same foreskin but it also normally pulls back but in some cases it actually grows shut in which case you need a small sharp knife.

allengt wrote: in some cases it actually grows shut in which case you need a small sharp knife.

Allengt- Are you a Dr.? That sounds highly educated about a particular subject! I doubt most people could pull that outta their brain on a whim.

mrs_palmetto wrote:

allengt wrote: in some cases it actually grows shut in which case you need a small sharp knife.

Allengt- Are you a Dr.? That sounds highly educated about a particular subject! I doubt most people could pull that outta their brain on a whim.

Maybe it is just 57 years of OJT You will find out that I am correct when you talk to your OBGYN or in other words pussy doctor.

"On the job training" huh? Yep, that's what I thought! BTW- when I was a kid I asked my mom what an OB was and she referred to it the same "A pussy Dr!" I was like OMG you said "pussy!"

Well back to the subject at hand (Not trying to hi-jack) I was in fact glad and not upset my first sexual experience was with a person that wasn't a virgin. I wanted him to KNOW the deal! BTW- I could've been MR.P's first BUT I knew he was a virgin when I met him and decided he should "Destory and concur" Someone else until he was "serious" and not about the booty! He magically found his way back and wanted "More" from a person.. Then I was ready to playball!

I still think to this day it was a well played move on my part! Had I been his first he'd have cheated and ruined everything because he'd still wanna explore other options!

My first time was with my fiancee in college. It was her first time as well. What helped lessen the pain for her was that our first position was with her on top. She slowly lowered herself on me. This allow her to contro how much she took in and let her pause to catch her breath when it got too painful.

ericsacto wrote:My first time was with my fiancee in college. It was her first time as well. What helped lessen the pain for her was that our first position was with her on top. She slowly lowered herself on me. This allow her to contro how much she took in and let her pause to catch her breath when it got too painful.

The second time we did it (shortly after the first time) we started with her on top and it went much better for her.

How long did you last on your first time?

My wife and I have talked about it, and psychologically I think she needed the discomfort to know that she was being "taken", and used for my pleasure.

I didn't last long the first time. I kept asking her to slow down.

ericsacto wrote:I didn't last long the first time. I kept asking her to slow down.

I once met an older lady at a swinger's party, who claimed that she had taken the virginity of several young guys. She said that one of the cutest things was watching their faces as they tried to avoid cumming so soon - and she made sure it always happened quickly. (I had just experienced her pussy muscles, and I KNEW she could make it happen!)

insert_8 wrote:How long did you last on your first time?

My wife and I have talked about it, and psychologically I think she needed the discomfort to know that she was being "taken", and used for my pleasure.

I didn't allow it to happen any longer than maybe 5-10 min's I'm gonna say more like 5 I think I'm being nice to myself by even saying 5 to 10.. I'm not the kinda person to not complain about "discomfort" Even if I'm sorta excepting it..
My second time went so much better!!! I think my "pouting" and saying "NO" allowed my body enough time to heal the "popped" cherry sorta speak.. I became agreeable again and the second time was NOTHING like the first! I was very into it and I don't remember any further issues... :-p

None of the responses above apply to us?
I took my wife’s cherry when we were 19 and had been going together just over a year. When we met she knew absolutely nothing about sex (she was a very strict Church going Catholic), she honestly thought that every time a woman had sex she had a baby “and that her mother must have been a very sexy woman as she had six children” (her Mother was also a very strict Catholic), I had to buy sex education books to educate my wife to be about sex.
We had been petting heaver and heaver as time went on, we snuck a day off work together and had the house to ourselves, as we were getting hotter and hotter she said “let’s do it’, honestly I reasoned with her that once it was done we could never undo it, and eh still wanted to do it, so who was I to refuse?
It was almost clinical the way we went about it the first time, it hurt her a little bit and she bled a little (I had been with other women before her and she knew) and she kept asking me if it was normal and I assured her it was. Then after the first time was out of the way she wanted to get on with it and actually said “now let’s get into it”, and did we ever, their was a lot we had read in the sex education books she wanted to try out.
We married at 21 (her father would not let her get married until she was 21) he said it would not last, we had our family at 28 and 30. Then through an old school friend of ours and his wife we joined a nudist club where their was an underground swinging movement we soon found out (this was back in the 70’s), we soon became friends with other swingers and I let the wife know that I was interested in joining in with them. It took a lot of talking but eventually when we were 35 and had been married 15 years she went with her first ever other guy, and as a result we have spent the last 30 + years in and out of the swinging, her being a hot wife with other guys and M F M threesomes scene, and have loved it all.
We are now late (very late) 60’s (won’t be able to say that much longer), we have been married almost 50 years, are still very much in love, and believe it or not we still have a very active sex life.
And they said it would not last!
PS she was 45 and met a young guy she was keen on, she went with him and took his cherry, so we are even at a cherry each.
PPS My wife never ever touches Alcohol, everything she has done she has done stone cold sober, “out of pure lust I tell her”.

rick181au wrote:None of the responses above apply to us?
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My opinion (for what it's worth) is this...

You were your wife's first sex partner, and you indicated that you were not a virgin, and she was aware of that. So she could pick one of the "No" answers, depending on if she was glad you were experienced. My guess from what you've written is that she was, but it's not specified directly.

As for your answer, we can't say. You say that your wife wasn't your first, but unless I missed it you don't say anything else about it. Was that other "first" woman a virgin? And do you wish she had been or not?

Ultimately, of course, it's your call.

Thanks for sharing your early experiences with your wife! I'm glad to hear she learned to enjoy sex as much as she wants to!

We have made up for it several times over!

rick181au wrote: PS she was 45 and met a young guy she was keen on, she went with him and took his cherry, so we are even at a cherry each.

I am especially interested in older women who devirginize much younger guys - especially guys young enough to be their son. (I understand that in a few cultures this is the norm.)

Was she mainly attracted to the guy, and his virginity was just incidental - or did his virginity play a significant part in her desire to have sex with him? Did she do anything special to enhance his physiological experience, such as oral to completion before her vagina enveloped him, or a position other than missionary? Was it a one-time coupling, a few days relationship, or longer? To your knowledge, did the guy develop a significant emotional attachment?

roadrunner wrote:

rick181au wrote:None of the responses above apply to us?
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My opinion (for what it's worth) is this...

You were your wife's first sex partner, and you indicated that you were not a virgin, and she was aware of that. So she could pick one of the "No" answers, depending on if she was glad you were experienced. My guess from what you've written is that she was, but it's not specified directly.

As for your answer, we can't say. You say that your wife wasn't your first, but unless I missed it you don't say anything else about it. Was that other "first" woman a virgin? And do you wish she had been or not?

Ultimately, of course, it's your call.

Thanks for sharing your early experiences with your wife! I'm glad to hear she learned to enjoy sex as much as she wants to!

Sorry about the delay in replying to this.
Yes I was my wife’s fist sex partner, going from what she told me (and I believe her) I was the first one to make any headway with her sexually owing to the fact that she was a very strict church going Catholic girl who went to church with her family at least three times a week, she honestly thought that every time a woman had sex she had a baby (and that her mother must have been a very sexy woman as she had three children) “the Catholic church has a lot to answer for”, any time she went out with a boy before me if he even tried to touch her intimately that was it, end of date.
We started going together just before our 18th birthdays (we are both almost the same age, she is two months older than me), we must have been close to 19 when after sneaking a few feels of her breasts at different times one night in the car parking she opened her top and told me they were mine forever, we got engaged when we were 19 and I took her cherry not long after that, we were 20 me, and 21 her when we got married, her father would not let us get married until she was 21.
As for my wife not being my first, when I was 15 I moved interstate to live and work with an Uncle (Mothers brother who was a bachelor) in his Café. One night when we were cleaning up we got talking about sex and he asked me if I had ever been with a woman or girl to which I replied NO, he then asked me if I would like to and I replied YES naturally.
The next time we went into the city we stopped off at a house and went inside where I was introduced to two women, one late teens and the other in her 40’s, I was told that the young one would look after me and the uncle went off with the older woman, the younger one sure did look after me, she started off by grabbing my crutch and saying “lets see what we have here”, later while I was still on the job “I think I was going for it for the third time” with the young one the Uncle and the older woman walked in on us and the older woman said that she would like some of my young cock, so off we went “to me the older woman was the better fuck.
We visited them often after that time and we did it all ways I can think of including foursomes, the Uncle also had other women he was seeing and I was introduced to them, some I played with others were not interested, by this time I had a girlfriend as well.
Just before I finished working with him we were in the café cleaning up one night and one of the women that worked for him who was in her 50’s and I knew he was fucking her, he started getting frisky with her, it ended up he dared me to fuck her, and I did, so that gave me a pretty early start sexually in life before I was 16.
I hope that answers your question.

Thanks for filling in the details, rick181au.