I finally took the plunge, or how I became a hotwife
- sandra dee
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I finally took the plunge, or how I became a hotwife
I will try not to be too wordy but I do have a lot to tell about how I finally became a hotwife. This is also my first thread so I am a bit nervous but here goes:
My journey into this lifestyle has come with a lot of ups and downs. It all started about 2 ½ years ago when on a long weekend without kids in South Beach, FL my husband surprised me with a gift of teeny tiny bikini. On this trip he started to encourage me to flaunt and flirt with whomever I thought was cute. This was really confusing to me and I truly thought he must have an ulterior motive. It was not until j3play introduced me to this forum that I understood what he wanted and found out that we are not the only people in the world with this fantasy.
Since then we have had a few near misses on sexy trips to Jamaica, Mexico and date nights in the city. I have truly enjoyed the excitement and attention I received on these occasions but I had also been a bit gun shy to go all the way through with it. In a recent thread another member of the forum had mentioned going to an on premise club to meet and play. This idea intrigued me. I thought this might be a good way to jump off the bridge, so finally with some coordination of schedules and lining up babysitting we were able to take a weekend trip to TJ’s lasting impressions in PA.
We were not sure what to expect since we have never been to a place like this before, but we were extremely impressed. The club was clean, spacious, and had great atmosphere. We had quite the adventure. J3play helped to pick out a very skimpy dress just for the occasion. I felt very sexy. Once we got there, TJ’s was playing some good music and since I love to dance, hubby and I headed to the dance floor to get down and dirty. By the time we stepped off the dance floor we had a small audience. I have always found black men very attractive and when two started flirting and dancing with me it drove me nuts. Soon one of them started whispering dirty thoughts in my ear which was making me very hot. I couldn’t stand it any longer so I grabbed his hand and went to find my hubby (who was off getting drinks). We headed for a private room. I lay back on the bed and spread my legs. He said “wow” and went down on me. Little did I know his other friend had followed us back to the room to. Don’t get me wrong - I was not disappointed by this. Next thing I know he is offering his beautiful cock to me. Needless to say I took it in my mouth. This has also been a big fantasy of mine. Never did I think I would get the opportunity to have my first MFM on the same night as my first HW experience! Wow, what a hot experience. I have always imagined it would be extremely stimulating to have one person inside of me and one in my mouth – very naughty. I was not disappointed to say in the least. After a few rounds and back and forth, I was completely spent. Hubby completely enjoyed the show. Afterward, we headed to the roman style hot tub to relax, connect and relive my first experience. We had so much fun that night they almost had to kick us out at the end of the night.
Since we live almost 4 hours away from TJ’s we had decided to make a weekend out of our adventure. The next night was a SLS party. Given that we are not swingers we were not sure what the crowd would be like that night, but we decided since we had so much fun the previous night the worst that could happen is we would meet some interesting people to party with. Well not long after we arrived we met two brothers who I had the hots for. Again we started out dancing and flirting, they both seemed to be interested in me. What a lucky girl I am. After some fondling and flirting on the dance floor I got brave enough to ask one of them if he would be interested in finding a little more privacy with me. I also got the nerve to ask him if his brother would be interested in joining us. His brother jumped at the opportunity. Once we found a room we got down to business - I grabbed one of them and practically ripped off his pants. While I was bending over taking off his pants the other brother grabbed me by the hips and entered me from behind. He was very well hung, the biggest I have ever experienced. What an awesome surprise! It was amazing. After swapping back and forth and changing positions a few times I was in need of a break, so hubby and I again headed back to the hot tub for some us time. We did not stay much longer. I was whipped out.
Well I hope you all enjoy reading about my first experience as much as I did experiencing it. We had a very successful trip and I finally jumped.
My journey into this lifestyle has come with a lot of ups and downs. It all started about 2 ½ years ago when on a long weekend without kids in South Beach, FL my husband surprised me with a gift of teeny tiny bikini. On this trip he started to encourage me to flaunt and flirt with whomever I thought was cute. This was really confusing to me and I truly thought he must have an ulterior motive. It was not until j3play introduced me to this forum that I understood what he wanted and found out that we are not the only people in the world with this fantasy.
Since then we have had a few near misses on sexy trips to Jamaica, Mexico and date nights in the city. I have truly enjoyed the excitement and attention I received on these occasions but I had also been a bit gun shy to go all the way through with it. In a recent thread another member of the forum had mentioned going to an on premise club to meet and play. This idea intrigued me. I thought this might be a good way to jump off the bridge, so finally with some coordination of schedules and lining up babysitting we were able to take a weekend trip to TJ’s lasting impressions in PA.
We were not sure what to expect since we have never been to a place like this before, but we were extremely impressed. The club was clean, spacious, and had great atmosphere. We had quite the adventure. J3play helped to pick out a very skimpy dress just for the occasion. I felt very sexy. Once we got there, TJ’s was playing some good music and since I love to dance, hubby and I headed to the dance floor to get down and dirty. By the time we stepped off the dance floor we had a small audience. I have always found black men very attractive and when two started flirting and dancing with me it drove me nuts. Soon one of them started whispering dirty thoughts in my ear which was making me very hot. I couldn’t stand it any longer so I grabbed his hand and went to find my hubby (who was off getting drinks). We headed for a private room. I lay back on the bed and spread my legs. He said “wow” and went down on me. Little did I know his other friend had followed us back to the room to. Don’t get me wrong - I was not disappointed by this. Next thing I know he is offering his beautiful cock to me. Needless to say I took it in my mouth. This has also been a big fantasy of mine. Never did I think I would get the opportunity to have my first MFM on the same night as my first HW experience! Wow, what a hot experience. I have always imagined it would be extremely stimulating to have one person inside of me and one in my mouth – very naughty. I was not disappointed to say in the least. After a few rounds and back and forth, I was completely spent. Hubby completely enjoyed the show. Afterward, we headed to the roman style hot tub to relax, connect and relive my first experience. We had so much fun that night they almost had to kick us out at the end of the night.
Since we live almost 4 hours away from TJ’s we had decided to make a weekend out of our adventure. The next night was a SLS party. Given that we are not swingers we were not sure what the crowd would be like that night, but we decided since we had so much fun the previous night the worst that could happen is we would meet some interesting people to party with. Well not long after we arrived we met two brothers who I had the hots for. Again we started out dancing and flirting, they both seemed to be interested in me. What a lucky girl I am. After some fondling and flirting on the dance floor I got brave enough to ask one of them if he would be interested in finding a little more privacy with me. I also got the nerve to ask him if his brother would be interested in joining us. His brother jumped at the opportunity. Once we found a room we got down to business - I grabbed one of them and practically ripped off his pants. While I was bending over taking off his pants the other brother grabbed me by the hips and entered me from behind. He was very well hung, the biggest I have ever experienced. What an awesome surprise! It was amazing. After swapping back and forth and changing positions a few times I was in need of a break, so hubby and I again headed back to the hot tub for some us time. We did not stay much longer. I was whipped out.
Well I hope you all enjoy reading about my first experience as much as I did experiencing it. We had a very successful trip and I finally jumped.
Re: I finally took the plunge, or how I became a hotwife
Sandra Dee, Awesome story! Have you been back to TJ's?
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- sandra dee
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Re: I finally took the plunge, or how I became a hotwife
We have not been back to TJ's yet, but we hope to get back there in March/ April.
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Re: I finally took the plunge, or how I became a hotwife
Great story Sandra! Have been to several clubs in the area, but not to TJ's yet. Have heard it's a nice place, so let us know how the follow up visit goes.
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Re: I finally took the plunge, or how I became a hotwife
Very hot! story.
MFM is a great way to start.

MFM is a great way to start.
Mr Butterfly
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Re: I finally took the plunge, or how I became a hotwife
Thanks Sandra dee ,for sharing that with us. It would be great to know what your hubbys take on this has been. Does the reality match up to his fantasy. Are the dynamics of your relationship changing ? This scenario is a constant fantasy of mine.
Re: I finally took the plunge, or how I became a hotwife
That is one HOT story and actually a fantasy my wife has involving two brothers, one she's already been intimate with. 
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Re: I finally took the plunge, or how I became a hotwife
Great story...you might want to ask Ms Rocket about her "brothers story" when we meet in Vegas. In fact, the event took place in Vegas!
We are looking forward to meeting everyone who will be able to make the trip to Vegas.
Rocketman
We are looking forward to meeting everyone who will be able to make the trip to Vegas.
Rocketman
Re: I finally took the plunge, or how I became a hotwife
just plain ...wow! great story!
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Re: I finally took the plunge, or how I became a hotwife
thanks for the story. like my wife says, once in the water you might as well swim...we were at TJ's once and feel the same about it...its a great club for couples as well as meeting that extra male...cher had her first HW experience with a black man there too and i couldn't have asked for a more easy guy to be with..we both loved the experience and will be back again next time we can
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Re: I finally took the plunge, or how I became a hotwife
What a lovely experience!
A gorgeous woman like you deserves no less!
Please keep us posted.

A gorgeous woman like you deserves no less!
Please keep us posted.
Schwiiiiing ... Thud! (Projectile erection becomes vicious uppercut KO!)
Re: I finally took the plunge, or how I became a hotwife
Another classic from days long gone
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