Body Image - What men really think is sexy

[Tryagain]

I have no set ideals for what I find attractive in women (or men for that matter) but I have noticed that as I’ve gotten older I find younger women less sexually appealing, not unattractive but I find it difficult to look at a woman under 30 and think of her in a sexual way. Other than that I can look at a lot of different people and see things that turn me on. Also I never used to like how breast enhancements look but now find them fascinatingly attractive, especially if it’s quite obvious they are fake

I totally agree with your first comment. Re very young women - 20s early 30s - they no longer are as appealing sexually as well shaped mature women. So it is not just me, huh?

But as for my appreciation of breasts, large/very large implants are not just sexy to me. I have felt them and they are hard - and no bounce. Give me some mature sagging (not too sagging ) breasts anytime!

[Tryagain]

And maybe I differ from most of the guys here who love the "natural" look, but I absolutely love all make up. Give me a slutty look every time :-)

[RoyalStingray]

For me I think a big part of it is perceived effort. Now I'm a man of the classics - I like fine wine and good cheese, I like 20's swing and cozy jazz, I like rich whisky and I like black and white films. I've often been called an old soul trapped in a young man's body - though I'm not sure "trapped" is the word I'd use...

I bring this up because for me, dress makes a big difference. I personally like to cut a sharp figure for myself. A suit that fits well, with polished shoes. Tasteful cufflinks and bracers. That sort of thing. I like to put in the effort to look classy, and I just love it when a woman can reciprocate. An elegant dress with similar heels, a pair of nice earrings and a necklace that bring out her eyes. Even simple things like a tidy hairdo make a big impression on me - I can't help but think, wow! This woman's made a real effort to impress me, and impress me she has. Nothing quite says "I want you" like being finely dressed for no other reason than to make a good first impression.

Statistically speaking, I think older women tend to be better at this. A lot of women closer to my age seem to go for whatever makes their breasts look best, whatever gives me least to imagine with regard to the shape or size of their rear! While there's nothing wrong with that style of fashion, it just can't hold a candle to a sleek and sexy cocktail dress for me. That kind of thing misses out on all the grace and elegance that I love so much.