Our Hotwives

This is a true story....

I first met Niki when she moved into a house share. She's from Northern Europe (one of the Baltic States) gorgeous and very petite, about 5'3" tall, size 6-8, long wavy Auburn hair. She is intelligent and sophisticated yet humble and down to earth. A great sense of humour and a very subtle, innate sexiness.

I had recently split from my second wife (and three year old daughter) and definitely wasn't looking for any sort of relationship, Niki had also just split from a difficult long term relationship, so was also in 'recovery mode'.

She was friendly and we spoke in passing, but she spent most of her time after work in her room, whilst I spent most of my time in the communal lounge, most times with the other two guys that lived in the house.

She'd been there about a month when I went down with flu (proper flu), Niki was really caring and brought me soup on several occasions. This demonstrated her caring side, I was beginning to think she was truly an angel lol.

It was at the beginning of December that Niki started to spend more and more time in the lounge – it transpired that her laptop had packed up, so she was resigned to watching the tv in the lounge.

Niki was friendly to us all, and I thought, enjoyed the attention she received from the three of us, but in my opinion, never showed any particular interest in any of us.

There were a few stand out features that I always noticed with Niki, her ice blue eyes, soft, but with an intelligent spark; her slim but shapely hips, her long slim legs, but her sexiest feature for me was her perfectly smooth forearms. I've always had a thing about smooth, clear, hair free skin.

Christmas came – Christmas is always so much nicer when a woman is around because they insist on a Christmas tree, decorations and smelly candles – us guys just don't bother unless to please a woman!

The Christmas holiday presented time for all of us to get to know Niki better, things were very relaxed and good fun, but in my opinion, she wasn't giving any signals that she was interested in any of us.

New Year's eve loomed, I casually asked Niki what she was up to, she replied that she had offers but wasn't sure that she could be bothered with any of them. I found myself in a similar situation, almost preferring the thought of staying in on my own rather than all the hassle of travelling in to central London to meet friends – my head still not totally in the right place due to my still recent relationship breakdown. So I suggested that if she ended up going nowhere, we should perhaps go for a drink at the local pub, which was less than fifty metres down the road.

Unbeknown to me, the two other guys had asked her to accompany them to wherever they were going. Niki never mentioned my offer again and I really wasn't expecting her to accept – especially as the local (old boy's) pub wasn't the most inspiring New Year Eve's venue!

New Year's Eve.

One of the house guys went out, then the other, leaving just me and Niki at home, 'so what's your plans then?' I asked Niki casually, 'I'll probably go for a drink with you' was her reply. I was surprised and very pleased, but I genuinely didn't expect anything other than just a friendly drink.

The pub was quite good, a DJ playing some good tunes, everyone friendly and in good spirits. I had seen during the last month or so that Niki wasn't much of a drinker, but she was 'working hard' tonight - knocking back the Budweisers like a true pro!

As we already knew each other quite well so chat was easy and relaxed. We had a bit of a dance and were having a good laugh, but I swear that never once did it cross my mind that this was going to go any further than just a drink between two friends. But then a slow tune came on during which we leaned in to each other and started kissing. It was a long, deep passionate kiss, that didn't stop!

After what seemed like forever (but probably only five or ten minutes) I suggested we should head back home as we were probably making a bit of a spectacle of ourselves – Niki agreed.

We were home within two minutes and we continued where we left off on the sofa in the lounge. One of the guys came home and caught us in the middle of a very passionate embrace, he wasn't amused, and we even ended up having a bit of pushing and shoving! So I suggested to Niki we carry on upstairs – we went to her bedroom.

Things got more and more passionate, but I kept reassuring her that I would stop at any point that she felt was far enough - I've never been pushy with girls, and it has always served me well.

Smiling I asked if I could undo one button on her blouse, 'just one?' she asked. 'Yes, just one' I replied. I undid the bottom button. After a bit more kissing I asked 'can I undo one button of your blouse?' - she laughed, 'just one?' she asked, 'yes, just one' I replied. Slowly I carried on asking her if it was ok, she carried on agreeing until her blouse was completely undone. She has an unusual skin colour, very light in colour but with a beige hue - I complemented her on this, and remarked how nice it contrasted to the black lacey bra she had on.

Up until now I had been laying on my back with Niki straddling me. I wriggled out from beneath her, moved round and sat behind her. I put my arms around her and kissed her neck, nuzzled behind her ears. Little did I know this was her 'trigger'. I could tell by her reactions that I was hitting the spot therefore I continued, adding some very soft bites to her neck and ear lobes, which definitely produced the desired effect.

'Can I take your blouse off?' I asked. 'OK' she replied.

With her blouse gone, I wrapped my arms around her, whilst kissing her shoulders and upper back. I got hold of her bra catch, 'may I?' I asked. 'OK' she replied.

Before I undid the catch, I ran my hands down her neck and out across her shoulders taking her shoulder straps down. I undid the catch and ran my hands forward and under her tits, lifting her bra up and off.

I felt the hardness of her nipples. Pulling her backwards I got my first ever look at Niki's tits. They were superb, small but perfectly formed - her nipples were perfect, dark pink areolas which were perfect circles and exactly the right size. Her nipples were prominent and as hard as rock.

This whole night was going sky high, it was beyond perfection, it was a dream come true.

'Do you mind if I take my jeans off' I asked, 'things are getting a little tight'. 'No problem, go for it' she said. I stood up on the bed. 'Nice legs' she commented as I stepped out of my jeans, 'very sporty'. This was now going off the scale, how often does a gorgeous babe compliment a man!!

'Do you want to take your's off' I asked, extending my hand to her, to help her up. 'Sure' she said, taking my hand and pulling herself up.

Standing up her tits looked even better I've always been a quality over quantity man, and these were of the very best quality!

She undid her jeans, pulled them down and stepped out of them. She was wearing tiny black lace G string. I undid and pulled my shirt off, then pulled her to me, holding her tight and kissing her deeply.

I lowered her back on to the bed, I leaned forward and sucked on her right nipple - 'I don't really like that' she said.

Wow, she may as well have punched me in the eye, I came crashing back down to earth. 'OK' I said withdrawing.

To be continued....

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Perhaps I over reacted to Niki not wanting me to suck on her nipples, but it made me feel somewhat rejected and unsure of myself.

I asked her if she was still OK, she said she was, and seemed unperturbed as we continued kissing passionately.

Eventually we were both naked, I started to kiss down her stomach – she was quite hairy and I wouldn't have usually be so keen to give her a licking, but I was desperate to give this gorgeous woman the pleasure she deserved. As I got close to her pussy she held my head and said 'I don't really like that'

The second 'punch' really did it for me, I went from happy to anxious and hard to soft.

We did eventually 'make love' but it was more a fumble in the dark rather than the explosion of passion that the 'build up' had suggested.

While I was inside her she had her eyes firmly shut and was expressionless, I asked her if I was hitting any spots, her reply was that I shouldn't worry about her, just sort myself out. I suggested that she rubbed herself - 'I don't do that' was her reply.

Over the next few weeks sex continued with the same theme, no foreplay, no communication, no pleasure for Niki, she didn't seem to want or expect it.

We lived in the same house so we lived with each other from day one. We got on really well, were very affectionate with each other, but never any sexy talk, no discussion about sex. She had never had an orgasm, not from a lover nor from masturbation. So there was my challenge, if she would ever allow me to even try.....?

I knew deep down that Niki had a very sexy side, she oozed sex appeal, it was a matter of trying to find a way to unlock it.

There was one glimmer of hope – I had mentioned at some point that I used to go to a nude beach with a former partner. She actually said that she would like to try that! As it was still winter, that wasn't going to happen for at least 4 or 5 months, but the thought of her getting naked on the beach was a real turn on.

After a week or so, I asked Niki if she had ever shaved her pussy, she said that she never had, but she usually kept it a lot tidier than it currently was. I suggested she might try shaving it completely, she replied that she would think about it - so it was a maybe. I knew then, that this was going to be a very long project, and I was fine with that – she was well worth waiting for, no matter how long it took.

In the early spring we booked a cottage for a long weekend in the countryside (Derbyshire Dales). It was ideallyc, except (as usual) when it came to the bedroom. She would be wet, really wet, but she was still stiff , emotionless, silent and always with her eyes shut.

This was affecting me physically as I often couldn't maintain an erection. We even got close to our first argument over it, she basically said that if she didn't do it for me, then we should split up. I was so shocked, she totally did it for me, but everything about our sex life was causing me anxiety.

I told her I had to give her an orgasm before I could totally relax and enjoy myself – I didn't realize it at the time, but the key word was HAD.

'Well, if you have to then better that you do' she replied.

'Yeah, but I probably need to lick you, and you don't let me get anywhere near your pussy other than with my .... (I couldn't even bring myself to say cock)... boy.'

'Well if you really have to lick me, then do so'.

'Any chance I can at least give you a little trim up first?' I asked.

'Oh, OK no problem' she replied.

I imagined I was going to go to trim Niki's bush with a pair of scissors and was looking forward to what would be our first bit of foreplay! But Niki just disappeared into the bathroom. Oh well I thought, at least there was some progress.

Ten or fifteen minutes later, Niki emerged from the bathroom in just a short robe.

She stood in the lounge about two metres from me and dropped the robe. She had shaved completely!!

I was utterly flabbergasted – she had the most amazing pussy I had or have ever seen. A big vulva with two big, hanging lips. It really was a work of art, utterly gorgeous – but I could tell she wasn't that confident about it – I reassured her it was a thing of unparalleled beauty. I don't think anyone had seen it before, so had never been told how special it was.

I pushed her back on to the sofa, pushed her legs wide apart and went to work – I did my best job, but today wasn't going to be the day. But the upside was Niki really loved her pussy being shaved, she said it increased sensitivity, felt nicer and cleaner. Nearly nine years later, it has remained perfectly smooth ever since.

To be continued......

Slowly, slowly, Niki loosened up a little, but only to a certain point. At some point she had her first orgasm while I was rubbing her. Then she would orgasm from penetration but it didn't really change her overall attitude to sex as I hoped it might.

She liked to be licked and would orgasm from that, however the pleasure wasn't reciprocated, at some point she did start to suck me, but she would always finish me off by hand. She didn't want any cum on her and certainly not in her mouth.

She did get naked on the beach and I could tell she enjoyed it as we always had better sex afterward, which lead me to believe she had an exhibitionist streek. We once went with one of her friends who was staying with us, which was really hot - and we had a really good session when we got home.

She would often change with the curtains open (or partially open) and would comment that people could probably see her. I always told her not to worry about it, why not give someone a little joy.

I asked her if she was into girls, she said she enjoyed looking at them but wasn't 'into' them.


Weeks led to months, months to years, she would occasionally mention thet she couldn't believe that she had a relationship that had lasted more than a year - she explained that she liked a change. I would often comment that I didn't mind if she needed a change, I didn't mind sharing her.

I would occasionally ask her if she could handle two, she thought she couldn't and would add that she wasn't interested in threesomes so the conversation would go no further. I really wanted to know what pushed her buttons - I knew something would, just couldn't find it.

Things didn't really change during the next eight years - sexual conversations were rare, if at all. But I loved her and still found her as sexy as ever. I was sure there was a 'hotwife' hidden deep inside her.

So fast forward eight years - Niki had a masters degree in law (from her home country) but since coming to England had only worked in the service industry because she was only expecting to stay for a year, not ten. She had been working in a pharmacy for a couple of years when there was a managerial change and she started to really dislike it. One day I read about cam models, and joked she should give up the pharmacy and become a cam girl, at the same time showing her the newspaper article.

What surprised me was she actually sat down and read the article, though she speaks English fluently, she's never that keen to read in English.

We even had a conversation about about it and continued to talk about it over the next days and weeks. During one of her days off she logged in to the site mentioned in the article to do some research. When I came home from work I was amazed (and pleased) she actually seemed mildly enthusiastic about the idea.

The girls ranged from remaining fully dressed and chatting with their room guests to those giving full on double penetrative shows for their room guests.

She expressed some concern that she was 36, had small tits with a very unique pussy! I assured her that none of her concerns were valid as for many men 36 is a very sexy age, loads of men love small perky tits and as for her pussy that would surely be her biggest attraction!

We spoke about it for several more months (nothing happens quickly with Niki) and often used to watch the girls together to get an idea where she would 'fit' and what sort of show she could offer. Some girls only offered erotic striptease - and Niki thought that was the sort of thing she could do.

Niki's clothes were very conservative and designed to merge in with the background rather than stand out - mostly grey, blue and black jeans, with tops to match. One day I sat down with her and picked 6 or 7 very sexy dresses from an online store, some short, some mid length, but all clingy in order to show off her sexy, slim figure. She was very skeptical and was expecting to send them all back.

When they arrived she tried them on, and wow, she looked fantastic and I think for the first time in her life she actually realized how sexy she was/could be.

To be continued.....

Very nice so far. Look forward to the next instalment

Part 4.

So a few weeks passed, and the time came for Niki to appear for the first time as a cam girl. She was nervous but I could tell, she was excited too.

We had discussed that she would just tease the guys with a bit stripping and sexy dancing, and only show nudity in 'private' - this is where the guy takes her to a separate 'room' where only he can see her - and then she would strip for him. This costs the guy tokens ($) per minute.

Within minutes of broadcasting she was inundated with guys telling her how sexy, beautiful and gorgeous she was!

She was totally unprepared for the amount of interest she got. Guys were 'throwing' tokens at her, asking her to show her titties, ass and pussy. I was watching her as a guest in her room and was so turned on from watching her enjoying the attention and showing off her gorgeous little titties. At one point she was dancing for around seventy guys whilst wearing just a tiny black g string and a pair of high heels - she looked amazing and was totally enjoying herself - getting so much attention and being able to show off, which obviously appealed to her exhibitionist desires.

She only stayed on for 45 minutes, and although the guys were begging her to take her g string off she wouldn't - I think she thought I was unusual, and was the only one that would appreciate such a work of art.

When she closed the broadcast she was in fits of giggles, she couldn't believe what the guys had been writing to her, they wanted to watch her masturbate, they wanted her to watch them masturbate, does she like anal, does she have any dildos, does she like girls, does she like threesomes. She found it hilarious - all this from a girl who would never talk about sex!

I asked her if she was up for some action, she said she was - I pulled her close and pushed my hand straight down her knickers - she was soaking wet. We had one of our best ever sessions - which reinforced my notion that she just needed the right buttons to be pushed to really enjoy sex.

The next day she went on whilst I was at work - when I got home she was buzzing. She'd been on for about six hours and had hundreds of private messages from the guys. Over dinner she was asking me what was BDSM, SPH, JOI, DP, BJ, double vag, pegging - you name it she had been asked about it. So here we were discussing all sorts of kinks and fetishes over dinner - with the girl who would never speak about sex, not even in the bedroom! She seemed to find it quite amusing and certainly wasn't phased by it.

She had earned a good few dollars during the day (it's a US based site, which pays in dollars) - some of which were for a set of nude pictures. So my job after dinner was to take the pictures - I had been asking her (without success) to allow me that for eight years - now she was asking me!

She had never had or used any sex toys and wouldn't entertain any thought of them, but now she was asking me to purchase a variety of what ever I thought best.

She said that she needed to learn to masturbate as the guys wanted to buy a video of her doing it, so one of my future jobs was to video her masturbating - a duty I was more than happy to perform. To watch Niki masturbate for the first time ever, would be an absolute privilege and something I was very much looking forward to seeing.

A couple of days later the sex toys were delivered, she selected a thin rubber, vibrating dildo to perform her first ever masturbation. She was laying on the bed, I was standing with the video camera filming the action. But she was a bit nervous and couldn't relax, so not much was happening. I suggested she watched a bit of porn, again something that had never happened during our relationship before - she agreed.

I quickly set the laptop up, found a site and clicked on a random video. It was rubbish, tried another which wasn't much better. I eventually found one that was half reasonable and let it run. It seemed to be helping Niki a bit, but after another 10 minutes she suggested I try to find something better. I clicked around a bit and found an MFM video, as soon as it started to play Niki complained that she didn't like 3somes, so I should find something else. With all the stopping and starting the cam battery was getting low so I suggested she just chill, watch it for 5 minutes, and if it was really no good we would have to give it an hour or two for the cam to recharge. Reluctantly she agreed.

Well, within 3 or 4 minutes I could see it was doing the trick, within 5 or 6 she went off like a little rocket!

So Niki had her first video to sell and I had my first clue to what REALLY turned Niki on.

After a few weeks she was talking about how her guys wanted a boy/girl video. We tried to shoot one, but to record it and be in the action is nigh on impossible, especially as we wanted to make high quality videos. So I suggested Niki find someone to 'star' in it with her. At first she was shocked and thought I was joking. I explained I didn't have a problem with it, would rather produce the video than star in it and besides, she would enjoy a change. Perhaps the only thing I had worked out about her sexual preferences in the previous 8 years was that she would enjoy a change.

After several more discussions over the following days, with me affirming I wouldn't have a problem with it, she started to like the idea and said she would look for possible candidates during her camming. She said it would have to be more than a case of him just 'starring' in the video, he would have to be someone she genuinely found attractive on all levels, and would prefer to form a genuine, ongoing and long term friendship with him.

She would often have Skype sessions with her clients so could clearly see the guys. She found many that she found physically attractive and several, she felt a mental connection with but none that fulfilled both criteria, until she found one guy that lived in the US. During one of their conversations he mentioned that his number 1 fantasy was to have an MFM experience. Niki liked this guy, he was quick, intelligent and interesting. A day or two later she got to see him on cam and was also physically attracted to him.

She later asked me if I would be up for an MFM as well as just shooting the video! I of course agreed, I would love to give Niki a mind blowing experience. This has now become Niki's number 1 fantasy - probably her only fantasy, thus far.

Although we've all been in loads of conversations together, getting to know one another and discussing limits and scenarios, he's yet to make the trip. We've spent most of this year in Spain which makes the journey from the US even longer and more expensive, plus he's suffered some health issues. So, thus far her fantasy hasn't been realized.

She now rarely does the camming thing - it became really boring after about a year of it. She stays in touch with a few of her clients and still goes on very occasionally - I often think in the hope of finding a suitable candidate!

The end.

That cannot be the end surely! Please continue! !

That has to be frustrating for you both.

mathuranjali wrote:That cannot be the end surely! Please continue! !

LOL, well I suppose I was trying to explain the path from almost asexual to very sexy - she wants to be shared but it hasn't happened yet. So it is the end for the time being. I will post more if it happens, and I'm sure it will, just don't know when.

If you have other specific questions or other curiosities, fire away and I'll do my best to answer. Thanks for your comment, I actually thought no one was interested.

Lensman2000 wrote:That has to be frustrating for you both.

Yes it is, but I feel it is so important to find the right guy as I really want to give Niki a mind blowing experience, and that will only be achieved with the right guy, so he's worth waiting for - whoever that may be.

Niki (sort of) sounds like the kind of lady my own wife is (your Niki is far more tightly wrapped tho).
Scared to death about having sexual joy and liberation.
Thank you for sharing. :-)

rs480 wrote:Scared to death about having sexual joy and liberation.

Perfectly summed up in so few words - wish I could do that!

I didn't emphasis this enough, but the key to her release was that she FELT she HAD to shave her pussy / HAD to become a cam girl / HAD to have sex toys / HAD to watch porn / HAD to have sexy photos / HAD to masturbate / HAD to give me a proper BJ ( I even forgot to mention this - I'll add it to the story) HAD to make a B/G video etc.

When I say HAD to, it certainly wasn't a case of threats or her being forced into something she was otherwise uncomfortable with, it's more like the decision to cross the next taboo had been taken away from her and made by a third 'person' or some external 'pressure'.

Had it a been a REAL pressure, she would have fought and resisted.

Thanks for your comment because this was the real reason for me sharing our story, imo there's nothing more frustrating than being with a woman you truly love but not sharing the joy of sex. This story might help me to understand more and help others to find ways to unlock their own partner's passion.

It is unfair that you have stopped story updates... please continue.

Haha, unfortunately there's nothing to update. The guy that Niki met and liked online hasn't developed any further and is more or less finished now. She hasn't been camming lately and with that, her sexuality has subsided - I don't think she thinks about sex unless there's a catalyst.

I will try to get her back camming occasionally, as I think it's good for her self confidence and general mood - and makes her much more sexy!

I think it's so important that her first MFM experience is mind blowing that it's well worth not pushing it - it will happen I'm sure of that - just got to find the right guy for her!

There's a pic of Niki here:

http://ourhotwives.org/forum/viewtopic. ... &start=100

need to scroll down to 9th or 10th post.

Very nice & sexy!!! Congratulations

A quick update - Niki is back camming again - and thus far enjoying all the attention she's getting.

She's been in communication with someone from this site - if he reads this he might identify himself, up to him. They've been texting for a month or two and we're all planning to meet up in a couple of weeks - it's still 50/50 if anything happens, but things will happen if all goes well - Niki's very matter of fact about it, which for me is super sexy!

Will keep you posted on developments....

Great!!!