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Wifey: What I Love about being a hotwife

Unread post by NYHubby » Tue Dec 11, 2018 1:31 pm

Hi all. This is the wife. I'm going out on a "date" tonight (translation: I will be getting prone in a hotel bed with another man while Hubby waits at home) but my husband asked me to share what I like about our Hotwife/Cuckold agreement. Here goes:


I love sex. I know there is nothing particularly earth-shattering about that. But the way I practice it is not run-of-the-mill. You see, my husband (of 30 years) and I have been practicing the Hot Wife/Cuckold lifestyle for the past 10 years. It works for us, especially the way we have begun to practice it: for the past 10 months I let Hubby play with me but I don’t allow him to fuck me. He can eat me, he can finger me, and he can fuck me with a dildo. And I will jerk him off, or give him head, or let him fuck the artificial vagina in his fleshlight. But for the past nine months and going forward indefinitely, his dick will not find its way into my pussy. That sole privilege is reserved for my lover.

I love this arrangement, probably a lot more than I let on. But honestly, good lord, my faithful husband accepts that my pussy is off limits to his cock while I’m freely, exclusively, and quite energetically giving it to another guy. You have to admit, that’s HOT, especially when my husband is patiently waiting at home while I’m naked in a hotel room, on my back, legs wide open, while a man who is not said husband is furiously pumping his cock deep inside my pussy, causing me to cry out in ever increasing pleasure! I know this is not “fair” if by fair we mean “equal” but who says it has to be? Marriage like many things is an agreement between two people and my husband has pledged to not have relations with someone other than me. He doesn’t want to and, quite frankly, I don’t want him to. If he did that would be cheating. So that’s our rule, and it has become one of the pillars upon which our trust is built. But the cool part is that same pledge does not apply to my sexual behavior and for the past 10 years I have very happily and quite often experienced the thrill of having another man’s cock in this little old married pussy of mine! Hubby is absolutely turned on to be the husband of a woman who fucks other men. So I quite happily and quite dedicatedly continue to do so. That has also become one of our pillars.
I love my husband. That has never changed. But that doesn’t mean I also don’t love the thrill of having the hard cock of another man inside of me. God that feels so fucking good in many ways. Truth is, I’m a confident, successful woman who has always liked men, but in the past 10 years I have come to LOVE the sexual attention I get from being with a man who is not my husband. I mean, I’m a 58-year-old married mom with an extra-marital lover who sees me as some idealized sexual fantasy woman and I’m having the kind of thrilling, “taboo” sex you see in a good porn movie…WOW! All he wants is to hold me and caress me and fuck me, much more than he even wants to fuck his own wife. So fuck me he can, with the “all in” hunger that only lovers can have: when he’s kissing me passionately, when he’s making me moan with delight as he makes love to my hard nipples with his hot mouth, and when he’s gasping and moaning as he thrusts his dick into my welcoming pussy with such passion that it feels as if he’s climbing inside of me.

MMM…when I’m in bed with my paramour I’m not a spouse, or a mom, or a professional. I’m a hot, wanton wife of another man who needs it bad from her lover. A married woman who needs to feel his tongue passionately intertwined with hers as his fingers slide in and out of the cunt that only her husband should be touching. A married woman who needs to feel that electric jolt of pleasure as he sucks on her hard sensitive nipples. A married woman who needs to feel his big dick inside of her, claiming her pussy with such passion that she screams out in release. Sorry, but that is NOT the kind of thrill you can get by having sex with your partner of 30 years. And when he’s thrusting his big, hard cock into what I can only describe as my hungry and very willing pussy I’m so aware: aware of how badly I need to be fucked by this man who isn’t my husband, how naughty and taboo it feels and how I know I’m going to keep doing it again and again. And I’m aware that my husband knows all about it, and accepts it and not only that, it makes him even hotter for me when I get home. Let’s just say I’m a believer! It is just more thrilling than sex with your husband of nearly 30 years. And it stays in my mind for days, even weeks. Who wouldn’t love that?

My husband has pointed out that when I have a lover I am generally much more sexually aroused. Although I have been reluctant in admitting he’s right, the truth is that a great deal of the increased sexual charge I feel is because I have the security of a faithful husband at home AND I regularly get laid by a man who is not my husband. It may not be “respectable” to admit it, but I think the exhiaration of extra-marital sex has become essential to keeping me so sexually thrilled (from which, by the way, both my lover and my husband reap some nice benefits)! But it also feels special in the sense that it is something I and only I do, a luxury I have in my marriage that is reserved only for me. I mean my husband has me and our sex play is great, no doubt about it. But in addition to having this I have the luxury of being able to go to a private, somewhat illicit space and submit, and get totally ravished by another man, throwing myself totally into the pure pleasure of getting laid until I scream with pleasure! And it’s all mine! I don’t have to share it with anyone, including my husband. And because of this, at nearly 59-years of age, my sexuality is stronger than it’s ever been. I see no reason why that would change either!

There’s also “fringe benefits” to our agreement. One is the sexual power I wield in my marriage: In effect, I’m limiting Hubby’s sex to either being jerked off, or blown, or having his dick pleasured by a fleshlight—because it ain’t going inside of me. I already have someone who does that, thank you. Now I’m not a dominatrix but to have this kind of sway over my husband, it just feels sexy and empowering. I mean to have my hand on my husband’s hard cock or full balls and to know he’s hard for me and even more excited because another man is getting my pussy instead of him…WOW! Plus it’s a comparative thing. My husband’s vanilla sex life makes mine just feel even more out there on the edge. I guess it makes me feel more special in that way. Also, to have not just a fuck-buddy, but a real, extra-marital lover who is the ONLY man who puts his dick in me is just sex on a completely different level. When I do get together with him the sex is more exclusive and intimate, more urgent and sweaty, more passionate, more sex in its pure form: the feeling of his body on top of me, pressing me into the bed, his cock so hard, so ready as he slides it across my wet slit. Then that moment when he pushes forward and begins to enter, my vulva resisting slightly and then flowering open and I feel his long dick sliding fully inside of me…mmm there is something so special, so full about that moment when a man’s penis first occupies your pussy. That it isn’t my husband’s penis just supercharges the moment. That’s what pure sex is. God he feels so wonderful, making me moan and groan and come, my pussy gripping his hard cock as the orgasm overtakes me, wow! And knowing that this man who sucks me and fucks me so good, this man who isn’t my husband, this man who is the only man I let make love to me, well, craves the embrace of my pussy as much as I crave being possessed by his cock…it makes me come back for more and more and then some more!
The other night Hubby was playing with me and I was of course excited, thinking about meeting with Doug a few days later.

“I think being monogamous with your lover suits you” he said as he gently but insistently stroked my slit with his fingers. I leaned back and enjoyed the feeling of his hands and I could feel myself smiling a little. Not a big, broad grin but the kind of knowing grin I get when my husband hits upon a truth. I do love being monogamous with a lover and I was maybe a little surprised but not at all displeased that my husband was so aware of this.

“I think you’re right” I told him “How can you tell?”

“It’s pretty obvious” he said as he replaced his fingers with my favorite dildo, pushing it inside of me, causing me to groan in pleasure. “I can see it in your face, I can see it with the confidence you carry yourself around with. You’re definitely feeling more sexy, more satisfied, and I think a good part of it is because you’re a married woman, married to a man who is 100% faithful to you and you only let your lover put his cock in here” he said as he began to fuck me in earnest with the dildo.

My groans turned to moans as I bore down on the dildo he was fucking me with. Fucking it back as intently as it was fucking me. Hubby began to gently kiss and suck on my nipples, sending stabs of pleasure through my body. I closed my eyes and enjoyed the dildo fucking my husband was giving me, and imagined it was Doug on top of me sliding his hard dick inside of me.
“Oh yeah” I cried out as my orgasm began to build. “I really love that my pussy will be his and only his. I don’t know for how long but right now I only want Doug’s nice hard dick inside of me. You’re my primary love interest and you always will be. But right now he is my primary lovemaking interest. I only want him fucking me so my heart is all yours but my pussy, my pussy is all Doug’s”

Hubby often wears a cock and ball ring for me. I don’t know why but when he wears it, it makes me feel more in control of him, I love how hard and big it makes his cock and balls, especially the one he has which is a cock ring attached to an adjustable strap that we can really tighten around his balls. I especially love to gently stroke his balls when they’re swollen with desire. Well, all my talk caused hubby to really swell up. His cock got really hard as he began fucking me more urgently with the dildo. I love that! There I was in bed, my legs wide open, receiving a dildo fucking from my husband. There was my husband all trussed up in his cock-and-ball ring, his full balls and hard cock exposed to me, he and I both knowing that the dildo was the closest he was going to get to fucking me. And we both knew that while he was there all hard with desire for my pussy I was going wild imagining it was Doug’s cock plunging deep inside of me, fucking me like I needed to be fucked, fucking me like he’s going to continue fucking me. It just felt so fucking good.

“Oh yeah” I cried out “I’m imagining he’s fucking me with his bare cock, fucking me like I won’t let you. I can see how hard it makes you. MMM…you love that don’t you? You love that I’m your wife and this is all I let you do to me. You love that my pussy isn’t for you don’t you? It isn’t you know. It’s his only his pussy to have and to fuck and to shoot his cum inside. Then I come home to you with my pussy satisfied and wet and squishy with his cum inside of me. I’m going to love that! So you do this with the dildo, you “Fluff” me, get me ready for the times I can get fucked by him. Oh yeah, just like that, fuck me with that dildo like he’s going to fuck me when we next meet, Oh God, I’m gonna come, I’m gonna come…”

And come I did.

And a few minutes later, after a few quick strokes with the fleshlight, so did Hubby. Perfect!

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Unread post by Mad Dog65 » Wed Dec 12, 2018 6:30 am

Thank you for sharing your story as we are married 26 years and know that my wife can be sexual but it is so rare and infrequent with so many competing priorities as you pointed out. It prompts thinking....thanks.

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Unread post by parkman » Wed Dec 12, 2018 8:13 am

Such an amazing story. Thank you for sharing. I'm full of admiration for your marriage. My wife is a newly minted hotwife - I hope we will get to where you are over time.
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Unread post by trdd » Thu Dec 13, 2018 4:36 am

What a really great post! One of the best I've read here.

I love your description and how you explained what turns you on about your situation. You said you aren't a dominatrix but it is clear you have a streak for power play and it excites you. Would you ever entertain going further with it?

Can you tell us how you transitioned into penetration being exclusive with your lover? How did the idea come up? How was the decision made?

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Unread post by NYHubby » Thu Dec 13, 2018 7:21 am

trdd wrote:What a really great post! One of the best I've read here.

I love your description and how you explained what turns you on about your situation. You said you aren't a dominatrix but it is clear you have a streak for power play and it excites you. Would you ever entertain going further with it?

Can you tell us how you transitioned into penetration being exclusive with your lover? How did the idea come up? How was the decision made?

Thanks.
Actually, my husband (who in almost everything else is a very assertive guy) expressed a desire that I be the one to call the shots sexually. That’s fine by me! We just naturally processed from there to where we are but the key is What I want sexually is what we do. So for example, when I came home Tuesday night from my date with Doug it had been so good sexually that I got all excited again thinking about it on the ride home, so when I got home Hubby not only gave me a tongue lashing (yes I was very creamy with Doug’s cum) but I climbed on top of him and rode him to my third orgasm of the night! I would say all were very satisfied!

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Unread post by SutterKane » Fri Dec 14, 2018 7:18 am

I hope Wifey will tell us more about her needs and how she cucks you. I love to hear a womans story on what she feels and needs as a HotWife.
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Unread post by ErikaPeter » Mon Dec 17, 2018 4:15 pm

It’s so interesting to see how couples find the perfect arrrangement for them.

Our situation is both like and unlike yours. My husband is no longer allowed to put his dick inside me, but he plays with me in other ways just like your husband. I have a collection of dildos and when I am ready to be penetrated I tell him which one I want him to fuck me with. I never gave him full blowjobs to completion, but now I am weaning him off partial blowjobs. I give him handjobs, but am letting him finish himself off most of the time. Most of his orgasms now come from his own hand, either in my presence or alone. We are exploring caging him, although he is both intrigued and reluctant to take the plunge.

On the other hand, I have a tendency to become too emotionally involved with my sexual partners. To avoid entanglements, I have a few close friends that I see regularly one or twice a month, and then a continual supply of casual friends that I may see only a few times in total. Occasionally, one of the casual friends may be a gem that I turn into a long term friend. This way, I can enjoy intimacy with a few men and physical variety with multiple other men. I have strong emotional connections with my close friends, but because of non-monogamy, no one extramarital relationship threatens to overcome my marital relationship. The only difficulty with this arrangement is that it is not always easy to find new casual partners.
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Unread post by SutterKane » Tue Dec 18, 2018 10:06 am

You may have said in the past, but are the two of you in a female led relationship? Do you Dom your husband or just deny him sexual contact? Do you enjoy being in control of his orgasms?
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Unread post by NYHubby » Wed Dec 19, 2018 11:07 am

We are pretty equal across the board. In fact when we do disagree I tend to defer more to my lovable, but stubborn husband! It is just in the area of sex where I am clearly the boss and boy, does it ever work for us!

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Unread post by NYHubby » Wed Dec 19, 2018 11:10 am

And yes, I love that I have “ownership” of his cock but I only let my lover cum in my pussy. It feels empowering to me and it makes Hubby want me even more...

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Unread post by SutterKane » Thu Dec 27, 2018 9:38 am

Don't forget about us poor "Hubbys" out here, waiting to hear more!
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Unread post by NYHubby » Thu Feb 07, 2019 3:30 am

It's been a while since I last posted here. Not because I haven't been active but because I haven't had time to jot things down. But this past Tuesday I met with my lover Vik (we meet every two weeks) and before hand I sent Hubby this message--which he loved:

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I’m going to have dinner with Vik. It’ll be nice, and quiet, and we will engage in some small talk and catch up on what we’ve been doing in the last two weeks. But there will also be some unspoken electricity in the air because I know this handsome and charming Indian man sitting across from me wants me. I know his wife does not have sex with him and because of this he is hungry for it when he’s with me every other week. I know he loves how easily he can make me come with his talented tongue. And I also know how very grateful he is for the pussy I so eagerly surrender to his hard and eager brown cock. But I’m mostly excited because he is going to give me exactly what I want and need: the kind of fucking you can only have when you’re having illicit extra-marital sex!

He will pay the check and we will get our coats and head out. I’ll start to feel that excitement I feel in my gut because I know we’re heading to his hotel room for some after dinner fun and games. I’ll know that you’re at home waiting for me, eager for me to get home afterward because you know I’ll be excited and satisfied and ready for some oral attention from you. This will make me even more excited because while I’m in his room getting completely and totally ravaged by Vik, my husband will be at home thinking about it, thinking about his wife with her legs wide open, joyfully accepting her lover’s cock into her hungry and wanton pussy, enjoying every hard inch of him as he slides in and out of me. I’ll start to get wet just thinking about this.

In the elevator up to his room he’ll get close to me and will begin to kiss me, our tongues intertwined with building passion. He will press up against me and I’ll feel his hard cock against me knowing that it’s meant for me and only me.

When we get into the room we will kiss and make out and he will begin the ritual of undressing me: removing my blouse and my bra, kissing my breasts and sucking on my hard nipples, giving me stabs of pleasure I’ll feel all the way down to my pussy. Then he’ll remove my slacks and my panties pausing down there to kiss and lick the pussy I had freshly waxed so that it’s smooth and slick for that nice, hard dick he’s going to slide inside of me. I will moan and enjoy his oral attention because he eats my pussy so well and will lay down on the bed and have my first orgasm of the night the end of his hot tongue.

Then I’ll grab his hard brown dick and take it in my mouth enjoying his enjoyment as I suck on him and taste his pre-come. I’ll lick his cock up-and-down like a lollipop and take his balls softly into my mouth feeling how full he is. I’ll love how hard he is for me and the moans and groans he makes will make my pussy start twitching again.

Then he will lay me back down and spread my legs and line up that nice hard cock against my pussy and push it inside of me: hard, bare, leaking pre-come. He’ll fuck me good and long and hard causing me to pant and moan and groan as we both head toward climax. His pace will quicken, my thrusts back onto his hard cock will become more fervent as my pleasure builds. And then together we will come, his beautiful dick shooting his hot seed deep inside of me, filling me, making me orgasm in a way that only a lover can.

We’ll lie together like that for a while kissing and moving his cock around inside of me spreading himself all around me and I’ll slowly move my pussy against him as he slowly softens, making sure I get every drop.

After a while I’ll get dressed say my goodbyes, confirm our next rendezvous in two weeks and get a taxi home. That squishy feeling inside of me will remind me what I did and what kind of a wife I am.

When I get in you will be waiting, all excited and eager to get at me. We will go to the bedroom and you will slowly undress me. I’ll tell you all the things Vic did to me tonight. Then I will lay back on the bed and you will kiss me up my legs up to my well fucked and come filled pussy. Your dick will be hard as a rock as you begin to lick me and hungrily enjoy the cream pie I brought home for you this evening. And I’ll have my third orgasm of the night while feeding you the come my lover left inside of me.

Then I’ll turn my attention to your poor hard cock and will slowly jerk you off. I’ll enjoy your excitement, not only because of what I did but because you know that tonight my pussy is only for Vik’s cock and your mouth. This will somehow make you even more excited and it will be your turn to moan and groan as you come a huge amount in my hand or in my waiting mouth.
Then, both satisfied we’ll fall asleep, thinking about the adventures that await us.

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Unread post by NYHubby » Thu Feb 07, 2019 3:37 am

A little explanation: Things cooled down with Doug (he seemed to have too much guilt about having extra-marital sex, and my feeling is if you aren't completely OK with it, you shouldn't do it) So I re-connected with Vik, a man I was seeing before and it has worked out really well as you can see!

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Unread post by trdd » Fri Feb 15, 2019 6:26 pm

Great posts!

Thanks for sharing these with us :)

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Unread post by coastalkid » Fri Feb 15, 2019 6:41 pm

Did hubby get access to your pussy while you were "between" men?
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Unread post by 54321 » Tue Mar 05, 2019 9:54 am

so when I got home Hubby not only gave me a tongue lashing (yes I was very creamy with Doug’s cum) but I climbed on top of him and rode him to my third orgasm of the night! I would say all were very satisfied!
Did you allow hubby to enter you and make love to you but not allow him to cum?

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Unread post by dickhurtz472 » Thu Mar 28, 2019 6:11 am

what a great arrangement. thank you for sharing.

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Unread post by SutterKane » Mon Jun 03, 2019 7:48 pm

NYHubby wrote:
Thu Feb 07, 2019 3:37 am
A little explanation: Things cooled down with Doug (he seemed to have too much guilt about having extra-marital sex, and my feeling is if you aren't completely OK with it, you shouldn't do it) So I re-connected with Vik, a man I was seeing before and it has worked out really well as you can see!
Anything new you'd like to update us on? I'd like to know!
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Unread post by NYHubby » Tue Jun 11, 2019 3:26 pm

Well, things with Vik have slowed a little. He’s a great guy but really doesn’t know how to be “take charge”—and I want a guy who knows how to be dominant with another man’s wife without being domineering or disrespectful. Sometimes not so easy to find...but I am looking and “test driving”!

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