Sadly, I've waited too long.

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Sadly, I've waited too long.

Unread post by NotaCuck » Sat Mar 23, 2019 5:47 am

As my nick implies I have no firsthand experience in this field. 15-20 years ago I was having difficulty reaching orgasm as the vanilla sex my wife prefers just doesn’t do it for me.

I was then watching another cuck forum trying to feel the angst and attraction vicariously. One day I came out and told my wife my kinky side and of course she assumed I was just looking for a free pass to be with other women. I pressed on and after awhile she came to the conclusion that’s what I really wanted and I was just weird.

She gained the courage to tell me she had a few mild (compared to what normally goes on in these forums) sexual encounters with good friends of ours. No penetrative sex, just groping, watching ect. While we were having some boring vanilla sex she told me the following story: Around her birthday, they took a short ride to a local side road as we all still had young kids at home. Our female friend went down on my wife and gave her oral. I of course asked, Did you suck the husband’s dick while this was happening? (No). Did you grab, stroke or do anything to our friends during this? (No). I only half believed her as I was hoping for a lot more involvement. But it was enough to bring me over the edge and give me an orgasm which had been a long time coming. My release showed her that I had been trying to tell her the truth and gave her the courage to tell me a few more adventures the next few times we had sex. Sadly, there were only around three adventures and I kept telling her don’t worry if you did a lot more, I won’t get mad, I’ll just cum harder.

That was the end of it though. Even though I gave her the free pass and begged her to be fully open with me concerning her trysts, nothing more happened. I knew it’d be annoying if I kept asking her to repeat the same stories over and over so I dropped it.
Fast forward to today. Now we are 68, have grand children and rarely have sex. A few months ago my interest in cucking returned and I found this forum. My libido has plummeted and having vanilla sex doesn’t interest me so I get just about all my orgasms from watching porn or reading some of the great stories here.

I decided to give it another shot and wrote the story below. The print out I gave my wife had all real names, but have been changed in this version. I had her lay on the bed and she read it as I gave her oral. I now have ED and since we rarely have sex, have not renewed the Viagra. Her orgasm came soon after she finished it.

She asked if I wanted the printout back and I said no, I’ve got it on the computer. She then folded it and put it in her nightstand drawer. Interesting, I just imagined her reading it again without me and masturbating to it. If she reads it a few times, maybe she’ll give it more thought. But I’m sure that’s just me looking at it from my kinky side.

After our event, I looked up a dating site online (as I did in the story) created an account and did a search for men 55-80 looking for a couple in a hundred mile radius. I was shocked to see the number of men right in our tiny little rural village and many more further out. I brought this up to my wife and she said there’s no way she’d ever want to have sex with another man. Not a shocker as I’ve heard this a hundred times before. I then asked out of curiosity what part of the story she found hottest and she said when we were at the bar and walked to the room with Frank. WTF? What about the sex? She said it was romantic. Um, okay, but who cares about romance when all you want to do is have wild sex with a stranger. It just shows where my prudish vanilla wife’s head is at. Or she didn’t have the courage to admit the sex was hot.

Anyway I modified my account on Adult Friend Finders to man looking for couple. If she doesn’t want to help me with my kinks then I’m willing to cheat and do it on my own.

Anyway below is the story I gave my wife. I’ve never written anything erotic before, so it was literally my first try. It’s not as hot as most here, but the purpose was to so my wife how I really felt and where my head is at.

Fantasies sometimes come true

Roger was a pervert. But not the bad kind, he was just kind of kinky and had fantasies of his wife, Olivia having sex with other men. A few years ago he broached the subject with her and her initial reaction was he was just looking for a free pass to be with other women. But that was not his intention at all. He had what could be called mild Cuckold tendencies. Cuckolds biggest pleasure is seeing their wives acting sexual with other men. Why is not really known, but perhaps it’s like you have a favorite toy. It’s an okay toy, but you’ve had it for awhile and now you’re used to it. But someone comes along, grabs your toy and starts playing with it. Now all of a sudden that toy has become much more valuable to you and you really want it back. Perhaps that not the best way to explain it, but it’s one way to give a complex situation a simple explanation.

Roger decided to broach the subject again as he thought open and honest discussion might be the way to fulfill his fantasy. But he was awful nervous as he was afraid Olivia would not want to talk about it or that she might actually give it some thought this time. Either way he knew it was not going to be easy. But some things are worth putting out there, even if you are not sure what the outcome might be.

He asked her if she remembered how when he first opened up to her, that she did try to entertain him by telling a few escapades she had with Sophia & Kevin during their love making. Roger went from not being able to achieve an orgasm to almost becoming multi-orgasmic listening to her tales. It showed Olivia what a powerful effect it had on him and perhaps he really was telling the truth.

He didn’t get upset hearing about his wife’s adventures, but just the opposite. He wanted more stories and much more detail. Sadly, for Roger, Olivia didn’t have that many stories to tell or she was keeping the best ones secret. Roger was really hoping there were even more hot stories she could tell, but imagined Olivia wasn’t comfortable letting him know how much she really did. The hotter the story, no matter what the details would be an even greater turn on for him. He even decided that if she wasn’t holding anything back, the least she could do was lie and tell him the hottest story she could think of having sex with other people.

Being the second time around, Roger’s confession had much less impact on Olivia. This time as he talked to her, she listened and even though she thought her husband had weird fantasies, perhaps she might give Roger’s new plan some consideration. He explained that the next Saturday night, they could do a little bar hopping to see if any men took interest in her. They would go to a bar that also had dancing which would give Olivia more opportunity to be close to someone. To accomplish this, Olivia would dress up in a hot top and skirt with stocking and high heels to complete the outfit. This was certainly not the way Olivia was used to dressing for an outing and she definitely had her doubts, but if she wanted to draw attention, she had to look the part. The plan was for Roger to enter the establishment first, go to the bar and order a drink. A few moments later, Olivia would walk in and hopefully draw some attention from the slightly inebriated men. The plan that night wasn’t to hook up with anybody yet, but to just see if Olivia would enjoy flirting and enticing a strange man. Roger would consider this night a success if it got to kissing and a little groping.
Roger sat there on pins and needles; his hands slightly shaking so he had to hold his glass in both hands. But it was a good kind of nervous, the kind where you go from hoping you don’t throw up to trying to not have an orgasm in your pants. His main role was to keep an eye on Olivia to make sure she didn’t get into a difficult situation. He was basically her bodyguard for the night.

When Olivia walked in, Roger thought she had never looked more beautiful. He also noticed a few men eyeing her. I guess a single woman walking into a bar really does draw attention. She sat at the bar about five seats down from Roger. Before she could even order her first drink, a guy walks up and asks if he can buy her a drink. She gives him a quick onceover and says, sure. The drinks arrive and they start chatting. Roger wished she had sat closer to him so he could hear what they were saying and considered moving, but didn’t want to draw any attention to himself. Roger wanted to put away as many drinks as he could handle due to his nervousness, but had to stay mostly sober to make sure Olivia was always safe.

It didn’t take long for them to finish their first round and another soon appeared. Roger pondered that one advantage to this scenario was having someone else spend their money on Olivia, not him. About halfway through the second round, a slow dance started. The guy whispered a little something in Olivia’s ear and they proceeded to the dance floor. Roger thought he was going to throw up or pass out, but neither happened. They danced slowly for a minute, and then Roger noticed the guy’s hands started wandering a little bit. His hands dropped lower and he was cupping her buns. Olivia’s only response was to caress his back and hold him just a little bit tighter. She looked up at him, their eyes met and they had their first kiss. It was a pretty good kiss. It lasted for almost a minute. He again whispered in her ear and she shook her head no and gestured to an empty booth. The guy went to the bar to get their drinks and ordered another round. He then brought the drinks back to the booth.

Roger was beside himself. What did the guy whisper in her ear? He imagined the guy asked her to go to someplace a little more private, like the back of his car. Roger was actually relieved that whatever the guy asked, she said no. This was after all just a night to test the waters, to see how their new lifestyle might work out. The booth was still in Roger’s line of sight, but he still wished he was sitting closer to them. His angst was in overdrive and he was loving it. Olivia and the guy were cuddled up pretty good and there was lots of kissing. Roger could see the guys hands wandering over Olivia’s back, then they’d disappear and he’d was doing something to her front. Was he fondling her boobs? Was he rubbing her pussy? Roger wanted to jump up, run over and start taking pictures or a do video, as the scene was so hot he wanted to preserve it forever. But instead he just sat there and tried to act normal.

After they finished all their drinks, Olivia gave him another hug and a peck on the cheek. She stood up to leave, but he held onto her hand and talked to her a few minutes. She finally escaped from his grasp and walked to the exit. Roger was ready to jump up if the guy got out of the booth to follow her as it appeared she’d had enough for the evening. But the guy ended up being a gentleman and just sat there. Roger felt slightly sorry for him because if he was expecting to get laid his evening didn’t work out as planned.

About fifteen seconds after Olivia went out the exit, Roger followed. Olivia was right outside the exit waiting for him. He grabbed her, gave her a huge kiss and held her so tight she complained she couldn’t breathe. He looked at her and gave her a big smile. That’s just what Olivia needed. She was so concerned what Roger’s reaction would be that seeing him smile put all her reservations aside. He was acting a bit hyper and said he wanted to hear everything that happened. They got in the car and headed home. On the way, Olivia said that was the scariest and hottest thing she’d ever done. Roger just couldn’t stand it, he asked, “Did he feel you boobs?” “Did he reach up under your dress and feel your pussy?” Olivia said yes and yes. Roger felt like he was going to cum right there, but he held off. He wanted to get her to bed as soon as possible.

As soon as they arrived home, Roger ran into the bedroom and threw off his clothes. Olivia laughed seeing how anxious he was and already had a hard-on. Olivia started disrobing, but it wasn’t fast enough for Roger. He pulled her clothes off her as fast as he could, then throwing her onto the bed, he dived face first into her pussy. Maybe she had a little fun mentioning how horny Roger was, but in truth she was incredibly turned on also. After a few minutes, Roger came up for air. Olivia pulled him up and they were face to face. He inserted his cock into her pussy and starting pounding like crazy. She didn’t object, it seemed to be just what she wanted. After about thirty seconds, Roger said give me some details! Olivia said, the guy certainly had roaming hands. His touch was very gentle and pleasing. After caressing her breasts for a minute, he ran his hand up her skirt and started rubbing her pussy. She responded by giving him a deep passionate kiss. Soon his fingers moved her panties aside and was massaging her clit directly. It felt so great that Olivia thought she was going to cum. That’s when she put the brakes on decided to take a step back. The guy wasn’t very happy about being denied, but respected her enough to stop. Hearing this brought Roger over the edge and he had a massive orgasm. Olivia wasn’t anywhere near completion, so Roger once again stuck his head between her legs and started licking. After a short bit, Olivia came loudly and vigorously.

Now that things had settled down a bit, it was time for reflection. Would we do it again? Roger, sure. Olivia, maybe. Should we do the same thing again or move forward to something more daring? Roger, sure. Olivia not so sure. They continued to talk. Roger’s main goal was to comfort Olivia. Assure her that nothing had changed. Let her know that he loved her more now than ever before. Olivia kept saying she wasn’t comfortable cheating on Roger. Roger said it wasn’t cheating if they were sharing. As long as he was kept in the loop, then she’d always have his blessing no matter what she did. That assured her a bit. But there was a lot to take in and process.

The next morning, Roger expressed his love again to Olivia to reassure her everything was fine. He said that last night was a great adventure and would be willing to try it again soon. Olivia wasn’t so sure. It was definitely super hot being with that guy last night, but she still felt she was cheating on some level. It would take a few days to process all that just happened and find a way to come to terms with it.

Roger’s thought process, which he was keeping to himself as he didn’t want to push Olivia too far too soon, was to ramp it up to the next level. He searched the internet for the best dating site. He picked the top rated one and created an account. He picked the Man & Woman seeking Man option and picked fifty mile radius from their home. He was surprised on the number of hits that came up. He went through them and picked what he considered to be the top ten and added them to his favorites. Before he went further, he was going have to let a lot more time pass as once again, he wanted to give Olivia breathing room to come to terms with Roger’s kinky side.

Roger spent the next week praising how wonderful Olivia was. How he was the luckiest guy in the world to have her. When they did have sex, Roger of course would beg Olivia to tell him more details about the other night, but she learned if she wanted a nice long love making session, she had to withhold any stories until near the end. Each time she recited a story, Roger would cum and that would be the end. She seemed to be accepting the fact that everything was still fine in their marriage even with her sordid evening out.

Finally, Roger decided to show Olivia the results from the dating site as nearly a week had passed. He printed out his top ten list of potential lovers and explained to Olivia what he did. He wanted her to look the list over and make a choice. This of course, made her concerned as this was once again something new and untested. Roger said this was for her, which meant she got to chose or not to chose. He was good either way. Of course he wasn’t, he was dying to take this to the next level and as soon as possible. She finally thought a guy named Frank, who lived about twenty miles away looked interesting. Before they went further, Roger had to once again lay out his tentative plans. He thought that there should be a meeting set up in a hotel bar. He figured it would be safest to meet Frank in public and take a few minutes to get to know him better. Roger told Olivia that if things looked good from her view point, then Roger would excuse himself and go the lobby to rent a room. If not, thank him for his time and be on their way. Olivia said she’d have to think about it, which didn’t surprise Roger in the least. He just hoped she didn’t take too long as he wanted it now now now!

A couple days later Olivia said she wanted to view Frank’s profile again, which Roger took to be incredibly promising. She asked what the next step would be and Roger said they’d have to send him a message introducing themselves. They decided on the following message:

Hello Frank,

We are a married couple interested in a threesome. This would be our first time so we are a bit unsure of this whole process. If you are interested we could meet up at the bar at the Hampton Inn. If we all feel good during the get together, we can rent a room and see what happens. If not, then we’ll just part ways and say goodbye.

After pressing the send button, Roger explained to Olivia he wasn’t really interested in a threesome as he really wanted to see her having great sex with Frank. So technically it’d be more of a two and a half some. Olivia thought that was really odd, but was getting used to Roger’s new kinks.

To Roger’s relief, Frank replied in a couple of hours. He was very interested in meeting up! A common time and date were set for the coming weekend and Roger wondered how he’d survive waiting all that time and wished instead they were meeting that night. But time did pass after all, and the time arrived.

Olivia and Roger arrived a bit early to find a table and have a couple of drinks first to loosen up. At the appointed time, Frank walked in and was recognized immediately from his profile picture. They waved him over and introduced themselves. Frank seemed like a personable guy and was easy to talk to. He had done this a few times and said as newcomers, he’d let Olivia and Roger set the stage for what to do or not to do.

A few more drinks were downed and Olivia gave Roger the signal they had prearranged to rent a room. Roger’s heart leapt into his throat and it began beating rapidly. Somehow he made it to the lobby to rent the room. All he could think of was what Olivia & Frank were doing now that they were alone. He got the room keycard which seemed to take forever and walked out to the car. He got their overnight bag which contained mostly booze and headed back to the bar. As he approached the table, he waved the keycard and tried to make light of it by asking if everyone was ready. It seemed unreal to Roger as Olivia and Frank rose from the table and they all walked to the elevator. Once in the elevator, Roger noticed Olivia and Frank were standing very close and you’d assume they were the couple instead of Olivia and Roger.

Once they were in the room, drinks were poured right away to calm raging nerves. After a coup of drinks, Roger excused himself and said he had to take a shower. He didn’t really, but he wanted to give Frank and Olivia some time alone to get them started. Somehow he thought that’d be easier. So he just started the water and sat on the toilet trying to imagine what was going on in the next room.

Olivia didn’t have to imagine what was going on as she was experiencing it firsthand. As soon as Roger was out of site, Frank got out of his chair and reached for Olivia’s hand. She stood also and Frank gently stroked her face with his hand. They moved in for their first kiss and Olivia felt her concerns melt away from the wave of passion that flowed through her. Why was this so much more exciting than with Roger? She loved her husband completely, but lusted for Frank. She figured as long as it was just lust and not real feelings like love, then everything would be okay. Frank pulled off Olivia’s top and unbuttoned her bra. He caressed her breasts and bent down to suckle on her nipples. An electric shock went through her and she just had to have more. She pushed his head down and he took the clue. He pulled down her pants and panties, exposing her to the first man other than her husband for a great many years. Frank started licking Olivia’s pussy and reached around to grasp her buttocks and knead them with his hands. As Olivia stood there nude, she realized that Frank was still fully clothed. She grabbed his head and pulled him up first to give him a deep passionate kiss and then to tell him they weren’t going to do much with all his clothes on.

He quickly disrobed and Olivia just grabbed onto his erection and started stroking it. About that time, Roger finally came out of the bathroom with just a towel wrapped around him. Roger’s jaw just about fell to the floor when he saw Olivia stroking Franks cock. He didn’t want to interrupt them at this point so he just plumped down into a chair to watch the show. It was to Roger as they say the greatest show on earth. Olivia and Frank just gave Roger a quick glance as he sat down as they were a bit preoccupied. Roger thought he was going to cum when Olivia opened her mouth and engulfed Frank’s cock. She sucked on it with great vigor and Frank showed his approval by giving Roger a thumbs up. Roger thought the only way to handle it was to give Frank a thumbs up back.


Olivia backed off Frank’s cock and was stroking it slowly as she looked at Roger. With a mischievous look in her eyes, she motioned Roger over. Roger couldn’t imagine was she was up to but assumed he was about to get his cock sucked also. Instead she patted the floor to indicate he was to get on his knees also. He was pretty wary and not sure what she was up to but did what she asked. She pointed Frank’s cock at Roger and said, how’d you like to suck a cock? Roger immediately thought Hell No! He wasn’t gay and had no desire for it. Olivia could tell Roger wasn’t too crazy about it and said, Please, for me, I’d like to watch you sucking Frank’s cock. Roger knew he was trapped. He wouldn’t do it to make Frank happy, but if it gave Olivia pleasure, then that’s all that mattered.

With a slight sigh of resignation, Roger opened his mouth and Olivia guided Frank’s cock to his lips. Oddly as Frank’s fleshly cock entered Roger’s mouth, it brought back memories. As a young fellow, Roger and his friends usually ended up sucking each other’s cocks because, why not? The hard yet soft texture was still vaguely familiar even after all these years. It didn’t really taste like anything so that was a relief. Roger started sucking and imagined how’d he’d like his cock sucked and tried to do it that way. He reached up and started massaging Frank’s balls because if you are going to do something, you may as well try to do the best you can. As Frank thrust into Roger’s mouth Roger tried not to gag as it hit the back of his throat. The last thing he wanted to happen was to vomit all over Frank’s cock.

Luckily Olivia got tired of watching Roger pleasure Frank and she stood up and guided Frank to the bed leaving Roger on his knees. Roger felt a bit out of place now that he had nothing to do. At least when he was sucking Frank’s cock, he was part of something. Roger watched as Olivia lay on the bed with her legs spread and Frank climbed on top her. After a moment of awkwardness, Frank’s cock was making its way into Olivia’s pussy. Roger got up and sat on the side of the bed unsure what he should be doing. Actually all he wanted to do was watch them fuck like crazy, but he also felt he should be more involved somehow. Frank started out slowly but was soon giving Olivia long deep thrusts that were causing her to moan gasp and thrust her hips like crazy to meet his thrusts. Roger looked for a way to caress Olivia to let her know he was there, but they were intertwined so tightly, he couldn’t see a good way to stroke Olivia’s flesh without touching Frank. So he just stroked her hair a bit, felt he was just in the way and moved to a chair to enjoy the view of his wife getting pounded by a stranger.

The urge for Roger to jerk off was huge as he desperately wanted to cum. But he was also hoping that after Frank was done, he could have a turn with his hot wife. Roger was very impressed by Frank’s stamina. He was beginning to think he could go all night. Olivia’s vocalizations became louder and more intense. Roger could tell she was about to cum while impaled on a stranger’s cock. Her orgasm arrived, she bucked and thrashed more than Roger had ever seen and with far more intensity. Frank just kept pounding away, he was a machine. Olivia and Roger had no idea when they picked Frank, they were picking a guy with lots of experience and stamina. He may not have been a porn star, but was close to it. Finally Frank gave way to passion and filled Olivia’s pussy with his cum. They both just kind of lay there in that glow of after sex. Roger wanted to cum so bad that he just wanted to tell Frank to get the hell out of the way so he could fuck his wife. But he was also hoping Frank would just leave so he wouldn’t see Roger cum in about three strokes after entering Olivia. Roger felt as if he wasn’t in the room. Olivia and Frank just laid together stroking, kissing and enjoying their post orgasm bliss.


Finally Frank got off Olivia and walked to the table to get his drink. Roger saw that Olivia was covered in sweat and as she lay there, Frank’s cum was leaking out of her pussy and onto the bed. Roger thought that looked like a huge amount of cum considering most of it must still be in her pussy. Frank was an impressive guy on many levels. Roger crawled onto the bed and embraced his hot wife. He kissed her and told her how much he loved her and was the luckiest guy in the world. Roger’s hand went to Olivia’s pussy and stroked it a bit. Easy, she said, I’m a bit sore. Too sore for me, Roger asked? Right now, yes, she replied. If you want to cum, why don’t you jerk off. That’s not what Roger was hoping for. He felt Olivia could at least suck his cock. Or if she wasn’t up for it, perhaps Frank could. After all, Roger sucked his cock and it only seemed fair. But Frank was already putting on his clothes and preparing to leave. This gave Roger hope as with Frank out of the room, he didn’t have to worry about Frank seeing how he had no staying power. Olivia got up and said, Leaving so soon? Frank embraced her, gave her a deep passionate goodbye kiss and said, Yes it was great but I’ve got to get going. Olivia followed Frank to the door and gave him another goodbye kiss. He patted her on the ass and was gone.

Suddenly it was just Olivia and Roger again and the awkwardness that followed. Roger was still looking to cum and asked Olivia if she was ready yet. Sorry, she said, I can’t take anymore tonight. With that she picked up Roger’s towel and told him to jerk off into it. Okay, Roger said, but you’ve got to talk to me about what it was like having Frank fuck you to the point you can’t take anymore. Not a problem, she replied and with Olivia expressing her thoughts about being fucked by Frank, Roger finally got his orgasm thirty seconds later.

The next morning, it was time to talk things over again to keep things in the open. Roger’s only concern was whether they should call Frank again or go after a new stud and how soon. Olivia on the other hand had a bunch of concerns which over time became unimportant. They continued with their new lifestyle for many years. Olivia finally realized that being married to a pervert had its benefits.

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Re: Sadly, I've waited too long.

Unread post by 2inUPMichigan » Sat Mar 23, 2019 7:21 am

Let me be perfectly honest with you. Your story appeals to the male point of view and is told from the male point of view but does not really focus much on what would appeal most to many hot wives.
If you are giving her the story to explain how you feel that works but as a way to entice her or show her how it might be exciting to her..... it doesn't hit the mark for me either.

You made a comment about "who cares about romance" .....well a lot of women do :) Some of want to feel that connection between a man and a woman -what she is referring to as romance- before we can be intimate with a man. When we first started on this journey my husband was surprised I was talking so much time searching profiles. He basically said "just pick one so we can get you fucked" .....um, no.....I am not about to just fuck any man I want to feel comfortable with them, I want to be treated right. I want to be treated like a woman, not an object.
So if you are looking at this as just wild sex but your wife is a romance kind of woman..... you might want to rethink things a bit before you abandon ship and go out on your own. I'm not saying she would be interested in living the hot wife lifestyle however if you start looking it from her perspective you might have a better chance.

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Re: Sadly, I've waited too long.

Unread post by NotaCuck » Sat Mar 23, 2019 7:21 pm

2inUPMichigan wrote:
Sat Mar 23, 2019 7:21 am
Let me be perfectly honest with you. Your story appeals to the male point of view and is told from the male point of view but does not really focus much on what would appeal most to many hot wives.
If you are giving her the story to explain how you feel that works but as a way to entice her or show her how it might be exciting to her..... it doesn't hit the mark for me either.

You made a comment about "who cares about romance" .....well a lot of women do :) Some of want to feel that connection between a man and a woman -what she is referring to as romance- before we can be intimate with a man. When we first started on this journey my husband was surprised I was talking so much time searching profiles. He basically said "just pick one so we can get you fucked" .....um, no.....I am not about to just fuck any man I want to feel comfortable with them, I want to be treated right. I want to be treated like a woman, not an object.
So if you are looking at this as just wild sex but your wife is a romance kind of woman..... you might want to rethink things a bit before you abandon ship and go out on your own. I'm not saying she would be interested in living the hot wife lifestyle however if you start looking it from her perspective you might have a better chance.
Thanks for the constructive thoughts and I see your point. With what you said in mind, I told her I was surprised she thought only one part was romantic and that perhaps I should have made the whole thing much more romance oriented. She agreed. Sigh, it's not easy being a male who things with his little head. I clicked on your link and read some of your posts. The way you wrote them was wonderful and I may try someday to write another fantasy for her with your technique in mind.

I'm seeing a doctor in a few weeks for a checkup and will ask him about Cialis. I used to take Viagra, but would always get a huge upset stomach and would have to swallow tons of anti-acid. I understand Cialis can cause the same thing, but I'm willing to give it a try. It's been years since I've had penetrative sex with her and I know a lot of guys on here can relate, but it wasn't the hot denial you dream of but basically me denying her.

I told her that when we start having sex again, I'd like her to tell me some hot stories during our session, even if she had to make them up. She didn't seem too crazy about it, but I'm trying to rekindle our sex life and I feel she could meet me halfway.

The odds of her seeing other men are about zero at this point. She said if I brought it up when we were 25 it might have been a completely different story.
Anyway thanks for the great advice and we'll see what the future holds for this cuck wannabe who waited far too long to achieve his dream.

OOAA

Re: Sadly, I've waited too long.

Unread post by OOAA » Sat Mar 23, 2019 11:22 pm

Nice story!!!!! Hot and well written! Congratulations!!!

Mad Dog65

Re: Sadly, I've waited too long.

Unread post by Mad Dog65 » Mon Mar 25, 2019 5:42 am

2inUPMichigan wrote:
Sat Mar 23, 2019 7:21 am
Let me be perfectly honest with you. Your story appeals to the male point of view and is told from the male point of view but does not really focus much on what would appeal most to many hot wives.
If you are giving her the story to explain how you feel that works but as a way to entice her or show her how it might be exciting to her..... it doesn't hit the mark for me either.

You made a comment about "who cares about romance" .....well a lot of women do :) Some of want to feel that connection between a man and a woman -what she is referring to as romance- before we can be intimate with a man. When we first started on this journey my husband was surprised I was talking so much time searching profiles. He basically said "just pick one so we can get you fucked" .....um, no.....I am not about to just fuck any man I want to feel comfortable with them, I want to be treated right. I want to be treated like a woman, not an object.
So if you are looking at this as just wild sex but your wife is a romance kind of woman..... you might want to rethink things a bit before you abandon ship and go out on your own. I'm not saying she would be interested in living the hot wife lifestyle however if you start looking it from her perspective you might have a better chance.
This is an excellent point and I find that many of the stories are from the male perspective. I am looking for stories for my wife that she can read that take her through the conflicting feelings from when her partner brings up the fantasy, her feelings of desire, shame, guilt and with romance.

Do you have any suggestions?

Mad Dog

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Re: Sadly, I've waited too long.

Unread post by afagehi7 » Thu Apr 11, 2019 11:26 am

Mad Dog65 wrote:
Mon Mar 25, 2019 5:42 am
2inUPMichigan wrote:
Sat Mar 23, 2019 7:21 am
Let me be perfectly honest with you. Your story appeals to the male point of view and is told from the male point of view but does not really focus much on what would appeal most to many hot wives.
If you are giving her the story to explain how you feel that works but as a way to entice her or show her how it might be exciting to her..... it doesn't hit the mark for me either.

You made a comment about "who cares about romance" .....well a lot of women do :) Some of want to feel that connection between a man and a woman -what she is referring to as romance- before we can be intimate with a man. When we first started on this journey my husband was surprised I was talking so much time searching profiles. He basically said "just pick one so we can get you fucked" .....um, no.....I am not about to just fuck any man I want to feel comfortable with them, I want to be treated right. I want to be treated like a woman, not an object.
So if you are looking at this as just wild sex but your wife is a romance kind of woman..... you might want to rethink things a bit before you abandon ship and go out on your own. I'm not saying she would be interested in living the hot wife lifestyle however if you start looking it from her perspective you might have a better chance.
This is an excellent point and I find that many of the stories are from the male perspective. I am looking for stories for my wife that she can read that take her through the conflicting feelings from when her partner brings up the fantasy, her feelings of desire, shame, guilt and with romance.

Do you have any suggestions?

Mad Dog
I am looking for the same thing! I have a thread asking this question but still all male perspective. We need a female to write it. Men are like a farm tractor, simple and easy. Women are like a Cadillac, complicated with many features and options. A farm tractor could never understand a Cadillac. 2up said she was going to write some but I haven't seen anything yet.

One of the best stories I found here was the massage therapist story from husband's Kandi. It's in the post Considering Becoming A Hotwife. She gets pretty wild after that but I think that is a good one from the female perspective. If you read it lmk what you think. I would like to start a support group here for real people that are genuinely trying to get the wife to Hotwife so we can share success and failures. I have some of both and still haven't even got her to agree to a profile on a swinger site or AFF yet but she did let me take pictures just in case.

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Re: Sadly, I've waited too long.

Unread post by 2inUPMichigan » Thu Apr 11, 2019 12:16 pm

Don't give up on me :)
I have chronic pain issues that prevent me from writing as often as I would like but I have started on a story.
Hoping to have another really good day so I can get a good spurt of writing in.
About 1500 words into it now - it will be a more involved story about the couple's journey. Not simply a sex scene :)

afagehi7

Re: Sadly, I've waited too long.

Unread post by afagehi7 » Thu Apr 11, 2019 2:31 pm

2inUPMichigan wrote:
Thu Apr 11, 2019 12:16 pm
Don't give up on me :)
I have chronic pain issues that prevent me from writing as often as I would like but I have started on a story.
Hoping to have another really good day so I can get a good spurt of writing in.
About 1500 words into it now - it will be a more involved story about the couple's journey. Not simply a sex scene :)
I am not giving up on you. It sounds pretty long. The sexy build up is important for females (or so I believe) men too. It sounds long enough I may be able to get more mileage by splitting it up.

Hope you are feeling better 2up.

Mad Dog65

Re: Sadly, I've waited too long.

Unread post by Mad Dog65 » Fri Apr 12, 2019 5:36 am

We are eagerly waiting patiently 2UP. Take your time!

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