Wifey: What I Love About Being a Hotwife II
Posted: Mon Oct 14, 2019 11:01 am
I regularly ask Wifey to explain what she likes about our Cuckold/Hotwife arrangement. Here's the most recent "hot" answer she came up with:
I’m a woman who’s been in a happy marriage for almost 30 years. My husband would agree with this. He’d also agree that sexually we’ve had a reawakening of sorts and that sex for me is plentiful and frankly better than it’s ever been. The twisted (but deliciously so) thing about this is that Hubby rarely (maybe 3 times in the past year) gets to put his dick in me. Instead I have a lover whose dick I regularly and quite happily receive in my married pussy. Instead of angering my husband, cutting him off sexually turns him on and makes him want my pussy or, more appropriately, want to please my pussy even more. I have absolutely no problem with this…especially when Hubby is at home waiting for me and I’m in a hotel room moaning, groaning and coming on the dick of another man! I love fucking. Especially fucking of the extra-marital kind. I’m a nearly sixty-year-old woman and I have the sex drive of a woman in her 20’s! A great deal of it has to do with the fact that I’m often fucking a man who is not my husband. It feels so, so good to have a hard cock inside of me but knowing that hard cock is not my husband’s just takes it to a whole other level! Kind of like every hot sex-scene I have ever watched in the movies…except of course I’m living it! There’s just something unparalleled about “forbidden sex”!
Plus, there’s the cuckolding aspect of it. My husband is a very assertive, at times even stubborn guy. But to have this area, related to something as basic as sex where I make the rules, where I’m the one in charge sexually, it’s great. I mean, when it comes to sex I have my husband “locked down” so to speak: he promises his fidelity to me while, at the same time, I’m getting fucked—and only fucked—by a man other than him. And, he’s turned on by all of this. It’s hard not to feel a little smug in such a nice, naughty way. In truth I love cuckolding my husband. I love that he remains 100% faithful to me while I’m by no means faithful to him. In fact, for nearly the past two years I have had about five lovers and when I’m with them, they are the only men who get to put their dicks in my pussy. And that’s absolutely the way I want it: to be happily married (which I am) but to have an agreement with my husband that when I have a lover, Hubby is cut off because another man is my primary sex partner, the only man who gets to have marital relations with me. After doing it for the past two-years there’s no denying it, I absolutely prefer fucking men other than Hubby. I wouldn’t be doing this for so long if I didn’t really love it, more than I love having sex with Hubby. And the best part of it is that instead of getting angry or jealous, my cuck is turned on by it. Turned on to be married to and faithful to a woman who is being bagged by another man, a man he has most-likely never met but a man who he knows (because I tell him) fucks me better than he can.
Look, I know this is not who I am in toto. For the most part we have a pretty equal relationship and, if anything, I defer to my husband’s wishes on most things. But in our sexual life, especially things related to sex itself, it’s not equal at all. It’s a Female-Led Relationship (FLR) where I’m the one who chooses the sexual rules we abide by. And the rules I’ve chosen are that I’m the privileged one who gets all the freedom sexually…I Love That! And I’m not shy about expressing my primacy in this realm with my husband. I’m up front about telling him about all the fucking and sucking I do with other men, and I’m completely honest about telling him how much more excited I get when I have a dick other than his pounding my pussy (hint: A LOT!). And currently I see no compelling reason to let Hubby fuck me. After all, for the past two years I have had my pussy dominated and superbly pleasured by a handful of wonderful lovers and when I’m with a man I like to be faithful to that man. As twisted as this might sound, I guess I’m a kind of serial monogamist! Besides that, Hubby seems content with this as long as I either jerk him off or let him come in my mouth. In truth, I don’t quite know why but it’s a big turn on to be dominating my cuckold husband this way while at the same time being dominated by a lover who knows he can fuck me wherever and whenever he wants. But I guess that’s the way nature planned it for women who choose to take advantage of their natural attributes. I have a pussy, and pretty hot one at that. If I can get satisfaction out of that, especially the incredible sexual satisfaction I’m getting, then why not? It makes me feel good, and turned on, and more sexually confident than I’ve ever been in my life.
There’s something empowering about not letting your husband have sex with you but being completely upfront with him about the incredible sex you’re having with another man. But it’s more than that, it also turns me on in a way I don’t quite understand but I know it has something to do with my thrill at being a slutty wife who has her husband in check sexually. In addition to great taboo sex for me, I have the security of knowing that my Hubby remains 100% faithful to me and must in effect stay celibate because extra-marital sex and fucking in general is something I and only I get to do. That’s basically how I define myself sexually: a married woman with a faithful, chaste husband but who herself, is not sexually constrained by the traditional boundaries of wedlock. I’m grateful for this, I honestly hold the Hot Wife/Cuckold Husband dynamic as the “normal” way things are and should continue to be in our marriage. How freeing is that? How many women would not want a situation like mine? In fact, if pressed I would say most married women should have a happy, loving marriage as well as an outside lover who fucks her and makes her come the way she’s supposed to--just like I do. I think if more women my age tried it they’d feel a hunger for sex, probably a hunger they thought was long gone—everyone wins with that. If I thought I wouldn’t be judged I’d be encouraging my sisters and my friends to try it. It’s pretty empowering and given our dynamic in other areas of our life it’s not a power I’m planning on relinquishing anytime soon.
Hubby and I do engage in sexual play and it’s very, very good. But in order to understand it you have to understand Cuckold/Hot Wife sexual dynamics, dynamics that stress the sexual autonomy and power of the Hot Wife and the sexual acquiescence of the Cuckold. This plays out with the focus on my pussy: My husband’s primary sexual role is to tend to my pussy: to pleasure it, but to not enter it with his cock as that is a singular pleasure reserved for my current lover, the only man allowed to fuck me. This relegates Hubby’s sex play to an important but fundamentally secondary function of keeping me at a level of satisfaction in between the times when my lover has his (preferred) dick in me. Hubby gets to kiss and caress me and gets to play with my tits & pussy with his mouth hands and a dildo, and he gets to perform oral sex on me, especially after my lover has fucked and come inside of me. In other words, he either “fluffs” me, to keep me excited until I’m next with, or cleans me after I’ve been with my lover. And during those times that Hubby pleasures me he knows I am fantasizing that my lover is making love to me. In fact sometimes I’ll tease Hubby, telling him that he gets to make me come with dildo sex but my “boyfriend”, and only my boyfriend makes me come with dick sex. It’s hard not to feel special when I have all this sexual attention focused on Hubby serving me like this, knowing that he’s in essence a placeholder, the guy who pleases me with his hands and mouth while I devoutly keep this pussy of mine “pure”, reserved exclusively for the cock of my lover, the man I most definitely prefer to fuck.
This isn’t a knock on my husband. He’s my soul mate and I love and will grow old with him. But sex with him cannot match the same level of excitement as sex with my lover: There’s just nothing hotter, more exciting on a base, sexual level than to be there naked in bed with a guy who’s not your husband, a man you find sexy and who you know you’re not “supposed” to be there with but who’s hungry for your body, to have him pinching and sucking on my hard nipples, and feasting on my mouth, my tits, my pussy. And then to feel his hard, bare dick sliding inside of me giving me the most amazing pleasure before I feel him stiffen and cry out and come inside of me…God! I fucking LOVE that!
I also keep Hubby satisfied: I love how hard he gets just being allowed to see and touch the pussy that is now reserved for another man’s cock. Hard to not feel sexy when you have that effect on your husband. I will kiss and caress him, and I will jerk him off and suck his dick in return, in effect “milking” my cuckold to both satisfy and keep him in a state of sexual excitement. And he loves it. But he and I will not have sexual intercourse anymore, at least as long as I only want to make my pussy exclusively available for more satisfying sex with my lover. In a way I guess you can say I “milk” my husband to keep him satisfied but receive Boyfriend’s “milk” in my pussy, to keep me satisfied. I love keeping my husband in this form of chastity while I’m anything but chaste. We’ve even talked about him being in a chastity cage but I see no reason for it. I know he’s faithful to me and is therefore in a self-imposed chastity. I don’t need a device to prove it. If he wants to wank his cock thinking about all the amazing sex I’m having with another man let him. In fact it kind of turns me on. I don’t know how long it will last but believe me, these last two years of monogamous sex with chosen lovers has convinced me this is the way to go in the future.
Then there’s a secondary thrill of Hubby waiting at home for me, knowing that as he dutifully, maybe even reverently keeps “the home fires burning” my pussy is afire as my lover takes sexual liberties with me that I don’t allow my husband to have. Because that’s what is happening. While Hubby waits at home for me like a good cuckold husband should, a man who’s likely married to another woman is having me in the most base and basic way. He’s teasing me with his big hard cock, making me beg for it, telling me to suck it, or stroke it, or put it in me. And I willingly, even gratefully comply because I need it in me, possessing me, dominating me, making my pussy his as he fucks me, like a man should fuck another man’s wife, causing me to surrender my body to him, coming on his beautiful dick and begging him to fill my married cunt with his cum! And I’m going to love every drop of it. I love my husband and I know he loves me. But to have that AND to also have a lover who “owns” my pussy, with whom I have incredibly hot, porn-fantasy, taboo sex with…man, that’s just incredible.
After, I love heading home to my welcoming Hubby feeling all squishy down there—knowing I’m that way because my lover just erupted inside the pussy I no longer let him fuck. I know when I get home my panties are going to be messy with my lover’s cum, I know his smell will be all on me, and I know that Hubby’s going to be hot for it. His cock will be hard as a rock and he’ll be hot to see, and feel, and taste the “evidence” of another man’s primacy over my pussy. God I love that. I love how hot my husband gets to welcome his naughty wife back home. Hubby’s cock will probably be all trussed up in this cock and balls ring he wears, hard not only because his sexy “cuckoldress” is home after being thoroughly fucked by her lover but also hard because he knows he can’t put that hard dick in his wife’s already-fucked pussy! And then my cuckold will climb between my legs and eat the pussy I just cuckolded him with, tasting my lover on and inside of me, all the while hearing how much I loved the way he took possession of my cunt. Then, if I’m still in the mood for more, I’ll let him give me another orgasm with his tongue, all while he tastes what another man left inside of me. Now that’s an arrangement I hope we have for a long, long time…
I’m a woman who’s been in a happy marriage for almost 30 years. My husband would agree with this. He’d also agree that sexually we’ve had a reawakening of sorts and that sex for me is plentiful and frankly better than it’s ever been. The twisted (but deliciously so) thing about this is that Hubby rarely (maybe 3 times in the past year) gets to put his dick in me. Instead I have a lover whose dick I regularly and quite happily receive in my married pussy. Instead of angering my husband, cutting him off sexually turns him on and makes him want my pussy or, more appropriately, want to please my pussy even more. I have absolutely no problem with this…especially when Hubby is at home waiting for me and I’m in a hotel room moaning, groaning and coming on the dick of another man! I love fucking. Especially fucking of the extra-marital kind. I’m a nearly sixty-year-old woman and I have the sex drive of a woman in her 20’s! A great deal of it has to do with the fact that I’m often fucking a man who is not my husband. It feels so, so good to have a hard cock inside of me but knowing that hard cock is not my husband’s just takes it to a whole other level! Kind of like every hot sex-scene I have ever watched in the movies…except of course I’m living it! There’s just something unparalleled about “forbidden sex”!
Plus, there’s the cuckolding aspect of it. My husband is a very assertive, at times even stubborn guy. But to have this area, related to something as basic as sex where I make the rules, where I’m the one in charge sexually, it’s great. I mean, when it comes to sex I have my husband “locked down” so to speak: he promises his fidelity to me while, at the same time, I’m getting fucked—and only fucked—by a man other than him. And, he’s turned on by all of this. It’s hard not to feel a little smug in such a nice, naughty way. In truth I love cuckolding my husband. I love that he remains 100% faithful to me while I’m by no means faithful to him. In fact, for nearly the past two years I have had about five lovers and when I’m with them, they are the only men who get to put their dicks in my pussy. And that’s absolutely the way I want it: to be happily married (which I am) but to have an agreement with my husband that when I have a lover, Hubby is cut off because another man is my primary sex partner, the only man who gets to have marital relations with me. After doing it for the past two-years there’s no denying it, I absolutely prefer fucking men other than Hubby. I wouldn’t be doing this for so long if I didn’t really love it, more than I love having sex with Hubby. And the best part of it is that instead of getting angry or jealous, my cuck is turned on by it. Turned on to be married to and faithful to a woman who is being bagged by another man, a man he has most-likely never met but a man who he knows (because I tell him) fucks me better than he can.
Look, I know this is not who I am in toto. For the most part we have a pretty equal relationship and, if anything, I defer to my husband’s wishes on most things. But in our sexual life, especially things related to sex itself, it’s not equal at all. It’s a Female-Led Relationship (FLR) where I’m the one who chooses the sexual rules we abide by. And the rules I’ve chosen are that I’m the privileged one who gets all the freedom sexually…I Love That! And I’m not shy about expressing my primacy in this realm with my husband. I’m up front about telling him about all the fucking and sucking I do with other men, and I’m completely honest about telling him how much more excited I get when I have a dick other than his pounding my pussy (hint: A LOT!). And currently I see no compelling reason to let Hubby fuck me. After all, for the past two years I have had my pussy dominated and superbly pleasured by a handful of wonderful lovers and when I’m with a man I like to be faithful to that man. As twisted as this might sound, I guess I’m a kind of serial monogamist! Besides that, Hubby seems content with this as long as I either jerk him off or let him come in my mouth. In truth, I don’t quite know why but it’s a big turn on to be dominating my cuckold husband this way while at the same time being dominated by a lover who knows he can fuck me wherever and whenever he wants. But I guess that’s the way nature planned it for women who choose to take advantage of their natural attributes. I have a pussy, and pretty hot one at that. If I can get satisfaction out of that, especially the incredible sexual satisfaction I’m getting, then why not? It makes me feel good, and turned on, and more sexually confident than I’ve ever been in my life.
There’s something empowering about not letting your husband have sex with you but being completely upfront with him about the incredible sex you’re having with another man. But it’s more than that, it also turns me on in a way I don’t quite understand but I know it has something to do with my thrill at being a slutty wife who has her husband in check sexually. In addition to great taboo sex for me, I have the security of knowing that my Hubby remains 100% faithful to me and must in effect stay celibate because extra-marital sex and fucking in general is something I and only I get to do. That’s basically how I define myself sexually: a married woman with a faithful, chaste husband but who herself, is not sexually constrained by the traditional boundaries of wedlock. I’m grateful for this, I honestly hold the Hot Wife/Cuckold Husband dynamic as the “normal” way things are and should continue to be in our marriage. How freeing is that? How many women would not want a situation like mine? In fact, if pressed I would say most married women should have a happy, loving marriage as well as an outside lover who fucks her and makes her come the way she’s supposed to--just like I do. I think if more women my age tried it they’d feel a hunger for sex, probably a hunger they thought was long gone—everyone wins with that. If I thought I wouldn’t be judged I’d be encouraging my sisters and my friends to try it. It’s pretty empowering and given our dynamic in other areas of our life it’s not a power I’m planning on relinquishing anytime soon.
Hubby and I do engage in sexual play and it’s very, very good. But in order to understand it you have to understand Cuckold/Hot Wife sexual dynamics, dynamics that stress the sexual autonomy and power of the Hot Wife and the sexual acquiescence of the Cuckold. This plays out with the focus on my pussy: My husband’s primary sexual role is to tend to my pussy: to pleasure it, but to not enter it with his cock as that is a singular pleasure reserved for my current lover, the only man allowed to fuck me. This relegates Hubby’s sex play to an important but fundamentally secondary function of keeping me at a level of satisfaction in between the times when my lover has his (preferred) dick in me. Hubby gets to kiss and caress me and gets to play with my tits & pussy with his mouth hands and a dildo, and he gets to perform oral sex on me, especially after my lover has fucked and come inside of me. In other words, he either “fluffs” me, to keep me excited until I’m next with, or cleans me after I’ve been with my lover. And during those times that Hubby pleasures me he knows I am fantasizing that my lover is making love to me. In fact sometimes I’ll tease Hubby, telling him that he gets to make me come with dildo sex but my “boyfriend”, and only my boyfriend makes me come with dick sex. It’s hard not to feel special when I have all this sexual attention focused on Hubby serving me like this, knowing that he’s in essence a placeholder, the guy who pleases me with his hands and mouth while I devoutly keep this pussy of mine “pure”, reserved exclusively for the cock of my lover, the man I most definitely prefer to fuck.
This isn’t a knock on my husband. He’s my soul mate and I love and will grow old with him. But sex with him cannot match the same level of excitement as sex with my lover: There’s just nothing hotter, more exciting on a base, sexual level than to be there naked in bed with a guy who’s not your husband, a man you find sexy and who you know you’re not “supposed” to be there with but who’s hungry for your body, to have him pinching and sucking on my hard nipples, and feasting on my mouth, my tits, my pussy. And then to feel his hard, bare dick sliding inside of me giving me the most amazing pleasure before I feel him stiffen and cry out and come inside of me…God! I fucking LOVE that!
I also keep Hubby satisfied: I love how hard he gets just being allowed to see and touch the pussy that is now reserved for another man’s cock. Hard to not feel sexy when you have that effect on your husband. I will kiss and caress him, and I will jerk him off and suck his dick in return, in effect “milking” my cuckold to both satisfy and keep him in a state of sexual excitement. And he loves it. But he and I will not have sexual intercourse anymore, at least as long as I only want to make my pussy exclusively available for more satisfying sex with my lover. In a way I guess you can say I “milk” my husband to keep him satisfied but receive Boyfriend’s “milk” in my pussy, to keep me satisfied. I love keeping my husband in this form of chastity while I’m anything but chaste. We’ve even talked about him being in a chastity cage but I see no reason for it. I know he’s faithful to me and is therefore in a self-imposed chastity. I don’t need a device to prove it. If he wants to wank his cock thinking about all the amazing sex I’m having with another man let him. In fact it kind of turns me on. I don’t know how long it will last but believe me, these last two years of monogamous sex with chosen lovers has convinced me this is the way to go in the future.
Then there’s a secondary thrill of Hubby waiting at home for me, knowing that as he dutifully, maybe even reverently keeps “the home fires burning” my pussy is afire as my lover takes sexual liberties with me that I don’t allow my husband to have. Because that’s what is happening. While Hubby waits at home for me like a good cuckold husband should, a man who’s likely married to another woman is having me in the most base and basic way. He’s teasing me with his big hard cock, making me beg for it, telling me to suck it, or stroke it, or put it in me. And I willingly, even gratefully comply because I need it in me, possessing me, dominating me, making my pussy his as he fucks me, like a man should fuck another man’s wife, causing me to surrender my body to him, coming on his beautiful dick and begging him to fill my married cunt with his cum! And I’m going to love every drop of it. I love my husband and I know he loves me. But to have that AND to also have a lover who “owns” my pussy, with whom I have incredibly hot, porn-fantasy, taboo sex with…man, that’s just incredible.
After, I love heading home to my welcoming Hubby feeling all squishy down there—knowing I’m that way because my lover just erupted inside the pussy I no longer let him fuck. I know when I get home my panties are going to be messy with my lover’s cum, I know his smell will be all on me, and I know that Hubby’s going to be hot for it. His cock will be hard as a rock and he’ll be hot to see, and feel, and taste the “evidence” of another man’s primacy over my pussy. God I love that. I love how hot my husband gets to welcome his naughty wife back home. Hubby’s cock will probably be all trussed up in this cock and balls ring he wears, hard not only because his sexy “cuckoldress” is home after being thoroughly fucked by her lover but also hard because he knows he can’t put that hard dick in his wife’s already-fucked pussy! And then my cuckold will climb between my legs and eat the pussy I just cuckolded him with, tasting my lover on and inside of me, all the while hearing how much I loved the way he took possession of my cunt. Then, if I’m still in the mood for more, I’ll let him give me another orgasm with his tongue, all while he tastes what another man left inside of me. Now that’s an arrangement I hope we have for a long, long time…
