Reality different from fantasy-A true story of watching wife for 1st time

[Jayblades]

Like a lot of guys, I had the fantasy of watching my wife, Michelle, with another man. She was never on board but I continued to bring it up. Initially, she was very upset but started to research online. Surprisingly, she found that my fantasy was not uncommon. Still, she wasn’t on board.


Michelle is a thirty-seven year old, ultra fit gal. As a former volleyball player, she is tall standing at 5’11”. She has flowing blonde hair and very long legs. She comes from a rather strict upbringing and something like this would be beyond unacceptable to her family.



One night while having a few drinks on the deck, we had a mild argument. It was regarding our pre marital sex lives. She had only ever been with a longtime boyfriend and me. I had been with numerous gals including a few she knew.



Thinking this was so petty, I brought up watching her with another guy again. This time I was prepared. I had researched some websites, blogs, and online groups regarding this subject. I was not into the cuckold thing I just wanted to watch. I forwarded the info to her phone.


She looked at stuff I sent and was intrigued by something. I was shocked by her reaction and asked what she was looking at. She showed me. It was like an eharmony for hot wives (for privacy reasons I won’t disclose the actual name).


There was a phone number on the page so I decided to call. I had to keep riding this high we were on! Even more shocking, an actual human being picked up the phone.



It was a very friendly lady. She sounded older and very businesslike. Her name was Jill, the company owner. She started providing information. I put phone on speaker at times for Michelle to chime in. This lady had excellent salesmanship skills.


So here was the scoop. If we were interested the lady would send us individual questionnaires with about about two hundred questions each. She ask that we don’t share our questions with each other.


She then processes the information and finds a suitable match on her own. All the guys she has are screened and tested which was the biggest selling point of the service. When she finds someone I would have to arrange our personal travel and accommodations for the meet.


I hung up the phone and started crunching some numbers in my head. Taking into consideration the price of the service and related travel, this whole thing would cost anywhere between $2,800 and $3,200! This seemed absolutely absurd to watch another guy have my wife!


I scrapped the idea mentally. One of the things the lady kept saying was how great an anniversary gift this can be and a lot her clients do this on anniversaries. We drank a bit more than called it a night.


Several weeks had passed and we never spoke of that night or phone call. Then one evening before we went to bed she asked what can we do for our 10 year anniversary. There was an uncomfortable silence.


We started talking about our phone call with Jill that night. It was clear to me this would be the only way my wife would do this. I would have to take this opportunity and try even if it came with a steep price tag.


I kept hammering away at the positives;
- This can spice up our lives
- It was our ten year anniversary
- It was in a city that we never visited
- the participant would be tested and safe
- Because so far away family/friends would never know



We decided to give it a shot.I will never forget making that phone call. My hand was shaking.


We were being sent our questionnaires and contract. Should we back out last minute, I would be on the hook for the costs and fees.


We went through our questionnaires. The questions ranged from basic and tame to the extreme erotic and kinky. We made good on Jill’s advice not to share them with each other. I didn’t hold back with any of my responses. I sent in all the paperwork and deposit. We were officially on board.



About a three weeks later we received a call from Jill. She had some prospects and it came time to set up a date. We were to know nothing about the guy other than he would be tested for d & d. This seemed odd but Jill explained there is greater chance of jealousy when the husband knows in advance who will be having his wife. Additionally, Jill said when she tried letting the couple choose the guy it usually ended in an argument. Made sense to me.


She gave Michelle some advice and strict dress guidelines. If Michelle was unsure what to wear, Jill said she would send her an outfit and add it to my bill. She just needed her size and a few pictures.


I started booking the travel and of course much more costly than I previously assumed. This was taking place on a Friday night in a city in Ohio. Our trip was going to have us there Wednesday thru Sunday so we could check out the city.


The day came for our flight. It was a short flight at less than two hours. When we went to check in there was a package waiting for us. It was the outfit Jill had gotten for Michelle.


Walking to our room we didn’t speak. All I could think of is what could possibly this outfit look like. I knew she was wondering as well.


We got in our room and got settled. Our room was not what I wanted but it was the best they had available. It had two full size beds and a little desk and chair. Overall the room was very small. I kept looking around thinking this is where my fantasy is going to happen.


We decided It was time to open the box. All I can say is Damn! The outfit was revealing! I knew it was WAY out of my wife’s comfort zone.


It consisted of black lace thigh highs, a tiny black, spandex, bikini/teddy that would barely cover her private parts. Lastly, there was a pair of 8” black, platform boots.



The entire next day we spent checking out all the city had to offer. We went to museums and galleries and I felt this odd tension between us. We were getting along great but things felt different. Our communication felt strained. Tomorrow was Friday, the day that this was going to happen.


I slept in late that morning. It was going on noon when I finally started to wake up. Michelle was already up pacing around and I noticed she had showered and worked on her hair. She was drinking coffee by the the gallon which is something she only does when she is extremely nervous.


I began feeling bad. It seemed like she was doing this to prove something to herself. That she can do something she never imagined and be daring, adventuresome, and carefree. Still, this just wasn’t her character.


It was going on 7pm and she started to get dressed into the outfit Jill sent. Wow! I couldn’t believe how hot she looked! As skimpy as it was, it gripped her body like a glove! I had gotten a raging hard on looking at my own wife! I took a few pictures by my own volition contact me personally and I may share.


Jill was suppose to call around 8pm. It was going on 9pm and I had not received a call. Then it was approaching 10pm. At this point blow off was crossing my mind. My wife who was pacing and starring at clock seemed pleasantly relieved.


At about 10:15pm my cell phone rang. Jill was in the parking lot with the mystery man asking for our room number. She was apologetic for being late but told me “it’ll be worth it”. I was not sure what that meant but found myself nervous.


I hung up the phone and looked at Michelle. She was terrified, nervous and visibly shaking! She was muttering that she wanted to back out and looked as if she would pass out. Within seconds there was a knock on the room door.


I went to answer the door while Michelle scrambled into the bathroom.


In walked Jill. We made our brief introduction the whole finally put a face to the name blah blah blah. Next, in walks not one but TWO much much older guys! WTF! As if things weren’t nerve wracking enough!


They made quick, very tense introductions to me as they walked in. One guy was Gary and the other Bruno. Each gave me a rushed, half ass, flimsy handshake while never making eye contact with me.


I will describe each; Gary was a small man. He was short, very short! I would guess he was no taller than 5’3”. It appeared he weighed no more than about 90lbs. He had a huge mop of shoulder length hair and wore a shirt and tie with jeans.


Bruno was an old, dark, hispanic ( I assumed this was Jill’s surprise in addition to her bringing two men). He was about 5’9” and was dressed in jogging outfit. I instantly could tell he was a heavy smoker. He had that grungy smoker voice and wreaked of cheap cologne in an attempt to mask the smell of smoke on him.


Michelle was still in the bathroom frantically and apprehensively fixing her hair and makeup. Jill went in there to greet her. They came out and I will never forget the look on my wife’s face!


Michelle looked frightened, shocked, bewildered, stunned, and confused all rolled together. She had no expression on her face and her eyes were like a deer in headlights. The two guys were sitting on one bed. Jill handed me some paperwork than she and Michelle sat across from them on the other bed. They were going to take time and chat so everyone could get to know each other.


I flipped through the paperwork Jill gave me. It was payment schedules, contracts, and release forms. I saw that Gary was 61 years old and Bruno was 64. I got an instant rush of anxiety.


Then I looked over at everyone chatting. It was beyond awkward. My wife looked faint. The conversation was so strained and artificial. Making things more weird was Gary and Bruno didn’t know each other. I overheard the had just met right outside in the parking lot.


Reality hit me. I realized the gravity of my situation. This was no longer a pillow side fantasy this was real! I was freaking out internally! I think most guys that have this fantasy visualize themselves having sex with their wives from a 3rd person perspective. They never consider the ACTUAL other guy. This is a very taboo thing. In my case, ultra taboo seeing as though Jill brought two guys and one being a minority.


As cordial as these older guys were I was loathing. Both were guys my wife would never give a second look to if they crossed paths. Jill was really trying to get everyone talking. I started to focus more on their stressful chat session with uncomfortable silences.


Gary was a dork. He was the type of guy that tried way too hard to be funny but it was just dreadful. Mostly, Gary and Bruno talked to each other as Michelle sat there stone cold. They talked about the traffic getting to the hotel and sports etc. while Jill chimes in every once and a while. Words cannot describe how awkward things were.


When Michelle wasn’t looking Gary would gawk at her body. This started making me an emotional wreck. I was second guessing my fantasy but was in over my head.


I will stop here and finish the story in detail if there is any interest as I need to get some rest. I apologize that this does not read like a romance novel but it is accurate nonetheless. For those who are thinking why I didn't walk out or agree to pay, well, everything is easier in hindsight. Also, d&d testing was a must for my wife. I have a few pics of her in outfit so feel free to contact.

[afagehi7]

Please continue the story. I'm wondering how and why these 2 guys were chosen. I'm guessing that they were your wife's type based on the 200 question survey and you just didn't know what her type was.

You said you have pics? Can you start a hotties thread or PM them to me.

Bookmarked. Hope you write more soon.

[OhioHGB]

Yes, please continue. Interesting to hear something different...

[wmraim]

Great story so far. Got us hooked.

[afagehi7]

Joined yesterday and this is his only post. I'm hoping he returns and isn't one of the flakes.

[Jayblades]

Thanks for all the warm welcome comments. I will try to have the story done by the end of the week. I need to sit with a strong drink and put words to the rest of this emotional roller coaster and answer several of the questions raised in this post. Lastly, I will write an “aftermath” post to detail how things been since... some things are good some not so much.

Quick question, as a newbie here how do I reply to private messages? I am still learning.

[afagehi7]

Thanks for all the warm welcome comments. I will try to have the story done by the end of the week. I need to sit with a strong drink and put words to the rest of this emotional roller coaster and answer several of the questions raised in this post. Lastly, I will write an “aftermath” post to detail how things been since... some things are good some not so much.

Quick question, as a newbie here how do I reply to private messages? I am still learning.

We are waiting with great interest. I think you answered your own question about replying. A mod has to enable it and it seems they enabled it.

[Jeff111]

I dare say there’s plenty of interest. Thanks for being open about this and putting the bad in with the good (if there is any).

[2wheel]

please continue

[SamWarrens]

So.... write the story already!!

[JustWantToWatch]

Very interested to hear what happened!

[Jeff111]

So, did you force yourselves through it or called it quits?

[OOAA]

Great starting..... I would have loved a twenty-something lover instead sixties...

[BeachBoy]

Hey Jayblades, how about finishing your story?

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum BeachBoy.

[BeachBoy]

Welcome to the forum BeachBoy.

Thank you.
Interesting place. I think I’ll like it here.

[nnjcpl2002]

So we are very eager to know what happened. You have described what seems to be a totally bad match between these unappealing older dudes and your lovely wife. So you really needed to kick them out and take up the failure with Jill!

[Jeff111]

He had an earlier post about this stuff messing with his head.
He hasn’t been on since early November. Maybe it was too much for him, or he’s just been busy with life, or if he was a flake, got confused about what to write next?

[afagehi7]

He had an earlier post about this stuff messing with his head.
He hasn’t been on since early November. Maybe it was too much for him, or he’s just been busy with life, or if he was a flake, got confused about what to write next?

Good call...