How It Started

[jrobb]

For years I had searched for whatever it was that my shy wife might enjoy in terms of sex. She was painfully withdrawn about such things. No talk of fantasies or other such openness. But one night, much to my surprise and joy, she was loosened up enough to reveal herself to me. From the start of that moment, to being shared, took only a couple hours for my hotwife to appear.

It was a regular weekend night. Me, my buddy, and my petite wife had all been in the living room listening to music and casually talking over a few beers and more in the late '80's. In the course of our conversation, he told a story about how he was involved in a threesome some years ago in college.

Later on that same evening, we went out to the hot tub. After a while, when he got out to get a drink and make a pit stop, she told me, "His story really turned me on." She was clearly loosened up, and I quickly responded with an approving "Mmmmmmmm!" In only a matter of seconds, I was slipping my hard dick into her and quickly gave her a good filling.

By the time my buddy came back to the tub, she was already filled with my cum. He had barely sat down and I lifted her bottom up to where her pussy was above water and said, "Ok, I just got done. Now it's your turn." She, somewhat shocked, asked, "Are you sure? Are you sure you want to do this?" I said, "Absolutely!".

I had her balanced in my hands, floating in the water with her pussy easily visible. Her arm around my neck, my left hand under her shoulders, my right hand under the small of her back. He got down in the water, positioned his face between her spread legs, and started to eat her as I held her in place. I cautioned him about her just being filled with my cum, but he continued to tease her clit and maybe even savor a bit of my remnant. She was cooing her pleasure when he stood up, positioned his hips between her legs, and slid into her VERY ready and willing pussy.

He didn't last long, and when he took his seat again, we all sat there, in a sort of pleasurable shock about how exciting the last couple of minutes actually were.

And that's how it started, and why for us, it took only a couple of hours, if even that, to start our hotwife life.

JR

[OOAA]

Hot threesome!!! What about the talking afterwards...? ...dirty talking, of course

[SimpleEnigma]

And so it begins. Buckle up bud, it’s a roller coaster of emotions with nuggets of delight.

[jrobb]

OOAA,

Yes, it was quite hot.

We were all relaxing, and then she was up for another go in about 15-20 minutes. "I want to do that again.", she said. He sounded a bit hesitant, maybe fearing he couldn't do such a quick turnaround, so she quickly asked him, "How long has it been since you had a blow job?" He said, "Ohhhh, that's been a long time, maybe 6 months." She moved across the tub where he was standing with his dick above water, leaned down, and took him in her mouth. He enjoyed it and I guess she sensed he was ready to go again so she turned her back to him, reached between her legs, and stuffed his semi-hard cock back again into her eager pussy. She was moaning her approval, but I think he had too much performance anxiety and couldn't "stay" in her. that moment never ended in an orgasm for either of them.

Soon thereafter, we called it a night. One helluva night at that!

JR

[jrobb]

SimpleEnigma,

Thank you for your interest and comment, but that was back in about '88. Excellent advice, nevertheless!

From the point I described above to the end of our Hotwife adventures took about 4 1/2 years. Truth be told, prior to that night in the hot tub, I had about given up on anything ever "lighting her fire". Like I said, I was astonished she even shared with me that she was turned on by his story (I give the "assist" to the partying we were doing that night), and for that reason alone, I figured I'd strike when the iron's hot!

Unfortunately, and I didn't know it at the time, we actually opened a bit of a Pandora's Box. We had many extremely exciting, fun escapades, but I didn't realize she couldn't separate her heart from her pussy, so she was looking to be told she was loved by her lover, too. It was an exciting time, but it was also quite tumultuous. She confessed to an affair with our tubbing buddy that started almost immediately after that night. Frankly, if it wasn't for the kids, I'd very likely be referring to her today as my Ex. It's been almost 30 years since her confession, and I should add, I wasn't a saint by any means either in that period of time. But, we've managed to stay together, and we both still find stories about her being promiscuous to be quite stimulating when we have sex, although all of the settings and names have been changed so the new stories don't serve as a reminder of that bumpy-at-times past.

I can attest to one thing for certain. Dabbling in the area of wife sharing can be a LOT like playing with fire. I only wish I knew then what I know now from all the wonderful advice (like yours, SimpleEnigma) that I've read on this and other similar sites. I probably would've realized I was actually in a less than desirable marriage, and looking for the wrong things to try and improve it.

JR

[Ijustloveher]

Hi JR, it's true, it is like playing with fire. Good to see that you guys made it through.

So her affair lasted for 4 1/2 years but you were not knowingly part of it?

[jrobb]

IJustLoveHer,

Yes, it was ongoing and taking place behind my back. Oddly enough, if she would've asked, "Can I go see him on my own and fuck him without you being there?", I would've likely said yes, but let's talk about this first.

Pity, she could've had her cake (cock?) and eaten it too, if she went about it a little differently.

JR