"Not Really"

[snoogaloo82]

She got jealous instantly when I told her of his offer to me to fuck Brittany. I assured her that I declined in the most clear and definitive way.

The rest of the evening Jen seemed on guard. I avoided any interaction with Brittany that I could without being rude.

You have to see the funny side!

Best wishes as always,

54321

You're absolutely priceless!! Thank you for showing the humor in everything possible!

[54321]

This milestone put a damper on our extramarital activities. The allure of it all was dulled for a time. It was just the two of us the next three months. No flirting, no looking. Just a married couple focused on each other. We reset our lives in a way. We questioned whether it was time to put a stop to it and think about a family maybe. Did we want that? Time all of a sudden was not on our side.

Such a thoughtful post. Thank you so much for sharing it with us.

54321

[WatchinginNJ]

This milestone put a damper on our extramarital activities. The allure of it all was dulled for a time. It was just the two of us the next three months. No flirting, no looking. Just a married couple focused on each other. We reset our lives in a way. We questioned whether it was time to put a stop to it and think about a family maybe. Did we want that? Time all of a sudden was not on our side.

Over the years, and especially when I first got divorced, I indulged in some less than ethical behaviors. This statement hits home, and I get it. I think unless you're actually a psychopath, that it gets hard to compartmentalize that you maybe affecting other peoples lives in ways you didn't intend.

I made a commitment to be ethical to myself. Even when you are ethical, sometimes people's feelings and objectives don't line up with yours. At least you can take pride in yourself for knowing you walked that path. Good for you for recognizing that. It doesn't change the pain, but at least it makes dealing with it easier.

[54321]

Merry Christmas, guys! You two are such an inspiration. I know you are having something of a break right now so trust that this Christmas holiday will be a great opportunity for you both to rest, regroup and renew your relationship while reminiscing about your extraordinary adventures.

We love you!

54321

[Oneillfranko]

We miss you Ray-Man. Hope 2025 is off to a good start for you. Hope you will come back here soon!

[Ray-Man]

Reset…

For the month of September we refocused on us. Got back into some of our old routines, the gym, her running and frankly just regular vanilla sex. There was some lingering guilt over the way things imploded with Tory.

As September morphed into October we started to miss the excitement of having a third in our sex life. We began to discuss how we would approach it going forward. Organic connections or a more concerted effort to find someone in the ‘lifestyle” that understood what we were and were not looking for. However there was no sense of urgency to find someone. We were having a relatively good time just having each other. Having a lot to relive in the bedroom based on our experiences. Discussing what we liked, what we did not. We also did a lot of reading on hotwifing and ethical non monogamy. Mostly on Reddit. Brett and Jon were by far our best and most fulfilling experiences. Although the others had their high points. We also reassessed our risky behavior and decided that we needed to be more selective in our choices for a third.

By the end of October Jen was getting restless. We had been back to the gym with some regularity but she got no significant attention. No one flirting with her. It was kind of a let down really. She was dressing to advertise but nothing. It was such a change for her. I was hopeful as well that we would find someone organically but things seemed dull. We did not hear from Tory at all and that still bothered her.

November rolls around and all we have is our fantasies. With all that we were reading, hotwifing seemed to fit our model of play. I still had no desire to play with other women and she had no desire for me to either. But my desire to see her get fucked by other guys was stronger than ever. And she was wanting the excitement of some new dick.

Although I was still reluctant to admit that I had any cuck tendencies the more we researched the more it became evident that I did. I began to accept it and as I did she embraced it and actually wanted to move in that direction, although with respect to any apprehensions that I may have had. After all, I did eat other guys cum out of her pussy and had sucked a cock for her. The more we discussed it the more she liked the concept of me submitting to another guy and potentially letting him have more authority over her and me giving way.

This is where we started to dirty talk more about cuckolding. One of her biggest turn ons still was me going down on her after some other guy filled her pussy with sperm. Having this break set a new course for us. We now just had to find someone suitable for our desires. And I began to gravitate towards stories on reddit where the husband/boyfriend yielded to a side boyfriend.

[Ray-Man]

Sorry for the absence. I was on some sort of spam black list that was preventing me from posting. Seemed to have resolved it

[citms2022]

Sorry for the absence. I was on some sort of spam black list that was preventing me from posting. Seemed to have resolved it

I've run into the same issue a number of times. It's weird, unpredictable and annoying. Glad you made it thru.

[Trvlman7]

Really great to have you back. Hopefully things really heat up for you two soon!

[john jasson]

Yes. That spam thing is inexplicable and a real bind. Never had it anywhere other than on ohw. Nice to see you back.

[PeterG]

Hi Rayman, loving the post, thanks so much for sharing. I know you mentioned it several months ago, but can you remind us all the September and October you just mentioned in your last post - how many years ago was this? I think I recall you saying that was quite some time / years of events still to share, thanks, P

[54321]

Happy New Year, Ray=Man and Jen!

It's always lovely to hear from you. Thank you for posting.

54321

[1hottxcpl4fun]

Gawd I missed your and Jens adventures! Please continue to at least the current day.

[1hottxcpl4fun]

The good old dbl post striks again!

[Lensman2000]

I agree! Happy to see you posting again and would love to hear more.