My Wife Caught Me With A Man

[BiCuckArkansas]

My wife and I have been married for 20 years. She has been active as a hotwife for 10 years. In our definition of that, she can see anyone she chooses, but she only sees exclusively an old college boyfriend that physically and immensely satisfies her. Bryce is considered her boyfriend now.

There are others she is attracted to but she only has eyes for Bryce and myself.

Not that I have never satisfied her. It's just 'different' with her and Bryce, as she puts it. She's never met anyone like him. Some of it's about the sex and some of it is other thing deeper things that she cannot verbalize, but tries to sometimes.

Bryce lives about 20 miles away. He has not really been with anyone since his divorce, which happened shortly before my wife reached out to him to rekindle their relationship.

In the beginning, during their 'honeymoon phase' they could hardly keep apart from each other, and I was concerned I was losing her. We had several talks about this. She continued to assure me that though her love and dedication for me was resolute, she would never be able to stop seeing Bryce.

As the honeymoon wore off, they settled into a regular weekly session. Once we were able to work out that Sunday afternoons are set aside for my wife and Bryce, everything settled down into a manageable pace. If Sundays won't work out, we arrange for them to meet on Saturday. If she cannot get her weekly Bryce time, then she starts getting agitated and difficult, as meetings during the week are very difficult to manage. I do not enjoy those weeks, so I help her work it out. One Saturday, I had family come in, and we had to agree that she would not be available that day since Bryce would be unavailable Sunday.

We are still intimate with each other, and it's really reinvigorated our time together.

One of the hottest things for me is that every time she comes, she calls out Bryce's name instead of mine! This is something that we started doing before she reached out to him, and I doubt she can stop it.

She definitely does love him and regularly tells him so, and on the phone in front of me.

It was about 10 years in our marriage when it came up about my fantasy to see her with other men. That part of it has never happened, but very quickly after we begin talking about that, she started talking about Bryce and sharing her past experiences with him. Up until that point I didn't know much about him, other than they had been together for 2 years in college, and they ended mutually ended it. She assured me then and still does that them as a couple does not exist. She doesn't seem him as a long term commitment, they agreed it would not work out as a marriage. But as it turns out, she had long been missing the sexual part of their relationship.

It did not take long to rekindle their relationship. As it turned out, they had been talking, if only occasionally during our marriage. It was only a matter of weeks after our conversation before she started seeing him again. As you might imagine, they didn't waste any time as it relates to becoming intimate again.

We had to decide how to present our situation, and we agreed that she would let him in on the truth. We didn't want him to think she was cheating or unhappy with me.

She has a few close friends of hers that know about our situation and Bryce. They even know Bryce, some from college. One of those friends is married to a friend of mine, and he thinks it unusual, but I assure him that everyone is happy with the situation.

I have never met him. And, she has made it clear that I will never participate in any intimate time with her and Bryce, and I don't get to hear everything about their encounters. She likes to keep it 'sacred'. She does let me know when she plans to see him. She has helped set up Bryce's home with her own touches to make it 'their space'. She keeps intimate clothes and things at his house that I will never see her in. They pulled out past pictures of themselves together and decorated his house with those things. Without her ring, she has attended events with his family, and they know her as his girlfriend.

They keep pushing him to marry her!

[Oneillfranko]

I like the way you write. How does Bryce compare to you physically?

[flahubbyofsue]

The part of being with his family as gf is so hot to me - I do want Sue to have full relationship - being gf for other guy completely - she was able to do this with one guy because they worked together and could be presented as work associate and visit him as such. I love to further explore these things.

[BiCuckArkansas]

I like the way you write. How does Bryce compare to you physically?

Oh, good question, he is 6 2, muscular, broad shouldered, according to her very well endowed. I am considered more like a runner's build, 5 11, average endowment.

[BiCuckArkansas]

The part of being with his family as gf is so hot to me - I do want Sue to have full relationship - being gf for other guy completely - she was able to do this with one guy because they worked together and could be presented as work associate and visit him as such. I love to further explore these things.

My concern is how this is going to play out...I am a bit uncomfortable with her closeness with her family and them not knowing that she is actually married. I wonder if Bryce is trying to play that angle with her and the family to reclaim her as his own and drive her away from me? She of course denies this is happening, she tells me I am just being insecure....