Our Journey - First Time and ongoing

[SlimScott]

Hi,
I wanted to describe the first time my lovely wife explored having sex with another man, and then explain how we came to try this lifestyle.
Rather than one long story, I will break this up into several parts, and appreciate any comments you are willing to share.

My wife Linda and I (Jim) are in our mid-thirties, and have been into the life-style for about three years. Things have progressed over that time, but I still think fondly about our first experience, and the steps leading up to my becoming a cuck.

We decided to put out feelers on a number of the websites that can be used to find men willing to train a couple trying to learn about the lifestyle.
We were looking for someone who was experienced, would not push us too fast, would share some of our interests - hiking, biking, music, etc.
As we looked at the responses, most were not a match, but we would email back and forth with those who seemed to "fit the bill". If the emails indicated a fit, both of us would meet the prospect for lunch.

Sam was the first gentleman we invited for lunch. We chose a nice restaurant in a major hotel. There was no thought of getting a room in the hotel, but we wanted to meet on neutral ground. Linda and I both really liked Sam. Linda talked about how tall and handsome he is, and I particularly appreciated the fact that his interests paralleled ours.

Sam, who was a bit older than we are, maybe mid-forties, was divorced with no children, and worked at the nearby college as an Assistant Professor. The most important thing was that he had introduced several couples to the lifestyle, and said that he always wants to take things slowly. That was music to our ears. Both Linda and I were a bit unsure, and wanted to test out the waters slowly. I'm not sure which of us was more reluctant, but we needed to go slowly! Linda and I sat on the same side of the booth, with Sam by himself on the other side of the booth. We told Sam that to start, we both wanted to be present as things progressed, to which he replied that he felt that it was important that the husband participates as his wife explores her sexuality outside the marriage.

After lunch, I shook Sam's hand, Linda gave him a quick hug, and I said that we would be in touch.

Linda and I talked a long time that evening. We were both impressed with Sam, and wanted to continue to build the relationship!

I called Sam about three days later, and suggested lunch. Sam had some conflicts, but we met about a week later. Sam arrived first, and left plenty of room for someone to sit beside him. I remember asking Linda if she wanted to sit beside Sam, to which she said "Why not?". I felt a twinge of I guess it was jealousy, but said "Go ahead". Linda slid over beside him, and gave him a little peck on the cheek. The first kiss.

Lunch went really well. Sam was charming, and included both of us in the conversation. We touched on the subject of new relationships, and Sam mentioned that he did not want to get too emotionally involved at this point in his life, still recovering from his divorce, and his rule is that after six months, he moved on. That sounded good to us, as we were not interested in a long term relationship at that point.
As we stood up to leave, Sam gave Linda a kiss that was more than a peck, but considering that we were in a very public area, was not inappropriate. I felt that tinge again.

That's enough for now. At the next lunch, Linda dresses a little more provocatively.

If you want to hear more, let me know!

[ColoCuck75]

Yes please!

[SlimScott]

Linda and I had another long talk that night. She was wanting to move forward with this relationship. She was really attracted to Sam. The way she put it was "I want to feel Sam's cock in my cunt." That was not the way she ever talked about sex before.

I was the one who was saying that we needed some rules. I insisted that we discuss the rules. After a lot of back and forth, we decided:
1) Anyone who we were considering as a sex partner had to be tested for STDs. If requested, we would be checked also
2) I would generally be present when "play" was taking place. Always the first two times.
3) If Linda said "Absolutely No" things would stop. This left her the option of play at leaving off the "Absolutely" and letting things continue
4) No Anal
6) No humiliation of Jim. Linda was very insistent on this.

We agreed to present these rules to Sam at our next lunch, and see his reaction. Linda said that she wanted to wear her "clingy, low cut dress" to the next lunch because Sam would be so distracted that he would agree to the rules without objection.

Linda called Sam to set up the next lunch. He said he was "available" the next day. (Available for what? I thought). It was set up.

Linda took her time getting ready, wearing that sexy dress, and specifically did not wear a bra. Her breasts are firm, with perky nipples that I enjoy playing with.

Once again Sam had arrived before we did, and there was plenty of room beside him. Linda, slipped in beside him without waiting for me to ask her if she wanted to. She immediately gave him a tender kiss, and I saw her hand rest on his leg as she slid over. I remember reminding myself that this was what I had fanaticized about.

Sam was very complimentary about Linda, saying how the dress really accentuated her sexy body, and was obviously, at least to me, looking at those perky breasts and prominent nipples!

After ordering, Linda said something about discussing rules, and listed the rules. We had agreed that Linda should talk about the rules as she was taking the risk. Linda said it also put her more in charge, and that's what she wanted. Sam listened, although he was distracted, and then grew vey serious. He said that he would be glad to be tested, but saw no need for Linda and me to be tested. He also said that he has one strong recommendation and very firm rule for couples he is introducing to cuckolding. The recommendation is that the wife wear her wedding ring, as all will find that particularly sexy. The rule is that the husband must be present, and be the one who removes his wife's panties before he fucks her.
Sam said the panties are the last physical barrier to the husband being cucked, and the husband removing the panties shows his agreement to and support of this act. He cannot reasonably say that he was not a full participant in this!

I was a bit surprised about this, but agreed that I would do just what he asked! I would think about this at length later, but my hardening cock indicated how I felt about becoming a cuck.

I noticed that Sam's hands, and Linda's hands would disappear under the table from time to time, and could easily guess what was going on. As we got ready to leave, Sam said "Linda, I hope you call soon", and slipped his hand down, giving her ass a quick feel as he kissed her warmly. I again felt that tinge, even though my cock was as hard as could be.

More next time - at our home.

[Frenchie]

What a nice way to begin in the lifestyle.

I hope it goes on this way and i'm eager to read more.

[SlimScott]

The next day, Sam phoned me, and asked me to meet him for lunch - without Linda. I agreed, and was a little concerned about what he wanted to talk about.

He started off with saying that he had trained a number of couples that were "testing the waters" of the husband becoming a cuckold. I told him I understood. "Jim" he said. "I want to make sure that this is something you really want. You will be giving up control in the bedroom, and in your every day life." I nodded, but it was a bit of a tentative nod. "Even now, Linda is starting to look to me for foreplay. You must have seen her hands all over me, and trust me, she was getting wet."

"Linda will look at me as the man in her life. She will be looking forward to my cock fucking her...not yours. Chances are Linda and I will do things that you never tried. Rather than you dominating her, she will dominate you, and since I will dominate her, in fact I will be dominating you. Are you ready for that?" I thought for a moment, and said "I think so, but let me give it some thought."

We ordered lunch, and changed the subject. Sam talked about sports, politics and science. As we finished lunch, I said "Yes, I am ready. I want this new adventure."

"OK. So to give you a taste, you are to tell Linda that you will go and help her pick out a new expensive, sexy outfit for her to wear when she welcomes me into your home for the adventure of making you a cuck."

That didn't seem too bad, so I readily agreed.

[jdeezel]

Please come back!

[Trevose]

Still waiting patiently......