Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

[BallSpanking]

Dear Ms Reese,

Welcome back!
Glad you are safe and all is well.
i imagined after 4 glorious days with your boyfriend, that you and he would bond a lot more, particularly after making love all the time, and him filling you with his "yummy cum" as you like to say.

So does this mean you will no longer be a HotWife? Just a wife with ONE boyfriend?

Just a question, not by way of criticism, but last I read you were reticent to give-up being a HotWife completely to dedicate yourself to Robert as a full-time lover...
That IS hot, but personally, I think it is hotter to be a HotWife with ALL your options open (i.e. seeing Robert, AND seeing other guys if the whim strikes you, as well as going out with L on occasion and picking-up hot , young studs).

[mrs_reese]

hubby is home! shhhh, dont tell him but I will always be a hotwife. I love the attention and the thrill of finding new lovers.
Ps, I love to write things at times to take hubby over the edge!
Pss, Hubby still owns my heart, and i am his slave most of the time
Robert, I am now his slave some of the time!
xoxoxo

More later boys, I have a hungry husband!

Psss, thanks ballspanking!

[Irwinhill]

BallSpanking writes to Ms Reese:

So does this mean you will no longer be a HotWife? Just a wife with ONE boyfriend?

To my mind, a married woman who--with her husband's knowledge and approval--has a lover is a hotwife. Is there a rule that says she can be a hotwife only if a) she has more than one lover, or b) is open to having more lovers?

Clarification please.

[BallSpanking]

I hate getting into definitions, because all these things are highly subjective, but, to my mind, a HW is a married woman with lovers (plural).
At least that is my preferred version.

[mrs_reese]

Good Morning,
Back to reality!
I was able to spend some time with my husband and all is well now!
I am sure that he will write his post at some point today.

About the Bahamas.
Paradise Island is magnificent.
The hotel itself is so beautiful.
There is this giant human water slide that projects you at a rapid speed that was a lot of fun.
Eating seafood, parasailing, swimming in the beautiful carribean waters, swimming with the sting rays; was so much fun for me, I was in heaven!
Intimacy was really nice. We spent a lot of time in our hotel room.
I wish I could explain more about our sex, but it was intense at times, playful at other times.
I had a wonderful time and I have Robert and my loving husband to thank for making my hotwife moment a lasting memory!

[aemn611]

But Mrs R - don't leave us hanging - please share with us the intra-mural sports that must have occurred when Robert picked you up and dropped you off. Mr R it would be very interesting to get your take as well. Also what chances does Mr R have of getting sex with Mrs R going forward and under what "rules"

[reese]

I am back!
I had a great weekend. Honestly, I didnt try to even think about my wife being gone. I had fun with the boys, travelling the midwest watching some Major League Baseball. Spending time at the ball games...great hotel rooms....late night bar hangouts.....flirting and hanging out with some sexy girls(of course, I had to buy drinks) and hitting up some adult bars.

Now was I tormented? Hell yes. I took a few long showers, door locked...and jacked furiously, trying to think about all the sex my hotwife was having. She and I spoke once...but it was too damn difficult to talk about her sex with Robert......
She did confirm her love for me..thanking me a few times...and telling me that when she comes home...that I better be prepared for a lot of sex..with and without Robert. I wish that I could write about some juicy details...but I am not able.
I didnt want to know! Taking my mind away from my wife and her sex with Robert....I actually survived the weekend.
I had a great time with the boys....it was refreshing to do guy stuff in some major cities...and not spend time alone jacking off every hour....in torment and pain knowing that I released my wife from her marital obligations and encouraged her to act like Robert's wife..............encouraged her to fall in love with him and to come back tormenting me and denying me ever more!

Leaving when my wife left was the only way I knew to survive............This was such a painful experience...but also very intense and sexually driven by the unbearable lust for my wife as she spent a long weekend with a man that she adores and loves!

Sex with my wife has been off the charts the past 3 days......I wills stop here...b/c I know that most of you are holding on to what she has to say...about Robert, her time alone with him...and her new ideas for a future with Robert being more active in her life.

[zhershey1082]

Welcome back Mrs_Reese. I’m sure you are glad to be back in familiar surroundings e.g. daughter, hubby and home. Whatever happened on your four-day vacation was, I’m sure exciting, memorable and sex-filled. My comment is directed to Reese. Man, you can sure take a hit. Did you play football in your younger days?

Understanding you two have been married less than four years, the past eighteen months have been off the charts. You are constantly having to re-claim your wife because she seems to be always looking for opportunities to keep your arousal in a steady state of excitement. Of the number of hits your Thread accumulated will go unsurpassed for a long time. Mainly it will be kept growing because both of you are like the Energizer rabbit that keeps going and going.

It appears there may be some damage control in order. I mean we hear what Mrs_Reese has said in reflection over the past weekend, and that things are good. Do we really know about the pillow talk laying in a king-sized bed over a thousand miles among the palm trees and sounds of ocean waves? In retrospect, only Robert and Mrs_Reese know what really happened. I’ve seen strong marriages, certainly connected longer than four years that happened to go South. Of course, we hear that she is your slave and you are her rock.

I just wonder what Robert is thinking now? We may never know until something flares up in your marriage like an argument. These things happen. So the question is are you comfortable with your marriage right now? Your wife keeps pushing the envelope and you tell us that you are the man behind the scenes, and that you are in control. Are you really in control if you don’t know what is going on in Robert’s head? Sure, you say he is one lucky guy to enjoy your hot wife but it should be noted that you have been spending at least two nights a week alone over the past year. Do you really enjoy the lonely times smelling her panties and sandals instead of being in the game?

I have really enjoyed reading your comments and those of your wife. I thank you for keeping the board alive. When you two take a break, there is a silence that pervades the board while many are waiting for your return.

So, that’s it. If you really comfortable with where things are right now, I bow to your strength and composure? You are “The Man” and many will gauge their sexual activities and thoughts against what you have had to endure since April 2008, You have set the bar at a high level. Take care big guy.

[sedvuslad]

zhershey1082 said: " - - over a thousand miles - - ".
Do we presume this to mean that Bahamas are over a thousand miles away from home/hubby? [Y] N].
How far are you from the Bahamas?
SEDL

[likesharing]

Hi, Mrs. Reese, welcome back , glad to read that all three of you had a great time! Given how awesome your Bahamas vacation was, is this something you'd like to experience with Mr. Reese some time in the near future?

[reese]

zhershey1082. Thank-you for your personal insights and feelings regarding our thread. I really appreciate your comments.
Hopefully, I can answer some of your questions. I think the bottom line thing for both of us is my attitude toward our hotwife lifestyle. I have found the secret ingredients to make this thing work. My attitude is firmly embedded in my wife's disposition as a hotwife. Meaning............. I am very confident and assertive. I attract other women. Not to be boastful..but I have the confidence that my wife craves. I have a bottom line belief that if I lose her to Robert or any other man...then its her loss.....she will lose the rock of her life....she will lose that foundation that creates a happy life for her. Again........my confidence is something that she admires...and my faith in her is somthing that NO man has ever given her on a consistent basis. My wife believes that she is living the dream......HOT sex from handsome men...the attention of men....and a loving loyal husband who loves to push her buttons at home. Why would she leave me? She will reply that to me often....why?? She believes that she would make the biggest mistake of her life if she left.
Now believe me when I write that we have our problems at times. I suffer from jealousy at times...possessiveness at times....and confusion at times. My wife suffers from the WHY do you ask me to do this confusion at times....or do you really love me baby? IF so then WHY do you constantly push my buttons and encourage me to fall in love with other men...what is wrong with you??? BRO............believe me....life is great most of the time as a hotwife couple...but sometimes WE suffer...................until my re-claimation of my wife after she is with her lover becomes LESS INTENSE........or if I ever think that she is wavering...that our marriage is suffering.....our life as a hotwife couple will continue as long as my wife is happy.

I hope this helps.......by the way..........we both are home today...........as husband and wife.....and I am very horny for her sex....and that will happen very soon...............I will ask her to write more about her feelings later today.

THANKS AGAIN for your faith in us.

[mrs_reese]

My turn
I have been away with hubby many many times to vacation spots throughout the world. So going with Robert was more an act of being with my lover in a remote area of the world where I could be free without the obligations of being a mom or Mrs R.
Hubby and I have shared some moments this week. We have had a few disagreements over some issues that I will leave alone and not mention. I came back home to a man who was emotionally battered. I have no idea how he does it but I realized that hubby needed me to be his wife coming back. I started teasing him right away with my posts here, soon, I realized that his silence was a message to me that he was confused and needed his wife back. I set a lot of rules for game play this time. I mentioned to him that there was NO way he could use the safe word, and cancel my vacation once I asked him for the last time if he was sure about me leaving the USA and going away with Robert. I asked him if he understood that going away will almost guarantee that I will come back feeling love for NOT JUST HIM but for Robert as well. I also told him that there would be a chance that I might walk away from Robert as I have other men in the past once they get too close to me. Coming back this time, I told hubby right away that my heart is with Robert more than I expected. But that I am learning to balance my love for both men and that he needs to understand and be patient with me.
I hope everyone reading this understands that I am not a slut. I dont seek a man for sex because I am unhappy with my husband. That would be easy for me. To fall out of love with my husband and have an affair like most unhappy married spouses may do. But, for me to be in love with my hubby, for me to lust his body and sex, for me to be proud to be his wife, and then be asked by my hubby to leave with Robert, to be asked to fall in love wiht him, to be asked to LET go, to not be his wife, to be Robert's only sexual partner, to deny hubby, to be asked to push hubby's buttons, to be asked to live life on the edge with hubby, to become a cuckoldress to hubby///////THAT IS A LOT TO HANDLE! THAT IS A LOT TO DEAL WITH!

So coming back to hubby, missing Robert, fulfilling my husbands urges to re-claim me, that is a LOT!
To be in love with hubby, more than I have ever been, and to feel a lot of love for a new lover in my life.
That is a lot to deal with.
It makes me want to quit being hotwife!
It makes me wanting to just be a married housewife!
But like hubby, I am not sure that I can turn back.
My sex with hubby is beautiful!
I am trying to love 2 men.
I am not sure how much longer I can do this!
But I am trying.
I will write more later.
I know most of you are waiting for the juicy details of my vacation.
I will write about that later.
I just needed to vent!

[MikeandDeb]

Actually I enjoy reading the insights of the emotions you both have. You two have taken the hotwife game further the most and you are open to sharing it with us. I envy that. We, Deb and I have our moments but right now we are between lovers for her. So we or more honestly I (since she isn't on here as much) am learning from your experiences. Yes the juicy parts are fun. But the communication side is most enlightening. Thank you both for sharing with us.

[mrs_reese]

Mike and deb, thank/you.
I hope that one day you both can find your way back to being a hotwife couple.
Your words were so kind.

[mrs_reese]

Quickly!
Hubby is on his way home from working out/ and I have only a few minutes. I am jumping to the NOW! I have a home cooked dinner waiting for my husband. My child was at school for her 1st day back. But guess what happened? I cant keep my hands off Robert. I am going to sound very slutty especially since my last post claiming I wasnt that way. Robert came over without my husbands knowledge. We fucked for 10 minutes?? It was pure lust. We both missed each other so much since our vacation. I know hubby will be torn when I tell him what just happened. I am so lucky having a man like Robert in my life and having the love of my husband.
Robert literally came in the door, I was in my girly shorts from Victoria Secrets, tank top, barefooted and cooking. Over the kitchen table, Robert wanted my husband to know that my breasts were pressed against the area that he sits while he was pounding me from behind. Whew! I am such a lucky girl.

After dinner!!!!!! This is what I want my husband to know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Will my husband be happy about this? I know this much, I will tell him after dinner to read this post.

Baby, did you like dinner? Now do you know why I was quiet at dinner? Do you know that Robert fucked me on our table? Do you like that baby? DO you like your wife being such a slut? Baby, you know I missed him. I couldnt keep hands and mouth off his yummy cock. Dont be mad baby!! I am waiting for you to finish reading this. I will be in bed baby! Hurry, because we will have my child back from gymnastics soon. Hurry baby! I want you to taste something.

[BallSpanking]

Dear Ms Reese,

Mr Reese should go mad with lust when he finds out you prepared a fresh creampie for him?

As to being in-love with two men..., what's wrong with that?
As long as they are both willing to share you, you will just have to sacrifice to please them both in bed.
Can you do that?

[zhershey1082]

Thank You Reese and Mrs_Reese for responding to my questions. Apparently, the pretty lady needed to vent afterwards.

At any rate, she has been naughty again with Robert while you were away. The passion in evident for both lovers.

Here you are, sweaty from working out, looking forward to coming home, take a shower and enjoy a home-cooked meal, only to find out you have a desert waiting. Life is short, have the creampie desert first. You can always put the dinner in the microwave. You remain my hero.

[mrs_reese]

Ok, finished with dinner, my daughter is ready for bed;tired from school, and hubby, well, I can say that I rocked his world again! Yes, drippy, creamy cum was leaking all over my legs, soaking my butt and pussy. Hubby licked me deeply everywhere, taking it all in. It has been a while since he cleaned me up. We didnt have sex only b/c the minute I stroked his cock, he orgamsed. I teased hubby and told him while he was cumming that a real man like Robert can hold his cum for my pussy. Hubby let out a loud moan as he orgasmed in my hand. Afterward, he apologized for cumming. I told hubby, dont worry, its your loss. Robert is claiming more and more of my pussy. Hubby didnt like that comment. We talked over dinner, we both realize that we are entering a into a new world with Robert needing me more and more, and not just sexually. Hubby told me that he is torn, the orgasms are too good and intense for him to give all of this up.

soon, i will write about my vacation. sorry about not writing about my experiences, there is just so much to write about!

[BallSpanking]

If I am reading this right, Ms Reese, you are saying that you need to spend more girlfriend-time with Robert, which may mean delaying Mr Reese's gratification..., like last night, him cumming in your hand.
Are you still desirous to open yourself to Robert, and give HIM your best attention? At least for now?
Is that what I'm understanding?

If you do that, and you increasingly move-in with Robert..., will you insist on keeping your HotWife freedom?

Will Robert be as willing to share you as Reese?

[mrs_reese]

Last Thurday! as Robert was on his way to the house; hubby and I were awake, finishing the last minute packing, he was very apprehensive and nervous. He kept asking me to give him a blowjob. I told him NO! I really pushed his buttons to the point that I was worried that I was going to damage our marriage. I was having fun with this. My initial thought was that if hubby can not handle this then all hotwife activities will end and I can go back to being who I used to be. At times I want all of this to end. But on that day last Thursday, I was so emotionally prepared to leave. The buildup was very erotic for me. Knowing that if I could be brave enough to walk out of my husbands life with his blessings and enter into another mans arms to be his exclusive lover in the Bahamas. Knowing that I was a married housewife, cheating on my husband with his blessings. Well, lucky for me, Robert knocked on the door soon afterwards. As I approached the door, I told my husband that I love him with my entire body and soul but that he will have to let go of me at this moment. I told my husband that for the next 4 days, Robert will be my master. That husband will have no rights to me. I told him that this will hopefully be the most intense hotwife game we have ever played!
Robert entered thru the door. He and I had this moment rehearsed. I dropped to my knees and raised my hand to his hands. He asked me if I was ready to become his slave. I immediately unzipped his pants and pulled out his penis. I looked over to my husband who was stroking his cock already and released my body from him. Hubby told me that at that moment, the look of my face was a look of complete submission to Robert! I put Robert's penis to my face. Never touching the tip, but rubbing it all over my lips. Robert removed my wedding ring and asked that my husband take it from his hands.


part 2 on the next page.

[mrs_reese]

Hubby with one hand on his cock took the ring. Robert now asked hubby to release it from his bond of marriage and present it to him as an act of complete release of me to him. Hubby with his massive hard on gave my ring to Robert as requested.
What a crazy man, the only reason why he did that was because of his hard cock. I really wanted to take my husbands penis at that moment and make love to him with Robert watching. I had this urge only b/c I wanted both men to know that they may be my master's but I control the game. But I didnt! The presentation of this event was very emotional and sexy to me. I knew what would happen next. Hubby again will never talk about this only because he is the alpha male turned cuckold for me. With his hardon, he will do anything, but once he releases his orgamsm, hubby is a changed man. Loss of interest and back to being alpha hubby that becomes very territorial of his wife. This is a very difficult change of personality for me to handle. But I deal with it!
I held Roberts bulging cock in my hand. I squeezed the bottom of his shaft to create a bulging hard-on. I asked hubby if he was ready to give me up. He was silent. I told him to ask Robert to be my master. Hubby was hesitant. I told hubby that this is his moment! I begged my husband to release me. Finally, he asked Robert to be my master over me mentally and sexually. Handing Robert our wedding ring, hubby was not my master anymore. Robert placed my ring back on my finger and now told husband to suck his cock. Robert loves doing this. It is the ultimate game of control. Hubby is always hesitant until I convince him that I no longer belong to him and that I am Roberts slave. I teased hubby to taste what I will be tasting all weekend.

Part 3 on the next page.

[mrs_reese]

Hubby started sucking Robert as I held Roberts cock from the bottom of his shaft. Robert was every big at this moment. Hubby was stroking while sucking Robert. I made hubby remove his hand from his penis. I didnt want him to cum.
Soon, Robert told us that he was ready to cum. As he was pumping my husbands mouth, I kept telling my husband that he is our cuckold and that Robert owns my pussy. That Robert is bigger, that Robert is the best fuck that I have ever had. Words like this make my husband rage out of control. As robert started to orgasm, I pulled hubby off his cock and let Robert's cum spill all over my hands, I used his cum to stroke hubby to his orgasm.
But I did one thing that I didnt think I would do. I swallowed all of my hubbys cum...tasting Robert's as well.
As hubby was cumming, I looked in his eyes, and with my emotions I was telling hubby that THIS is a game! Hubby knew at that moment that I was forever his wife. I told my husband that I love him with my soul. Once this moment was over, I stood up and changed the subject. Realizing that my husband was hitting a LOW, I talked about his vacation and how exciting it must be to watch some games from different cities. That is all everyone! My vacation with Robert was beautiful. But our sex together can not compare to how sexy it was on Thursday morning when Robert came to our house with Hubby and I sharing his cock.

I hope you enjoyed reading this.
I want to move on now and just talk about the NOW!
xoxoxo

[amalfi]

WOW....speechless!!!

[mrs_reese]

jr graham, i will try to answer your questions; you are so intense with all of this, if only you could watch me in actionLOL!

On the plane, i was in my pink victoria HOT shorts, matching top and white flipflops with french manicured toes.
Topless on the beach, yes. robert took pride in showing off my breasts. i didnt go topless at the resort.
Sluttiest thing on the trip? Robert fucked my butt in our hotel room cumming deeply in me. Very intense and naughty.
A lot of people we met were told by either robert or myself that i was a cheating wife.
I discussed the ring presentation to robert, thanks to a lot of my friends and their suggestions.
Robert is somewhat bi, he doesnt really talk about my hubby sucking him off but he loves the control over him when my Hubby is kneeling sucking his penis, knowing that he has complete control over my husband as he has his way with me.
If my husband could learn to be more submissive, it would be more relaxing and erotic for me. I always know that hubby is being submissive and non-alpha for ME only or because he is trying to have an intense orgasm.
I am very emotional while making love to Robert. I love him deeply. I have become addicted to his penis at times! Its perfect!
I love that Robert is ONLY my lover- not being his wife allows me to date him, to be free with him/we never argue.
RObert is very possessive of me. HE doesnt like when I act slutty for others.
Once while Robert was getting drinks, a man came over to me and started to flirt, Robert didnt like that. I realized that I was only for Robert and there was to be NO hotwife activities. We were more or less like newlyweds.
Robert is about 8.5 inches not as thick as hubby. Hubby is 7.5 and much thicker. Just a guess.
Hubby is gorgeous/ he has NO problems finding women. But so ir Robert. I have the best of both worlds.
Hubby is 5'11, 185, 31 inn waist, broad shoulders, great abs and / very muscular/ italian. Robert is 6'2, 180 lean and not as muscular. Robert is clean shaven, hubby looks hot with his gotee neatly trimmed/ and at times with a unshaven face with a few days of stubble. RObert is sandyblonde/ hubby is dark hair and eyes.
Women come on to both of them. It is hard to say who is cuter. THey both have their mojo!
Successful? Tough question. I am not sure. Hubby is talented and successful as is Robert.
Hubby's cock was so fat when he was sucking robert. I know he likes his cock. He wont admit it though.
Cucking hubby. Wow! Can I cuck him any more than I already have??
Hubby was destroyed by the ritual/ in his own words. Once he came off his sexual high, he was very troubled by everything. But in the end, hubby knew that this is what he wanted.

[BallSpanking]

I hope, Ms Reese, you will also tell us about the time you spent with Robert in the Bahamas.

I was also wondering what you meant by your post last night. You mentioned that Robert would now be needing you more "and not just sexually".

Does this mean you will be spending more time with Robert at his home and his boat?

Does it mean you want to be closer to Robert now and that he is your exclusive BF?

Since Robert is more possessive of you, does this mean you will be acting less as a HotWife now he is your BF?

Welcome back!