New and still figuring it all out

[2inUPMichigan]

Thanks for the update! I love to hear how close you and H are.

And the prospect of an experienced Dom kinda nearby is exciting!

What will be will be

Believe it or not he has experience in something that is on my bucket list and knows someone else for a second item on my list I might just swoon!!
In rural terms an hour away is almost next door!

[Hungry4IT]

Thanks for the update! I love to hear how close you and H are.

And the prospect of an experienced Dom kinda nearby is exciting!

What will be will be

Believe it or not he has experience in something that is on my bucket list and knows someone else for a second item on my list I might just swoon!!
In rural terms an hour away is almost next door!

Sounds like a fun time in the making. I'll send ya good vibes it works to your advantage.lol I Can't wait to hear about every steamy detail.

And boy do I know the rural living. Its about an hour from our place to the closest town that has any bigger stores to shop in and a few hours till anything that resembles modern living in most people's minds. But of course we love it. Cant best small towns with only a few hundred people spread out over hundreds of miles for tranquility of life. But if your in need of playmates it makes it tough as you know.

[2inUPMichigan]

Congratulations on a very fun time! Farmgirl will be so happy for you or is it envious.

I'm the one that is envious of her and her stable of FWB'S

This first year has certainly had it's ups and downs and I have learned a lot. I am more than ready to see what comes next!

[Matureone2560]

Phew, made it to the last page.

I have loved this thread from start to now, and how you have moved on from the nervous start to taking control of the situations that have arisen.

While it took 7 days to read the whole thread, I can now take the time to savor each update you post.

I also loved your pics in the hotties section, thanks for sharing it was a big step for you. I'm not surprised you have had lots of offers you sexy devil

Oh thanks for reading through my very lengthy thread
It has been a very eventful experience full of ups and downs and a lot of learning about myself and other people.
You are now up to date on my first year as a hotwife Monday is my official hotwife anniversary

I'm going to look through the pictures from last night tomorrow to decide if I want to load any of them to the hotties folder. I will of course make an announcement here if I do that.

Yes, happy anniversary. Would love to see more pics and could you add a link to them?

I was wondering if i could pm you about something?

[2inUPMichigan]

Phew, made it to the last page.

I have loved this thread from start to now, and how you have moved on from the nervous start to taking control of the situations that have arisen.

While it took 7 days to read the whole thread, I can now take the time to savor each update you post.

I also loved your pics in the hotties section, thanks for sharing it was a big step for you. I'm not surprised you have had lots of offers you sexy devil

Oh thanks for reading through my very lengthy thread
It has been a very eventful experience full of ups and downs and a lot of learning about myself and other people.
You are now up to date on my first year as a hotwife Monday is my official hotwife anniversary

I'm going to look through the pictures from last night tomorrow to decide if I want to load any of them to the hotties folder. I will of course make an announcement here if I do that.

Yes, happy anniversary. Would love to see more pics and could you add a link to them?

I was wondering if i could pm you about something?

viewtopic.php?f=9&t=54007
I'm on my phone but I think this is the correct link to my pic folder.
Yes you can send me a PM

[2inUPMichigan]

I posted a few new pics in my thread in the hotties section from my last play date.
LOL - one of these times we will remember to clean up the room around us before taking pictures!!

[Whosbeensleeping]

Thanks for the sexy pics. Definitely piqued my interest! As if it needed it.

[Matureone2560]

Phew, made it to the last page.

I have loved this thread from start to now, and how you have moved on from the nervous start to taking control of the situations that have arisen.

While it took 7 days to read the whole thread, I can now take the time to savor each update you post.

I also loved your pics in the hotties section, thanks for sharing it was a big step for you. I'm not surprised you have had lots of offers you sexy devil

Oh thanks for reading through my very lengthy thread
It has been a very eventful experience full of ups and downs and a lot of learning about myself and other people.
You are now up to date on my first year as a hotwife Monday is my official hotwife anniversary

I'm going to look through the pictures from last night tomorrow to decide if I want to load any of them to the hotties folder. I will of course make an announcement here if I do that.

Yes, happy anniversary. Would love to see more pics and could you add a link to them?

I was wondering if i could pm you about something?

viewtopic.php?f=9&t=54007
I'm on my phone but I think this is the correct link to my pic folder.
Yes you can send me a PM

That link works thankyou. That is a really lovely pic, thanks for sharing. You have really come a long way

[SutterKane]

It's good to see that you're still rocking the free world, girl!

[2inUPMichigan]

It's good to see that you're still rocking the free world, girl!

I'm still working on building that roster. H is convinced that once these men actually meet me for the first time I will be very busy!

[2inUPMichigan]

Today is the day - the 1st anniversary of my first official hotwife play date. I had hoped to have a special night with a new man but it just didn't happen.

As I look back on this last year there are things that make me smile, a few that make me cringe ....but overall I have learned a lot about myself and what is important to me. It is interesting to me that having these play dates in some way helps me to be more focused in my real life. It isn't just about sex, it is about friendship not only with the men I go on play dates with but some of the members I have met here.

I have evolved, I have changed, I have become more authentically unapologetically me. The one thing that never changed is the bond between hubby and I. ❤

I look forward now to this next year, a year of adventure and exploration. I already have accepted my value as a woman now it's time to start working on my bucket list. I have had a few volunteers already (it's just a matter of getting them up here!) I am also considering writing about my bucket list experiences for Amazon as I haven't done much writing recently.

As always I have a few men I am talking to that I hope will turn into in person meetings.....only time will tell. I will post updates here.

Thank you to those of you that have been so supportive to be, I appreciate all your wisdom, your well wishes and your encouragement of my naughty behavior.

[SutterKane]

Sweet 2UP, I wish you all the best in this life! I think you are a true treasure here on OHW and that we are very lucky to have you! so congratulations on the one year anniversary!

[2inUPMichigan]

Sweet 2UP, I wish you all the best in this life! I think you are a true treasure here on OHW and that we are very lucky to have you! so congratulations on the one year anniversary!

Thanks so much Sutter!

[Hungry4IT]

Today is the day - the 1st anniversary of my first official hotwife play date. I had hoped to have a special night with a new man but it just didn't happen.

As I look back on this last year there are things that make me smile, a few that make me cringe ....but overall I have learned a lot about myself and what is important to me. It is interesting to me that having these play dates in some way helps me to be more focused in my real life. It isn't just about sex, it is about friendship not only with the men I go on play dates with but some of the members I have met here.

I have evolved, I have changed, I have become more authentically unapologetically me. The one thing that never changed is the bond between hubby and I. ❤

I look forward now to this next year, a year of adventure and exploration. I already have accepted my value as a woman now it's time to start working on my bucket list. I have had a few volunteers already (it's just a matter of getting them up here!) I am also considering writing about my bucket list experiences for Amazon as I haven't done much writing recently.

As always I have a few men I am talking to that I hope will turn into in person meetings.....only time will tell. I will post updates here.

Thank you to those of you that have been so supportive to be, I appreciate all your wisdom, your well wishes and your encouragement of my naughty behavior.

A little late but a sincere Happy Aniversary!

I have gained much from your insight and frankness on this forum and enjoy your wit and humor as well.

Thank you for being You

It's great to hear your feeling your true self and we can't wait to hear and see your next level of transformation as you check off the bucket list and put the pen to paper.

Good fortunes to the coming season!

[2inUPMichigan]

Well my goodness
After a bit of a let down today has been a huge upswing of activity!
I have been in contact recently with D the Dom and he wrote me a very lengthy message answering some questions that I had and gave me a lot to think about.

I also got a surprise message from YG ....anyone remember him from this summer? He wanted to know if I had found the FWB'S I was looking for. LOL

Then I had messages from 3 new men whose profiles I had peeked at over the weekend. 1 sounds like a picture collector so he won't last but I will be talking to the other 2 who both opened face pics for me.

What a nice way to start the week texting while sitting in the living room with hubby. The best of both worlds.

Oh yes and I have a play date next week with H.

[jane]

that's wonderful ! variety

[Hungry4IT]

Right On!

[2inUPMichigan]

Forgot about another potential man who responded back this morning - R - who only lives about 100 miles away. Practically down the street!! LOL

Several of this new batch of men are into at least some type of bondage so I "might be a little tied up" soon. (Couldn't resist that one)
Looks like I will be exploring that part of my bucket list very thoroughly.

[Farmgirl]

I just love to explore and discover! Go Girl!!!

[2inUPMichigan]

And another new one tonight! On a roll, on a roll!!
Is it bad or good that I lost track of how many men I was texting with today?


🥳

LMAO - I couldn't help myself I went back and counted. I was texting with 6 different men today.
Maybe things are turning around? I just hope that a few of them turn into actual scheduled play dates.

[rascalnvixen]

If all these guys all line up and are wanting to meet with you for playtime, will you be able or even want to be with all of them in a concentrated time frame? Congrats on your recent success with your efforts thus far!!

Rascal

[2inUPMichigan]

If all these guys all line up and are wanting to meet with you for playtime, will you be able or even want to be with all of them in a concentrated time frame? Congrats on your recent success with your efforts thus far!!

Rascal

No more than one play date in a week is what I am looking for. I am "selective" ....yeah okay picky so chances of all of them making it to an in person meeting are slim. I am taking some advice I was given by broadening the field a bit.
I am telling these guys that I want once a month or every other month.
YG is trying to get in my good graces again but he has only a slim chance and it depends on the results of a task I gave him to do.

I'm mentally exhausted from keeping up with all these messages today!
Luckily I will be seeing H next week so I can show him all their pictures to see if he knows any of them. Too many to send him at this point. He will let me know if any are men I need to avoid (due to reputation) before i go further.

Rambling alert !! Tired and need sleep

[rascalnvixen]

Thanks for the reply. Agree on the tired and need sleep!!! Have fun juggling your suitors!!!!

Rascal

[2inUPMichigan]

Thanks for the reply. Agree on the tired and need sleep!!! Have fun juggling your suitors!!!!

Rascal

I guess to put it bluntly it doesn't matter how many are interested I won't ever compromise my standards.

Just because a man might want me to accommodate him in the future (schedule a play date on the same week as someone else) doesn't mean that I will. The only way I would ever meet 2 men separately in the same week is if one was a meet and greet with no possibility of playing.

Clarifying because this question has come up before.

[rascalnvixen]

Thanks for the reply. Agree on the tired and need sleep!!! Have fun juggling your suitors!!!!

Rascal

I guess to put it bluntly it doesn't matter how many are interested I won't ever compromise my standards.

Just because a man might want me to accommodate him in the future (schedule a play date on the same week as someone else) doesn't mean that I will. The only way I would ever meet 2 men separately in the same week is if one was a meet and greet with no possibility of playing.

Clarifying because this question has come up before.

I think I know you well enough by now to know that you won't do ANYTHING you don't want to do. Never even thought you would meet more than one guy a week for a playdate. Like you said, you stated that clearly numerous times previously. My comment about juggling was that you seem to have many more options available at this time than in sometimes in the past, not that you would let them dictate your play schedule. So now you need to evaluate each new contact and decide if they are worthy!

Rascal