Ah but sex with you may still be the best because it has that emotional component. Sure he may overwhelm her physically and that can feel awesome but it isn't the same as the emotional connection that she has with you.Myhotwife76 wrote: ↑Fri Sep 27, 2019 7:15 amOk hotwifes my wife an I have been doing this for 8 yrs. An she really enjoys it way more than i ever thought. I thought she was gonna need time. Nope she jumped right in. I have always enjoyed it to. It was my idea. Sometimes she seems to like it so much its a little scary. Just this last few months she has gone solo with a guy. I always at least get a video of the ordeal. Which is great. About a 2 months ago i left the house as he was showing up to fuck my wife. An when she was done i came home an she was so excited an said it was amazing with a huge smile on her face. To my suprise the camera was full an it stopped 15 min in when they just started kissing! So i missed it. Couple weeks ago he came over an when they were done. Once again she was amazed an dazed. I watched the video. An it was way more then i ever expected. He just fucked her non stop for hours an she was cumming alot an making noises ive never heard come out of her ever! I couldn't believe he was fucking her past her limits further then i ever took her. She could hardly breath an she stood up an fell on the floor! An he wasn't done but she eventually tapped out. She couldn't take no more. This is great very sexy. But kinda scary to. She just seems she is memorized by him. An I dont think i can match that. I know she enjoyed it. But when she sensed that i was kinda bothered by it. She stopped talking about it an playing like no big deal. I dont think you can just turn it off like that. I know she wants more of it, i want her to. She told me the time i missed on video was just like this time. She just was really in tune with him. Very intimate very passionate kinda looked like making love. It looked like it was just her an him in that moment nothing or no one mattrred. I guess thats what solo does. I love the lifestyle i just didn't expect her to love it as much as she is. She says there no sex better than with me. But i think i have video proof that there is. Anyways were good. I just wasn't expecting the emotional impact that solo has given both of us. She fine. Im trying to figure it out in my head. Lol
Solo play dates are about letting everything else go and being in the moment, that is true. It isn't so much about him but about her shedding off all the other roles that she plays and just being a woman for that moment in time. That can be a powerful feeling, but it's more about her than anyone else.
If she found someone that she can trust enough to let go and just be herself that is great!