Young Wife May Start Again

[brandiandme]

It was a big (pun intended) for my little slut weekend.  I started working on this update yesterday but did not finish so I'm wrapping it up today. 
 
Questions.  

Yes, we've talked about tattoos before.  She likes the idea of a tattoo, but she is not sure where or what.  It's not a huge deal to me and not worth pushing.

To answer the question of does she miss me.  Yes, she constantly sends I love you texts and emojis.  She gets sad on the phone.  She does not cry a lot, but that is just her.  She never cries a lot.  She stoic in many ways.  I have said this before but I feel there is no emotional attachment to any of her bulls.  Are they friends?  Yes.  Does she love sex with them?  Yup.  She looks at sex like a fun work out activity.  If she was the type of girl that needed a deep emotional connection.  A) That would be hard for me to deal with and B) Those type of girls are not typically fucking a bunch of random guys and doing gangbangs.  C) Those women seem to want a long term steady lover.  Kudos to those husbands that can deal with that.  To me, it's easier for her to be a slut that fucks a 100 other guys than a girl who fucks only 1 other guy, but has a deep connection with him.  It's just how I'm wired though.  

My portion of the current project is on time, so I am back in just over 3 weeks.  Flight booked.  I am scheduled to leave for 5 weeks on 4/20 to get the next project started.  I definitely think it may be good for Brandi to get away from the madness of late, even if just for a few weeks.  So much has changed in the last few months.  She is worried about being bored in a country where she does not know anyone and is alone all day for 10 hours or more.  

As for the observation that she has mostly been with black men recently, you are correct.  It made me wonder so I did some looking back at my records.  Since 2/1/20 Brandi has had sex with 5 different white guys totaling 9 encounters, and 15 different black guys totaling 14 encounters.  More recently in the last 2 weeks since 3/1/20, she has had sex with 2 white guys totaling 3 encounters, and 9 black guys totaling 7 encounters. 
I know the BBC thing turns many of you on.  I feel that term is misleading though.  I would not classify all of them as BBC as that implies they were all big.  Yes, a handful of her guys have been large, and most bigger than average according to her, but not all, including the disappointingly small guy (one of the 2 she brought home with her friend Kate) several weeks ago.  Does that make him a SBC?

So, gwwkjt, once again your intuition is astonishing.  When you asked if "So Brandi is now exclusively BBC girl?"  Read on below about that and the queen of spades.  It really is creepy dude, it's like you know what is going to happen.

Anyway back to the big weekend of firsts. First time with 4 new guys. First time with 6 guys at a gangbang. First monster dick.

After the issues last Tuesday night, she took a few days to chill and get ready for her gangbang on Saturday.  Tre continues to use Brandi as his personal fuck toy and is sharing the wealth.  By my count he has now shared her with a total of 14 guys.  Saturdays gangbang was with 6 guys, including 4 new guys.  Tre, his roommate, his cousin, his cousins 2 buddies, and Tre's uncle.  He was not his cousins father but an uncle to both he and Tre.  

None of the guys were small, but the icing on the cake was Tre's uncle.  He had the biggest cock she had ever seen.  She told me he was several inches longer than Billy and even thicker than Billy, Tre, and even R.  She said he's so big she can barely get her mouth around his head and her fingers aren't even close to wrapping around his cock.

He was so big that even after fucking the other guys, even Tre's thick cock, she made him take it easy.  He actually said he preferred to go last so she was not too tight for him.  She preferred to ride him the first time and although she let a few of them fuck her ass, she was not going to even attempt a double penetration with his monster.  She said he was the most dominant man she had ever met yet not in a rough way, and was yet fairly gentle with her.  According to Brandi, he was a man among boys.  She said after Tre's uncle stretched her she easily did a DVP.  She was in full porn star mode for the guys.  I cannot wait to see this myself soon.  I hope it doesn't inhibit her to have me there.  

She said her second go around with his monster was easier and she took all of him.  He told her a lot of women have not been able to take him all the way.  This made her proud in a way.  He was the last to go of the night and Brandi said he fucked her hard this time, to the point of the rest of the guys cheering him on.  She had to tap out.  Her pussy could take no more.  Tre's uncle offered to bring her home, which he did, and he was a perfect gentleman, walking her up to the door.  He clearly had ulterior motives though as he asked to see her again, which she is already planning tonight.   

She talked a lot about Tre's uncle and admitted that she was fascinated by him and his horse sized cock, and is excited to meet with solo again tonight.  I told her to go for it and the thought of an older massive black man stuffing his monster cock in her little body does it for me. 

She told me that after the fucking she got from the gangbang and the fun she's been having with Tre's and the guys, she's really into the interracial thing right now (yeah, no kidding).  There has been some race play and the guys have been calling her a black cock slut and other similar names for a while.  She very much enjoys this.  She said it was also the lackluster fucks from Mr. Gray, Joe, and Joe's friend.  She is also annoyed by the jealously bullshit from Billy.  She used his jealously to point out how much she loved me and my lack of jealously.  This is something that I have worked on every day to curtail.  I know my early reactions about Billy and Tre were all due to my jealously.  I nearly lost my mind with jealously when I came home last time and blew the entire thing and our marriage up.  I practically begged her to fuck someone else and then do very slutty things.  I have no right to jealously.  

She actually said in a moment of frustration, "fucking black guys is so much easier, they're just in it for the sex and actually good at it."  Holy fucking shit!  Did she just say that to me?  I reminded her I'm a white guy.  She laughed and said "oh course I don't mean you, you're my hubby." 

I admitted to her that with her new pension for black cock (she's now had 19 black cocks in just over 3 months, has officially had more black men that white men, and has had black guys at a 2-1 ratio since starting up hotwifing) I have been really getting into interracial cuckold porn lately and asked if she knew what a queen of spades is.  She was aware of it and thinks the idea is kind of silly, but hot in some ways.  She admits she is enjoying her interracial fun.  She doesn't care what you call it.  Then she said teasing me and clearly pushing my buttons "there's something to the saying once you go black you never go back."   

There has been some drama at work.  The next day after Billy confronted Brandi he started to run his mouth to others at work that he and others had been fucking Brandi.  Luckily Tre was there and caught wind of it right away.  This just cements the fact that Billy will not be getting Brandi's pussy anymore.  Tre had Brandi's back and when alone pinned Billy up against the wall and told him he needed to keep his mouth shut and deny everything.  This makes me feel good about Tre.  I have not seen or talked to him since before I left, and the last exchange was weird.  Now that he knows I know, I think we'd be good.  We have always gotten along before.  

So rumors have spread, but now Billy is in denial too, along with Tre and Brandi.  A few girls she's closer with curiously asked her about it, a few girls have been bitchy, but all of a sudden every guy in the place is being extra nice.  It's a turn on for sure.  Funny how guys work, as soon as the hear a girl may be a slut, they think they have a shot.  Her managers have been cool about it.  The assistant manager is an guy that suddenly became a lot nicer to her.  He has not said a word.  The manager is a woman, who rumor has it, was a bit of a slut herself back in the day.  She actually told her "you go girl".  Listen, I know there is speculation about who and what Brandi has done, and most probably think she has fucked around to some extent, but most people don't really know for sure.  The place is a gossip factory and something else will come up soon anyway.  

I am still not back for another 3 weeks.  By my count Brandi has had sex with 26 different men since I have been away.   It really is strange to think that many man have had her pussy since I last did.  Surreal.  

My Hotwife's Totals
Total all time 37 men 18 White and 19 Black
since starting hotwifing on 11/2/19 she's fucked 29 men 19 - Black  10 - White  
11 total gangbangs 
since I left on 1/13/20 - 26 men including 16 new

[XYAlpha]

So what is Brani's commitment for sex with you?

When you came home last it was a lackluster one-and done. Then you masturbated while she slept...

Are you still her priority or are you going to be cucked and just watch?

There seems to be such an emphasis on her having multiple partners, will you ever just have your wife to yourself? What did you decide about the vacation?

I see all these dominant men coming into play and you losing out - them running your wife and your life. I hope not, but this seems to be moving rapidly in that direction. Tre and the others are probably not excited about your return - unsure about what that will mean for "them". I suspect they have plans...

You had better figure out how you are going to project your dominance and your husband position when you return - or you may be wearing panties sitting in the corner having surrendered your position - jerking off as Brandi gets her sex elsewhare.

XY

[JustWantToWatch]

I know I doubted this marriage would work when you found out she was lying to you right before you left for 10 weeks but I am happy to be wrong. Brandi's escapades are hot as hell!

[UtridOfAustin]

Did the uncle bareback her?

Will he tonight?

Where are she and the uncle meeting?

[gwwkjt]

I am quite curious about the dimensions. Ask Brandi to measure both length and circumference of the uncle and Tre so we get the idea (in metrics too). If condoms were used with the uncle, were they regular or of special size?

[XYAlpha]

I was wondering that as well - her surprise would also mean she likely did not have one of her own to fit. Another agreement broken.

Are any of these guys married? The Uncle?

The OP and Brandi better have a plan for a very pissed off wife or two, or three, or four...

[gwwkjt]

Are any of these guys married? The Uncle?

Since these new characters were introduced it would be nice to know more about them. What are they like? Seems like they have interesting family dynamics. Any of them local?

[subtoall]

Incredibly hot! I love the new development with the uncle. I think Brandi needs a real bull in her life, and it sounds like he could be it.

I am scheduled to leave for 5 weeks on 4/20 to get the next project started.  I definitely think it may be good for Brandi to get away from the madness of late, even if just for a few weeks.  So much has changed in the last few months.  She is worried about being bored in a country where she does not know anyone and is alone all day for 10 hours or more.  

Something tells me a sexy slut like Brandi with a lot of free time will have no trouble finding something to occupy herself with.

[afagehi7]

I was wondering that as well - her surprise would also mean she likely did not have one of her own to fit. Another agreement broken.

Are any of these guys married? The Uncle?

The OP and Brandi better have a plan for a very pissed off wife or two, or three, or four...

This is a response to both of your posts.

1. Brandi didn't wear condoms with horse cock uncle. Come on, she's being a good BBC slut and Tre knows him well enough to vouch for him. He was pounding that pussy raw. At least I hope so.

2. OPs dominance as her husband...it's more a question if these dominant alpha fuck machines will respect his position as her dominant hubby and If Brandi will stick up for OP. I think they'll be laughing him off and doing what they want and making him a beta. When they do this, will Brandi stick up for him?. I think he'll just accept his beta role so to not cause conflict. Otherwise, she'd have to stop. There is no way they are going to have respect for him as the alpha in Brandi's life.

[gwwkjt]

OP: many thanks for the excellent update. I did not expect that Brandi would be able to escalate to another level, but she surprised us again. “First time with 4 new guys. First time with 6 guys at a gangbang. First monster dick”. You skipped quite a lot in your story going straight to the uncle. Let’s sort out the storyline straight.

So Tre’s cousin from the army was travelling with two of his buddies. Travelling to where? Where do they live? Are they on vacation or going home on their leave? Buddies are in the army too, I guess. How did the uncle come into picture? How old is he? Any of them local (meaning if they are going to be regulars now?)

Both XY and A7 (and myself) are curious about condom use. We know that Tre and his roommate go bare. If Brandi did not explicitly mention the condom use with other guys do you assume that they were used? As you noticed XY and I pointed out that matching a monster cock with a condom might be worthwhile mentioning. At least the blowjob with the uncle was without condom, probably with others too. I know I’ve been raising the question about blowjobs before, but I think I was misunderstood. I meant blowjobs without condoms with those guys that are using condoms in vag- and anal intercourse. Sorry for bringing up a non-sexy aspect, but it is possible to catch chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, HPV and genital herpes from sucking a dick (even if women usually think it is not sex). Genital herpes can also be transmitted during an intercourse with condoms. Unfortunately blacks also have a higher percentage of genital herpes compared to whites (30% vs <10% respectively). BTW, if she is tested (preferably before your arrival) she needs to tell the doctor to take swabs also from her throat and anus

So she handled 6 guys. There was anal, DVP, probably DP’s as well. There was a 2nd round too at least with some of the guys. This must have taken a while I guess. Is she eager to please them or she does not care about that and just wants to get off herself?

She said he's so big she can barely get her mouth around his head and her fingers aren't even close to wrapping around his cock… He actually said he preferred to go last so she was not too tight for him. She preferred to ride him the first time and although she let a few of them fuck her ass, she was not going to even attempt a double penetration with his monster. She said he was the most dominant man she had ever met yet not in a rough way, and was yet fairly gentle with her. According to Brandi, he was a man among boys. She said after Tre's uncle stretched her she easily did a DVP…She said her second go around with his monster was easier and she took all of him. He told her a lot of women have not been able to take him all the way. This made her proud in a way.

I really hope she could take a tape and actually measure him. Sounds like she is impressed with the uncle. Usually I would suspect developing NRE in such cases, but I think none of these guys really offer anything to Brandi besides great sex. You also addressed the issue with NRE towards her fuck buddies very well. So it is just what it is, workout with lots of orgasms. I wouldn’t make a big issue out of the fact that she is now a bit stretched out in her pussy and her ass. It is not that permanent, but I am afraid when she will be fucking you she might think of that monster cock from now on

OP: It is a long shot, but have you ever considered a possibility that some of Brandi’s adventures she made up just to make you horny? Not all of it, but this thought comes to me sometimes. Some things sound like a porn script. Is it possible that she is trolling you? She’s done it before. She knows what makes you going. Here is an idea: ask her to take a pic how she holds that monster cock. Her ring must be in the picture. Let her send the pic to you

To answer the question of does she miss me. Yes, she constantly sends I love you texts and emojis. She gets sad on the phone… My portion of the current project is on time, so I am back in just over 3 weeks. Flight booked. I am scheduled to leave for 5 weeks on 4/20 to get the next project started. I definitely think it may be good for Brandi to get away from the madness of late, even if just for a few weeks. So much has changed in the last few months. She is worried about being bored in a country where she does not know anyone and is alone all day for 10 hours or more.

Good that she is missing you. Now: are you going to Jamaica? So, the next trip: is Brandi coming or not? Definitely a good idea to bring her along. She could use a change of scenery and more time with you (and alone time as well). You think it is a good idea. What about her? Did you tell her that you want her with you in Asia? “She is worried…” – is that what she actually said in response to your question? What is the deal for an adult 24 yo to be alone from 8 am till 6 pm for 5 weeks? Is she dependent on other people to provide an entertainment? I don’t know what kind of place it will be, but in the worst case if it will be in the middle of nowhere living in an expat compound how bad is it? She is college-educated with a bar job. Is that the level of her ambitions? She had some website freelancing to do. She can take an online course. She could learn a new language. Even if she has zero ambitions, she could still go to gym, do some chores and kill a few hours on Netflix. When you come back at 6pm there should be a clean flat and dinner waiting followed by her fucking on top of you. Maybe the real reason is that she does not want to go.

I expected perhaps some sort of a standoff where you ask her if wants to go and she replying “do you really want me to go with you and to play a boring housewife for a few weeks or do you want me to be what I’ve became – a slutty hotwife at home where I belong”. She would grap your cock and will make you horny. She might ask you again after you have cummed.

You made sacrifices. You are working hard for the future. What is her commitment to you what is the sacrifice? Maybe it is time to be firm and tell her what is expected of her. It is not like you are asking her to quit hotwiving, it is just like 5 weeks having sex only with you. Is that such a horrible ordeal for her? Even if she is submissive (to the right guy), as a white guy you cannot order her to pack up her fucking things (black dude might pull that off). However if at this point you cannot re-establish your dominance someone else will do that. So if Brandi stays at home I wouldn’t be surprised should would have a tattoo on her butt “Tre is my master”, “black cocks only”. Who knows, even stranger things happened (google that story about the guy who recruited women into sex sect and branded his victims with a real branding iron with his initials).

So we need to address the elephant in the room: what role do you want to play in your wife’s sex life. Here are some selected quotes from you:

I told her to go for it and the thought of an older massive black man stuffing his monster cock in her little body does it for me… She told me that after the fucking she got from the gangbang and the fun she's been having with Tre's and the guys, she's really into the interracial thing right now (yeah, no kidding). There has been some race play and the guys have been calling her a black cock slut and other similar names for a while. She very much enjoys this… She actually said in a moment of frustration, "fucking black guys is so much easier, they're just in it for the sex and actually good at it." Holy fucking shit! Did she just say that to me? I reminded her I'm a white guy. She laughed and said "oh course I don't mean you, you're my hubby." … I admitted to her that with her new pension for black cock (she's now had 19 black cocks in just over 3 months, has officially had more black men that white men, and has had black guys at a 2-1 ratio since starting up hotwifing) I have been really getting into interracial cuckold porn lately… Then she said teasing me and clearly pushing my buttons "there's something to the saying once you go black you never go back."

So you started to explore your cuckold role. Where is it going to go for you from now on: will you be anxious having sex with Brandi one-on-one fearing she does not feel you inside? Are you going to be included in gangbangs or will you only watch? Will she be only be able to cum with your cock if you are in her ass as a part of DP and she has someone else’s bigger cock in her pussy? Or perhaps the only chance for you to fuck Brandi would be when all others are done with her, when you will slip into Brandi’s pussy, pink, swollen, loose inside and leaking with several loads cum? What if the only access you are going to get to her pussy when in the scenario when Brandi is doing DP with Tre and his roommate. Brandi on top of Tre in her pussy and roommate fucking her ass from behind. Tre cums inside and leaves, and Brandi tell you: “hubby, quick, get under me and work my pussy with your tongue, because noone is better at this than you”. You will be lying there, face wet from cum, lube and pussy juice, looking at close range at the roommate’s cock going in and out of Brandi’s ass, licking her pussy and helping her to catch that elusive last orgasm of the day. Is that something that could be in your future?

[Serrand]

Well, I don't see everything as drastic as maybe some other here, but you certainly will face some challenges when you return.

The hotwifing per se isn't the problem, but the speed and you can say the "extreme ways" Brandi dived in this hotwifing lifestyle, in a relatively short period of time, that's indeed a little concerning and I don't think it's really healthy for your marriage in the longterm. I know it's way, way too late now anyways, but you and Brandi should have approached this all more slowly and cautionary from the beginning. And the rules you and Brandi formulated before your left aren't sufficient, in my opinion. One thing for example, I believe you should have never agreed to, and Brandi never should have allowed it the first place, that all these guys visit your home, that place should have been "sacred" for just you Brandi. She always should have met her lovers at their respective homes or somewhere else, but not at your home. I know this ship has sunk already a while ago. But one other thing, I still think it's important to limit the frequency of her encounter with other guys.

I mean if you will ask Brandi to take a break from any "activities" she does with Tre and all the others guys, will she go along with this? Certainly, for a week or two, I have no doubt she would, but what will happen should you desire a longer break from this lifestyle?
Because, that's excactly what you should do in my opinion when you return, concentrating only on each other without any interference from her fuckbuddies, and not only for a week or so, I would say weeks if not to say a month at least.

And you should be prepared about something else when you return. I hope you aren't angry with me when I say Brandi's reputation around your neighbourhood, the bar or the gym, well, lets formulate it in this way, her reputation won't be the one of a respectable lady and loving wife any longer. Men will regard her as an "easy thing" and most women regard her as nothing but a slut. And you as her husband be prepared to face, more or less subtle, contempt or pity from quite a few people. Some probably will even mock you behind your back.
Of course, I have no idea if this will bother you? I hope not much, otherwise this will drive you mad. The best, you have the kind of attitude that you say: "Screw them all and what they might think. Sooner or later Brandi and I will move away and cut all ties the these people anyways and we will never see any of them again, if it's neighbours from upstairs or Tre and his cronies."

At last about Tre. Yes, he has put Billy into his place, but I'm convinced he only did this to paint himself in a better light in Brandi's eyes, you know "being the knight in shining amour". Seriously, excuse my crude words, but do you really think Tre wouldn't brag about "the white married slut is fucking"? Of course, he does, maybe not at the surrounding of the bar, but certainly in his environment. If not, Brandi would have never met so many other guys through him.

You say you think that you and Tre will "be good" with each other and that you have always have gotten along. Sorry, but it's not that smart of you to think this. Excuse me, if I formulate it so harshly, but please, don't be so naive to believe, that Tre and his friends wouldn't mock you and speak of you in derogatory terms, at least when they are among themselves, thinking that you're a kind of weakling, wimp or pushover. They certainly do, at least to some degree.
Therefore, I can only agree to what others already have said, when you return you have to be very assertive, and yes, it's important that you established a kind of control over this situation and show some dominance towards Tre and all this other guys. I'm not saying it will definitely happen and it hasn't to be Tre himself, but you should be prepared that these fuckbuddies of Brandi will maybe try to challange you in some way and will try to humiliate you in more or less subtle way. If then you don't show a strong reaction and immediately and unequivocally put these guys into their place, there is the huge danger this will diminish you in the eyes of Brandi. I assume that's the least thing you want. It would get only get worse for you from there on. Maybe you should hit the gym in your free time to put up some muscles just to be prepared for all contingencies;)

Again, excuse me for sounding negative, but I think like most her, I feel sympathy for you and don't want you any harm, so I hope you don't feel attacked when we point out to some dangers your situation could possibly include.

[gwwkjt]

Very thoughtful post, Serrand. There will be an incredible challenge for OP upon his return

Another thing to OP: do not tell Brandi about this forum and the thread. In the view of latest events when many people in your life know the extra exposure here does not matter. Yes, honesty is important, but lets not go to the extreme. Dial that honesty level to 90%. I would hate if you or others started to self-censure postings out of concern for Brandi's feelings.

Last thing: I think I am speaking for all of us here that we love you, man

[Terrycart79]

I am very intrigued about this uncle with the huge hog in his pants. That’s very hot how he fucked the shit out of her. I think her pussy now belongs to him unless it starts to hurt her too much. Waiting on the details such as his age, status/history with women, etc. Tre has some balls inviting a guy who could totally show him up, unless he’s got those dormant cuck thoughts as you suspect.

[Terrycart79]

This is playing out like a video game or comic book. Brandi has torn through all these guys but now she’s reached the boss. lol

[Claireandcarl]

Well, I don't see everything as drastic as maybe some other here, but you certainly will face some challenges when you return.

The hotwifing per se isn't the problem, but the speed and you can say the "extreme ways" Brandi dived in this hotwifing lifestyle, in a relatively short period of time, that's indeed a little concerning and I don't think it's really healthy for your marriage in the longterm.

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Again, excuse me for sounding negative, but I think like most her, I feel sympathy for you and don't want you any harm, so I hope you don't feel attacked when we point out to some dangers your situation could possibly include.

Great reflections and comments!
I think Serrand are absolute right, (however, does not really agree that you should confront Tre physically), unfortunately I think the situation is more worse that Serrand said. Yes, I know it´s a "buzz killer" for all those of you hoping to hear about Brandi's sexy adventure, sorry for that!

I know I almost repeat some of what Serrand mentioned.
All BF, FB etc. wants is to have sex with Brandi. They have a clear agenda - and let's not be fooled, they don't (realy) care about you... and your marrige. If they take any consideration at all, it is solely based on not ending up in a bad way with Brandi. But the same thing here, they or most of them probably don't care about her either, they think she's a slut with all that this means from a negative perspective.
In total - "when the day is over" they dont care about you two.

Based on what I mentioned above ...
Right now it's a snowball effect and that effect is increasing fast - and many time you are not even there!
From what you have said, I find a lack of several aspects of Brandi's safety. She has sex with several different men, some known, some unknown. She meets them in different environments, some known, some unknown. She often meets them when she has been drinking alcohol and/or under the influence of drugs. STI. Sometimes she has rough sex, increases the probability something can go overboard and can actually be dangerous to her physical health. Don't forget the negative consequences of internet is a reality. In my mind, there are also possible long-term negative consequences for Brandi (but also you) of multiple images and video of her. Maybe a you think it´s "hot" now, but how is it 10 years from now? Or if Brandi is going to apply for some kind of job, but can no longer get it ... etc? You usually don't even know about when or with whom before she does that. Sure, there's more, but choose to quit here.
Again - many times you're not there!

Brandiandme, thank you for everything you share to us. I really find your adventures exciting in many ways. Also your openness about telling about good or bad things. Sorry for sounding cynical and negative. But I would not address these things if it did not worry me based on a well-meaning for you and her.

[Xalar11]

I have to agree with both what Serrand and gwwkjt said. First, please keep this thread open. Aside that it's very exciting to follow your thread, I think in a way it's also valuable for you and can help you sometimes. Even if some comments are a bit critical I think it helps maybe to get a different perspective on some things, something you haven't considered until then, and that's certainly not a bad thing I would imagine.

And I have to agree with Serrand regarding Tre and his friends. Could it be that you see Tre a bit too positive? Certainly Brandi wasn't innocent in this, but I can't imagine, that you already have forgotten that it was Tre, who pushed her, so to speak, to cheat on you back in December last year. And what lead to at least some sort of crisis in your marriage. Alone for this Tre deserved actually to be punched in the face. He didn't show any ethics or respect towards you back then. Have you and Brandi never talked about this specific aspect?
Of course what you did or do is only your decision, but I can't really understand why back then you didn't cut ties with Tre and his friends and agreed with Brandi for restarting this "Hotwife-game" she should look for some new lovers but not Tre and his associates.

I know, you probably have the feeling we all what to lecture you, but I think most of us want you just to be careful. Don't assume that Tre or these other guys respect you. And yes, I also agree with others, that it it's very essential, in my opinion, that the first weeks after your return it should only about you and Brandi and you should take a break from any hotwifing related activities for a while.

[gwwkjt]

It is a lively discussion, but I think there is too much gloom and doom (until there is a boom). Let's do the reality check

Remember that when it all started OP wanted to have "several guys taking care of Brandi" when he is gone. It is being taken care off

Rules for Brandi: she kept ALL of them (she tell everything, safety, no intimate connections)

She is happy (still misses her hubby). He is happy (misses Brandi, but he is having a great sexual experience already)

Reputation: Brandi's bar, her friends and the gym - people know. OP's job, family, Brandi's family - nobody knows (except for Jason, and the few others peripheral characters in home town)

When he comes back: establish the dominance (no physical aggravations please, it is more subtle), exercise control over Brandi (control sexual access), but no flip-flopping, no drama here. If failed: cuckold role if this is what OP wants. If he is unhappy: then he should act accordingly

[afagehi7]

1. None of the guys give a shit about your marriage.
2. None of them have any respect for the OP. He's a sissy white boy whose wife fucks around. He's not a man.
3. None give a shit about Brandi except for her pussy, ass, and mouth. They don't see her as a person but some white slut with a sissy white boy hubby that can't fuck her.

My suggestion is once OP returns to put the brakes on. Establish dominance (not physically). Take Brandi with on the next assignment. Ditch all these players. Start a more normal hotwife relationship with some new guys. She had her fun playing slut. Now, find a regular BF or someone who will respect the OP and Brandi and their relationship and play a happy 3rd from time to time.

This is not sustainable unless the OP wants to be a sissy cuck. If that's what he wants that is fine but if not he needs to separate Brandi from this group who don't care about anything but getting their dicks wet. Have a relationship like some of the successful hotwives here such as sexi Lexi, 2hot, or even farmgirl.

[gwwkjt]

As someone who read carefully what OP wrote I can say that:

1. The agreement as of 13/1 still stands
2. OP wants this. He encourages Brandi to do more (using the car analogy he is stepping on the gas for her)
3. Brandi wants this too

In general most people don't give a shit about anyone but themselves, and mostly they think about gratifying their wants. These guys have a purpose and they are being used for that

OP should really be less concerned about what other (not important) people think. OP should concentrate on what he wants and what Brandi wants (hopefully there is enough alignment in that to keep this relationship going). In sex life many things that are enjoyable to you may be repulsing to others. You don't really have to please everybody, especially people that you don't care about

Frankly I don't see any drama in the events since OP left. Stuff that has been going on until 3 jan was far more serious for their relationship. No, the ship has not sunk yet (Serrand thanks for that), the ship has not even sailed yet. Your ship is moored, but has been taken over by a rowdy bachelor party

I would say all is fine, take a Jamaica holiday, when at home be involved in Brandi's sexlife, take her to Asia and continue with Tre and his crew. It is a good setup

OP: if you really want to slow down, be careful. If she starts feeling regret she will blame you (OP) and you are finished. You will never recover. She will feel dirty and betrayed. "Brandiandme" would be finished

BTW: Don't forget the uncle update

[MaxCargo]

Taking a break, doesn't mean Brandi has to stop being a Hotwife once and for all. It's exactly just that a "break", nothing more, nothing less. And that's also what I would recommed, take a break from any Hotwife-activities for a few weeks when you have returned and soley concentrate on each other. Actually after being apart for more than 10 weeks I would assume that Brandi also would desire a time just for you and her.

[XYAlpha]

Taking a break, doesn't mean Brandi has to stop being a Hotwife once and for all. It's exactly just that a "break", nothing more, nothing less. And that's also what I would recommed, take a break from any Hotwife-activities for a few weeks when you have returned and soley concentrate on each other. Actually after being apart for more than 10 weeks I would assume that Brandi also would desire a time just for you and her.

Exactly this. It could be telling if she cannot take a break and spend time solely with her husband.

Telling all these guys that she is taking a couple weeks for just hubby and only hubby, actually asserts his dominance and her acceptance of that without anything else being said and no physical positioning.

Oh sure, they will try and coerce her into "something" because she has become their cum dumpster for 10 weeks. But if she holds firm and says no - hubby only, it will be clear to everyone that the OP has his position, they have a marital bond stronger than the HW sex, and that they (Tre & Co.) have a subordinate role in everything.

Then, if the OP wants to experience seeing all of that live, he can ask for it. Tre and the others will probably accomodate - knowing it is ALL at the OP's discretion...

This could be the easiest and best solution for Brandi and the OP. Not to mention that time alone shared between Brandi and OP is absolutely priceless in the LS. Aways make sure you take care of each other FIRST.

XY

[Claireandcarl]

As someone who read carefully what OP wrote I can say that:

1. The agreement as of 13/1 still stands
2. OP wants this. He encourages Brandi to do more (using the car analogy he is stepping on the gas for her)
3. Brandi wants this too

In general most people don't give a shit about anyone but themselves, and mostly they think about gratifying their wants. These guys have a purpose and they are being used for that

OP should really be less concerned about what other (not important) people think. OP should concentrate on what he wants and what Brandi wants (hopefully there is enough alignment in that to keep this relationship going). In sex life many things that are enjoyable to you may be repulsing to others. You don't really have to please everybody, especially people that you don't care about

Frankly I don't see any drama in the events since OP left. Stuff that has been going on until 3 jan was far more serious for their relationship. No, the ship has not sunk yet (Serrand thanks for that), the ship has not even sailed yet. Your ship is moored, but has been taken over by a rowdy bachelor party

I would say all is fine, take a Jamaica holiday, when at home be involved in Brandi's sexlife, take her to Asia and continue with Tre and his crew. It is a good setup

OP: if you really want to slow down, be careful. If she starts feeling regret she will blame you (OP) and you are finished. You will never recover. She will feel dirty and betrayed. "Brandiandme" would be finished

BTW: Don't forget the uncle update

gwwkjt, you are right - both OP and Brandi want´s this. Don't think anyone has said anything else?
Basically, no one criticizes OP and Brandi's choice of lifestyle. At the same time, some people highlight things, events, etc. with different degrees of concern from an "outside perspective" on Brandiandme`s relation on HOW they do it. In my opinion, it is healthy that different perspectives on "pros and cons" are raised. But in the end it is only up to Brandiandme to make his life choices.

I still have conserns about Brandis safty.
The view (in combination with several things that I mentioned in my most recent previous post) that the surroundings have about Brandiandme and Brandi is a risk factor. Especially if the perception of them is strongly associated with a lack of "respect" - Brandiandme as a "pushover", Brandi as a "fuck toy". When other people think so, most of them treat Brandiandme and Brandi as that.

In fact, history clearly shows that several of Brandi's sex partners are not discreet that they have fucked Brandi. Let's assume that each of these people tells another person. Word-of-mouth effect, 1 = 2, 2 = 4, 4 = 8 and so on. In the end, many people know about it.
One cannot rule out the likelihood of a radical increase that Brandi gets involved with someone with a really "dark soul". Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for psychopaths to find and select victims who can more easily end up in an extra vulnerable position - e.g. Brandi. And if many rumors circulate about Brandi, she becomes relatively easy to find (as a traget) and hook up with (as a victim). And we should also not forget the phenomenon that "the occasion makes the thief" sometimes. As I said before, Brandiandme is often not there or aware in advance of Brandis sex encounters. As well, it is not easy for a person (e.g. Brandi as a victim) to spot "psychopat", It´s harder when a person is emotionally involved (clouded judgment or/and just to horny). I'm not saying that Brandi is stupid, while at the same time some previous events show that she can have poor judgment when her "sluty" side comes out.

Yes, I know that I paint a dark scenario, still think it´s better better "safe than sorry". A person's physical and mental health should not be risked, no matter what! Personally, I think OP and B need to do more for a preventive purpose to reduce risks - so they can enjoy their lifestyle more.

Finally, gwwkjt - I think you are absolute right about your concerns about to "slow down" ...if that OP wants?

[Claireandcarl]

Taking a break, doesn't mean Brandi has to stop being a Hotwife once and for all. It's exactly just that a "break", nothing more, nothing less. And that's also what I would recommed, take a break from any Hotwife-activities for a few weeks when you have returned and soley concentrate on each other. Actually after being apart for more than 10 weeks I would assume that Brandi also would desire a time just for you and her.

Exactly this. It could be telling if she cannot take a break and spend time solely with her husband.

Telling all these guys that she is taking a couple weeks for just hubby and only hubby, actually asserts his dominance and her acceptance of that without anything else being said and no physical positioning.

Oh sure, they will try and coerce her into "something" because she has become their cum dumpster for 10 weeks. But if she holds firm and says no - hubby only, it will be clear to everyone that the OP has his position, they have a marital bond stronger than the HW sex, and that they (Tre & Co.) have a subordinate role in everything.

Then, if the OP wants to experience seeing all of that live, he can ask for it. Tre and the others will probably accomodate - knowing it is ALL at the OP's discretion...

This could be the easiest and best solution for Brandi and the OP. Not to mention that time alone shared between Brandi and OP is absolutely priceless in the LS. Aways make sure you take care of each other FIRST.

XY

Totaly agree!

[JustWantToWatch]

Before taking a break OP should definitely watch her get gang banged by Tre and his friends. It has happened so often and he needs to see it at least once... then again watching my wife being gang banged is my ultimate fantasy that will never happen.

[Terrycart79]

Before taking a break OP should definitely watch her get gang banged by Tre and his friends. It has happened so often and he needs to see it at least once... then again watching my wife being gang banged is my ultimate fantasy that will never happen.

Same here. My wife doesn’t want other men but she’s not even satisfied with my dick