My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

[rascalnvixen]

How come (bad pun intended) Gigi jerks you into a tissue instead of blowing you? She likes giving BJs and you like receiving them.

A7,

It's hard for Gigi to tell him the stories of how she fucked her lovers when she sucking his cock!!!!

Not meaning any offense, I just found that question hilarious given the context of the story!!!!

Please don't be mad at me!!!

Rascal

[Des 31]

How come (bad pun intended) Gigi jerks you into a tissue instead of blowing you? She likes giving BJs and you like receiving them.

A7, It's hard for Gigi to tell him the stories of how she fucked her lovers when she sucking his cock!!!! Not meaning any offense, I just found that question hilarious given the context of the story!!!! Please don't be mad at me!!!

Rascal

I have a philosophy about her guys. She deserves to moan, I mean REALLY moan. She deserves to cum with a mind-blowing climax. If others can do either better, she deserves that too. A lot of guys can do better than a husband for any woman who's been married to the same guy more than five years. And it's not all about her because these have been the best jerk-off times of my life.

But, hey, that's just my opinion.

[Des 31]

I received a PM questioning why my wife says all extramarital arrangements have an expiration date. I think most men with hotwives recognize that but some apparently find that curious. I left out her last event with her 21-year-old buddy Jack but that's come to an end also last week. Some may have noticed that was missing in that long update above. I left it out because, like all her past relationships, the reasons are complicated and would have taken some time to explain. It rarely ends in rancor between her and others and there are no personal disagreements between her and Jack either.

Perhaps if I give it some thought about how to summarize that, I'll write it up here. Their parting is pretty typical but other reasons have been guys moved away, got married or became initmately involved with another woman. Few things, if any, last forever. The most common cause is that sex eventually becomes stale between any couple, and any couple who has been married for many years know that well. The length of time has varied with my wife and others, but it can come about over a period of a few months and for some after a few years of fucking. My wife's and my sexual life has improved immensely since she began dating others.

She and Jack are parting on friendly terms. He wanted it to go on longer when he returns for the fall semester; but, between his relationship with his married fuckbuddy Jean and my wife, he seemed distant - perhaps just half-interested - on their most recent sex. She mentioned her detection about that to him, and he ultimately confessed her impression was correct. She told him it would be better for them to break it off cleanly, not drag it out. He seemed disappointed but said he understood. Beau told her yesterday he couldn't understand why his friend felt that way. She explained it over about an hour and said he understood but doubted he would ever get tired of fucking her. She tells me that was one of their hottest fucks after that conversation.

Beau's mother phoned my wife this week and said she and her husband will be out of town a few days at month's end or mid-June and invited her down to stay those days with their son in their absence. His mom said they will try to stop by and see me on their way back home at that time and, if my wife is instead here rather than at their home with Beau, they will visit with the two of us.

~ Des

[afagehi7]

Can't wait to hear the details of this one. All relationships have a terminal date. Luckily marriages are supposed to last until death but there is still a terminal date. Or in most cases divorce.

People change. I think usually the women change and men stay the same but the younger the quicker the change. Someone is vastly different in freshman versus senior year but as we get older the changes are slower and the same amount of change may be a decade.

I've said it's time for Jack and beau to be looking for a permanent woman in their lives to marry and have kids. I'm guessing that his relationship with Jean accelerated the process..

[solstice]

but, between his relationship with his married fuckbuddy Jean and my wife, he seemed distant - perhaps just half-interested.

Sorry but I'm not quite clear on this, has his interest in Jean also faltering, and had she spoken to Gigi about it? Young people today don't really value the gift freely given to them.
It is those little nuggets of your wife's relationships that add value to your thread. Hopefully Gigi will not complain that you reveal too much of her private life.( I am not trying to give her any reason to cut this valuable peek into her life)!

[solstice]

double post.

[Des 31]

Can't wait to hear the details of this one. All relationships have a terminal date. Luckily marriages are supposed to last until death but there is still a terminal date. Or in most cases divorce.

People change. I think usually the women change and men stay the same but the younger the quicker the change. Someone is vastly different in freshman versus senior year but as we get older the changes are slower and the same amount of change may be a decade.

I've said it's time for Jack and beau to be looking for a permanent woman in their lives to marry and have kids. I'm guessing that his relationship with Jean accelerated the process..

I hadn't mentioned the complex reasons for her past and most current breakups for the reasons I doubted most would care and most are too complex for a couple of paragraphs. Judging from your response, maybe I was wrong. I'll get around to that when I have time to think how to put it together and explain how it was related to the way their three-way relationship began. You're right about Jack's relationship to Jean contributing to it, but both he and Beau were also fucking our friend Liz, the wife-half of the boat-owner couple. When I can form a relatively brief way to tell all that, I'll respond.

Thank you for writing.

~ Des

[solstice]

Jack:

For Gigi, when one door closes, other doors generally open; I have not noticed that she has to look far for an eager lover.

[Des 31]

My wife told me last night she planned to go shopping for a couple of new work outfits and would be a little late getting home.

This morning, she phoned me at the office and said she would be home later than planned. She asked if I was alone in my office and I was, with the door closed. Her boss’s wife and kids are leaving this afternoon to visit with her parents in South Carolina until Monday. He offered to take her shopping and help her pick out the outfits. She said she is taking the day off tomorrow from work and her boss told their secretary he would be an hour or two late coming in the next day. She went on, “If I’m out overnight, I should be home in the morning before you leave for work.”

We have an understanding she doesn’t need my permission to have sex at any time, but she most often phones to ask if a last-minute state of affairs is “okay” with me. That’s changing, but I have no problem with it when we have no conflicting plans. Over the past year, she sometimes has begun telling me her plans without asking approval. And today, she instead was telling me. I’m unsure why her self-assured tone of voice about that stimulates me when that happens, but my dick swelled as has happened before when she does that. Perhaps it’s my realization of her heightened need to be fucked by another guy. If she isn’t wholehearted into it at the moment, she won’t stay overnight.

I opined they could spend the night our home if they wished and I would sleep in the guest bedroom. She had already mentioned that to him but said they might instead go to his home and said, “We haven’t yet decided.”

As with any couple in an extramarital relationship, having sex as long as they have has resulted in attachment. Until recently, I didn’t understand how strong that emotional bond had become. With the exception of conflicting schedules, my wife rarely declines his requests to fuck, and he doesn’t turn her down when she expresses her desire. The odd part of all that is that each realizes a marriage between the two would never work for the reason each is aggressively opinionated. She doesn’t always agree with his opinions at work but submits to his authority when on the job. Successful marital relationships don’t work that way. My wife often says that even if that were not an obvious fact, he would never allow her to fuck anyone else anyway. But the good parts are that their sex is hot and his dick is big and that works for me too. Their mutual physical attraction is obvious. If his wife and I were allowed to fuck, I suspect a similar bond would result between us.

Since they aren’t here at our home by now, he’s probably fucking her brains out at his place as I write this. I had told her she didn’t need to phone me unless they were coming here for the night.

She said she would phone if she’s out later than nine tonight, but I haven’t yet received a call. But that’s happened before. She has twice fallen asleep before her intended calls at other guys’ homes and didn’t awaken until the following morning, so I would no longer become concerned when that happens. I just want it to be good for her. If she feels he can do it better than me, I’m good with that.

* * * Last night as I lay naked alongside her in bed, I asked her how much more she likes fucking him than me. She always laughs when I ask questions like that. She reached for my dick and stroked it until it was fully blood-engorged. As she stroked my stalk slowly, she said, “I’ll tell you the difference between you and him if you’ll first tell me what you like about him and me having sex.”

I told her I can’t help masturbating as I think about his superior sized cock inside her pussy. He has something I can’t give her. She is more into it when he’s fucking her. I can picture their fucking without seeing them together and know she’s crying out in excitation as they’re united as one. I’m proud of her, that she’s smoking hot, and want others to know what it’s like for me to be with her.

Her hand began jacking me off faster as I went on. She said, “You’re right about all that. I love his big cock inside my cunt. His skin pressed against mine is exciting. He’s my superior at work and I’m his alone when we’re having sex. I give myself fully to him.”

She was about to say more, but my body shuddered and I announced I was about to cum. Her lips pursed and opened widely to take my dick into her mouth. Her head bobbed eagerly. I clenched my teeth and my eyes shut tightly as my sperm spurted into her throat. She sucked until I was drained, released my cock and swallowed. She wiped her arm across her lips and said, “That was fun. Thanks for asking.”

Tonight, all of what I had told her were in my thoughts as I jerked off. At the time, I wasn’t even sure if they were yet fucking but knew if they weren’t, soon would be. It’s always that with me when she is with him.

* * * *

My wife’s 21-year-old fuckbuddy Beau is home with his parents for the summer and taking online classes. They live about 100 miles south of us, and his mom had called my wife a few days ago to invite her down to visit with their son while they’re away on an upcoming trip.

Beau called her cell phone last night while she was on her way to an overnight stay with her boss at his place. He said his parents’ trip is now firmed up and they’re leaving the 19th and won’t return until June 2. She told him she would like being there with him in their absence. She gave me a quick call upon her arrival.

Before she and her boss began fucking last night, she told him she plans to take five days of her vacation time beginning the 20th to visit “out-of-town acquaintances.” His parents plan to stop by our place on their way back home. Gigi will leave June 1, giving her three nights with Beau before coming home, so she will be here when his parents arrive at our place.

The night before, she told me with a knowing grin, “I’ll phone daily. You’ll love jacking off to that.” I said, “Even better, call me while you’re fucking one night.” She laughed and said, “I can do that. Beau won’t mind.” She added that she is “so excited” about seeing him those days and nights.

I suggested it would be better for her if she and I didn’t have sex between now and the day she leaves on her trip. She smiled and said, “You’re just too good to me. My boss has so much on his plate, he and I won’t be getting together before then either. I’ll be climbing the wall in frustration.”

Well, that was the reason for my suggestion. I don’t plan to masturbate before then. I’m looking forward to it as much as she will.

~ Des

[samlowen]

I really like the denial play part of this and am very excited for both of you.

[Scotch98]

Great update Des, you guys have a perfect relationship. Gigi is an amazing woman.

[solstice]

This morning, she phoned me at the office and said she would be home later than planned.

It seems to me that Gigi may gradually be coming more dominant in your relationship, but despite that, she has nurtured the bond between you both, keeping you informed, and your acceptance is important to her, and the lifestyle has not made her self absorbed in my opinion: In some other threads, the new freedom of being a HW changes them, wife often taking pleasure in keeping her husband at times in the dark.

[Des 31]

This morning, she phoned me at the office and said she would be home later than planned.

It seems to me that Gigi may gradually be coming more dominant in your relationship, but despite that, she has nurtured the bond between you both, keeping you informed, and your acceptance is important to her, and the lifestyle has not made her self absorbed in my opinion: In some other threads, the new freedom of being a HW changes them, wife often taking pleasure in keeping her husband at times in the dark.

She came home this morning around five. Evidently exhausted, she didn't get much sleep last night. Her hair was a mess. She left her clothes in a side chair, plopped alongside me into bed and said she was glad she was taking today off work. All she could mutter before falling asleep was, "I can't recall ever screaming that much. It was almost non-stop fucking all night." She didn't budge from bed when I left for the office at eight.

It must have been good.

~ Des

[solstice]

She came home this morning around five.

Do you sometimes find it hard to sleep when Gigi is not by your side?

[Des 31]

She came home this morning around five.

Do you sometimes find it hard to sleep when Gigi is not by your side?

Most often not but that was often a problem the first year or so when she went out on dates. Over time, it's become an ordinary part of our lives. I think the reason was mostly my imagination of what she was doing rather than her absence, but it's difficult to recall all my thoughts from back then.

Our understanding and communication are probably the reason it's easier for me to sleep alone now. I know she will eventually be home and usually know the time whenever she gives me an approximation of when she will return. Unless she tells me she won't be able to call, she almost always phones when she can. She called last night around eleven. I was asleep at the time and she left a message on the recorder, which I didn't notice until I was about to leave for work. Her message was an apology for not phoning earlier but that she would be home before six this morning. She beat that time by an hour.

She mentioned before dozing off that her boss bought her a couple of things along with two pant-suits she bought after work. I noticed three boxes of purchases stacked on our couch but didn't look inside. I'm sure I'll be hearing the details of her evening tonight.

~ Des

[Des 31]

Gigi and I went out to dinner last night at a reopened restaurant not far from us. When we're out together, neither of us usually talks about her guys other than her boss for the obvious reasons; but on this occasion, she brought the topic up. She said now that her boss is her only frequent sex partner, at least until Beau returns to the area after the summer session for school, she's considering meeting someone new. She has met a couple of men recently but hasn't given either signals she might be available. One of those was a man who struck up a conversation with her at the local supermarket and gave her his business card, ostensibly in the event she was interested in his business services. She encountered the other at a gift shop; he introduced himself by name and told her and told her where he works. I inquired whether she intended to get in touch with either later for coffee or whatever. She said, "As of now, I doubt it but maybe."

I don't make "rules" for her and she doesn't make rules for me other than her insistence she couldn't handle me being with another woman. Her only exceptions were two women I was unlikely ever to encounter again and with Beau's mom who lives a considerable distance from us. She suggested she may consider placing another personals ad, which she hasn't done since she agreed to our arrangement a little over six years ago. At that time, she met a few men at neutral locations to consider whether they were what she was looking for before giving out her last name, address, and phone number. I met with her and her ad respondents on four occasions. She told those she wasn't sure about she would take their phone number and consider calling them back. I picked up the check on two of those meetings and the other two insisted on paying for the meal or coffee.

Last night, she said that if she takes out another ad she wants me to go with her for the meetup and I will the bill at whatever restaurant or lounge we meet him. I agreed but asked why that was important to her. She grinned and said, "I want them to know you want it too. I can't explain the feeling exactly, but it turns me on." I asked if that were some dominant feeling that I wanted it so bad I would be paying for them to fuck her. She said, "Maybe. That's sort of exciting." I'm not sure I got that right and apparently neither does she.

Either way, it seems I have a new rule to follow if that comes about again. I'll have to leave her reasons to your imaginations. I'm pretty sure there's something else going on in her brain, whether she realizes it or not.

[samlowen]

I've met with every guy my wife has slept with during our journey, always prior to any sexual activity. It started more for safety purposes before transitioning to something we both enjoy and get off on. By the time we have set a face to face meeting with them they are already well aware what type of dynamic we are seeking, but seeing their reactions first hand is always a treat, especially when I am looking them in the eyes and telling them exactly what the expectations are. My wife finds it incredibly hot when any new lover and I initially speak about potential couplings. I think both of you are going to find this change very rewarding.

[ericsacto]

My wife told me last night she planned to go shopping for a couple of new work outfits and would be a little late getting home.

This morning, she phoned me at the office and said she would be home later than planned. She asked if I was alone in my office and I was, with the door closed. Her boss’s wife and kids are leaving this afternoon to visit with her parents in South Carolina until Monday. He offered to take her shopping and help her pick out the outfits. She said she is taking the day off tomorrow from work and her boss told their secretary he would be an hour or two late coming in the next day. She went on, “If I’m out overnight, I should be home in the morning before you leave for work.”

I find it arousing when my wife and her lover act like a couple in public. Once when my wife was into corsets, she invited her lover with her to go shopping and he helped her in the dressing room at Frederick's of Hollywood.

When your wife was out shopping with your boss, do they behave as a couple? Did she model different dresses for him?

[rascalnvixen]

Des,

Interesting thoughts!!! I never thought of her having to find men to fuck! It just seems that she is such a strong personality and attracts men's eyes so much that she would not need to hunt for cock. She's not interested in fucking the Saturday morning masseuse or the mechanic more often or don't they do the trick for her??? Do you think she's been getting somewhat bored with the usual fucking she's been doing lately with few opportunities for new cock? Maybe the excitement of the new cock she had while on the business trip not long ago stirred a new feeling of needing some new opportunities. It will be interesting to see how this develops for her! But I am really surprised she is heading in this direction.

Rascal

[solstice]

I want them to know you want it too. I can't explain the feeling exactly, but it turns me on."

It might be an interesting experiment if one of them knew you were in the picture,and one believed you were in the dark, to see their different response, It would seem that if the guys did not insist on picking up the tab, it would give the impression of being a bit cheap, and not worthy of a relationship with Gigi,

[afagehi7]

I want them to know you want it too. I can't explain the feeling exactly, but it turns me on."

It might be an interesting experiment if one of them knew you were in the picture,and one believed you were in the dark, to see their different response, It would seem that if the guys did not insist on picking up the tab, it would give the impression of being a bit cheap, and not worthy of a relationship with Gigi,

Obviously they should offer to pick up the tab. That's the gentleman thing to do when you plan on fucking another man's wife.

[yielding william]

I'm just guessing but some recent remarks by her seem like your wife is becoming more dominant like my wife. Maybe she is subconsciously you footing the bill puts you in an inferior role. That happens in a lot of hotwife marriages.

[Des 31]

by ericsacto » Fri May 15, 2020 3:20 pm
. . . When your wife was out shopping with your boss, do they behave as a couple? Did she model different dresses for him?

by rascalnvixen » Fri May 15, 2020 3:32 pm
. . . She's not interested in fucking the Saturday morning masseuse or the mechanic more often or don't they do the trick for her??? Do you think she's been getting somewhat bored with the usual fucking she's been doing lately with few opportunities for new cock? . . .

I didn't go shopping with them and they have only done that one other time in the past I know about. At that time, she stayed with him at his home five days when his wife and kids were out of town and he bought her an evening dress she still occasionally wears at certain functions. I haven't (yet) played the part of a third wheel when we're out with one of her friends.

* * * * *

She has been reluctant to get in touch with the masseur since the Kung Flu outbreak. She likes both the mechanic and the masseur but just doesn't get in touch with the mechanic for whatever reasons unless she needs something done for her car. Most of our auto service is at the dealers. I didn't ask about why she feels a new relationship seems important but know that "new relationship" reaction is exciting for her. I suppose we would still be placing personals ads if she hadn't met men so easily in her daily activities. Since her new position at the bank, she has held back on following through on meeting new guys. She has concerns about gossip by sex partners she hasn't known long enough to guage their good sense and confidentiality.

Thanks for writing, Eric and Rascalvixen. Always good to hear from you both. It didn't occur to me to add those remarks when I posted the above.

[Des 31]

by ericsacto » Fri May 15, 2020 3:20 pm
. . . When your wife was out shopping with your boss, do they behave as a couple? Did she model different dresses for him?

by rascalnvixen » Fri May 15, 2020 3:32 pm
. . . She's not interested in fucking the Saturday morning masseuse or the mechanic more often or don't they do the trick for her??? Do you think she's been getting somewhat bored with the usual fucking she's been doing lately with few opportunities for new cock? . . .

I didn't go shopping with them and they have only done that one other time in the past I know about. At that time, she stayed with him at his home five days when his wife and kids were out of town and he bought her an evening dress she still occasionally wears at certain functions. I haven't (yet) played the part of a third wheel when we're out with one of her friends.

* * * * *

She has been reluctant to get in touch with the masseur since the Kung Flu outbreak. She likes both the mechanic and the masseur but just doesn't get in touch with the mechanic for whatever reasons unless she needs something done for her car. Most of our auto service is at the dealers. I didn't ask about why she feels a new relationship seems important but know that "new relationship" reaction is exciting for her. I suppose we would still be placing personals ads if she hadn't met men so easily in her daily activities. Since her new position at the bank, she has held back on following through on meeting new guys. She has concerns about gossip by sex partners she hasn't known long enough to guage their good sense and confidentiality.

Thanks for writing, Eric and Rascalvixen. Always good to hear from you both. It didn't occur to me to add those remarks when I posted the above.

~ Des

[solstice]

She has been reluctant to get in touch with the masseur since the Kung Flu outbreak

I would have thought that new candidates would be equally as risky during this pandemic. It also could be difficult to find men of the right character during this emergency.