Her Plan to Dip Toe in Hotwife Water

[afagehi7]

Oh man... Can't wait to hear about it

[dorsetben]

Oh the anticipation!

[tojanman]

Dammit SF! You can’t be leaving us with cliff hangers like this lol! (Though they are appreciated)

[slenderfish]

Working on it...

I'm drafting it using other software so that I can merely cut and paste when done. I'm pretty certain that, based on the context of where we started in late August and the missteps of September followed by the initial success in October and the spotty stuff between then and now, that you'll agree it's kind of a breakthrough.

[slenderfish]

Okay, here's the update.

Part I (of III)

Last night was Wednesday, which is typically a boys' night for me. We used to do boys' night every Wednesday but as we have gotten older and busier, it seems to be more like every other week. Last Wed was a "on" night and therefore yesterday was fixing itself to be an "off" night as far as the pattern goes.

I generally schedule certain things such as haircut, etc. for late Wed afternoon in anticipating of jumping into happy hour, etc. especially if it's an "on" week. I do all these things closer to where I lived before SW and I got married, and it's about a 30-minute drive from our house. As such, I had a haircut set for 4:30 and a dance class for 6:00 and generally would meet my friends at around 7:30. But as I noted above, the pattern ended up such that it was an "off" week and there were no plans.

SW knew about my haircut and dance class so she just assumed that I'd be out. She confirmed this with me at around 3:00 p.m. I reminded her that we are on the "off" pattern and she seemed slightly disappointed. She asked if I might call someone and meet him for drinks and dinner, etc. I paid only slight attention to this.

I also overheard her speaking with her niece (who now lives with us) about separate plans the niece has with one of her friends but again paid no real attention.

I was running on a tight schedule and jammed out of the house in order to make it on time for the hair appointment.

Just as I was leaving, I heard SW exclaim (loud enough that all of us could hear) "I'm so happy, do you want to know why I'm so happy?" and of course niece took the bait and asked why. The answer was "because I have the house all to myself tonight and I'll be able to enjoy a glass of wine and the premier episode of the newest Real Housewives franchise." Again, I overheard it and gave myself a little smile as I exited for my late afternoon/evening program.

I called my friend but he'd gone out of town, with his wife to their mountain house for a couple of days. He reminded me that it's an "off" week so he figured he might as well go with his wife.

So I was on my own. I texted another friend, but he already had plans. It's not really that easy these days to just casually show up at a bar, etc. since everything is outside and it's getting cold. My first friend had suggested I go over to where we would otherwise go together, a fun place with a full outdoors bar and food service, the only place with live music on a Wednesday night, and where we have befriended the owner. He commented on the mixed crowd, and that one woman friend of ours (a hottie who doesn't want people to know that she did a Playboy pictoral a few years back) would probably be there.

After the hair appointment and also after the dance class, I was wondering if I should just go home make a final effort to pair up with a buddy. I called a third friend, whom I've been wanting to introduce to this Playboy hottie, and tried to tempt him to drive up (50-min drive for him).

I then saw a text from SW to call her asap.

I did call her, and she gave me the update on our dog's visit to the vet.

She then asked if I'd finalized plans to stay out and I told her it was up in the air, and that I was waiting for my buddy to confirm. She pushed me to "assume the close" and go over to the bar/restaurant.

I started feeling the little sensation that was not unlike what I'd felt when SW was doing her "girls" party in mid-August while I was out of state, and when I quietly found out that she'd invited Mr. B but never told me. A little bit of slightly-extra energy. Again, I dismissed it.

I parked and walked over to the usual area with the usual group, one or two of whom I'd previously met, and had a great time with Playboy hottie. I also got some good cocktails (vodka), an excellent steak, met a bunch of attractive Russian girls (explains the choice of vodka) who were there together, etc. My last-effort buddy elected not to join us, because he'd been driving two hours from a client when I spoke with him, and just couldn't see getting back in the car and driving another 50 min each way.

At about 10:00 I asked for the check, etc. It's about normal for me to get home around 11:00 on a Wednesday night, so at 10:30 I texted to SW my eta as 11:00 but didn't get any reply. Not unusual. Often she is asleep (or close to it) at 11:00 on a weeknight.

Well, I got home and the front door was locked and I had the keychain without a front door key (again, not unusual). Rather than wake the house (including niece) I quietly walked around the back and let myself in via my office door. Not stealthy quiet, but more of a "let's not wake the house" quiet.

I walked upstairs pretty much as normal and opened the door of the master bedroom.

There I saw SW on the phone, with her back to me, on the bed with her hand down the front of her pants, having phone sex with somebody.

Mind you, she and I have never had phone sex even though I've suggested it numerous times.

NEVER.

I assumed it was Mr. S and was happy for her. At this point she noticed me (I didn't try to hide) but she was mid-moan and sexy talk, so she waved me (not sure if she was attempting to wave me over or wave me away) and I quietly slipped off my shoes and got on the bed next to her.

He was on speakerphone and telling her that she will be jerking him off while his girlfriend sucks on his cock, and that SW will at the same time be pushing his girlfriend's head with her free hand so that the girlfriend takes him even deeper down her throat with the blowjob.

I pulled out my dick and started working it. I then decided I had a bit of free will, in that SW was locked onto the phone call and not able to pay full attention to me.

So I pulled off SW's pajama pants and entered her from behind while she continued on the phone sex call with this man's voice coming out from the speaker. I also noticed her pussy was gleaming and pink and a bit puffy from use (abuse?) and also freshly shaved.

I heard him tell her that both girls will turn around with their naked asses and he will take turns fucking each of them, back and forth.

I decided to make this even more rewarding for SW so I withdrew my cock and started vigorously licking her pussy and clit. I realized she needed to catch up with the action on the phone, so quickly went over to her nightstand and pulled out her vibrator, placed it into her hand, and guided her hand and vibrator to her pussy. Then I ran downstairs (fully naked) and risked getting caught by niece, but lightning fast past the guest room door (which was ajar) and into my office, grabbed my phone from the charger and jammed back upstairs and stood at the doorway and started recording this unusual scene on video.

I caught more of the dirty talk, as well as SW having a strong orgasm. I then moved into a position where she could more clearly see me. I stood in front of her and videoed right up between her legs with her face and everything in the top of the frame, also zooming in a bit on her wet and loose pussy lips, etc. She was looking at me and continuing with the dirty talk and vibrator and had yet another orgasm. I also had my orgasm at this time, with my free hand while taking in the scene and recording it.

She then kept the talking going (he hadn't yet come) and took the phone into the adjoining bathroom while she peed. I considered the possibility that she wanted privacy and thought about leaving the room, but decided against it and remained.

She came out of the bathroom a few minutes later and lamented that he did not ultimately climax.

Then she told me it who it was.

No, not Mr. B. And yes, not Mr. S.

It was Mr. M.

[regular3]

M for Man don't you love a hotwife when she gets her head in the game. Looking forward to reading the aftermath.

[superb101]

Please refresh us about who Mr. M is

[Whosbeensleeping]

Wow!
The thought plickens...

[BallSpanking]

I read through some of your thread trying to find a reference. I found a Mr A, a Mr B, a Mr S, a Mr D, and early on, a Mr M1 and Mr M2.
M2 was a younger guy from her sister's party who was married, while Mr M1 was a long time acquaintance and close friend of SW's over a long period of time, and he had a GF ...

So, I am assuming you are talking about Mr M1 who is back in the picture, and their 'acquaintance 'seems to be heating up. Regardless, this shows SW is increasingly in a sexy HW mode probing the possibility of another prospect besides Mr S.

It is a landmark, you are correct. It also tells you she is still very discreet about her interests in other men until the attention/interaction becomes more overt. At that point she is willing to share it with you, but it would appear her eagerness to have the house to herself on Wednesday had little to do with her TV program ...

[solstice]

What a great departure from the norm, it would be mind blowing if she had trusted you to be a silent witness to her shenanigans

[slenderfish]

Part II (of III):

To save you the effort of going back and looking it up, Mr. M is the married guy SW had a two-year affair with when she was around 26 years old, whom she still goes to for life advice from time to time. He was the one who she asked for advice when she first seriously started considering going down the hotwife path. He at the time told her that a) it was likely because her husband wants a reason to sleep with other women; b) that her husband may be gay or bi and this is a back way to that; and c) some other trite mumbo jumbo and that in any case her marriage is doomed if she goes for the hotwife effort.

As a matter of additional context, early when I was first coming to grips with my interests of SW becoming a hotwife, before I knew anything about anything, I'd encouraged her to get back in touch with him "after all these years" and she did so, and it turns out he travels to our city on business for a professional convention once each year.

So after they reconnected via text messages (she gave him a hard time for ceasing to send her the annual "happy birthday" text after she got married), I encouraged her to go out with him then next time he would be in our area. She was a bit resistant, and I did not communicate anything to her about my desires, etc. They went to dinner and drinks at a place I'd suggested, and ended up staying out hours extra late, and I lost my relaxed attitude and ended up kind of stalking them that night and was at that point "hooked" on the hotwife angst but not aware of what this was. I watched them laugh and giggle and having a great time catching up with each other, knowing that the back story is that he cheated with his pregnant wife with SW way back when. I also assumed that his wife did not know he was seeing SW and also the SW would know this. They were in some ways (and in my mind) tiptoeing back into this "cheating" mode. After I stalked them and watched him take her into his arms and carry her across the street to the later-night Irish pub, I jammed home and was in bed with the lights off by the time she came home around 2:30 a.m. When she did arrive home, I asked her if she had a good time and then asked her if she'd stayed late and gone to his hotel room, etc. I was hoping she had, but she was thinking I was in a jealous place and accusing her. It was not pretty.

She later told him about this and he has been standoffish to her, as it relates to me (understandably).

Anyway, that's my back story of Mr. M.

Apparently SW had run into him while out with her nieces on her last trip in mid-October, at a restaurant. She mentioned this to me in passing, and I thought nothing of it. At that time, she'd excused the nieces to go back home and stayed with her girlfriend to "catch up" with Mr. M and his buddy. The nieces thought he was really creepy but SW tried to tell them later that he is not like that. During the conversation between SW's girlfriend and Mr. M's buddy, it came out (but SW was talking with Mr. M so didn't hear it) that Mr. M's wife had filed divorce papers and that Mr. M has a young girlfriend with young kids. Again, SW heard about this later, and has been quite chapped that Mr. M was giving crazy ass marital advice about hotwifing, something he knows nothing about, and all the time implying the position that he has a stable marriage and therefore knows all about the subject.

She was also miffed earlier that when she did tell him about her considering the hotwife path, that he didn't offer or try to open the conversation about the two of them.

When she later heard that he was no longer with his wife, this got even more under her skin.

So she called him last night after her television programs was over, after she'd had at least two (probably three) glasses of wine, and the conversation turned to sex and then actual phone sex!

That's where I landed in the festivities.

Of course, neither she nor I made any noise or indication to Mr. M that I was in the room.

When it was over, she came to bed and told me that she did this for me, that it's the closest thing she can envision at this point to having me in the room while she has sex with another man. That she knew I'd be home around that time and had worked it out just right.

I'm not altogether convinced that it went down exactly like she proffered, but even if not, I'm happy and pleased for her and for me. She is really revving up and exercising her female sexual power.

Part III tomorrow.

[dorsetben]

Wooohoo! This is fantastic news, very well illustrated. Game on!

[CuriousOne36]

Very interesting.

Looking forward to parts II and III.

[afagehi7]

Wow... She was getting off on mfm, even if there was no overtly ff action. Her getting hot about the blowjob scene being dirty and slutty is off the rails hot. As normal for SW, I don't think you have the whole story but that'll work itself out in time. It certainly seems she'll be having a reunion with him when he visits your area.

On another note, we now know that you have available pics of her honeypot. Any chance you will post?

[slenderfish]

Wow... She was getting off on mfm, even if there was no overtly ff action. Her getting hot about the blowjob scene being dirty and slutty is off the rails hot. As normal for SW, I don't think you have the whole story but that'll work itself out in time. It certainly seems she'll be having a reunion with him when he visits your area.

On another note, we now know that you have available pics of her honeypot. Any chance you will post?

Quick hello. Some also brief replies:

- Yes, it was MFF, Mr. M was telling SW to push the head of his girlfriend deeper onto his cock while SW jerks Mr. M's cock, e.g. "making her do it right"

- SW was on the phone with Mr. M for 2 1/2 hours but I was only there for the final 5 min or so

- He lives in her hometown area

- According to SW, he told her that he is not getting along with his girlfriend, as she is much younger (35 yrs) than him, and has young kids. He's in his early 50's and it seems she wants him to become their father. He has grown kids with his estranged wife, his youngest is just finishing university.

- SW said he is totally screwed financially (her conclusion) in that his wife is very financially aggressive and comes from money and has not worked for decades, and they were married for about 30 years

- SW is subtly competitive and has a big ego as relates to her being attractive, so she likely saw the opening and tempted him to the phone sex

- Yes not the full story at this point, I do believe she may have "covered" when I came home and walked in on her but that's okay

- She was on the phone with him for an hour earlier in the week but has not mentioned it (not that she needs to mention it)

- I told SW that men generally believe they can always "get back in" with a woman they've been with in the past so it's fish in a barrel if she decides to fuck him in real life

- He has gained weight and is not in the least bit attractive, according to SW's commentary a couple of weeks ago

- Niece came home about an hour before I did and SW was deep into her phone call, SW told her who it was and Niece was aghast, she maintains that he is creepy; I believe SW retreated to the bedroom at that point

- SW expressed to me that she hopes Niece didn't hear her and also that Niece is likely creeped out, so I made it a point to have a short conversation with NIece about Mr. M and that I know him, that he and SW were friends many years ago and they've kept in contact, and that SW assures he's not creepy. Niece said she and her sister got that young woman's feeling of a creepy guy (when they accidentally ran into him in October at a restaurant) and stands by it. LOL

- Yes I do have pics and videos of SW very beautiful and hot ones (including this most recent) and would love to post them; SW seems to be accelerating along with her view of her sexuality so it may be sooner than I thought

[BallSpanking]

I realize she professes little interest in BBC as not being her preference (except when she is about to cum) ...
Possibly a good time to suggest a local Alpha Bull/personal trainer to ... push her boundaries a little?

[slenderfish]

I realize she professes little interest in BBC as not being her preference (except when she is about to cum) ...
Possibly a good time to suggest a local Alpha Bull/personal trainer to ... push her boundaries a little?

Perfect for SW except that she is already overfilled (probably not the proper word) with fitness solutions in her life.

- She sees her present personal trainer twice a week (Wed and Fri)

- Membership at Equinox (presently on hold)

- Membership at new spin studio (presently classes held outdoors top deck of parking structure - Sat and Tue)

- Membership at local Anytime Fitness

- Runs on Thurs afternoons with her girlfriend Ms. V

- The new expensive carbon/electric shifters/exotic roadbike we acquired for her in August

I can't really see suggesting a new personal trainer into this mix. I've lamented that it's too bad her present personal trainer isn't available to her (he runs his studio along with his wife as business partner, and he is very Christian).

[slenderfish]

Part III

Thanks for being patient on this. It's finally Friday and I've got a bit of quiet time. The niece volunteered to take charge of dinner and SW is involved with some project upstairs.

I'll pick up where all three of us (SW, Mr. M and me) had completed climaxes and SW had spent five more minutes with Mr. M on the phone in the bathroom before they closed the call and she emerged with a smile on her face.

She jumped on the bed and said "am I not the best wife ever, I did that for you!" Of course I agreed and wanted to encourage.

I told her I was so pleasantly surprised and turned on, that I'm immediately horny again.

She said "then reclaim me now" and laid back for me to enter her. I didn't need to be asked twice, and off we went!

She said that his being on the phone and her having virtual sex with him, just in time for me to "watch" was her sudden idea when she heard me arrive home. She wanted to give me something closer to what I'd requested (e.g. my request remains to either participate or at least be in the room when she is with her lover). I did agree, it was hottest thing ever, given the context of a basic Wednesday night suddenly becoming something altogether and unexpectedly different.

We got the rhythm going and she started talking about the reclaiming, about me being inside her right after she climaxed with her lover, in the same bed, etc.

I took the theme and expounded on it. I said that I love how wet she feels (she was wet but not soaking) and commented on the drawing power of her tight pink pussy, that the men want to get inside it. That Mr. S and Mr. M and whoever else sees her sexy body and tight ass wants to be inside of her. She started getting much wetter with this language.

She replied with that she loves to be used as a sex toy for her lovers and wants to return to me to be reclaimed.

I then said that she has found her inner slut and is able to pull in any man she wants and take him inside her, that she has all the power over the men when she wants to use it. That they believe they are driving the action but really it's only a result of her intention, and therefore she controls from the beginning to the end. That she could have dozens of men inside her if she so decides.

She then got super wet to the point that I said I feel all the cum of all these men, mmmm the unbelievable wetness from their cum, and I am reclaiming her after all have satiated themselves with her.

And then I exploded.

[slenderfish]

Observations and analysis coming next, likely tomorrow.

[samlowen]

What a Wednesday night! I'm very happy for you two, that's a hot hot fun time.

[BallSpanking]

That training regimen is nuts!

In my 30's I'd take martial arts training 2.5hrs a day, 4X a week, and I was in amazing shape, but it was exhausting.

[slenderfish]

That training regimen is nuts!

In my 30's I'd take martial arts training 2.5hrs a day, 4X a week, and I was in amazing shape, but it was exhausting.

It's fun for us, as you may recall I met her when she was the spin instructor (early 2001). So she pushes herself because of some internal motivation to look good (not complaining!) and I push myself to remain relevant and vigorous (she's almost 10 yrs younger) and as a second motivation for her.

The concept (in my mind) is that if I can maintain great shape and energy while pulling the train we know as SW, she has no excuse.

I'm sure her mind is more like she wants to continue to be able to fit into all her clothes, looking good, etc. I flatter myself by thinking I'm any real driver here.

[afagehi7]

I think keeping yourself relevant, especially with the age difference, is a good idea. We can't let ourselves go and expect them to not do the same or look elsewhere.

Eventually I think she'll learn that the female power isn't about how they look but about how they act and attitude. A chunky chicken with a sexy and sexual attitude will attract more men than a hottie prude. She's starting to understand the power sex has over men. It's like luke learning the power of the force.

Can't wait for the analysis. She's definitely interested in her inner slut. If she uncages her, you're in for quite the ride.

[slenderfish]

Analysis write-up is coming along slowly but will likely spill into tomorrow. Lots to do on a Saturday leading up to Thanksgiving.

Also, SW has indicated she wants to bone up (my deliberate choice of words here) on some things in preparation for her next encounters with Mr. S. in less than two weeks. She wants to become more conversational with Mr. S on three subjects about which I have good knowledge and background.

I'm hoping this can also become a training session for other things (hint, hint....) and I'll be able to introduce the toys I've procured for this purpose.

Going out tonight for a couples' date night locally (the woman is the one at the bottom middle in the pic with SW and the four other girls on page 24 of my string in the Hotties section, plus her new beau), and then doing a big road ride tomorrow morning with a couple of guys. At SW's suggestion I just invited another of the hotties (the one on the right in an image I just posted in the Hotties section) to ride with us guys. SW will not ride, isn't yet ready to ride at this level.

So much to do. Becomes hard to fit it all in. But I always find a way to fit it in, as SW can attest. She often quips that it's ultimately not that difficult to fit it in, blah blah blah....

[lionbrand]

Just wanted to thank you for sharing your experiences with us. Hope everything goes well during Thanksgiving period!