Do you prefer to watch your wife having sex with another man than to have sex with her?

[Tryagain]

As i watched my former wife,i felt proud and happy for her. but it is also a big turn on for me. not only to watch her, to hear her sounds but also the fact that " he " becomes a stiff cock because of my wife.
it turns me on like hell _ want to fuck her and i will not give up having sex with her.
so for me it is not the question instead of it is an addition a kind of foreplay. if i have to decide only one of these i would choose having sex with her. i am adicted to her sexy body

I agree totally with you. I also feel I am addicted to her very sexy body. I love her voluptuous body : big tits, small waist and nice ass. And guys have also actually said that - She has such a sexy body ! I love hearing that too !

[inivisibletwin]

I am addicted to her getting laid. don't get me wrong, i like fucking her myself, and I will when it's my turn... but I like other guys fucking her more.

[Shared]

It’s difficult to answer, but my preference is to make love to her after she’s had sex with her boyfriend.

[lesajima1]

No given a choice of either or I definitely would rather be fucking her. To watch her is something different all together. The first couple of times it was hot but difficult psychologically. Now it is just hot as hell. I love watching her lose all inhibitions and just enjoy being fucked and eaten. The best might be seeing her suck someone and them cumming in her mouth.she also goes wild when someone cums in her pussy for the first time. We do everything together. For her the more the merrier.

[mrdnrm]

Yes, I crave this 24/7. I very much enjoy sex with my wife when we do have it however I will avoid sex with my wife in exchange to have the opportunity to be able to watch her have sex with another man and where I get to eat the cream pie. This is something I openly beg for with her.

[kort677]

sadly for me because of ED issues only her "friends" can do my wife, and recently she has forbidden me from watching.

[trecital]

I actually found this a very difficult question to answer.

I'm happy with either option.

However, wife prefers having sex with another man, so the choice is normally made for me.

[Jab4957]

I enjoy both. I love feeling and filling a new woman’s pussy. But, I do have a slight preference to watching a new man filling my wife then I fill her second. I kinda need both… I love knowing I’m helping a man get laid by my wife and before the date him knowing he will be bare and we want him to cum in her. It has to be nice for him to know he doesn’t have to try and talk her into bare or get her to take the condom off him. It has to be so empowering to him to know he’s leaving his DNA in a beautiful wife and I love knowing my wife is a slut that wants other men’s cum in her!

[CaliLondon]

I have health issues with meds that make getting hard next to impossible so I enjoy thoroughly watching the wife having sex with Neil. We've been doing it with him for eight months now and no regrets.

[cukgrl69]

I definitely prefer watching her with other men. I don't have any kind of ED issue, and I can actually perform very well with an almost 8" cock. But we've both gotten really into cuckolding and it turns me on that she wants other men. In fact, if she shows interest in having sex with me its a turn off to the point that I start to lose my erection. We've been in the LS for about a year and a half now, and things have really picked over the past 6 months. For about the first year we still had sex from time to time and there were times when we would go to the sex club and we wouldn't really find anyone for her to hook up with so she would then want to have sex with me and when this would happen I was start to get turned off and lose my erection, which I chalked up to "stage fright" of having sex in public. But really I think it was more that I guess I like the idea that she needs someone better than me to satisfy her. And for a while when she would go for more than a couple weeks without being with someone else she would want to have sex with me. But for one thing she's having sex with other men pretty much every week now, sometimes multiple times a week and even when she is really horny and it has been a while since she's had sex, she no longer tries to initiate intercourse with me, she instead encourages me to lick her or sit on my face or mutual masturbation.

Over the past several months we've discussed things more and she has picked up more on what turns me on and off and now she's really into denying me and telling me my cock can't satisfy her, that cucks don't get to have pussy, that she only wants bull cock now, etc. She know that when she does this I get hard and if we're in bed together I'll usually start masturbating.

[inivisibletwin]

my biggest turn on is my wife having sex while im not there! i love it! when that happens my world feels right.

after that, i do very much enjoy watching her get laid, when i can! and would happily sit out every time if it meant she fucked someone else.. I would happily trade all my turns!

I do enjoy fucking her, when i get a turn, but I absolutely enjoy her fucking other guys more!

as of right now i am only allowed to fuck her once per year, on our anniversary, while she constantly spreads her legs for her boyfriend, and several other guys, with my help, and i enjoy it every time!

[Johor]

My wife has never been very passionate during sex with me. She never has PIV orgasms with me and says she never has with any man. I would dearly love to see her get turned on passionate with a lover and it would be extra special to see her have a PIV O.

[SheLikesWhenIWatch]

I just want my wife to be happy and self-fulfilled. At some point, we recognized that she is sexually attracted to older men and especially co-workers.

While I fantasized about being cucked, her fantasy was to get fucked in ways MUCH better than I have ever been able to do. I’m not saying I suck at sex, or that my (very normal/average) dick is too small to bring her off. It’s simply that some guys are better at fucking than others…the way they move, their confidence, the way they take control…the alpha-males who put our wives in a sort of “heated frenzy,” to play on a metaphor.

When we’d fantasize together, I wanted to be cucked; she wanted to get plowed into the bed sheets by a man who would be strong enough to “use” her in ways I just don’t, in ways I just can’t. At first, none of the emotion……just pure, raw sex…..a total physical surrender to him, the culmination of which was him planting his “man seed” in her.

After a time alone with him (which drove me nuts), she wanted me to watch how a strong man could control her in ways I never had. He completely fucked her lights out in front of me….very physical, indeed. I’d been cucked…..and and to this day, I feel so small in his presence, knowing that he can easily give my wife what I can’t.

The thing is, though, that she realized very quickly that she likes watching me, the man who loves her to the ends of the universe, jerk off while her bf absolutely plows her pussy. It’s a psychological thing, for sure for her, watching her husband jerk off while a “real” man owns her body. She has obviously spoken with him about it because he enjoys cucking me too, it seems.

He very deliberately leans back or out of the way when he cums in her because he very much wants me to see his twitching shaft buried at least half-way but often balls-deep in her….listening to her moan her acceptance…..listening to him grunt as he grinds into her hard. It’s an alpha move if I’ve ever seen one! He pulls out and his jizz follows. I’m expected to clean her up….the ultimate cuck experience, in my opinion.

What’s not to like? I am chucked…..and it turns her on to watch me cum in my waiting hand while her “real” man gets to cum in her pussy.

[dinoo]

Can you describe the feeling of watching your wife?

When answering this question, it must be taken into account that our HW/cuckold lifestyle mainly (not only!!!) took place in a club where single men were present in large numbers.
Moreover, the "agreement" was that she had complete freedom to allow what men wanted to do to her or what she wanted to do with men.

Both my wife and myself were in the highest state of excitement when I was the watcher.
In our daily lives, our sex can be described from extremely sensual to, what third parties would call, shameless.
Perhaps also by sharing fantasies with each other.
So it makes it very difficult to answer this question.
In particular, the frequency of sex with other men was, of course I would say, much lower than with me.

If I had to choose, I would prefer to watch for the following reasons:
1 in any case, it was extremely exciting to see your own wife involved with other men
2 every other man had a different approach from mine and so my wife got what she deserved better
3 doing things with other men, especially if there are several men at the same time, boosted her self-confidence and that has always stimulated her to be as much liberated as possible
4 I was filled with pride in her attraction; after all, it's me who married her.
5 in that sense, a total surrender to another man (men) was the most beautiful thing I have ever experienced.
This felt like the most beautiful gift I could ever give her and she felt the same way.

Dinoo

[Shadnaster]

For us, it's kind of how things got started. We started out swinging. We'd go to clubs and I'd be with other women but, it was always WAY more exciting watching her get fucked. That's part of the reason why we turned to cuckolding. Don't get me wrong, I still enjoy sex with her but, I am perfectly happy jerking off while I watch her get fucked. Or jerking off hearing her tell me about her date.

[mfm4bnc]

It is complicated for me. Chronic back pain (5 herniated disks and a fracture at L-4 that has allowed L-5 to drift almost 2cm out of place), a botched surgery that causes constant pain in one testicle, and blood pressure meds all make it a bit challenging to get an erection. I can get them and keep them, but it requires a lot of both mental and physical stimulation. I can reliably get a boner to cuckold themes, much more so than to vanilla themes. On the other hand, Lil is my wife and the love of my life. I need the connection of love-making with her. Sadly, she thinks my failure to get boners for vanilla sex is evidence that I am not crazy about her. I PREFER sex with Lil. I get a boner easier if she has sex with someone else.

[Caribwaters]

My wife has never allowed me to watch when she is with her lovers, as she feels it is private intimacy. That prohibition extends to even being at a distant table in the same restaurant while they are enjoying a dinner/drinks. But I have casually/socially met most of them, as she only connects with co-workers, bosses or friends.

The one exception was returning home from a dinner dance years ago with another couple. Upon entering the car the woman decided to sit next to the other man. I suggested we go down to the beach and all agreed. Upon parking above the water, we all started making out. My "date" has consumed too much at the dance, started feeling sick, so we got out of the car to facilitate her getting some fresh air and walk around. My wife and the other husband remained in the back seat. About 20 minutes later at the request of my "date" I returned to the car to get her pocketbook. Upon approaching from the back in the dark, I saw my wife with her dress turned down to her waist giving him full oral. He is nearing completion as I approached, so I got to see the final act. Their action had an incredibly powerful effect upon me. I collected my "date" and returned to the car and drove them home. Upon getting into our bed, I wanted to talk about what happened in the car, but she wanted to go to sleep, so I was awake all night. Whenever we do discuss the details while having sex, I come off within seconds, which affirms to my wife that I really liked her being intimate with other guys.

[BBCfan]

Fascinating variety of entertaining replies.
As a wannabe I have no idea, but I LOVE fucking my wife, so can't imagine liking her fucking her FWB more, although I could see liking the reclaiming sex more than regular sex.

[curiouscouple1978]

Yes I would rather watch her being fucked and jack off than try and fuck her pussy. I would rather have a cock fucking my ass that be in her pussy. My little cock feast deserve to be in her pussy

[SouthernCuck]

It’s a tough question. Of course I would rather fuck my wife. But I want her to be sexually satisfied. Let’s face it her bulls do a much better job at satisfying her sexually than I can. Yes I really enjoy watching her boyfriend fuck her brains out. I wish I was able to.

[mfmfantasy50]

I've not known about or been invited. I' ve had to watch the videos, alone, which is intensely arousing to me, as he uses his obviously superior cock and sexual skill to utterly pound my wife's pussy.

[derekduvalle]

Always to see her fucked by her lover, her pleasure is the most important to me. Besides I've not fucked her in 10 years I am completely pussy free.

[Mgcouplemn]

Yes, I do prefer watching my wife Laurie having sex, I always have. I first saw my wife Laurie at a swinger party a long time ago. I was there with a friend that her and I only had sex. Laurie was there with her married boyfriend. I was infatuated watching her fucking at the party, couldn't stop looking. Second party I got to fuck her, after we went naked to the deck so she could have a smoke. We talked and told each other about ourselves. We started dating and continued going to the swing parties as a couple, I just loved seeing her having sex with many guys at them. We married and kept going to the swing parties, we even hosted parties. Later in life I became un-interested in having sex with the other guys wives, but still wanted to watch Laurie having sex with other guys. I even suggested that she go out alone, but she insisted that it wasn't fun for her if I wasn't watching. So for the last 8 years I watch her fuck and I masturbate while I do, I love getting myself off watching her having sex.

[sana9889]

Ideally I think she should have her privacy with her intimate partners.

I don't want my husband seeing me naked , let alone watching me have sex with someone.

[Thebestdays1]

I think I preferred to watch her with another man.
She wasn't really interested in having sex with me as she didn't like inexperienced men and I was a virgin when we met. Sex with her husband was too normal for her tastes. She used to encourage me to go with her elder sister and masturbate the two of us when I told her the details afterwards and these were the only times I noticed any real passion from her. That used to affect my confidence and my overall enjoyment of sex with her.
However, when I saw her with other men she used to get me to eat their cum, suck their penises and generally humiliate me and that was great fun. The more she humiliated me, the more I liked it. She also tended to be more passionate with me afterwards. I loved showing her off to other men too, so I loved seeing her naked in front of them. Seeing her and our nephew naked together was unbelievably arousing, as were our foursomes with her sister and her boyfriend.