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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?

Unread post by cum4me » Fri Jan 29, 2010 5:11 am

I think I can say for everyone that's followed your threads and post, glad your both doing great. Nothing wrong with some quality one on one time either! But were happy to see you back on.

As to Brad, his loss, if it comes to that, will be some other man's gain. FB can sometimes be a difficult creature to understand, this we've discovered first hand. Why does something so seemingly simply turn complicated and hard...(no pun intended) It is difficult when a certain level of chemistry and time has been invested in developing a Hotwife/FB relationship and it goes south.

Any way anyone that's been in this lifestyle for a good amount of time should realize every now and then it's good to take a step back and take stock of where your at in order to make the necessary adjustments to move forward in a more positive direction.

Love the truth or dare idea, what a interesting way to get things moving again. A fresh start is always a new beginning to try something or someone new and I know you guys are in for many great adventures together.

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Unread post by reese » Fri Jan 29, 2010 5:44 am

Thanks for your support cum4me. You post is very exciting as well.

I am off to Chicago tomorrow morning for business. Saturday work, not fun, but I will be back home on Monday afternoon.

My wife explained our situation lately...romantic love making, intimate get togethers, ONE on ONE time. We are refreshed and full of confidence.

Our truth or dare games was thought out by me as I was reliving some moments with some old friends on facebook.

Saturday night, my wife is gonna hang out with her friend. She is someone who knows our secrets, and loves our lifestyle.
Ideally, my wife will meet someone who she feels comfortable with.
She promised me that she will take on my DARE challenge and find a stud.
If I know my wife and her friend, I am sure that there will be an afterparty at her friends house with a lot of sex mixed in!

It will be very exciting hearing from her Saturday evening.
I will be by myself...probably jacking off numerous times while waiting for a phone call.
Unfortunately, I have business to attend to on Saturday and Monday morning.
Stuck in Chicago while my wife becomes a hotwife again...I miss those days!!
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Unread post by Aynsley » Fri Jan 29, 2010 6:09 am

Hey Mr. & Mrs. R.

I was just going to revive the thread, and ask how you guys are,
and you read my mind :D

Glad you're doing well.
And the Truth or Dare sounds fun.

Mrs. R., if Saturday is a 'fail', then I may have to ask
IRIS if she'd like to have drinks with Mr. R., Sunday :whip:

Have fun!!

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Fri Jan 29, 2010 1:41 pm

BTW, welcome back, Reeses!! ;)
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Unread post by aemn711 » Sun Jan 31, 2010 9:17 am

Glad to see the Reeses took a break. When you play at their level, I think it just makes good sense to stand on the sidelines for a quarter and rest so you know where you both are and have the mutual desire for more extra-marital excitement without feeling that you are at risk.

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Unread post by Aynsley » Tue Feb 02, 2010 7:54 am

Hey, Mr. R.
So how did the 'dare' turn out, Sat. night?

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Tue Feb 02, 2010 8:03 am

Ok here's the scoop,
Saturday night; My friend and I went out all night. Girls night! :roll: YAH! It was so much fun. We went to PF Changs for lunch, then to the mall to find some sexy clothes. We dressed for fun. It still is funny how many men go completely crazy when they see women dressed very slutty. Anyway, as the night went by, we met a few very hot men who were there to pick up girls! Obviously! :whip: My friend Amy knew this guys friend very well, so she felt safe hanging out with them We told them how I was playing truth or dare with hubby and he was in Chicago. We had the guys pick either of us and made NO promises of anything. I kept texting hubby who was in a bar watching sports and texting me and waiting for my replies of how the evening was going. This guy, and truthfully his name was Mike, very cute, 29 and a lot of fun. He was really into my games with hubby. WE actually had a long discussion on how many woman he meets who have 3 ways with hubbys involved. Telling his that I was a hotwife made him even more horny for me. We played, kissed, danced and flirted. As the night continued, I felt very comfortable with him. I told him that my dare was that I had to give a hot guy a blowjob in the parking lot. Grabbing him by the hand, I led him to Amy's Jeep Cherokee. Inside, I wasted NO time kissing him, and eventualy putting on a rubber to suck him. Mike was so cute, shy but very horny. I told him that I had to call hubby and let him listen. This seemed to turn him on more. I told him that before he orgasmed to pull off the condom so that he could cum on my face. On cue, he did and I continued to stroke him as he hit my face with his yummy cum. Hubby was listening the whole time. Mike and I exchanged numbers and I went back into the bar with him. Ending the evening acting very slutty! I had a lot of fun with this. Telling amy that I had to go home and use my silver bullet and call hubby.
That night, hubby and I shared orgasms, he in his hotel and me in my bed.

This was a very fun night for me. Mike called me today. I didnt answer. He left a message asking me if there was a chance that we meet up again.

What do you think??? :whip:

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Unread post by RBALL » Tue Feb 02, 2010 8:20 am

Go for it!!

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Unread post by Aynsley » Tue Feb 02, 2010 8:24 am

Thanks, Mrs. R.

My vote on your question...

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You are such a sexy HW :D
Mr. R.'s a lucky guy.

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Unread post by aemn711 » Tue Feb 02, 2010 2:26 pm

Why not - but it sounds like it would be more fun if he tok you infront of hubby since he knows you are a HW.

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Unread post by BallSpanking » Tue Feb 02, 2010 2:55 pm

Very nice, Ms Reese, but honestly, I think Mr Reese could have set the bar a bit higher for you...
For you ( a total babe, and fox) it is far too easy to pick out a guy and seduce him, and actually go as far as you will let him take it... ;)
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Unread post by aemn711 » Wed Feb 03, 2010 10:17 am

BallSpanking wrote:Very nice, Ms Reese, but honestly, I think Mr Reese could have set the bar a bit higher for you...
For you ( a total babe, and fox) it is far too easy to pick out a guy and seduce him, and actually go as far as you will let him take it... ;)
I totally agree with Ballspanking - I think we on this thread should be making suggestions for setting the bar for Mr and Mrs Reese.

Just for fun here is one suggestion for Mrs Reese to kick things off:

1. Go to a college bar and find the most studly guy (preferrably under 20) she can where she can honestly say she'd do him without the game and make him get on his knees in front of his friends and beg his reward!

Here is a suggestion for Mr R:

1. Same scenario college bar. Pick out the hottest Co-ed in front of her friends and get her to agreed to have sex with him infront of her friends.

I'd like to hear other suggestions and comment from the Rs

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Sat Feb 06, 2010 6:32 am

So, while hubby is again away on business, I went out with Mike for drinks last night. We have chatted constantly over the past week. Btw, sorry, it's been very busy for both of us and I havent been on line much.

Back to Mike, last night, I met him for drinks. I was nervous since I was meeting him alone. Hubby was aware of the meeting, as I texted him most of the night telling him of the events that were unfolding. Mike is very sweet and boyishly sexy. He is tall, with brown hair and green eyes. I am very attracted to him. As usual, as I started to feel more comfortable with him I felt more turned on. He asked a lot of questions during the week about my game with hubby. Last night, I told Mike more about my hotwife lifestyle. He asked me if HE could be the ONE for me whenever I wanted to play. He teased me and asked if I only give blowjobs. I told him that I needed to be sure about his health and once HE can prove his health, I may go farther. :whip: We kissed in the bar, and I went back to his car and gave him a blowjob. He orgasmed in my mouth this time and was suprised when I spit out his cum! I told him that I was serious about needing proof. Needless to say, our truth or dare games(sorry aemn) have kindof stopped since I met Mike.
Hubby will be home later tonight, I plan on being out with Mike again and telling hubby to come to whereever we are at to watch us. I plan on treating hubby that way. Not sure but maybe I will bring Mike home later and have hubby watch me with him.

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Sat Feb 06, 2010 6:40 am

One more thing, hubby hasnt been as active here, I asked him if he was losing interest in all of this. It's kind of funny, since we re-focused on our marriage, his interest has slacked off a lot lately. I am fine with all of that. He knows that I could walk away from all of this in an instant. But I asked him recently if he is waiting for me to rock the boat and really make things more interesting with a guy, like finding a lover, or cucking hubby more. Hubby loves denial and I think I may just choose that as I take Mike into my life as a lover. About Mike, he is dating a woman and has been steady with her for over 5 years. I think he is a good fit for me. He told me that they are in love but that the sex has declined. Not sure about doing this behind her back though. A lot of thoughts going on in my head right now! :roll:
I think I am gonna go back to bed and play with myself, I am horny and there is no man for me right now! :roll:
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Unread post by BallSpanking » Sat Feb 06, 2010 1:12 pm

Please give our best to Mr Reese, after all, he's the one that has to deal with the stressful aspect of Ms Reese dating and fucking another guy...
Then again, as you know, part of him really enjoys the fact that his wife is sexually liberated and is free to fuck other men if it suits her... and obviously, it does...

How about you Ms Reese, I hear you say that you could walk away anytime and be just fine with that..., but wouldn't you so miss the freedom to pleasure other men too? ;)
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Unread post by reese » Sun Feb 07, 2010 7:49 am

Ahhhh...what a great night we shared!
First of all....I want to say HI to everyone again! I agree with my wife, we have lost some of the momentum of hotwife play over the past few months. Part of the reason for our absence is that WE wanted to focus on our marriage. It is at a good place. I also think my wife was becoming confused with everything. Robert.....other men...we seemed to be losing our way with our marriage at times.
I miss you guys, I miss reading from others and I miss reading the comments from our friends.

Next post will be about last night.
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Unread post by BallSpanking » Sun Feb 07, 2010 8:54 am

Welcome Reese, looking forward to your post. ;)
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Unread post by reese » Sun Feb 07, 2010 9:58 am

So after sharing lunch, my wife told me that if it was ok with me, she would like to see if things would move further with Mike! BOOM!instant hard-on! How many hotwife husbands can relate to that feeling! Being married to a sexy woman and listening to those words, where your wife is interested in having sex with another man? A few hours later, my wife opened some wine, bathed and asked for me to help her pickout an outfit! I choose a very sexy black pants/top outfit with some sexy shoes! Of course, her breasts were revealed too much! The temptation of that sight od absolute sexiness as she dressed drove me crazy!
She called mike and asked that he pick her up at our house! My wife told me that she wanted me to be hiden from mike as she didn't want him to see me just yet! I assumed that she has other plans for all of us later in the evening! Mike arruved shortly and came into our house. He appeared nervous as I listenened from our closed door bedroom! They shared a drink and I could here mike kissing my wife, telling her how excited he was to see her! Before they left,I could here my wife tell him how she wanted him to come back to her home later in the evening! She texted me instructing me to go to a specific spot at a favorite hangout or ours!

More soon, I have to leave the site for now!
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Unread post by reese » Sun Feb 07, 2010 10:21 am

I have to be honest here and say that I felt those familiar pangs of jealousy just listening to this man kiss my wife! He was younger and very sexy to my wife! I think she was careful to explain to me that he was very well endowed, not that I ever feel inferior with my size but if a man is larger than me, it stings a little and brings out the competitive attitudes in me!
I arrived at the bar about an hour after they left! I saw them looking very comfotable, sitting at the bar enjoying a drink! He had no idea of my appearance so I sat near them at the bar!

Sorry, I have a lot to write about, more later
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Unread post by reese » Sun Feb 07, 2010 1:29 pm

Back...SuperBowl party is about to start, thought I would finish the post and send a pic as well.
Sitting at the bar, I watched with my usual hardon as she played.
She would look around the room and every once in a while, she would look over to me and give me that seductive cuckoldress look. My wife knew she had ME at that moment. I was burning inside, wanting to go back to my suv and jack off real quick to lighten the burden that was overwhelming me! I didnt! I watched them dance and make out. My wife will do that often with her new guy. Knowing that I was watching probably made her more seductive to Mike.
As the evening continued, Mike went to the bathroom still having no clue who I was. My wife walked over to me and quickly told me to leave and go home. She will be there shortly. I did. On her way home she texted me and told me to light the candles...I waited for them to arrive. Shortly, then were at my home. My wife instructed me to come into the bathroom as Mike sat on the sofa. She placed a blindfold over my eyes...and handcuffed me...telling me that she didnt want me to jack off...that I was in for a big suprise! Omg...I was hard and so turned on! She told me that Mike loved the idea of fucking her in front of me..that turned him on..a married wife fucking him with hubby listening. Only problem was that my wife didnt want me to watch..only listen. It was driving me crazy. For the next hour...I never witnessed them fucking..but I heard everything. Mike was very verbal with her...she kept telling ME how big his cock was. In the midst of fucking..my wife told me that I had to feel how big his cock was. Verbally telling me that he was so much bigger than me was driving me crazy. She stopped....removed my cuffs..and placed my hand on Mike's cock. I was somewhat in shock as I gripped his shaft only to feel it much bigger than mine.
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Unread post by reese » Sun Feb 07, 2010 1:38 pm

After holding it for few seconds..she told me "enough, it was her turn again.
Can you visualize this event occurring right in front of me?
They continued fucking....my wife would tell me that his cock was perfect for her.
Soon, after many orgasms, my wife sat over my face and allowed me to lick her clean..tasting his cock and t asting her orgasms. Mike had yet to cum though. She told him that she was ready for him to cum...that she wanted it all over her chest. Soon, he orgasmed...I just listened. They lay on the floor...in silence. She was kissing him and telling him how sexy he was. Right after that moment, my wife came over to me and jacked me off ....sitting over my face the opposite way, I tasted her sex with Mike...all the while she stroked my cock to orgasm. She would tell me that I wasnt allowed to fuck her anymore...now that she had Mike's cock. She was very adament about fucking the bigger cock....OF course, I knew that this was her foreplay to make me orgasm strongly!
As soon as I finished, she asked Mike to leave so that she could spend some time with me.
Mike never did really see me.....it was dark in the room....he thanked us and went on his way.

That was our night.....erotic as ever!
I really havent asked her if she was serious about denying me for Mike's cock!
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Unread post by BallSpanking » Sun Feb 07, 2010 6:53 pm

Very, very nice of Ms Reese to do this for herself and let you in on it...
Will she be seeing more of Mike?
Particularly once he gets a clear STD certificate? ;)
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Unread post by mrs_reese » Mon Feb 08, 2010 7:11 am

Badboy hubby of mine really pushed my buttons last weekend, I decided to push back.
Mike is as big as hubby states. I have always been very fulfilled by hubby's size which is big but not as big as Mike's.
It's a whole new experience for me. I would have to say that Mike may be around 81/2 to 9 inches with a wide girth.
Hubby is a little over 7 1/2 with a wide girth but not as wide as Mike's. It is rather fascinating to have this right now. My other lovers were average to big, but Mike's is amazing.
It has fixated my attention to wanting him inside me more than I have wanted from a lover in a while.
The romantic thing with my lovers was the big thing for me. It has been my focus. Partly to cuckold my hubby and partly because I needed to feel that romantic link.
But Mike's penis has captivated my attention. Add in the extra spice of a very attractive man who loves to make love to a married woman, and this new lover of mine will be a lot of fun in our lives.

I told hubby last night that he wont be having sex with me for a while now that Mike is my lover. Hubby will have to resort to the usual cuckold devices, my nylons, panties, feet, cleaning me.
I have no idea how long this will last though, we all know that my hubby can be a maniac the longer I torment him! :whip:


Message to my hubby: Jack off baby, please, because I am saving myself for Mike this week.
Btw, I want him so badly right now.xoxoxo :roll:

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Unread post by mrs_reese » Mon Feb 08, 2010 8:57 am

Am I wrong to focus on Mike's size this time? We are trying to take on a different approach with our hotwife play. Less romantic and more physical. It may be difficult for me as I always fall for the guy! I guess I am trying to play the male's role with all of this. Physical vs emotional? Btw, Mike's body and size are making it easier to focus on that instead of emotionally.

Mike has promised to have a std check up this week. Even though is in a steady relationship I need to be safe.
I still have issues with his gf, but knowing that he wont be fixated upon me all the time will be easier for all of us I believe.
I also think that he wont be so into me all the time as he needs to spend time with his gf.
I just feel very crappy knowing that she doesnt know about him playing with me.

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Unread post by allengt » Mon Feb 08, 2010 9:12 am

mrs_reese wrote:Am I wrong to focus on Mike's size this time? We are trying to take on a different approach with our hotwife play. Less romantic and more physical. It may be difficult for me as I always fall for the guy! I guess I am trying to play the male's role with all of this. Physical vs emotional? Btw, Mike's body and size are making it easier to focus on that instead of emotionally.

Mike has promised to have a std check up this week. Even though is in a steady relationship I need to be safe.
I still have issues with his gf, but knowing that he wont be fixated upon me all the time will be easier for all of us I believe.
I also think that he wont be so into me all the time as he needs to spend time with his gf.
I just feel very crappy knowing that she doesnt know about him playing with me.
Maybe he is looking for a better fuck than his gf. As in a man's world do not give up one bit of pussy until you find a replacement for it. :twisted:
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