A little introduction

[Farmgirl]

I hope he meets your exacting standard, the poor guy is trying his best. do you make him stand in the corner if he is less than half mast one minute after you arrive?

I can get him to full mast just by showing up .

[afagehi7]

I hope he meets your exacting standard, the poor guy is trying his best. do you make him stand in the corner if he is less than half mast one minute after you arrive?

I can get him to full mast just by showing up .

A pavlovian response no doubt!

[solstice]

I am not a great believer in luck, but here is a guy thrice blessed to have Farmgirl turn up at his door, all primed to do the dirty deed!

[Farmgirl]

I hope he meets your exacting standard, the poor guy is trying his best. do you make him stand in the corner if he is less than half mast one minute after you arrive?

I can get him to full mast just by showing up .

A pavlovian response no doubt!

Men are prone to Pavlovian responses , much to the delight of most women!

[ArizonaGuy]

Do we sit and beg!

[Farmgirl]

Do we sit and beg!

Rewards come to the well trained .

[solstice]

Farmgirl writes: Men are prone to Pavlovian responses , much to the delight of most women!

I agree, though I feel a little embarrassed when my tongue hangs out and I salivate at the sight of a beautiful woman.

[Farmgirl]

Farmgirl writes: Men are prone to Pavlovian responses , much to the delight of most women!

I agree, though I feel a little embarrassed when my tongue hangs out and I salivate at the sight of a beautiful woman.

Oh, but I like that response!

[lookingiansa]

Does she ever allow you to orgasm?

The last one was 27 months ago and she claims that was the last one. Of course, I figure she may allow one at some time. I just never know and it doesn't really matter. We both enjoy her control and I have long since learned to extremely enjoy her orgasms. It may sound odd but, I find I enjoy hers more often and with more intensity than my own.

Wow I could never live this way no cumming her getting off each time not fair to me but to each their own. She would get pissex if you all at once ruined her organ right? Why do you let her do this to you? I can't see what you get out of it what do you get out of this organization denial. I can see she gets off on being in control and not letting you have pressure.

[Her number1]

Does she ever allow you to orgasm?

The last one was 27 months ago and she claims that was the last one. Of course, I figure she may allow one at some time. I just never know and it doesn't really matter. We both enjoy her control and I have long since learned to extremely enjoy her orgasms. It may sound odd but, I find I enjoy hers more often and with more intensity than my own.

Wow I could never live this way no cumming her getting off each time not fair to me but to each their own. Not unfair at all, I have stronger longer, more intense orgasms without ejaculating. The mind can do so much if you learn to let it. She would get pissex if you all at once ruined her organ right? The benefits apply to the male, not the female.Why do you let her do this to you? You assume she is doing something to me. Far from it, she is doing something for me and my overall health. I can't see what you get out of it what do you get out of this organization denial. Again, a lack of knowledge about the well-documented benefits of semen retention or ejaculation control. You might read some about Tantric Sex and the ability of the male to control ejaculation.I can see she gets off on being in control and not letting you have pressure. She is very adept at giving me pleasure, and that is foremost in her mind.

I fear you have a very limited knowledge of sexual practices outside of the usual western ideas. And, sadly that limits your sexual enjoyment and health.
I learned a long while back to control my ejaculations. It results in not only more intense orgasms than be realized in a "normal" manner, but eliminates the down feeling or "lag" many experience after ejaculating (cumming) in the normal manner. I can also last as long as I want, enjoying the sexual act as long as she or I want, because I can control my release.
I would have to give up so much pleasure and enjoyment to go back to the way you see as normal sex. And, that doesn't even count the better overall emotional feelings I have or the improvement in health. Limiting my ejaculations also made a noticeable improvement in my PSA.
These are the main reasons we do this, and it conveniently plays into our FLR dynamic.
Glad you asked the questions, there might be others that also didn't understand how things work.

[lookingiansa]

Does she ever allow you to orgasm?

The last one was 27 months ago and she claims that was the last one. Of course, I figure she may allow one at some time. I just never know and it doesn't really matter. We both enjoy her control and I have long since learned to extremely enjoy her orgasms. It may sound odd but, I find I enjoy hers more often and with more intensity than my own.

Wow I could never live this way no cumming her getting off each time not fair to me but to each their own. Not unfair at all, I have stronger longer, more intense orgasms without ejaculating. The mind can do so much if you learn to let it. She would get pissex if you all at once ruined her organ right? The benefits apply to the male, not the female.Why do you let her do this to you? You assume she is doing something to me. Far from it, she is doing something for me and my overall health. I can't see what you get out of it what do you get out of this organization denial. Again, a lack of knowledge about the well-documented benefits of semen retention or ejaculation control. You might read some about Tantric Sex and the ability of the male to control ejaculation.I can see she gets off on being in control and not letting you have pressure. She is very adept at giving me pleasure, and that is foremost in her mind.

I fear you have a very limited knowledge of sexual practices outside of the usual western ideas. And, sadly that limits your sexual enjoyment and health.
I learned a long while back to control my ejaculations. It results in not only more intense orgasms than be realized in a "normal" manner, but eliminates the down feeling or "lag" many experience after ejaculating (cumming) in the normal manner. I can also last as long as I want, enjoying the sexual act as long as she or I want, because I can control my release.
I would have to give up so much pleasure and enjoyment to go back to the way you see as normal sex. And, that doesn't even count the better overall emotional feelings I have or the improvement in health. Limiting my ejaculations also made a noticeable improvement in my PSA.
These are the main reasons we do this, and it conveniently plays into our FLR dynamic.
Glad you asked the questions, there might be others that also didn't understand how things work.

I think I might get it but?? How do you have an orgasm without ejaculating??? I do not have any knowledge of what you are talking about.

I think you had said on page one that she hasn't let you cum in over 27 months then in 2016. Do you ejaculated then in your dreams or does she let you play with yourself then for release. That long you would of had to release some semin in the 27 months and you said that she said that was going to be your last time?

I must be to selfish to not cum all the time. And I would never at least at my stage in life let someone control when I can cum and tell.me when I can when they cum all the time.

This is just so foreign to me I have been thinking about this thread for all day. My next question she isn't denying bf bulls from cumming is she ? I'm getting hung up on the good for the goose good for the gander. If she can cum bf can cum I would be wanting to cum too.

I have recently done a reboot to see if any better I quit porn, masturbating and orgasms and limited my time to once every 30 days to have PIV with wife. I usually came 5 times a day either eith wife or masturbating to orgasm. 30 x 5 =150 orgasm a month or 150 ejaculations a month if you say they are separable. At my advanced age of 52 cumming 150 times a month.

I went into withdrawal broke out in a sweat for a day or 2 had a little more aggression than usual all woman started looking better. 18 to 70 for sure. Hit the gym harder which only made me hornier the whole time.

Couldn't wait to release with my wife. She I think enjoyed the break partly. But the 3x I released during the 89 days I didn't feel that dip you talk about. But each time I wanted more sex like before. Took all my willpower to try this experiment and stick to only release with my wife of 29 years and not go off the deep end.

I did this as a test for myself to see if I was truly a sex addict. The answer is undecided for me. I also gave up my multiple FWBs. But I could not see permanent denial as anything that I would want to do yet if ever. I was abused as a kid and that's why I have to be in control I've learned that through self reflection. And I'm selfish and possessive we are a male led relationship I can have sex with any woman but my wife isn't allowed her pussy and ass mine alone. But she can be with women with or without me. She's my perfect wife I'm Dom Alpha +++ she sub and likes it that way I ask her what she wants to do. She says always to let me decide so I do.

Think for me the sex act makes me feel wanted needed by my wife and the fwbs too. Especially the mf couples where hot wife desires me and cuck husband want me to be with his wife too, and takes pressure off him to be in control and perform fucking her.

Sorry about all my rambling but one last thing since your getting older in mid 60's right? Do you rhinknthat might allow you to give up normal piv ejeculatuon sex ? Like if you were 45 could of you done this and kept your sanity and marriage.

Thanks in advance

Mr. Lookingiansa

[Her number1]

The last one was 27 months ago and she claims that was the last one. Of course, I figure she may allow one at some time. I just never know and it doesn't really matter. We both enjoy her control and I have long since learned to extremely enjoy her orgasms. It may sound odd but, I find I enjoy hers more often and with more intensity than my own.

Wow I could never live this way no cumming her getting off each time not fair to me but to each their own. Not unfair at all, I have stronger longer, more intense orgasms without ejaculating. The mind can do so much if you learn to let it. She would get pissex if you all at once ruined her organ right? The benefits apply to the male, not the female.Why do you let her do this to you? You assume she is doing something to me. Far from it, she is doing something for me and my overall health. I can't see what you get out of it what do you get out of this organization denial. Again, a lack of knowledge about the well-documented benefits of semen retention or ejaculation control. You might read some about Tantric Sex and the ability of the male to control ejaculation.I can see she gets off on being in control and not letting you have pressure. She is very adept at giving me pleasure, and that is foremost in her mind.

I fear you have a very limited knowledge of sexual practices outside of the usual western ideas. And, sadly that limits your sexual enjoyment and health.
I learned a long while back to control my ejaculations. It results in not only more intense orgasms than be realized in a "normal" manner, but eliminates the down feeling or "lag" many experience after ejaculating (cumming) in the normal manner. I can also last as long as I want, enjoying the sexual act as long as she or I want, because I can control my release.
I would have to give up so much pleasure and enjoyment to go back to the way you see as normal sex. And, that doesn't even count the better overall emotional feelings I have or the improvement in health. Limiting my ejaculations also made a noticeable improvement in my PSA.
These are the main reasons we do this, and it conveniently plays into our FLR dynamic.
Glad you asked the questions, there might be others that also didn't understand how things work.

I think I might get it but?? At least you are thinking, instead of just reacting . How do you have an orgasm without ejaculating??? By using your largest sex organ, your mind. Orgasm isn't tied to ejaculating, they can be and are two different things. You are just tied to what you perceive as the only way. I do not have any knowledge of what you are talking about.

I think you had said on page one that she hasn't let you cum in over 27 months then in 2016. Do you ejaculated then in your dreams or does she let you play with yourself then for release. No wet dreams, and no playing with my self needed. The right mindset on my part and/or mental stimulation on her part, and I just release, no physical stimulation needed. Just as there are orgasms with ejaculation, there are orgasms without ejaculation. You can also have a release of cum with or without an orgasm, but not being a regular ejaculation. That long you would of had to release some semin in the 27 months and you said that she said that was going to be your last time? Yes, your body does release when the mind is ready for it to. What can I say, she changed her mind about it being the last time, She occasionally likes for me to orgasm and ejaculate as a mere mortal. I don't do it often, but way more than the time period you are referencing.

I must be to selfish to not cum all the time. That's okay, I'm too selfish to cum the way you do, too much pleasure for me to give up going back to your way, along with the health issues. And I would never at least at my stage in life let someone control when I can cum and tell.me when I can when they cum all the time. Different games and different stroke for different people. But why limit yourself to less pleasure just to hold onto the old paradigm?

This is just so foreign to me I have been thinking about this thread for all day. My next question she isn't denying bf bulls from cumming is she ? She's not married to them, while she cares about them and their health and pleasure, I am her main concern. It's that way with husbands and wives, or it should be.I'm getting hung up on the good for the goose good for the gander. You see it as a glass half full for me, rather my glass runneth overIf she can cum bf can cum I would be wanting to cum too. Shorting yourself would be your prerogative, but I don't intend to short myself, and she doesn't intend to short me either.

I have recently done a reboot to see if any better I quit porn, masturbating and orgasms and limited my time to once every 30 days to have PIV with wife. I usually came 5 times a day either eith wife or masturbating to orgasm. 30 x 5 =150 orgasm a month or 150 ejaculations a month if you say they are separable. At my advanced age of 52 cumming 150 times a month. Porn and masturbating really don't interest me that much, I have Farmgirl.

I went into withdrawal broke out in a sweat for a day or 2 had a little more aggression than usual all woman started looking better. 18 to 70 for sure. Hit the gym harder which only made me hornier the whole time.

Couldn't wait to release with my wife. She I think enjoyed the break partly. But the 3x I released during the 89 days I didn't feel that dip you talk about. But each time I wanted more sex like before. Took all my willpower to try this experiment and stick to only release with my wife of 29 years and not go off the deep end.

I did this as a test for myself to see if I was truly a sex addict. The answer is undecided for me. I also gave up my multiple FWBs. But I could not see permanent denial as anything that I would want to do yet if ever. I was abused as a kid and that's why I have to be in control I've learned that through self reflection. I grew up with an abusive father, and had the issues you speak of. And I'm selfish and possessive we are a male led relationship I learned that showing control by being selfish and possessive was just the abusive manner my father used, so using my will, I outgrew those traits, thankfully. I can have sex with any woman but my wife isn't allowed her pussy and ass mine alone. I prefer to have a Hotwife. But she can be with women with or without me. She's my perfect wife I'm Dom Alpha +++ she sub and likes it that way To use your words, Farmgirl and I are both very much alpha. I choose to defer to her. I ask her what she wants to do. She says always to let me decide so I do.

Think for me the sex act makes me feel wanted needed by my wife and the fwbs too. Especially the mf couples where hot wife desires me and cuck husband want me to be with his wife too, and takes pressure off him to be in control and perform fucking her. The cuckold thing isn't for us

Sorry about all my rambling but one last thing since your getting older in mid 60's right? 66 now .Do you rhinknthat might allow you to give up normal piv ejeculatuon sex ? Why would I want to give up PIV sex ? Without ejaculation, I can fuck as long as I or she wants, and orgasm several times each session.Like if you were 45 could of you done this and kept your sanity and marriage. Hell with 45, I wish I could have learned this at 25 All of the stamina a woman could want coupled with me having multi-orgasms. I don't see how it could affect my sanity and marriage unless I fucked myself to death.

Thanks in advance

Mr. Lookingiansa

[lookingiansa]

Maybe I will try this a little after you explained it better. If your having orgasm after orgasm and fucking all you want without ejaculating . That's way different than what I was thinking I thought basically she got off you didn't.

But until your clarification in this response. I didn't get what you are saying. As I said was abused in all ways sexually too by men and women both. From 5 -11.5 until I grew too much wasn't pedo enough anymore thank God.

And I suffer from rejection issues. So the no sex I thought you were having until you explained it here. Would of been the ultimate act of rejection the way I envisioned it. Especially since she is a hot wife having sex with other men that would of been my ultimate rejection. (AND SEEING A PIC OF FARMGIRL SHE IS HOT)

Anyways one thing else, does the orgasm you get without ejaculating feel different than the normal way I'm used to?

Better even or just different. The way you just explained it makes so.much more sense. I've read tales in the cuck forum of guys in this denial thing that don't ever even get to touch their hot wife pussy caged for years. But you having PIV still is so much different than I had thought.

Pm me some info if you could of separating ejaculations from.male orgasm if you could please.

Thanks again

Mr. Lookingiansa

[afagehi7]

Interesting and informative exchange. No flaming or arguing just an exchange of ideas. Well done.

I'd argue that #1 gets more piv than most married men.

[Her number1]

Maybe I will try this a little after you explained it better. If your having orgasm after orgasm and fucking all you want without ejaculating . That's way different than what I was thinking I thought basically she got off you didn't.

But until your clarification in this response. I didn't get what you are saying. As I said was abused in all ways sexually too by men and women both. From 5 -11.5 until I grew too much wasn't pedo enough anymore thank God.

And I suffer from rejection issues. So the no sex I thought you were having until you explained it here. Would of been the ultimate act of rejection the way I envisioned it. Especially since she is a hot wife having sex with other men that would of been my ultimate rejection. (AND SEEING A PIC OF FARMGIRL SHE IS HOT)

Anyways one thing else, does the orgasm you get without ejaculating feel different than the normal way I'm used to?

Better even or just different. The way you just explained it makes so.much more sense. I've read tales in the cuck forum of guys in this denial thing that don't ever even get to touch their hot wife pussy caged for years. But you having PIV still is so much different than I had thought.

Pm me some info if you could of separating ejaculations from.male orgasm if you could please.

Thanks again

Mr. Lookingiansa

At times I go ahead and have a regular orgasm with ejaculation, and it is as great, just like I remember. But, having what I call a mental orgasm controlling my semen release, is so much more intense. Where a regular one seems to build from your dick and involves part of your body, a mental one starts in the mind and envelopes the whole body. My muscles will twitch and spasm and I can roll from one orgasm to another. Most times one or two, at times several. Your mind controls it, but the whole body responds.
The only form of regular orgasm for me that beats it is when Farmgirl takes me down her throat. That can make my legs shake. Still, even it is made more intense by the mental.

[Her number1]

Interesting and informative exchange. No flaming or arguing just an exchange of ideas. Well done.

I'd argue that #1 gets more piv than most married men.

I definitely don't feel deprived .
Farmgirl and I have an active sex life with PIV being the most often, along with anal, mouth, throat, and her pretty little feet. Along with my share, and reconnecting after she comes back from seeing one of her guys, when they aren't available I have to step up and fill in for them. A husband's work never ends.

[Her number1]

As a follow-up to what lookingiansa and I were discussing. Information on Eastern sexual practices and Tantric sex can be found online or at a library. I don't get into the spiritual side of it, but have learned to control my orgasms and ejaculation from it. It is wonderful for that and I do believe, as they say, that the release of semen removes some of the life-force of the male. Controlling my semen releases, does for me, have a balancing effect on my moods and seasonal depression, while imparting a general feeling of well-being. That coupled with the sexual benefits is a win-win for us.
Of course, your mileage may vary

[drwofwof]

just a short note as HN1 has mentioned that he wants nielson counts...
WHAT AN INCREDIBLE THREAD.
i'm only at page nine, but it threatens to ruin my work ethic.
i look forward to every post...

[Farmgirl]

just a short note as HN1 has mentioned that he wants nielson counts...
WHAT AN INCREDIBLE THREAD.
i'm only at page nine, but it threatens to ruin my work ethic.
i look forward to every post...

Thanks, happy to have a new reader .

[drwofwof]

i'm going to cancel my netflix subscrption; i've got 40 more pages of HN1 & FG to read. No time for Netflix...

[afagehi7]

i'm going to cancel my netflix subscrption; i've got 40 more pages of HN1 & FG to read. No time for Netflix...

You'll need something to do during the refractory period

[new2hotshubby]

Interesting and informative exchange. No flaming or arguing just an exchange of ideas. Well done.

I'd argue that #1 gets more piv than most married men.

Agree. Enjoyed reading the quality of the exchange, and learned some things I never knew.

[drwofwof]

OK, i'm caught up.
Glad that HN1 puts in so much educational time on Tantric. There is so much the West could learn.

This is such an interesting and educational thread. Wish that i'd met MY FG in 9th grade...

There is one thing i want to ask HN1 about pheremones and hormones, but i'll wait to collect my thoughts.

Hope all are doing well with covid. We lost one OHW, (and a young one, 38) to it already.

HN1- Did church lady ever come out of her funk?
And what about the 23yo?? There are things the young girls can learn from the SilverFoxes...

[Whosbeensleeping]

Hope all are doing well with covid. We lost one OHW, (and a young one, 38) to it already.

May I ask who died?

[funcpl477]

Not siding with either side.

Farmgirl is one of my two absolutely most lusted after and admired women on here. I think #1 is a very lucky man... And Farmgirl is equally lucky in finding such a loving and supporting husband. I absolutely mean no disrespect for them - the opposite, I greatly admire and respect both of them.... And, their adventures have been a frequent source for my prostate cancer prevention program.


I am well into my 70s and still averaging over an ejaculation a day, even though I lost a ball due to torsional twist cutting off circulation, and killing it in a matter of a few hours, several years ago. My volume and strength are nowhere near as much as in my youth.

Been a horn dog all my life and very much into swinging with a strong slant towards being a non-denied hot wife husband, since sharing the girl next door with my buddies, in my teens. Am long and happily married to an incredibly beautiful Asian hotwife who is a decade and a half younger. Her health, Sjogren's Syndrome, has kept her from being very active for a while. But omg, she has been incredible. Never have been able to figure out how to put her pics on here... But our AFF profile is still active, if anyone wishes to verify. I think our AFF profile name is the same as OHW... If not, switch the word fun to behind 477.


As to prostate cancer vs frequency of ejaculations:

My dad beat for 22 years, then succumbed from the effects of prostate cancer. He was deep into his eighties. A couple of uncles also had Prostate Cancer.

After that, I began monitoring my PSA through urologists I was very worried about my very active sex life putting me at risk. Additionally leg blood clots, hemorrhoids and prostate problems are higher risk among those in my profession.

More than one Urologist assured me that my very active sex life and frequent ejaculations greatly reduced my risks of prostate cancer. My current urologist, who I have seen for 15 years and still see annually, says my PSA is so perfect that the last thing I need to worry about is getting prostate cancer. Further that my frequent sex life is a part of that.


The following is a direct copy and pasted quote from a Harvard Study, regarding frequency of ejaculation vs risk of prostate cancer:

"...The scientists found no evidence that frequent ejaculations mark an increased risk of prostate cancer. In fact, the reverse was true: High ejaculation frequency was linked to a decreased risk. Compared to men who reported 4–7 ejaculations per month across their lifetimes, men who ejaculated 21 or more times a month enjoyed a 31% lower risk of prostate cancer. And the results held up to rigorous statistical evaluation even after other lifestyle factors and the frequency of PSA testing were taken into account."

That study and other corroborating studies can be found at:

https:
//www.

health.harvard.

edu/mens-health

/ejaculation_frequency_

and_prostate_cancer




All pushed together, of course.