Men who were turned into cuckolds by their GF or wife: What was her way of getting you to surrender?

[jayhawker1984]

It is important for my wife and me that she has a manly man provide for her what i cannot accomplish. I am in chastity fr many reasons and likewise, the same for our cuckolding. She should not be denied for what i cannot offer.

[Luv It]

Damn.. that’s pretty hot. I’d love for my woman to have a steady boyfriend long before we actually get married too, the thought of sending her off on honeymoon to get devoured and fully consumed by him instead is outrageously hot. I’d personally love to give up my spot so another man can can fully consummate our relationship, ideally a man who will stick around and handle all of my wife’s sexual needs in the long term.

It's hard for those not like us to understand why we are so sexually aroused when the woman we love (be her a live in GF or wife) gets all their sexual needs and satisfaction from another man
We crave this so much that we want her to already have a steady BF who will take our place in the honeymoon if / when we get married.
Then, possibly even totally taking our place to satisfy her sexually long term

IMO this is caused by a combination of "romantic jealousy" highly eroticsized...... and the erotic humiliation of wanting anther man to sexually satisfy the woman we love .
It is also the possibility of losing her to another man that actually sexually arouses us.
All this is a powerful erotic combination that only we can understand.

It is ironic that it is us, the person who is humiliated, who feels we can not satisfy our wife..... whose wife might be another man's whore, who derives the most intense erotic pleasure from another man fucking and romancing our wife.
So, we constantly think of her steady BF fucking her and we much rather him fuck her than fuck her ourselves. We want another man to take our our place, even romantically as well as sexually.. We are addicted to the mental masochism of it all that our brains now interpret as very pleasurable.

[desertsub]

1st wife

I voted 'other' for this one. I came home from work one evening just after we got married and she was dressed to go out. She told me her old boss from her home town (800 miles away) was in town and invited her to dinner to catch up on news from back home. She didn't get home until well after midnight and when she came to bed she refused my sexual advances. There were other things too, and to this day I am convinced she fucked someone that night. I laid there for a bit thinking about her fucking another guy then went to the bathroom and masturbated because I was too horny to sleep.

About a year later my sister and her husband split up and we let him stay with us because he had no place to stay. He started dating and one night my wife set up a swap between us and them and after that night she continued to fuck him even after he got his own place. She cuckolded me with him until he moved out of town. After she started cuckolding me with him I figured bout that she was probably fucking him before we did the swap and she set up the swap to get it out in the open.

Second wife

We started out swinging and she knew that my first wife had cuckolded me. As time passed she became jealous of me with the other wives and we talked about it. I told her that I wasn't really even interested in fucking the other wives, I was more interested in watching her fuck other guys. She then started cuckolding me. At first she met several times with the husband of a couple we swung with once, usually at the parking lot of her workplace. She then started going out with her girlfriends and fucking someone before coming home. I didn't get to watch but still loved being cuckolded. Several years ago she decided she wanted me there to see her getting fucked and since then I have gotten to watch pretty much every time she cuckolds me.

[ucaneffher]

1st wife

I voted 'other' for this one. I came home from work one evening just after we got married and she was dressed to go out. She told me her old boss from her home town (800 miles away) was in town and invited her to dinner to catch up on news from back home. She didn't get home until well after midnight and when she came to bed she refused my sexual advances. There were other things too, and to this day I am convinced she fucked someone that night. I laid there for a bit thinking about her fucking another guy then went to the bathroom and masturbated because I was too horny to sleep.

About a year later my sister and her husband split up and we let him stay with us because he had no place to stay. He started dating and one night my wife set up a swap between us and them and after that night she continued to fuck him even after he got his own place. She cuckolded me with him until he moved out of town. After she started cuckolding me with him I figured bout that she was probably fucking him before we did the swap and she set up the swap to get it out in the open.

Second wife

We started out swinging and she knew that my first wife had cuckolded me. As time passed she became jealous of me with the other wives and we talked about it. I told her that I wasn't really even interested in fucking the other wives, I was more interested in watching her fuck other guys. She then started cuckolding me. At first she met several times with the husband of a couple we swung with once, usually at the parking lot of her workplace. She then started going out with her girlfriends and fucking someone before coming home. I didn't get to watch but still loved being cuckolded. Several years ago she decided she wanted me there to see her getting fucked and since then I have gotten to watch pretty much every time she cuckolds me.

Thanks for sharing. Both times were real hot and a good way to be introduced, in my opinion. How long did your first wife cuck you?

[desertsub]

1st wife

I voted 'other' for this one. I came home from work one evening just after we got married and she was dressed to go out. She told me her old boss from her home town (800 miles away) was in town and invited her to dinner to catch up on news from back home. She didn't get home until well after midnight and when she came to bed she refused my sexual advances. There were other things too, and to this day I am convinced she fucked someone that night. I laid there for a bit thinking about her fucking another guy then went to the bathroom and masturbated because I was too horny to sleep.

About a year later my sister and her husband split up and we let him stay with us because he had no place to stay. He started dating and one night my wife set up a swap between us and them and after that night she continued to fuck him even after he got his own place. She cuckolded me with him until he moved out of town. After she started cuckolding me with him I figured bout that she was probably fucking him before we did the swap and she set up the swap to get it out in the open.

Second wife

We started out swinging and she knew that my first wife had cuckolded me. As time passed she became jealous of me with the other wives and we talked about it. I told her that I wasn't really even interested in fucking the other wives, I was more interested in watching her fuck other guys. She then started cuckolding me. At first she met several times with the husband of a couple we swung with once, usually at the parking lot of her workplace. She then started going out with her girlfriends and fucking someone before coming home. I didn't get to watch but still loved being cuckolded. Several years ago she decided she wanted me there to see her getting fucked and since then I have gotten to watch pretty much every time she cuckolds me.

Thanks for sharing. Both times were real hot and a good way to be introduced, in my opinion. How long did your first wife cuck you?

My ex-BIL was living with us for about 3 months before she orchestrated the swap and it's very possible she started fucking him during that time so I'm not sure. I do know that after the swap she continued to fuck him for about 8 months. He only stayed with us for about another two months but after he got his own place she continued to go there and fuck him for about 6 months. At that point he got a girlfriend who had known my sister and really hated her so she didn't want him around my wife and I either and that was when my wife and him stopped fucking. To the best of my knowledge she never cuckolded me again during the rest of our marriage.

[mfm4bnc]

The caught-forgive-repeat is my dream!

[ucaneffher]

The caught-forgive-repeat is my dream!

What are you waiting for!?!

[jayhawker1984]

tbh, my wife prefers being married to a man who does not lust after her but, rather, a man who does chores and helps dress her up for her man guy. We're like sisters.

[Freemans892]

tbh, my wife prefers being married to a man who does not lust after her but, rather, a man who does chores and helps dress her up for her man guy. We're like sisters.

Did you know this was the case before you married her? It sounds like she prefers a gayish husband so go out and play with multiple men, e.g. play the single life while still being married.

[jayhawker1984]

tbh, my wife prefers being married to a man who does not lust after her but, rather, a man who does chores and helps dress her up for her man guy. We're like sisters.

Did you know this was the case before you married her? It sounds like she prefers a gayish husband so go out and play with multiple men, e.g. play the single life while still being married.

No, I did not know thus was the case before I married her. She prefers a non sexual husband who appreciates other men fulfilling her sexual needs

[Freemans892]

tbh, my wife prefers being married to a man who does not lust after her but, rather, a man who does chores and helps dress her up for her man guy. We're like sisters.

Did you know this was the case before you married her? It sounds like she prefers a gayish husband so go out and play with multiple men, e.g. play the single life while still being married.

No, I did not know thus was the case before I married her. She prefers a non sexual husband who appreciates other men fulfilling her sexual needs

Were are you you a cuckold or had cuckold tendencies before your met your wife?

[jayhawker1984]

tbh, my wife prefers being married to a man who does not lust after her but, rather, a man who does chores and helps dress her up for her man guy. We're like sisters.

Did you know this was the case before you married her? It sounds like she prefers a gayish husband so go out and play with multiple men, e.g. play the single life while still being married.

No, I did not know thus was the case before I married her. She prefers a non sexual husband who appreciates other men fulfilling her sexual needs

Were are you you a cuckold or had cuckold tendencies before your met your wife?

I had thoughts of being cuckolded long before I met my wife.

[Freemans892]

Did you know this was the case before you married her? It sounds like she prefers a gayish husband so go out and play with multiple men, e.g. play the single life while still being married.

No, I did not know thus was the case before I married her. She prefers a non sexual husband who appreciates other men fulfilling her sexual needs

Were are you you a cuckold or had cuckold tendencies before your met your wife?

I had thoughts of being cuckolded long before I met my wife.

What was your sex life like with your wife before you got married? Was she sleeping with other men before you got married?

[ucaneffher]

Wow just came back to check the poll results thus far and it seems like the majority of you were turned into cuckolds by your adventurous little wives who just had to go out looking for men behind your backs!

[Loserpaul]

I dated my GF for a few years before I became properly her cuck. To begin with we had sex fairly often although she was always insistent that we had an open relationship. After about 2 years we started having sex less and it was obvious she was increasingly spending more time with other men. She had always had a strong sex drive, so I knew it was happening even though nothing was said to begin with. She made more excuses not to have sex with me over time and eventually started overtly saying things like she was seeing another man at the weekend so she couldn't see me.

I suppose once she knew she had the power over me, i.e. that I would stick with her even though she was openly dating boyfriends, things escalated from there. She would email me to tease me about it and in the end suggested that, as she was seeing another guy and I couldn't get to be with her, I ought to relieve my frustration by masturbating. After a time she would tell me when she was seeing someone and encourage me to masturbate alone on that particular night. She would tell me that she wanted me to think about her getting laid by her boyfriend and about how I wouldn't be getting any sex with her and then masturbate to relieve myself.

After a while she got confident enough to invite me to her place when she was seeing a boyfriend. She would make me sleep in the spare room next to her bedroom & I would have to remain there on my own all night. I would be able to hear her having sex because the walls were quite thin & boy did she make sure I could hear her enjoying sex with her boyfriends. She would tell me that once I could hear her having sex I should strip naked and start masturbating. It really turns her on to think of me alone in the next room having beta sex whilst she is having vigorous sex with an alpha male. She says it gives her more powerful orgasms with her boyfriends.

These days we don't have sex together at all. She doesn't want me to see other women either if I want to stay in touch with her. It turns her on more to know that she can have as much sex as she likes whilst I am only allowed beta sex and what's more she gets a kick out of teasing me about it. These days it has got to the stage where she openly calls me "cucky" or "loser" in her messages and emails, so it is quite clear what I have become. Thing is that the whole situation really turns me on in a way that a normal sexual relationship would not. My beta sex orgasms are very powerful, the best sex I've ever had. I really get off on the humiliation and the feeling of inadequacy. I never entered into a relationship with her in order to become her cuck but she has made me into one over a period of time. Now that I am a cuck, I know there's no going back.

[ucaneffher]

Wow that seems like it was really all her doing the work to make you a cuck. She may have smelled it in you and went with her instinct and proved to be right!

Can you give us a time line of the events? You don’t have to give us specific dates but at least a time frame of when of how long after you started dating before she was bringing it up, how long after that before she slowed down with you, how long after the slowdown before she started mentioning boyfriends, and so on... your story is quite intriguing. Women can be so powerful lol

I dated my GF for a few years before I became properly her cuck. To begin with we had sex fairly often although she was always insistent that we had an open relationship. After about 2 years we started having sex less and it was obvious she was increasingly spending more time with other men. She had always had a strong sex drive, so I knew it was happening even though nothing was said to begin with. She made more excuses not to have sex with me over time and eventually started overtly saying things like she was seeing another man at the weekend so she couldn't see me.

I suppose once she knew she had the power over me, i.e. that I would stick with her even though she was openly dating boyfriends, things escalated from there. She would email me to tease me about it and in the end suggested that, as she was seeing another guy and I couldn't get to be with her, I ought to relieve my frustration by masturbating. After a time she would tell me when she was seeing someone and encourage me to masturbate alone on that particular night. She would tell me that she wanted me to think about her getting laid by her boyfriend and about how I wouldn't be getting any sex with her and then masturbate to relieve myself.

After a while she got confident enough to invite me to her place when she was seeing a boyfriend. She would make me sleep in the spare room next to her bedroom & I would have to remain there on my own all night. I would be able to hear her having sex because the walls were quite thin & boy did she make sure I could hear her enjoying sex with her boyfriends. She would tell me that once I could hear her having sex I should strip naked and start masturbating. It really turns her on to think of me alone in the next room having beta sex whilst she is having vigorous sex with an alpha male. She says it gives her more powerful orgasms with her boyfriends.

These days we don't have sex together at all. She doesn't want me to see other women either if I want to stay in touch with her. It turns her on more to know that she can have as much sex as she likes whilst I am only allowed beta sex and what's more she gets a kick out of teasing me about it. These days it has got to the stage where she openly calls me "cucky" or "loser" in her messages and emails, so it is quite clear what I have become. Thing is that the whole situation really turns me on in a way that a normal sexual relationship would not. My beta sex orgasms are very powerful, the best sex I've ever had. I really get off on the humiliation and the feeling of inadequacy. I never entered into a relationship with her in order to become her cuck but she has made me into one over a period of time. Now that I am a cuck, I know there's no going back.

[Loserpaul]

The timeline was quite long. However, she only agreed to see me in the first place on the understanding that she could continue seeing other men as well. That said, for the first two years of our relationship we saw each other reasonably often. It was an open relationship and I knew she was seeing other men but I am pretty sure I was her main/most regular partner. It was only after about 2 years she started seeing other men more than me (and me less and less).

Then there was a period of a year or so in which she gradually stopped having sex with me altogether. Only towards the end of that year had she started encouraging me to masturbate when she was seeing other men. It probably took best part of another year after that before I was regularly sleeping in her spare room and masturbating whilst she was having noisy sex with her boyfriends next door.

So it took her just over 2 years to fully make me into a cuck.

[early-kink]

I voted "other."
I had a GF some years back. She cheated on me while away with a group of friends for 10 days. She came back wearing a necklace I'd never seen her wearing. When I asked her where she got it, she got all nervous and jerky, looking like the picture of guilty. I asked her if went out with someone while she was away, and she finally admitted she did, and some sexual things happened. I was angry and hurt, so I stayed away from her for several days while I simmered. Didn't talk to her. As my anger started to settle down, and I thought more about what probably happened between her and the other guy, it started to turn me on. Every time I thought about the two of them, I got tremendously hard & horny. I didn't even know WHY!! It didn't seem to add up at all.

After a few more days, I called her and we talked a lot. Then we got together for more talks. After a lot of discussion, I asked her if she'd like to continue to date other guys while we remained a "steady couple." She didn't want to break up either, but did want to be able to date other guys & still be "steadies." So being that the idea got me so bullet-hard - she noticed the bulge in my jeans, smiled at me and asked, "This makes you hot doesn't it ........ me dating other guys?? " What was I to say ...... "No??" The answer was obvious to her, and she started rubbing my dick through my jeans and telling me how she was going to LOVE going out with other guys. She asked me what I thought she'd be doing with them, and when I didn't answer quickly enough, she told me in clear language what she was hungering to do with her dates. (She threw GAS on the fire that was already lit in my jeans!!) Soon we were going crazy on each other. Clothes came off, she started sucking me and when I reached for her pink, she was sopping wet. I didn't want to date other girls at that time, and she didn't want me too either. Funny how that stipulation comes out, isn't it??

So began a year and a half of frying-hot, sexual playtimes that made her happy as she dated a few guys & had erotic, lusty sex with them. I was happy because she was still taking care of all my needs, and she loved to tell me all about her dates and what they did together. When she'd recount any of her dates, we'd both get so hot we'd end up ripping into each other like animals. She KNEW that when she started telling me about one of her dates, what effect she'd cause in me and she loved that!! I got to feel sort of happy for her that she was having a great time on those dates with other guys. It made her happier - so it made ME happy FOR HER. So we both got what we wanted and the sex was PLENTIFUL !!!! That's how I got into the "early-kink" ...... hence my handle on this forum.

I married another GREAT lady though. Not a hotwife.

[maxbud]

I dated my GF for a few years before I became properly her cuck. To begin with we had sex fairly often although she was always insistent that we had an open relationship. After about 2 years we started having sex less and it was obvious she was increasingly spending more time with other men. She had always had a strong sex drive, so I knew it was happening even though nothing was said to begin with. She made more excuses not to have sex with me over time and eventually started overtly saying things like she was seeing another man at the weekend so she couldn't see me.

I suppose once she knew she had the power over me, i.e. that I would stick with her even though she was openly dating boyfriends, things escalated from there. She would email me to tease me about it and in the end suggested that, as she was seeing another guy and I couldn't get to be with her, I ought to relieve my frustration by masturbating. After a time she would tell me when she was seeing someone and encourage me to masturbate alone on that particular night. She would tell me that she wanted me to think about her getting laid by her boyfriend and about how I wouldn't be getting any sex with her and then masturbate to relieve myself.

After a while she got confident enough to invite me to her place when she was seeing a boyfriend. She would make me sleep in the spare room next to her bedroom & I would have to remain there on my own all night. I would be able to hear her having sex because the walls were quite thin & boy did she make sure I could hear her enjoying sex with her boyfriends. She would tell me that once I could hear her having sex I should strip naked and start masturbating. It really turns her on to think of me alone in the next room having beta sex whilst she is having vigorous sex with an alpha male. She says it gives her more powerful orgasms with her boyfriends.

These days we don't have sex together at all. She doesn't want me to see other women either if I want to stay in touch with her. It turns her on more to know that she can have as much sex as she likes whilst I am only allowed beta sex and what's more she gets a kick out of teasing me about it. These days it has got to the stage where she openly calls me "cucky" or "loser" in her messages and emails, so it is quite clear what I have become. Thing is that the whole situation really turns me on in a way that a normal sexual relationship would not. My beta sex orgasms are very powerful, the best sex I've ever had. I really get off on the humiliation and the feeling of inadequacy. I never entered into a relationship with her in order to become her cuck but she has made me into one over a period of time. Now that I am a cuck, I know there's no going back.

Imagining your hot situation... I am getting turned on by three thoughts

1. That your GF sees her alpha boyfriend in a totally differnet light; if he had sub cuck tendencies like you and was willing to share her, she would be turned off by him; her pussy gets wet knowing he is a territorial dominant alpha who deserves pussy

2. That her other guy, either has another girlfriend as well or fucks other women; and your GF is cool with that, as his prowess with other women, makes him even more attractive to her

3. That your GF came home one day with another sexy woman, both in the arms on either side , with her stud. you are introduced as a cuck, as you are made to watch a threeway makeout session,.. (a privilege of having two women, which is totally unavailable to betas like you) and you even get more aroused , as the trio goes into your bedroom and locks the door. It turns you on, that another man is getting everything two gorgeous women who are soo into him that they happily share his dick and long to please him, all four of you.. (bull, your GF , the other woman.. and yourself) are all aroused by the situation. you get left out and masturbate to the thought of the other man's divine pleasure

What do you think?

[LongTermHubby]

We had talked about her seeing other man but nothing had happened. Then she went away on a business trip and spent time alone with a male colleague. About three days into the trip, she called me and told me in his presence that they were now lovers.

[Loserpaul]

Imagining your hot situation... I am getting turned on by three thoughts

1. That your GF sees her alpha boyfriend in a totally differnet light; if he had sub cuck tendencies like you and was willing to share her, she would be turned off by him; her pussy gets wet knowing he is a territorial dominant alpha who deserves pussy

2. That her other guy, either has another girlfriend as well or fucks other women; and your GF is cool with that, as his prowess with other women, makes him even more attractive to her

3. That your GF came home one day with another sexy woman, both in the arms on either side , with her stud. you are introduced as a cuck, as you are made to watch a threeway makeout session,.. (a privilege of having two women, which is totally unavailable to betas like you) and you even get more aroused , as the trio goes into your bedroom and locks the door. It turns you on, that another man is getting everything two gorgeous women who are soo into him that they happily share his dick and long to please him, all four of you.. (bull, your GF , the other woman.. and yourself) are all aroused by the situation. you get left out and masturbate to the thought of the other man's divine pleasure

1. Is totally true. She wants sex with a bull because she wants a powerful, dominant man to have vigorous sex with. His prowess with women in general is totally what turns her on. I know that one bull she was seeing a few years ago sent her a text message saying something like "Get ready for Saturday night. I'm going to fuck you rough from behind with my sheep shagging wellies on!" That really turned her on. She showed me the message to tease me.

2. Also true, she does not mind at all if her bull sees other women. In fact I think she likes it better.

3. That probably wouldn't happen I suspect. She is not so into other women as a general rule. That said, once a year on Eurovision night, she always spends that night with a lesbian friend of hers (no men allowed). That's the only time she has sex with another woman as far as I know but its strictly finger pleasure only (or possible dildo games), as she hates the idea of licking other women down below. It's something they've been doing together for years, since long before she met me or any other man she's had sex with since she's known me for that matter.

[Captaintiny]

My wife admitted within a month of moving in she wanted to (at the time) fuck Dane Cook on stage...

And the rest they say, is history.

[maxich28]

one night while drinking i admited i enjoyed being sub my wife then went to look up what to do with a sub hubby and she found chastity and cuckolding. The next week we went and baught my first cage she got me to put it on and we went to lunch. after we had eaten my wife put the keys on the table and told me she had arranged a date with a friend she used to swing with my head spun i had no idea she used to swing and couldnt grasp the idea she wanted to date someone else. she gave me an option one was to take the keys and leave and we will get a devorice the other was to leave the keys stayed married but either way she was going on her date. i was so shoked that i didnt move she smiled and said how much she loved me and shes so happy i decieded to stay caged she then picked up the keys and left for her date. i was so confused i spent the rest of that afternoon and night going to difrent pubs getting drunk.

[armyguyot1]

Welcome to the forum maxich28.

[Brute]

one night while drinking i admited i enjoyed being sub my wife then went to look up what to do with a sub hubby and she found chastity and cuckolding. The next week we went and baught my first cage she got me to put it on and we went to lunch. after we had eaten my wife put the keys on the table and told me she had arranged a date with a friend she used to swing with my head spun i had no idea she used to swing and couldnt grasp the idea she wanted to date someone else. she gave me an option one was to take the keys and leave and we will get a devorice the other was to leave the keys stayed married but either way she was going on her date. i was so shoked that i didnt move she smiled and said how much she loved me and shes so happy i decieded to stay caged she then picked up the keys and left for her date. i was so confused i spent the rest of that afternoon and night going to difrent pubs getting drunk.

If you took the key, do you think she would have pressed devorice?