Jane' adventure

[Matt2]

Indulge yourself

[panzer969]

It seems like my thread is the chatroom today!

Well, you are quite chatworthy!

Now, about your new thread in the Hotties...

[mrsJ]

Hello, I'm MrsJ (formerly posted as kcmarried couple)

That is my worry I think is that if I'm with someone regularly and really get to know them(which I prefer) , then when it ends (and we all know they have to end at some point) how do you do it without hurt feelings on either side?

[mrs_reese]

I have fallen for some of my lovers, it was one of the most difficult moments in my life, trying to love 2 men.
confusing and awkward at times, I know what you are going thru at times.

[Arctus]

Fascinating developments Jane. I can only understand through the mind and heart of a man. Although my partner and I have fantasized a lot with each other, the furthest we have taken boundary pushing is a mutual visit to a swing club where we made love with each other very publicly and enjoyed the view(s) around us in the play area. We'll go back and I look forward to watching her being taken by a Third. From the male's perspective, being the partner of a HW can be intensely erotic. But the erotic is a double edged sword. The other side of the sword is knowing that the HW may be so taken by a lover that her love for her partner may be supplanted by the wave of emotions and eroticism experienced with the Third. From what you have said about your new Bull, his dominance and his cocksmanship (not to mention his size) has aroused you intensely causing some conflicted feelings due to the intensity of pleasure you've experienced with him. The emotional conflicts that can emerge between your roles of mother, partner to your husband, etc. vs. HW with an intensely satisfying Bull are understandable. And reaching a balance that works for you and your husband and enhances your primary relationship is the ultimate challenge. I wish you the best with achieving that balance.

And... it would be quite interesting to hear more about your "wild" night at the club with the Bull. Was it a dance club, a private swinger's club, or some other type of club. And just how wild did things get? Living in the Arctic, I can only imagine the type of clubs that one can enjoy on the West Coast.

Most importantly, take care of yourself...

Arctus

[Janes Husband]

Jane is actually meeting with a guy this afternoon. We met him a couple weeks ago, and they've been exchanging emails. But it's just a feeling out session.
I'll answer your question arctus. It was a dance club. She was gone with him for the night, and rather unexpectedly she ended up with a friend of the "bull", as well. She was very shy about talking about it, which happens sometimes here. She doesn't go into every detail. So i'll just let you know that.
As to pictures in the "hotties", i have taken some of Jane, the only thing that holds us back is that neither of us really want them to end up everywhere on the web, even if her face is cut out. But we'll see.

[panzer969]

Hello Jane's Husband!

Nice to see your input once again. It must be wonderful to be married to Jane. Sure the guys our wives are with get to enjoy them from time to time, but we are the ones who get to enjoy them all the time! Jane is a very special HW, as well. You, sir, are a very lucky man.

As to having Jane's image on the 'net, we were concerned at the beginning about having our pic's on the internet, too. Once we realised just how much was out there, though, we figured we were simply another drop in the sea!

However the two of you proceed, we will take what we can get and like it! Thank you both for sharing!

Mr. Panzer

BTW, nice comments, Arctus.

[Arctus]

Thanks for the reply regarding the Club and wildness. So, I take it she enjoyed a MFM encounter with the "bull" and his friend at the same time. Perhaps you and Jane can use her pleasure and enjoyment of that "wild" night as a stepping stone toward a MFM encounter where you are one of the two Ms.

I wonder what caused Jane to be out of sorts after the wildness. Perhaps she had pushed so many boundaries that she felt conflicted about what she was doing and becoming. All very understandable.

I think it makes sense to take it one step at a time and pull back if things are uncomfortable.

My partner is going out with three women tonight - one of whom is young and very attractive and loves to flirt. My partner has been commanded by me to engage in some serious flirting so that she can return home later with tales of naughtiness <smile>. I doubt that anything too intense will occur but I handed her a condom to put in her purse as a symbol of my encouragement for her to push the boundaries while flirting. She found my "command" quite arousing and said she will do her best to bring home a good story. I look forward to her stories upon her return in the dark of night, when she slips between the sheets and touches me.

[rypmar7]

I just went back and re-read the entire 11 pages. This is very hot and a very good narrative that makes you feel like you experienced it yourself. It's also nice that feelings, other than purely sexual, are discussed. I am looking forward to the next update.

[jane]

So Sunday i got together with the man i've been seeing. I've had kind of an issue with him because he shared me the previous weekend, and i wasn't expecting it. We went to a club. I dressed in a short dress, no panties. He wanted me to not wear a bra too, but i told him i'm way to busty for that. Anyway i danced with several men, and then we went back to his friends apartment.
Sunday i went over to his place, we had a few drinks( i must admit i didn't mind loosening up my nervousness). He was already mostly undressed when i got there. As i finished my last drink he got up and took me by the hand, led me behind the couch and pulled up my skirt. After being with him several times he's made it known he prefers "doggystyle". We then went in the bedroom where i undressed, and we did some more doggy on the bed, before he asked me to ride him. I like that with him because he's so large and i can control it, but it's still awkward.
As we lay in bed after he explained i should loosen up about having more than one man, and suggested spending a weekend at his place for just such an occurance. I'm not ready for that, and not sure i will be. He's incredible sexually, and contrary to what i said before, with him it's more fucking than making love. But i am torn. I feel myself doing things i normally wouldn't, and not sure how far to let that go.

[Aynsley]

Thanks for the update, Jane.

It's very interesting to hear your recents developments in light of
what's happening with Rebecca (i.e. - 'Five ...and Me'),
and with Mrs. Reese.

Good luck, stay safe, and have Fun!!

[unfaithfullyurs]

So Sunday i got together with the man i've been seeing. I've had kind of an issue with him because he shared me the previous weekend, and i wasn't expecting it. .

What? Are we expected to not to want to know more about the details of that encounter??????? You may as well have used the " we had sex, yada, yada, yada" routine, lol. Come on, has to be some titillating events that transpired between those two sentences!!!!!!!!!

[reese]

Jane, you are amazing!

[jane]

Sometime i feel awkward going into detail.
Basically after going to the club that weekend we went to the apartment, went in the bedroom. His friend was in the living room.
I started giving him oral, and he asked me to get a beer, so i go out to the kitchen, i'm naked, and his friend is there. Awkward.
So i go back, and we're having sex about a half hour later and his friend walks in. my bull invites him, and he get undressed, puts on a condom . I start to protest, but my guy calms me down, and the guy gets on top of me. So we had sex. The thing that flustered me, was i was freaked out, but i still came with this other guy i barely knew.
Afterward i went in the bathroom, and he did come in and apologize and said he was sorry if i was upset. But it became more of an issue with the guy i was with originally.

[reese]

Wow Jane, you are really advancing as a HW.
How does you hubby feel about this situation?
You seem to be intrigued by this situation, my wife and I are very excited for you.

[panzer969]

You answered very quickly! This was my post to Unfaithfullyyours: ^ Of course there's more to it than that, but it's not Jane's style to go into the clinical detail that some do. She will give us what she is comfortable with and I, for one, am very happy that she does! For me, reveling in the thought of her out in a short dress with no panties... ...and now knowing that her breasts are larger than she would feel comfotable going braless... !!! My imagination can fill in the blanks about her tryst with her lover and his friend! Thank you for sharing what you do, Jane. You are wonderful!

Mr. Panzer

[Aynsley]

You answered very quickly! This was my post to Unfaithfullyyours: ^ Of course there's more to it than that, but it's not Jane's style to go into the clinical detail that some do. She will give us what she is comfortable with and I, for one, am very happy that she does! For me, reveling in the thought of her out in a short dress with no panties... ...and now knowing that her breasts are larger than she would feel comfotable going braless... !!! My imagination can fill in the blanks about her tryst with her lover and his friend! Thank you for sharing what you do, Jane. You are wonderful!
Mr. Panzer

And to emphasize...THIS part...also had my jaw dropping...
"For me, reveling in the thought of her out in a short dress with no panties... ...and now knowing that her breasts are larger than she would feel comfotable going braless... !!!"

Thanks, Jane, for sharing.

[panzer969]

....so i go out to the kitchen, i'm naked, and...

NOW THAT is incredibly hot!!!

[rypmar7]

It's all incredibly hot! Thanks for the updates.

[jane]

We are so much alike Rebecca. Yet i found so many variations in this lifestyle. Some times i don't even bring up a lot of my feelings here, or what we are going through, because there is a lot of judgment. Still, i need to feel something for a guy. One or two wives told me when i first started posting that i sounded "poly". Maybe i am. I don't know. But that's how i feel comfortable. I've only gone bareback with two men. I want it, but i only feel comfortable if i really, really like the man.

[rypmar7]

We are so much alike Rebecca. Yet i found so many variations in this lifestyle. Some times i don't even bring up a lot of my feelings here, or what we are going through, because there is a lot of judgment. Still, i need to feel something for a guy. One or two wives told me when i first started posting that i sounded "poly". Maybe i am. I don't know. But that's how i feel comfortable.

Your comments sound a lot like my wife Lynda as far as the poly aspect and needing to feel a connection. One of Lynda's friends had a saying that Lynda adopted as her own: "I'm not a slut. I just act like one sometimes for fun."

[Janes Husband]

I think she has decided to go ahead with a mfm this weekend. I am concerned about it, but trying to trust her judgement.

[unfaithfullyurs]

well call me stupid (you wouldnt be the first lol), but was the episode she experienced not considered a mfm? and i guess because she doesnt like going into deep details about it, maybe she was only "engaged" with one guy at a time, and is looking to fully experience a complete session, without it being just "thrown" at her?

And i must say thinking about her doing these things must have you (hubby) going absolutely wild with excitement!

[jane]

I guess you could call it mfm. The first guy actually did leave the room though. I'm not sure how it will go down, but if i do it this time i will know going in. Keep crossing more lines i set up. Maybe i should call this "a changing hotwife's journey".

[rypmar7]

I guess you could call it mfm. The first guy actually did leave the room though. I'm not sure how it will go down, but if i do it this time i will know going in. Keep crossing more lines i set up. Maybe i should call this "a changing hotwife's journey".

You could. It is both an adventure and a progression. It is the road less travelled with a few bumps in the road unfortunately. Hopefully, there are more twists and turns than bumps.