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[2inUPMichigan]

If a bull ask a question?

Anyone here can ask questions that they would like a VHW to answer.

What would you like to ask?

[Wisher]

I just put this on CC's new thread, but I guess it can go here too. Some/many of you want or even insist on your husband licking/eating/cleaning you after a partner finishes in you. Some of you even have your husband orally clean a cock that just pulled out of you.

But I have a question. This is told a lot in adult stories and films, but I'm not that up on how popular it is in real life. Do you/will you suck a cock immediately after it pulls out of your cunt/pussy/vagina, whichever term you prefer?

In other words, do you clean yourself off of a cock?

[lisasboy]

Hi, do any of you Ladies keep count? Lisa has me on a ten count, He cums ten times and then i get to. And then it's just a rub on my panties.

[lisasboy]

A reference to manscaping in another thread raised this question for me. I have often wondered about a woman’s preference for this detail of a man’s grooming.

Realizing that there are many opinions for as many reasons but what do you as a woman (and a HW) prefer as far as a man’s genital grooming? Trimmed, shaved partially, shaved completely?

I have to agree with the others.
My personal preference is shaved completely.
It will definitely lead to more fun playing

I have played with a man that was trimmed and honestly I was less enthusiastic

Shaved everything? Even the "landing strip" area? Like Brazilian on a guy or just the CnB area?

Yep, shaved everything

Lisa keeps me shaved smooth and likes her Men to have hair. Loves telling me Men have hair on their balls - that's why I suck Men and not you. Keeps me in my place.

[Farmgirl]

Hi, do any of you Ladies keep count? Lisa has me on a ten count, He cums ten times and then i get to. And then it's just a rub on my panties.

There is no counting system or schedule for us.

For your other post, remember this forum is for a question to be asked of VHWs, not to make comments.

[Parsifal]

Do HWs who like facials and swallowing duing oral with their outside lovers feel less or not at all into that with their husbands? Why?

[2inUPMichigan]

I just put this on CC's new thread, but I guess it can go here too. Some/many of you want or even insist on your husband licking/eating/cleaning you after a partner finishes in you. Some of you even have your husband orally clean a cock that just pulled out of you.

But I have a question. This is told a lot in adult stories and films, but I'm not that up on how popular it is in real life. Do you/will you suck a cock immediately after it pulls out of your cunt/pussy/vagina, whichever term you prefer?

In other words, do you clean yourself off of a cock?

Any of our VHW'S that play bareback have an answer?

[socalman1]

Hello all! New here, and interested in getting involved and having some fun! Would like some advice from the vhws about where to start and what things hot wives really enjoy in a date, as ive only been with girls of my age(20) as of now. All advice/ tips are appriciated!

[Farmgirl]

I just put this on CC's new thread, but I guess it can go here too. Some/many of you want or even insist on your husband licking/eating/cleaning you after a partner finishes in you. Some of you even have your husband orally clean a cock that just pulled out of you.

But I have a question. This is told a lot in adult stories and films, but I'm not that up on how popular it is in real life. Do you/will you suck a cock immediately after it pulls out of your cunt/pussy/vagina, whichever term you prefer?

In other words, do you clean yourself off of a cock?

I have and do suck a cock that has been in my pussy. I don't see it as "clean yourself off of a cock". It's just a part of sex, in the moment. I don't think about it in the moment and just enjoy what is fun. Sex is fun if you don't overthink and get hung up on things.
That's one of the reasons I don't like planned, orchestrated, sex. I like to just let it flow.

[Farmgirl]

Do HWs who like facials and swallowing duing oral with their outside lovers feel less or not at all into that with their husbands? Why?

Others may have a different view, but I don't do things for others that I don't do for my Number1. I swallow during oral with my lovers, I like it! I also swallow more often with my Number1, I like it! I like my pussy filled by my lovers, cumming in it is reserved for them. But, that is a huge turn-on for my Number1, so you can say I do that for him too . And, anal. I simply love anal. From my lovers or my Number1

[Parsifal]

Do HWs who like facials and swallowing duing oral with their outside lovers feel less or not at all into that with their husbands? Why?

Others may have a different view, but I don't do things for others that I don't do for my Number1. I swallow during oral with my lovers, I like it! I also swallow more often with my Number1, I like it! I like my pussy filled by my lovers, cumming in it is reserved for them. But, that is a huge turn-on for my Number1, so you can say I do that for him too . And, anal. I simply love anal. From my lovers or my Number1

I have mixed feelings about pressing it. I don't want to feel odd man out with my own wife, and yet I don't to shame her into doing it for my sake. Some women shun facials as degrading. Maybe that's part of why she's reluctant to bring that style of sex into our staid practices, that she doesn't want to degrade herself in my eyes but gladly does all of that when she's slutting around on the outside. Married men do the same with prostitutes - "spare" their saintly wives the kinky stuff out of "respect" for the role men expect a wife to play.

[Farmgirl]

Do HWs who like facials and swallowing duing oral with their outside lovers feel less or not at all into that with their husbands? Why?

Others may have a different view, but I don't do things for others that I don't do for my Number1. I swallow during oral with my lovers, I like it! I also swallow more often with my Number1, I like it! I like my pussy filled by my lovers, cumming in it is reserved for them. But, that is a huge turn-on for my Number1, so you can say I do that for him too . And, anal. I simply love anal. From my lovers or my Number1

I have mixed feelings about pressing it. I don't want to feel odd man out with my own wife, and yet I don't to shame her into doing it for my sake. Some women shun facials as degrading. Maybe that's part of why she's reluctant to bring that style of sex into our staid practices, that she doesn't want to degrade herself in my eyes but gladly does all of that when she's slutting around on the outside. Married men do the same with prostitutes - "spare" their saintly wives the kinky stuff out of "respect" for the role men expect a wife to play.

I don't think you should "press" her on it, but there is that all-important word "Communication". There is nothing wrong with you expressing that you would like to try some of those things and get a chance to see her like that.

[Farmgirl]

Hello all! New here, and interested in getting involved and having some fun! Would like some advice from the vhws about where to start and what things hot wives really enjoy in a date, as ive only been with girls of my age(20) as of now. All advice/ tips are appriciated!

You've asked a question that isn't really easy to answer. Each Hotwife is different and likes different things. Probably the best advice I can give on this is to read the forums and see how we wives do things. Many of us have our own threads or story detailing our journey.
Read, and then contact or ask questions of the ones you find interesting.
There is a lot to learn about us Hotwives on this site .

[rascalnvixen]

Greetings VHWs!!!

A question arose concerning "cream pies". Do women enjoy seeing and/or otherwise playing with another womans' cream pie or is that a thing just for some men to find hot and enjoyable???? No real reason for the question, just something that came to mind while reading some posts in other threads.

Rascal

See that 2UP?? I actually asked a legit question!!!

[Stag2myVixen]

Hi all, new to the forum. We are just stepping into the Hotwife playground. Currently we are doing the battle to find the right guy, a good match for her and someone that won’t flake, and all the other BS that we are running into from guys. My question though is pertaining to cock size. Miss HW is not a size queen. She likes length but not girth. This is based in toys that we have used. Anything that approaches above average thickness hurts her. So, does a thick cock feel different than a thick toy? She is not sure she can take someone larger based on experience with the toys. I want her to have whatever will make her feel good, but don’t want to have her bite off more than she can take so to speak and not be able to satisfy a guy because he is too well hung. What say you ladies?

[2inUPMichigan]

Hi all, new to the forum. We are just stepping into the Hotwife playground. Currently we are doing the battle to find the right guy, a good match for her and someone that won’t flake, and all the other BS that we are running into from guys. My question though is pertaining to cock size. Miss HW is not a size queen. She likes length but not girth. This is based in toys that we have used. Anything that approaches above average thickness hurts her. So, does a thick cock feel different than a thick toy? She is not sure she can take someone larger based on experience with the toys. I want her to have whatever will make her feel good, but don’t want to have her bite off more than she can take so to speak and not be able to satisfy a guy because he is too well hung. What say you ladies?

Welcome to OHW Stag2myVixen

I'm going to take some liberty and rewrite the sentence in bold:

"I want her to have whatever will make her feel good but don't want her to bite off more than she can handle so to speak and end up disappointed and dissatisfied because he was just too big for her "

Truthfully if a guy is that big then he should be prepared for 1) how to handle uncomfortable penetration 2) the possibility it won't fit. It is not her fault and she should not feel as if she owes him anything. I would immediately leave if I got that kind of response from a man and block him!

If cock size is important to her then she needs to make sure it is tactfully mentioned in her profile. If she wants dick pics she can request them with a tape measure so she can get an "accurate read". They don't have to know yet what she is looking for. There are all kinds of ways to play it but prescreening will be very helpful.

Toys vs the real thing (depends on the toy)
Oh sorry got distracted There tends to be less "give" in most toys than the real deal.

[Farmgirl]

Greetings VHWs!!!

A question arose concerning "cream pies". Do women enjoy seeing and/or otherwise playing with another womans' cream pie or is that a thing just for some men to find hot and enjoyable???? No real reason for the question, just something that came to mind while reading some posts in other threads.

Rascal

See that 2UP?? I actually asked a legit question!!!

Seeing a picture of one is interesting, though I have no interest in touching another woman.

[2inUPMichigan]

Greetings VHWs!!!

A question arose concerning "cream pies". Do women enjoy seeing and/or otherwise playing with another womans' cream pie or is that a thing just for some men to find hot and enjoyable???? No real reason for the question, just something that came to mind while reading some posts in other threads.

Rascal

See that 2UP?? I actually asked a legit question!!!

Look at that a legit question from Rascal

So sorry I don't have a better answer but ill give it a shot.

I've never seen one, never been interested in seeing one and no it's not a turn on.
I of course can't speak on behalf of all women as we don't all think the same exact same way.

[rascalnvixen]

Greetings VHWs!!!

A question arose concerning "cream pies". Do women enjoy seeing and/or otherwise playing with another womans' cream pie or is that a thing just for some men to find hot and enjoyable???? No real reason for the question, just something that came to mind while reading some posts in other threads.

Rascal

See that 2UP?? I actually asked a legit question!!!

Look at that a legit question from Rascal

So sorry I don't have a better answer but ill give it a shot.

I've never seen one, never been interested in seeing one and no it's not a turn on.
I of course can't speak on behalf of all women as we don't all think the same exact same way.

Thanks for the replies, Farmgirl and 2UP!! I didn't expect any response for all women, just whatever VHWs thought individually. It was a question that arose in a conversation between myself and Vixen. She is of the same opinion as you two lovely ladies, that is, no interest in seeing a cream pie unless it just happens to be there in front of her and not to be played with unless it is her's! Neither of us could see the excitation that they seem to generate among some others here, but that is not to say there is anything wrong with someone's enjoyment in them.

Rascal

[2inUPMichigan]

Greetings VHWs!!!

A question arose concerning "cream pies". Do women enjoy seeing and/or otherwise playing with another womans' cream pie or is that a thing just for some men to find hot and enjoyable???? No real reason for the question, just something that came to mind while reading some posts in other threads.

Rascal

See that 2UP?? I actually asked a legit question!!!

Look at that a legit question from Rascal

So sorry I don't have a better answer but ill give it a shot.

I've never seen one, never been interested in seeing one and no it's not a turn on.
I of course can't speak on behalf of all women as we don't all think the same exact same way.

Thanks for the replies, Farmgirl and 2UP!! I didn't expect any response for all women, just whatever VHWs thought individually. It was a question that arose in a conversation between myself and Vixen. She is of the same opinion as you two lovely ladies, that is, no interest in seeing a cream pie unless it just happens to be there in front of her and not to be played with unless it is her's! Neither of us could see the excitation that they seem to generate among some others here, but that is not to say there is anything wrong with someone's enjoyment in them.

Rascal

I truly believe that some of the enjoyment that men who like creampies get is from the knowledge that they are actual "evidence" of hotwife activity
As in a physical manifestation of their kink. (that was way too deep)

Nah, maybe they just like cum play

[R_H_NC]

Do HWs who like facials and swallowing duing oral with their outside lovers feel less or not at all into that with their husbands? Why?

Others may have a different view, but I don't do things for others that I don't do for my Number1. I swallow during oral with my lovers, I like it! I also swallow more often with my Number1, I like it! I like my pussy filled by my lovers, cumming in it is reserved for them. But, that is a huge turn-on for my Number1, so you can say I do that for him too . And, anal. I simply love anal. From my lovers or my Number1

I apologize and admit I haven't read all your posts but have read many. I think I may have missed some details of your story. Are you saying that as part of your HW life, HN1 does not cum inside your pussy? Not a critical point but I was a bit confused (not an unusual situation)

[Farmgirl]

Do HWs who like facials and swallowing duing oral with their outside lovers feel less or not at all into that with their husbands? Why?

Others may have a different view, but I don't do things for others that I don't do for my Number1. I swallow during oral with my lovers, I like it! I also swallow more often with my Number1, I like it! I like my pussy filled by my lovers, cumming in it is reserved for them. But, that is a huge turn-on for my Number1, so you can say I do that for him too . And, anal. I simply love anal. From my lovers or my Number1

I apologize and admit I haven't read all your posts but have read many. I think I may have missed some details of your story. Are you saying that as part of your HW life, HN1 does not cum inside your pussy? Not a critical point but I was a bit confused (not an unusual situation)

As a part of my Hotwife life, which is an integral part of my life, my husband doesn't get to cum in my pussy. He gets to fuck my pussy anytime he wants, but cumming in it is reserved for my lovers. He does get to cum in my mouth and in my ass. I tell him it is the cost he has for having a Hotwife , and a dominant one at that .

"as part of your HW life", I do want to say that as I said above, my Hotwife life is an integral part of my life, it isn't a separate part. It isn't role play or a role I put on and take off. Just as I am a woman, a wife, and a mother, I am a Hotwife. It is who I am every day, all day. Of course, I don't play every day, but I never cease being a Hotwife just as I can't cease being a woman.
Some women may role play at it taking on the role when they want and dropping it to go back to their "real" lives. I am a non-monogamous Hotwife as surely as I am a woman, it is a part of my "real" life. I made that change in myself, I am no longer a monogamous woman. I don't turn it off and have another life, it is fundamental to who I am.

[R_H_NC]

Do HWs who like facials and swallowing duing oral with their outside lovers feel less or not at all into that with their husbands? Why?

Others may have a different view, but I don't do things for others that I don't do for my Number1. I swallow during oral with my lovers, I like it! I also swallow more often with my Number1, I like it! I like my pussy filled by my lovers, cumming in it is reserved for them. But, that is a huge turn-on for my Number1, so you can say I do that for him too . And, anal. I simply love anal. From my lovers or my Number1

I apologize and admit I haven't read all your posts but have read many. I think I may have missed some details of your story. Are you saying that as part of your HW life, HN1 does not cum inside your pussy? Not a critical point but I was a bit confused (not an unusual situation)

As a part of my Hotwife life, which is an integral part of my life, my husband doesn't get to cum in my pussy. He gets to fuck my pussy anytime he wants, but cumming in it is reserved for my lovers. He does get to cum in my mouth and in my ass. I tell him it is the cost he has for having a Hotwife , and a dominant one at that .

"as part of your HW life", I do want to say that as I said above, my Hotwife life is an integral part of my life, it isn't a separate part. It isn't role play or a role I put on and take off. Just as I am a woman, a wife, and a mother, I am a Hotwife. It is who I am every day, all day. Of course, I don't play every day, but I never cease being a Hotwife just as I can't cease being a woman.
Some women may role play at it taking on the role when they want and dropping it to go back to their "real" lives. I am a non-monogamous Hotwife as surely as I am a woman, it is a part of my "real" life. I made that change in myself, I am no longer a monogamous woman. I don't turn it off and have another life, it is fundamental to who I am.

Thanks for clearing that up. I understand your point about HW being an integral part of your life.

[rascalnvixen]

"as part of your HW life", I do want to say that as I said above, my Hotwife life is an integral part of my life, it isn't a separate part. It isn't role play or a role I put on and take off. Just as I am a woman, a wife, and a mother, I am a Hotwife. It is who I am every day, all day. Of course, I don't play every day, but I never cease being a Hotwife just as I can't cease being a woman.
Some women may role play at it taking on the role when they want and dropping it to go back to their "real" lives. I am a non-monogamous Hotwife as surely as I am a woman, it is a part of my "real" life. I made that change in myself, I am no longer a monogamous woman. I don't turn it off and have another life, it is fundamental to who I am.

I wish I could say that I understand your comments, but I guess being a man that would be impossible. But I do wish to try to understand to some degree. In being a Hotwife at your core as an integral part of your life and your image of "self", does that mean that you are continuously on the look out for a new lover? Always open to the possibility of sex with a new man that you encounter by some chance circumstances? Or, are you simply open to meeting a new lover but not necessarily looking for one and depending on your usual stable of lovers that you enjoy for your needs??

Rascal

[Farmgirl]

"as part of your HW life", I do want to say that as I said above, my Hotwife life is an integral part of my life, it isn't a separate part. It isn't role play or a role I put on and take off. Just as I am a woman, a wife, and a mother, I am a Hotwife. It is who I am every day, all day. Of course, I don't play every day, but I never cease being a Hotwife just as I can't cease being a woman.
Some women may role play at it taking on the role when they want and dropping it to go back to their "real" lives. I am a non-monogamous Hotwife as surely as I am a woman, it is a part of my "real" life. I made that change in myself, I am no longer a monogamous woman. I don't turn it off and have another life, it is fundamental to who I am.

I wish I could say that I understand your comments, but I guess being a man that would be impossible. But I do wish to try to understand to some degree. In being a Hotwife at your core as an integral part of your life and your image of "self", does that mean that you are continuously on the look out for a new lover? Always open to the possibility of sex with a new man that you encounter by some chance circumstances? Or, are you simply open to meeting a new lover but not necessarily looking for one and depending on your usual stable of lovers that you enjoy for your needs??

Rascal

What can I help you to understand about my comments?

I'm not continuously on the lookout for a new lover, I'm satisfied when I have a FWB or two that are regular. But, I am always open to the possibility of meeting a new man that will become a FWB
No relationship with a FWB lasts forever, the sexual side of each has a time limit for various reasons, they are not my husband or my marriage. So, yes, I'm always open to meeting someone new and developing a relationship. It takes time from the flirting to the getting to know each other, most go nowhere other than being friends and "flirt buddies".