Before I bought my first cock cage, I would sometimes be watching my wife and her boyfriend fucking, and couldn't resist some slow masturbation at the same time. Of course, sometimes I would get the timing wrong, and ejaculate (or worse still, ruin it) well before they were done. In the early days of my cuckolding, continuing to watch them after I'd cum was difficult, and I'd some times have to leave the room, and would be a bit sulky.
I did get used to watching them, and being more disciplined about toching my cock. Or I would ask to be tied up, so wanking was impossible.
Buying a cock cage was a big improvement for me. We don't use the cage much outside of sex sessions, but if I'm caged right at the start, or even before her boyfriend arrives, then it means I can better participate. I'm not tied to a chair, so I'm free to move around. I like being ordered to go get food or drink for them, or whatever else they want, so not being tied allows that. I particularly like a cage that can allow a bit of an erection. I like the feel of my cock pushing between the metal bars, trying to get fully erect. The frustrating feeling is amazing. And most important of all, it means no wanking, no ejaculation ahead of time. When they are finished, and I'm still 'raring to go', that's also an amazing feeling. I love it if they tease me, seeing me so desperate for the cage to be unlocked, making me beg, or promise something in return for release. If they want me to do things for them afterwards, like run a bath for them, or give them a massage, or whatever, then I am still willing. They love seeing me scamper around, so eager to please them. Which makes them tease me more. My wife loves ordering me about, seeing how far she can push me, what she can make me agree to. It's post coital entertainment for them both. "My god, you are
so desperate aren't you!" my wife sometimes say's, laughing and giggling. "you'll do just about anything right now, won't you?" She's right.
It's her boyfriend who normally relents first. I think he can more easily relate to my predicament. "You'd better unlock him now, before the poor boy has a heart attack!"
subguy80 wrote: ↑Wed Jul 14, 2021 5:06 am
It's a visual statement that my penis is "neutered"
I can relate to this. My penis is neutered, it has to stay subservient to their needs. The cage provides proper discipline to the situation, and I can put my gratification on hold, and enjoy the ride until I'm eventually unlocked, and I can have my ultimate reward.
Subguy80, I have followed your thread from when you first started it. There's lots in your situation that I can relate to.
Thank you for all the effort you make to document it here.