My Wife's Hotwife History - Will eventually be everything

[Des 31]

Thanks for the update, Des!!! So Sherry came by and Gigi said no problem and that she would likely be interested in more than just a visit. I couldn't help wondering if there had been some discussion between the women before Sherry called you to share a pizza. Actually, I'm more than wondering, I think they had been talking and Gigi may have mentioned that she was having a busy week this week and that you weren't getting much action. Of course Sherry said let me go over and hang out and fuck him and then you answered the phone!!! Don't laugh too much, I wouldn't put anything beyond those two women!!!

Rascal

Hi Rascal – Gigi told me this morning she hadn’t specifically said that to Sherry but had mentioned to her the night or two she and Beau were staying with us just before her trip that she apologized to Sherry for restricting me from having sex with other women for a while. Sherry took that as permission, something Sherry hadn’t mentioned to me when she was at our home Wednesday night. So you’re sort of right about that.

Thanks for taking the 38 minutes Des. I appreciate it. I love that you can get some on the side as well now, at least with Sherry. She seems enamoured and it only seems fair to me. 5 hours with the Boss. They must have gone to dinner. I don’t see how you could spend 5 hours at it in the office. Bed maybe because you could nap or at least be comfortable in between times, but not in a office.
Finally, you may lose interest in finding out the details after a few days but we want to know especially if it was 5 hours at the office!

I didn’t get a blow-by-blow of the entire time, but it turns out they went out for dinner after fucking an hour or so in his office. They talked about the recent board meeting at which he announced his intended early retirement at next year’s end. That’s when I also heard about a new charity to which Gigi is contributing. I'm sure that conversation is more than most care to know, but I found it interesting - so here it is:up:

The payroll department deducts and mails contributions from Gigi's bi-weekly pay for three charities - a women-abuse shelter, a local childrens’ hospital, and a drug-and-alcohol rehab center; she volunteers now and then with each of those and all are customers at her bank. The manager of the local animal rescue/adoption center came by to see her a week before for some financial advice for the reason they are taking in more homeless animals than at any time in the past; she wrote the center a personal check for $1,000 and handed it to the man as an initial contribution; she and her boss sent a memo around to all personnel interested in donating to the shelter and several employees have since signed up for ongoing contributions. At least two are in the process of adopting a dog and cat and others are interested in doing the same. Gigi asked the payroll department to add the rescue agency to her ongoing contributions for $20 a month; her boss told her the Board will be voting at the next meeting to make a contribution in the bank’s name to the shelter, which is certain to be approved. She didn’t know until he told her that night he and the chairwoman plan to give her an award at an after-hours ceremony in the bank’s lobby next week for all that. Because we don’t spend her income, that’s a fairly easy contribution for us; I make our monthly church donations from my income. She has another $100 deducted each month and mailed to her parents back home; originally, that was intended to repay them for her education but has since become an ongoing practice.

Great update Des as Usual. So glad you are now in a position that it is ok for Sherry to come over and Fuck while Gigi is otherwise occupied. I am sure both of you had a really great time. A really wonderful situation the 4 have with each other. Now that Beau's parents know about their relationship the next time all of you get together it could be a VERY interesting time. Of course my mind just runs wild with scenarios......LOL Hope you guys have a great weekend......Cheers

Yeah, that has occurred to me as well, Scotch. I don’t really think most of what I imagine would actually come about but agree those are hot mental images.

Des writes: At 35, I have come to realize I was born at least 50 years too late for today’s music.

At least you are at an age to make Gigi sigh with contentment, and virile enough to make Sherry come back for more, at 87 I was too old for what you could call, the dawning of the hotwife!

Thanks for the comment, Sol. Maybe I was born at the right time after all. At least, you get to read about all that here at this board and I'm glad you're here.

~ Des
And, oh yeah, should have mentioned but forgot until receiving her call a moment ago - At Derrick's request, she drove over to his place early this morning. She phoned to say she's on her way home. This has been a good week for her - and I'm going to fuck her brains out while she tells me about her experience up to whenever she left his place.

[solstice]

Des writes:
I also heard about a new charity to which Gigi is contributing. I'm sure that conversation is more than most care to know
Wrong!!!
It is good to read the uplifting things that HW's and their partners are involved in: It is a paradox that the busiest of people can find time and energy to contribute to the wellbeing of people and animals that fall by the wayside.

[Tracey52]

Thanks for replying to our posts Des. It’s great to have back on the forum on a more regular basis again. I get lost with the time zones but was it Saturday morning that Gigi went to Derrick’s? Don’t forget to update when you’re done with sloppy seconds. Is that ok to say? Don’t be offended.

[Des 31]

Des writes:
I also heard about a new charity to which Gigi is contributing. I'm sure that conversation is more than most care to know
Wrong!!!
It is good to read the uplifting things that HW's and their partners are involved in: It is a paradox that the busiest of people can find time and energy to contribute to the wellbeing of people and animals that fall by the wayside.

Thank you, Sol. My assumption was that if isn’t about sex, most would be uninterested, but I’m always learning my guesses are often wrong. The only reason it was mentioned at all was in response to a question about what my wife and her boss could have been doing for five and a half hours that night.

Thanks for replying to our posts Des. It’s great to have back on the forum on a more regular basis again. I get lost with the time zones but was it Saturday morning that Gigi went to Derrick’s? Don’t forget to update when you’re done with sloppy seconds. Is that ok to say? Don’t be offended.

Hi Tracey. Nothing you have ever remarked upon has offended me; Always glad to hear from you. And I’ll get around to that other part of your request, maybe later today; we had a long, productive talk along with the return-to-home sex.

Don’t bother paying attention to the clock-time of my posts – The time zones used by this website may be set at GMT but whatever it is, it often isn’t our region’s time. It was early yesterday morning (Saturday) she went to Derrick’s and was home before noon. She was at his place just a bit over two hours but said they had a "deep and penetrating conversation." I liked that. She can do a lot in two hours.

~ Des

[solstice]

Des Writes: My assumption was that if isn’t about sex, most would be uninterested

Just to let you know, my hand is not permanently clasping my Tadger ( Scottish) I occasionally let go to click on the hotwife forum.

[solstice]

Des Says "deep and penetrating conversation.

Difficult to accomplish if her mouth is filled by the above mentioned tadger.

[Des 31]

Here something different in our experience.

Gigi returned from Derrick’s place Saturday morning around ten-thirty. She is reasonably sure a potentially unsettling event on the way to his place was an over-reaction to her private-eye training, but she took precautions anyway. I’ll avoid over-complicating that part of her visit but will get to that in a moment. Two recent occurrences have led her to suspect her movements are being watched but has no real evidence to affirm actual surveillance. She is neither paranoid nor worried but says that if her suspicion is genuine, she should know with certainty within a few days. She told me, “If so, I can deal with that.”

Within minutes from the moment she walked through the front door, we showered together and went to bed where I anticipated her telling me about his fucking her that morning. She reached aside for a slender, jet-black gift box she had placed on our bedside table and said she had something for me. As she was about to leave his place that morning, he handed her the box to give me as his gratitude for “allowing” her to spend time with him the past few days.

Inside was a rust-colored, fall-flower print necktie and a signed card of gratitude. I told her the next time she sees him to instead give him my thanks for fucking her. I most likely wouldn’t send him a gift but to pass along my gratitude for his “services.” She grinned and said, “He’ll be pleased you’re appreciative.” My eyes roamed over her naked body and I said, “He’s already been getting his gift.” Smoothing her hand over her shaven mound, she giggled and responded, “And he likes it.”

The night before she was to go to his place, she asked me to shave her mound. She and I have practiced that at that over the past few years and know the routine. I get naked while she first showers and scrubs with a gentle body exfoliant to remove dead skin. I trim the excess with a woman’s electric shaver and apply a fragrance-free shaving cream. As with my face, I shave downward, never upward, to avoid irritating hair follicles. I rinse away the cream in the shower and moisturize with a lotion manufactured specifically for the vaginal mound. Our routine, along with her teasing comments about her anticipation of another guy’s cock to soon be inside her channel, gives me a raging erection. Even with that, I keep my hands steady to avoid cuts.

The following morning, I apply a non-talcum powder onto the shaved area; that final step prevents chafing from clothing or a guy’s groin rubbing against her when fucking. That actually happened at least once the first year we were new at this. Applying talcum or baby powder isn’t medically recommended.

For sensible health reasons, she doesn’t often shave her pubic area. The hair is actually a protectorant against a variety of potential problems, but she knows most guys like it and recognized Derrick most likely to be one of those. I don’ mind doing any of that. If she feels it’s important, I’m happy to serve.

We talked in bed about her visit with him. As she had neared the turn-off to his home, she kept her eye on a gray sedan two cars back that seemed to have followed her for at least five minutes. She sped up at the moment an upcoming traffic light turned yellow and abruptly turned an opposite direction from Derrick's home. She made three more single-block turns until no moving vehicles were visible in all directions. She assumes the sedan most likely happened to be heading to a close-by destination but has learned caution in our way of life is always a good idea. Yet, this was the third time she encountered similar circumstances within less than a week.

She phoned Derrick from her car as she turned onto his street to let him know she was about to arrive. His brick driveway curves from the entryway to the back of his home. To avoid neighbors or passers-by spotting her car, she parked between shrubs at each side of his driveway. Closely placed, spiral-like columnar trees hide his backyard from the view of neighbors. He met her at his back door and they kissed deeply as she entered his home.

Closing the door behind him, he pressed her back to the wall. My wife felt his swollen dick beneath his jeans against her groin. Her pussy pulsated as he removed her denim jacket and unbuttoned her blouse. Their clothes urgently puddled to the floor and she wrapped her legs about his hips as he guided his dick to her cunt.

I knelt between her thighs as she went on with her narrative. She was similarly excited in the retelling; her cunt was wet and I realized the image of him fucking her was being replayed in her mind as she told me all.

His cock thrust only a few times into her tunnel before saying, “Bedroom.” He ushered down the hallway to his bed, pulled back the covers, and urged her back onto the mattress. She confessed her anticipation to again fuck him since leaving our home but didn’t tell him her suspicion that she might have been followed. She cannot know that for sure and would have distracted his enthusiasm to fuck her.

He gazed down to her shaven mound and whispered approval. He positioned himself between her legs and went down on her. Having had an external surgical procedure to smooth and tighten her external opening, her cunt has no lips, much like photos of an inflatable fuck-doll. She climaxed within minutes but he continued mouthing her pussy for what seemed to her a rather long time. She twice pleaded, “Fuck me” before he grasped his swollen cock and guided it to her cunt.

Time is difficult for my wife to judge when she is fucking but it seemed a long time and for some reason, he didn’t announce he was near ejaculating. He flipped her to her knees and entered her cunt from behind. Her hips gyrated in response to his thrusts and she drooled uncontrollably, something I don’t recall her telling me as a former reaction when fucking. Saliva dripped from her lower lip to down her chin.

She shifted her torso forward, causing his cock to pull away. She aggressively pushed him to his back and straddled his hips. Grasping his cock she lowered her groin, allowing his dick to slide easily into her wet slit.

He lay wide-eyed looking up at her as she rode him. Perhaps no more than five minutes passed before his hip thrust upward in rhythm with hers and he cried out, “I’m cumming.” She slowed her thrusting hips as his sperm gushed into her.

I shuddered and increased my thrusting into her tunnel and was cumming hard. As my jizz spurted into her cunt, I said, "Oh yeah, I love it."

They lay gasping and talking about whatever came to mind, mostly about their pleasures of the morning. He said she and I seem to have a Female Led Relationship. She laughed at his comment and asked what he meant by that. His understanding is that she can fuck other men but I cannot, which for most of our time at this way of life is the way it has been. But when repeating it to me, I agreed that’s not far off target. She is in charge of our marital sex in a sense and makes the decisions about that.

She looked at her Mickey Mouse watch and told him she should leave soon. As they dressed, he asked if she could accompany him on a short trip this weekend. He is driving about an hour away to a teacher’s conference the coming Friday night and staying through Sunday morning. He inquired whether I would mind if she went with him and stayed overnight. She could sit in the conference as a participant with him and stay with him Friday and Saturday nights. She said she would talk with me about that and get back to him. Her unstated reason is that she wants a day or two to think it over. She has accompanied others on overnight trips but those were not quite like this invitation. As of this evening, she hasn’t agreed to go with him but isn’t yet ready to write it off.

I didn’t offer an opinion but instead said, “That’s up to you.” My only question had to do with her reasons for either going or turning him down. She said only, “It’s potentially complicated,” but didn’t elaborate. My only response was that she let me know by Wednesday and I won’t make plans for the weekend if she decides to go. She didn’t need to mention her concern that some unknown person or company might be investigating her personal life; I realized that as her most obvious concern. Another would be she doesn’t want to put herself in a position of being unintentionally recognized at the conference or hotel by someone in our area. Perhaps she has other reasons she isn’t ready to discuss; if there are, I’m sure she will get around to telling me by the time she makes up her mind.

I’m not being coy by not pursuing her thoughts about spending a night away with Derrick. It’s just that I don’t wish to seem controlling or push her into a conversation she may not wish to have at the time. It's always best for both of us when she makes her own decisions about when, where, or who she fucks. After all, I'm not the one getting dicked.

Considering my attitude about that, maybe Derrick is right in his opinion she and I are in a Female Led Relationship. I hadn’t before thought about us that way. Sometimes, either or both of us learn something about ourselves from other men who fuck my wife. This may be one of those times. I need to think about that for a while.

~ Des

[solstice]

Des writes: maybe Derrick is right in his opinion she and I are in a Female Led Relationship.

There is a wide range of FLR from total denial of sex, caging and down to the female discussing with her husband who she wants to fuck. I suspect that if you are female lead, it is with the lightest of touch.

[Tracey52]

Thanks as always Des. Could Gigi being followed/investigated possibly have something to do with her upcoming promotion. Isn’t she having a meeting with the chair of the bank’s board soon?

[solstice]

Could Gigi being followed/investigated

Mr Tracy!!! I think you are allowing your imagination to run wild, Gigi is likely to be well known and respected lady in what I presume to be a mid-sized and fairly prosperous Town (I too have a graphics imagination) what you envisage is something out of the TV series Billions.

[rascalnvixen]

Thanks for the update, Des!!!

Where do I start???? Ok, let's start with the tail she seems to pick up several times lately. I am not surprised she is being tailed and I think I know who is responsible for it. If she is even being thought of as a candidate for president of the bank, the BOD will want to be sure that she will offer a holsom image to the public and in her semi-private life as well. It isn't beyond surprise that the lawyer, chairwoman of the BOD of the bank would have arranged to have a preliminary investigation done on her to know who she really is and to possibly find any negative traits or practices that would bring disdain upon the bank if she is selected as the president when the current pres decides to step down. I would assume the chairwoman has hired a private eye to investigate her personal life because if a P.I. can find things that are not the best, then it could be easy for the public to somehow find those same things. If she wants to be president of the bank, I suggest that she conduct her private affairs in a very clandestine manner from here on, even if she does get that promotion. If the P.I. is following her, he may have already determined a pattern of her leaving your house for extended times at places that can't be easily explained. I'm sure she knows there may be several PIs watching her every move. Please also remind her that although several one block loops tells her that she is being followed, it also tells the follower that he/she has been busted and that Gigi is aware of her status as a target of interest, which will signal to them that they need to be more careful and secretive in their surveillance of her. This kind of investigation is not unusual for promotions or hires to high positions in a corporate structure where the company is concerned with their public presence. A community bank would certainly be such a company!! The only way they can follow is if they start at her home. So you may see unusual vehicles in your neighborhood now as you leave or return home. Also, she may want to look into a device that can detect a tracking signal from a device that may have been attached to her vehicle. She should sweep her car often as well as your home and her office. PIs are very good at finding habits and patterns that can lead to other discoveries about a person. Keep in mind they don't have to find "PROOF" of anything, just the implication is enough to derail her track to the presidency. I'm not sure if Mr. Boss is aware of this or not, it is difficult to say.

On the comments about your being in a female led relationship, I think you have clearly stated previously that in the sexual department she is clearly the leader of the household. But you have also stated that beyond that sexual content, you and she have a fairly balanced relationship in which you have a strong voice, maybe even a stronger voice that her. So again, labels are difficult to use to convey the reality of a relationship. Does it bother you that Derrick might think of you as a wimp or a complete cuckold just because Gigi is her own woman sexually??? After all, he only knows what he sees and hears about you from your wife when she is visiting his bed.

BTW, I'm happy to hear she is still getting a good "seeing to" by Derrick, as Scotch might say it, but she really needs to be very careful and deliberate in her sexual romps in the community.

All the best to you and Gigi!!!

Rascal

[Des 31]

Thanks as always Des. Could Gigi being followed/investigated possibly have something to do with her upcoming promotion. Isn’t she having a meeting with the chair of the bank’s board soon?

Mr Tracy!!! I think you are allowing your imagination to run wild, Gigi is likely to be well known and respected lady in what I presume to be a mid-sized and fairly prosperous Town (I too have a graphics imagination) what you envisage is something out of the TV series Billions.

Thanks for the update, Des!!!

(Abridged) . . . I would assume the chairwoman has hired a private eye to investigate her personal life because if a P.I. can find things that are not the best, then it could be easy for the public to somehow find those same things . . .
. . . On the comments about your being in a female led relationship, I think you have clearly stated previously that in the sexual department she is clearly the leader of the household. But you have also stated that beyond that sexual content, you and she have a fairly balanced relationship in which you have a strong voice, maybe even a stronger voice that her. So again, labels are difficult to use to convey the reality of a relationship. Does it bother you that Derrick might think of you as a wimp or a complete cuckold just because Gigi is her own woman sexually??? After all, he only knows what he sees and hears about you from your wife when she is visiting his bed.

All the best to you and Gigi!!!

Rascal

Thanks for the input, guys.

All great advice, Rascal. The bases are covered, with some details below. Without my going into matters that are confidential as a necessity, I can say she will also be getting an oral summary of the report within the week; she has connections – She had prior reasons to assume none of that would create a problem for her but already has learned it’s all good. And yeah, although Derrick has met me and I don’t come across as a submissive sort, he might have that cuckold image of me. If so, time should change that but for now that doesn’t bother me.

Actually, Solstice - like Rascal - Tracey is right and that had been one of my suspicions as well. Two separate events prior to spotting the gray sedan behind her had alerted her to this. Here’s more than many may wish to know, but a part may be educational for at least a few:

With some spare time on her hands, Gigi learned last night and this morning a background check had been underway as a result of her boss’ announced retirement at the last board meeting. It’s most likely now over and done and a report to whoever is the inquiring party is probably now being prepared.

I found her method of deduction and confirmation to be fascinating (standard detective work). It took her less than two hours altogether to find out – Mainly through basic logic by her and her former PI trainer, three phone calls between her and that PI agency owner who trained her for licensing, and a brief conversation with her boss at work who said the same was done on his background back when he was first considered for hiring. The owner of the PI agency also suspected that to be the reason and essentially confirmed it through an online check based on a license tag number she had written down the night she spotted an SUV parked in front of a vacated residence two houses down from our home. In the end, it’s clearly routine and nothing for concern.

She personally doesn’t mind; it’s been done before back when her boss was being considering for hire as the bank’s president and at least once more for the hiring of the chief financial officer even before that. Most likely, a credit report and personnel records analysis were part of that. The inquiring party had to be the board of directors or its chairwoman with who on Friday my wife had lunch at the club and accompanied her at the driving range. Thinking back on remarks during their conversation at the time, she now suspects the attorney-chairwoman’s requested outing was a part of the background check. Or maybe not.

There’s more detail to the above but I doubt many here would really care.

Gigi is unusually observant about everything and everyone around her and even more so over the past year. I think I have mentioned here in the past she notices things around us of which I commonly pay no attention. As a minor example, she once mentioned to me she pays less attention to what people say than to how they say it; that tells her more about their real thoughts and intent than just the spoken words; I knew that but use the technique only at times like when in sales or partners meetings; she practices that and more in all her encounters.

Her awareness and common caution in day to day activities doesn’t allow even a good PI to unearth clues about her extramarital life. With exceptions like divorce cases and certain other queries, that isn’t a matter most investigators are expected to pursue. A private message received today from a friendly OHW member opined my wife’s and her boss’ sex at the office could be a problem; that’s undeniably true for most office sexual relationships, but the circumstances at their workplace and the way they handle it doesn’t allow for others finding out. That requires a longer narrative to explain, but it’s a solid fact.

As an aside, all should know more companies and individuals check up on us more than most realize. Even many insurance companies run occasional checks, some extensively, on at least some policyholders. Unless you know the various inquirers’ methodologies, you’re unlikely to ever learn about most of those. If your life story is legal and you’re not in dire financial straits, inquiries like that should be nothing to worry about.

My wife says, “Trust no one and pay attention to the slightest happening out of the ordinary.” Stated that concisely, her tenet is a little extreme but the general concept is a worthy principle to keep in mind. It works for her as I assume it will for most of us hotwife couples.

~ Des

[solstice]

I know it is not relevant in this instant but this would not be allowed in the UK, as it would be an infringement on the human rights act. The exception would be if the employee was involved in criminal behaviour

It may come as a surprise to many people, but employers are permitted to employ private detectives to investigate their staff. The main reason they would choose to take such action would be for the protection of the business and/or it’s assets.
What an employer is not allowed to do is use a private detective for speculative purposes. Article 8 of the human rights act is the right to respect for private family life. Although the article only specifies government agencies should not interfere in private life, save for the detection of crime, and in the interests of a free society, it does not mean it holds no relevance when an employer decides to put an employee under surveillance.
It would seem that the investigators had Gigi under surveillance, with no evidence of wrongdoing.

[rascalnvixen]

Des,

You said: "With some spare time on her hands, Gigi learned last night and this morning a background check had been underway as a result of her boss’ announced retirement at the last board meeting. It’s most likely now over and done and a report to whoever is the inquiring party is probably now being prepared." Don't let your guard down now!!!!! That investigation most probably will not be over until she is either selected or rejected for the job. Keep in mind that while background checks and financial reports are a normal course of action for management level candidates, being tailed under surveillance is NOT!! The fact that she is being followed is a big warning that they are looking much deeper in to her personal life than you described above. Just a warning to not believe it is all over. These kinds of investigations are not a big deal most of the time, BUT if they get a sense something is somewhat unusual, (like unusual visits to another man's home or hotel) the digging will continue longer and sometimes deeper until unusual is understood.

Also: "In the end, it’s clearly routine and nothing for concern." And: "Thinking back on remarks during their conversation at the time, she now suspects the attorney-chairwoman’s requested outing was a part of the background check. Or maybe not." Not necessarily a cause for concern are the reports I noted above but "personal eyes on" type of close observation of her comings and goings is not routine. That kind of work is expensive!!! And there is usually a good reason the client wants that kind of close work. I would not be surprised to learn that the lunch with the chairwoman was a diversion to keep her actions in control for a short period of time so that something else can be accomplished while Gigi was engaged with her. Again, if I were you, I would get her car checked for GPS transmitters or other tracking devices. Don't assume this investigation is over. These kinds of things with "personal eyes on" work usually has a question that needs an answer and it will continue until that question is answered.

Rascal

[anonymister1948]

I know it is not relevant in this instant but this would not be allowed in the UK, as it would be an infringement on the human rights act. The exception would be if the employee was involved in criminal behaviour

It may come as a surprise to many people, but employers are permitted to employ private detectives to investigate their staff. The main reason they would choose to take such action would be for the protection of the business and/or it’s assets.
What an employer is not allowed to do is use a private detective for speculative purposes. Article 8 of the human rights act is the right to respect for private family life. Although the article only specifies government agencies should not interfere in private life, save for the detection of crime, and in the interests of a free society, it does not mean it holds no relevance when an employer decides to put an employee under surveillance.
It would seem that the investigators had Gigi under surveillance, with no evidence of wrongdoing.

That law would stop dead in its tracks all those background search websites that employers and the rental housing market use in the States. Some jurisdictions require that employers get a signature allowing them to do a background check but otherwise, it's game-on to find every little thing in a person's past. All you need is a credit card and a minimum amount of information about the person of interest. I bet it's an insanely lucrative business.

[Tracey52]

I for one would be most interested in hearing more details about Gigi’s meeting with the chair. Do I remember you once alluding to the chair potentially having a sexual interest in Gigi?

[Scotch98]

Interesting Update Des and scary stuff indeed. it only increases my paranoia......LOL The amount of information about our personal lives that is available with just a little research is amazing. would be interesting indeed to know exactly what is in our individual files......

[Des 31]

Interesting comments, Solstice and Anonymister - I’ll get off-topic for a moment about that. Private investigators’ rules are complicated. We have restrictions in the U.S. also. I’m not a lawyer but Gigi has explained roughly how her employer has certain rights to check up on her periodically. When employees are hired, they sign consent to background checks as a condition of hire and agree to potential background checks while employed when deemed necessary by the employer. Gigi renewed her consent each time she was promoted.

Don’t take the following as legal advice, but here’s my understanding from past conversations with my wife. The bank doesn’t commonly do background checks on current employees beyond credit reports when deemed necessary, but they can conduct a more extensive background check for promotions and certain other purposes; I’m told an alternative example could be an employee being involved in a vehicular or other accident for which the employer may be liable. Laws forbid background checks involving class discrimination and more like race and religion. PI’s cannot make arrests as can law enforcement officers, but their authority for surveillance and gathering information is rather broad when performed within the legal restrictions.

I have seen fictional PIs in movies take photos through private homes’ windows or from another room inside a home. I’m told PIs cannot photograph or video what people are doing through a window or inside their homes, and they definitely cannot enter a home without being invited. That isn’t legal in our state, and I think Gigi told me restrictions on that extent of surveillance are nationwide; I am told on occasions investigators place hidden cams in homes for purposes like catching cheating spouses, but that can be done only with the homeowner's or (apartment) tenant's approval. She is more familiar with PI limitations than I but I’m sure no ethical PI agency would intentionally exceed its legal authority. (In other words, there’s no way Gigi will be having sex with anyone in our front yard where someone can photograph her through our front steel gate or from above by a drone. She’s an inside-the-home woman with the blinds and storm shutters closed tight.) I'm comfortably sure she's not about to stop fucking other guys anytime soon, but so far it seems to me she's doing it the right way. I like that.

I’m going on too long. There was more I was about to add but won’t elaborate again on that topic here - My extraneous comments are messing up the website’s intent. I'll get around to the other responses later. Thanks to all for your input - I don't disagree with anything therein.

At this morning's breakfast table, I mentioned to Gigi I wondered how different Beau's upbringing might have been had he known his parents were swingers when he was a kid. She laughed and said, "He would have gone to the orgies to eat grapes." I shouldn't expect to get a serious answer to my stupid questions.

~ Des

[Tracey52]

So continuing on this topic. Gigi has the intimate relationship document with Mr Boss lodged at the bank. Does she have one with Beau? Could be an issue especially when she is president. If Mr Boss keeps them, that would be interesting in of it self. Also does the chair have access to that?
Anyone for chess?

[Des 31]

So continuing on this topic. Gigi has the intimate relationship document with Mr Boss lodged at the bank. Does she have one with Beau? Could be an issue especially when she is president. If Mr Boss keeps them, that would be interesting in of it self. Also does the chair have access to that?
Anyone for chess?

Hi Tracey. The document is entitled as an Acknowledgement and Waiver and is intended to protect a company from potential legal exposure that might arise from intimate relationships. She keeps a copy of the original in our safe at our home. No one other than the president is allowed access to those signed forms, not even board members (or my wife), unless a problem should come about. In the dozen or more years the document has been in effect and revised, nothing has come about to create a problem. Employees do occasionally date but as far as we know, none have worked together in the same departments.

Because the bank has so many employees, it's assumed more sexual pairings have happened at times of which the administrators know nothing about and for which the employees never signed the waivers. But those employees would be in violation of rules for not signing the consent agreements. For that reason, the chairwoman's law office assumes fallouts resulting from such relationships would not make the bank responsible unless others in authority knew about it and didn't take the necessary actions. I'm sure there are more potential legal issues under certain circumstances, but those are beyond my knowledge. I suppose any legal issues can be complicated, dependent upon the circumstances involved.

Gigi's document is only signed by her, not her boss, so it's incomplete at this time. I haven't discussed with Gigi that issue about Beau, but she hasn't suggested to him he sign it. For the obvious reasons, she cannot co-sign with him without admitting their relationship to her superior. Beau, as do all, knows about the waiver document. It's possible their relationship may not continue if or when she is again promoted, but I doubt that anyone in the position of bank president would be protected from disciplinary actions anyway. Both Gigi and her boss are aware of that.

The other issue concerning Beau is that he, like almost all she works with, is technically under her authority. That issue is also the complication concerning my wife and her boss for who she works. From an outsider's viewpoint, it's all a potential mess but one which those three accept as their risks. I wouldn't recommend to anyone else ever to engage in anything like those relationships, but I don't tell my wife what she should do in her personal life. In a way, they aren't all that different from others in this way of life. All extramarital relationships carry a variety of risks for most, so everyone should be prepared to accept responsibility for whatever we choose to do.

Back when she suggested to her boss she sign it, she and he then recognized that in their circumstances it had limited value for those two personally but would protect their employer if a problem arose. Her reason for mentioning signing the waiver to her boss was then to let him know in a subtle way she was agreeable if he wanted to fuck her - and, by that time, she had already realized he did. The risks in their circumstances are all theirs, so ever-present caution is essential for their benefit.

As an update, this has been an especially good week for Gigi. That's too much to include here this morning, but I should have time to get around to that no later than the weekend.

~ Des

[eater]

I look forward to reading about it

[Tracey52]

Thanks for taking the time to answer my query Des. My concern and reason for asking was that if Gigi is being investigated, this was an area of potential risk. However, Gigi seems well on top of it. Another pun I suppose.
Don’t skimp on the details when you update us on her week. Has to be some week for that statement because every week seems good for Gigi.

[Des 31]

Thanks for taking the time to answer my query Des. My concern and reason for asking was that if Gigi is being investigated, this was an area of potential risk. However, Gigi seems well on top of it. Another pun I suppose.
Don’t skimp on the details when you update us on her week. Has to be some week for that statement because every week seems good for Gigi.

Thanks for writing, Tracey. She had a busy week. I can't yet say I have all the details, but the night is young.

Unexpectedly, this week has turned out amazingly well for my wife. When I and others congratulated her, she shrugged off all that came about by saying something like, “Everyone’s overplaying ordinary events that seem more than it is.” That isn't exactly accurate but she doesn’t like excessive compliments. More accurately, others now consider her as something of a local celebrity; I'll get around to that later in this update.

Additionally, the board of directors met this week and reported her evaluation and an updated background-check were impressive. No board member revealed what she had already realized, that a local private detective agency had also been checking on her. She didn’t really care. The day before, she had already learned through a confidential contact the source of that inquiry, the investigating agency, and the essentials of the report. Most background checks on current employees are little more than ordering a credit report and a supervisor’s most recent evaluation. When adverse findings appear in evaluations, standard rules require that the employee must be told about it.

Also left unmentioned at the meeting was her consideration for promotion at the end of 2022 when her boss takes early retirement; but as the attendees were leaving, the chairwoman again invited her to join her for a private dinner at their golf and tennis club next Wednesday night. She told Gigi privately she is to soon become the “public face” of the bank. As of now, Gigi and I are unsure what that means but assume she will find out when the two get together next week.

An after-hours mini-ceremony was held to honor her for a charitable cause and contribution and two reporters from the local paper and TV station attended. I didn’t read the following morning’s paper but upon entering the office that day, a secretary looked up and said, “I didn’t know you were married to a movie star.” I had no idea what she meant until the partner standing alongside her handed me the local paper; at the bottom half of the first page was her photo and an article on her and the bank’s charitable efforts. The story ran that afternoon on our local news channel. Gigi was presented with a plaque of appreciation and I’m told the evening news anchor gushed about how one woman can make a difference in our city.

Her boss told her as the two walked to the parking garage following the honorarium, the chairwoman had advised him Gigi will be his replacement after he retired. She suggested he should assign as much of his job as possible throughout the next year; he does that now but didn’t mention that to the woman. She added he shouldn’t tell Gigi the reason for her taking on more responsibilities; but. of course, he ignored that last part of the message.

* * * * *

Tonight, Gigi is out to dinner with Derrick and two others she hasn’t before met. She expects to be home around nine tomorrow morning.

She and he set up their four-way dinner date at his former wife’s request; the woman had found Derrick’s limited description of Gigi to be intriguing.I didn't object to their plans tonight. I have no desire to control Gigi’s extramarital sex life. How she chooses as a sex partner, when, where, and how are her decisions. When apart from me as she this evening through sometime tomorrow morning, she has a pussy-full of freedom filled with a cock of her choice. Whatever she does thrills me. Tonight, she will first be at dinner with Derrick, his ex-wife and the woman’s live-in business partner. After that, she will stay overnight with Derrick at his place.

The last time Derrick fucked her, she learned he still has occasional sex with his former wife who is now living with her business partner. The woman has a variety of business interests as a contractual interior designer, working and traveling with the man she lives with at his apparently successful import business and retail store, administering estate sales, and her own business as a finder of fine arts and furniture for local and more distant collectors. Her live-in business partner is agreeable to her off-and-on sexual relationship with her former husband Derrick.

Derrick had told his ex he’s dating “a married woman” but hasn’t revealed my wife’s name, that she has my approval for that, or other personal information about her. The only other information given the woman is Derrick’s physical description and his perception of my wife's personality. But his ex was more fascinated that his girlfriend is married.

She asked Derrick if he could arrange a foursome dinner date with them, Derrick and his married fuckbuddy. He phoned my wife at home to ask if she’s agreeable to that. Gigi had clicked on our landline‘s speaker for me to hear their conversation. She turned to me with a questioning look. I gave my shrug of approval and she agreed to go out with them tonight. Being out in public with three others, but not with me, won’t be a problem. Luncheons and dinner meetings with potential banking customers or others are a part of her job, so she doesn’t need to be concerned if people who might know her happen to see her out with others but not with me.

All that caused me to wonder if this is to be a new social circle for us. When Derrick and his wife were last having sex, she asked him how “that married woman” was able to keep knowledge of their affair from her husband. He assumed my wife wouldn’t want her to know of Gigi’s and my accord that allows her to date others, so he told her I travel a lot and don’t have a clue about it. She told him she would like him to also invite Gigi and me to go out with her live-in business partner if it could be arranged; Derrick would also accompany them. He told her would talk to my wife and see if they could somehow set up a date for the five of us. We’re told his ex is curious about how “that woman’s” husband could be so clueless. If it comes about, that could be an interesting get-together.

* * * * *

An update from a time past: Those who have followed our thread for a while may recall my wife’s friend Jean, the pharmacist who last year rejoined the Navy. Jean phoned earlier tonight and we talked few minutes. Because my wife is out with her date tonight, Jean gave me her new phone number for Gigi to call her tomorrow so the two can catch up on what each is now doing. She thinks she may be back in town a few days during the December holidays and would like to get together with the two of us. I doubt many would care about the details that led to her recent divorce, but the essence is that her former husband recently married his office manager. The woman works for him at his local trucking company. Jean said their split was somewhat anticipated and amicable. She and my wife frequently email and occasionally talk by phone. Gigi had encouraged her to try to salvage the marriage, but Jean told us the two of them had passed that point, and Jean is reported to be satisfied with the outcome. Jean and her former husband had once planned to eventually open a pharmacy locally. Now, she instead anticipates staying with her current career.

* * * * *

My wife doesn’t expect men to do everything she enjoys, like talking to her when they’re fucking her as Derrick does, but she’s more thrilled when they do. More often than not, she is the one who makes most of the noise when having sex. Aside from their dicks in her, what she wants most is for guys to cum at the climax of their fucking. She’s sure all women are different in some ways but thinks most of their desires are pretty much like hers.

I’m a little different in what I’m typically saying to her when we’re having sex; I’m usually asking about what it was like for her when other guys were fucking her. She says that’s fun too. Her narratives reignite the passion she experienced with whoever she’s then telling me about and she thrills to my heated reaction as I’m thrusting into her cunt.

After realizing all I’ve been typing these past few minutes didn’t include our usual sexual details, I may have gone on too long with all the above; I was about to cut out three-fourths of it. But all that might give you an idea of how other parts of our lives are like. It isn’t just my wife’s seemingly non-stop sex. (But I guess that’s pretty good too.)

~ Des

[rascalnvixen]

Interesting update, Des!!

I think most of the readers of this thread are interested in the ¾ of the story you were considering deleting as well as the ¼ you thought was important, so keep writing what YOU want to write and we'll keep reading what we want, and we'll all be happy!!!!

So, a "movie star", eh?? I'm sure Gigi loved hearing about that comment!! I'm sure you were quite pleased with her compliment.

I'm looking forward to hearing all you care to write about her sexual romps this week. I'm sure they are just as hot as ever.

Rascal

[Tracey52]

I agree with rascalnvixen, I love the full picture of what you all get up to. I’m sorry to read of Jean”s break up. Last I remember both Jean and her husband were free to stray when he was on the road but didn’t talk about it to each other. I thought when she joined the navy that it would strain the relationship but it seems the husband may have already moved on.
How does Gigi feel about being the public face of the bank considering her social media aversion?