My Wife and her Ex Husband

[jc6morw]

Absolutely, his dominance in the bedroom does have an impact on the daily things we do. Wife and I are both very happy with this arrangement. He has also become much more comfortable allowing me to be a sub to him.

An interesting social dynamic: He went from being her (ex-)husband to being her man, for you it´s the reverse route. He managed to claim most of the fun parts of living together in the process, while you are relegated to the duties that go with it. It would appear he is the social climber among the three of you.....

I would like to offer such benefit to one of my wife's former lover. If he had considered the fun parts of frequent sex access to my wife but balled at the accompanying duties, now offered the enjoyment privileges he appreciates and the peace of mind knowing that a sub like me is willing to take on ALL the unpleasant duties without any possibility of fun participation. And docile enough to never ask for more.

[cuckoldfan]

Your story is more than just hot. Your living a cuckold dream. I hear allot of couples will let her have sex with her ex. I personally would stay out of their sex life unless my wife really wanted me involved. Giving her complete freedom is the hottest and often gives her the chance to only concern herself with him sexually.

[Des 31]

My wife and I have been married for over 7 years. She was married once before and has remained in good terms with her ex husband. Just last week she told me that her ex husband was going through a rough time since he was laid off from work in mid March and doesn’t know when he will be back to work again. She suggested allowing him to move in with us until things get better. Thinking she just wanted to help him, I didn’t hesitate. She later told me she was looking forward to having sex with him again. We enjoy the cuckold lifestyle but being cuckolded by her ex husband both excites me and makes me nervous at the same time.

There's probably little to be concerned about her having sex with her former husband, dependent upon their reason for their divorce. A great guy who has been divorced for about two years is now fucking my 34-year-old wife whenever they have time to get together after work hours or weekends. He recently told her he and his ex still get together for a few hours at his place and her live-in business partner/boyfriend approves. She had dinner out with the two of them and the woman's former husband this past weekend. My wife says the woman's boyfriend has the same attitude about sharing his girlfriend as I do in the enjoyment of my wife having sex with other men. My wife's fuckbuddy and his former wife say she and he get along fine sexually and socially, but each was just too different in their personalities for the two to actually live together.

I suppose her boyfriend gets as excited about her fucking her ex-husband as I do when he's fucking my wife. I'm usually at home jerking off whenever Gigi is out on dates with others. Your wife isn't unusual in that way. Over the years of our marriage, we have met other couples who have split for various reasons but still have casual sex together at times. I suspect that's rather common among couples who divorced under amiable circumstances.

~ Des

Did she tease you with being cut off when they started up again? Does she tease you about no sex in front of the ex?
Can you recount some of those conversations. Tks.

She has not teased me in front of him yet. In private she does love to tease me. She tells me the sex is amazing and that I should thank him for doing for her, what I can’t do.

I think it's okay to express your gratitude for what he does to and for your wife. I have often thanked guys for what they do for my 34-year-old wife when the guys are about to leave after fucking her at our home. When any stay overnight, they get the master bedroom and I almost always sleep in the guest bedroom where I'm madly jerking off to their sighs and moans from across the hallway. I also sometimes fix breakfast for them the following morning. I don't feel subservient about doing either of those things, just trying to be a good host in exchange for their valuable services to my wife. She and her men appreciate my expression of thankfulness.

My enthusiastic displays of approval put both at ease when they get together at other times, either at our home or the men's places. That allows both to know I like it and that their relationships can continue as long and as often as the two wish.

~ Des

[germancuck-1]

This thread is so interesting it deserves a bump.... Hope everything is OK, SoFLCuck! What are your plans for Christmas?

[SoFLCuck]

Hi All. Merry Christmas. We are celebrating a year and a half of her ex husband moving in. I can’t believe time has gone by so quickly. Things are going very well. We couldn’t be happier. We get along very well. My wife tells me she is getting along better now with her ex-husband than when they were married. Him and I get along very well. Not having any pressure to preform sexually is the best feeling ever. Hope to keep this arrangement alive for many years to come.

[8toplaywith]

Merry Christmas and I hope your wish comes true.

[Des 31]

Glad to hear it's working for the three of you. I am curious about one facet of all that though. How do either you or your wife explain the situation to friends and house guests who are aware the man living with the two of you is her ex-husband? The purpose of that living arrangement would seem to be rather obvious to others if they know she was once also married to him.

~ Des

[SoFLCuck]

Glad to hear it's working for the three of you. I am curious about one facet of all that though. How do either you or your wife explain the situation to friends and house guests who are aware the man living with the two of you is her ex-husband? The purpose of that living arrangement would seem to be rather obvious to others if they know she was once also married to him.

~ Des

At the beginning we told family and friends that he needed a place to stay. We keep a bedroom that “appears”to be his room. Because time has passed, they have gotten used ro seeing him around. I am sure they suspect, but no one has asked.

[germancuck-1]

Hi All. Merry Christmas. We are celebrating a year and a half of her ex husband moving in. I can’t believe time has gone by so quickly. Things are going very well. We couldn’t be happier. We get along very well. My wife tells me she is getting along better now with her ex-husband than when they were married. Him and I get along very well. Not having any pressure to preform sexually is the best feeling ever. Hope to keep this arrangement alive for many years to come.

Thanks for the update, and congrats that it´s working out so well for all of you! What kind and how much erotic/sexual access to your wife are you allowed these days (if any)?

[SoFLCuck]

Hi All. Merry Christmas. We are celebrating a year and a half of her ex husband moving in. I can’t believe time has gone by so quickly. Things are going very well. We couldn’t be happier. We get along very well. My wife tells me she is getting along better now with her ex-husband than when they were married. Him and I get along very well. Not having any pressure to preform sexually is the best feeling ever. Hope to keep this arrangement alive for many years to come.

Thanks for the update, and congrats that it´s working out so well for all of you! What kind and how much erotic/sexual access to your wife are you allowed these days (if any)?

Thank you. I stopped having sex with her when he moved in and that has not changed. I watch, clean up, and masturbate. That meets my sexual needs.

[Long Lurker 34]

Hi All. Merry Christmas. We are celebrating a year and a half of her ex husband moving in. I can’t believe time has gone by so quickly. Things are going very well. We couldn’t be happier. We get along very well. My wife tells me she is getting along better now with her ex-husband than when they were married. Him and I get along very well. Not having any pressure to preform sexually is the best feeling ever. Hope to keep this arrangement alive for many years to come.

Thanks for the update, and congrats that it´s working out so well for all of you! What kind and how much erotic/sexual access to your wife are you allowed these days (if any)?

Thank you. I stopped having sex with her when he moved in and that has not changed. I watch, clean up, and masturbate. That meets my sexual needs.

Clearly this is in your home. When in public how are things handled, inparticular if your wife and ex happen to be out without you around?

[SoFLCuck]

Hi All. Merry Christmas. We are celebrating a year and a half of her ex husband moving in. I can’t believe time has gone by so quickly. Things are going very well. We couldn’t be happier. We get along very well. My wife tells me she is getting along better now with her ex-husband than when they were married. Him and I get along very well. Not having any pressure to preform sexually is the best feeling ever. Hope to keep this arrangement alive for many years to come.

Thanks for the update, and congrats that it´s working out so well for all of you! What kind and how much erotic/sexual access to your wife are you allowed these days (if any)?

Thank you. I stopped having sex with her when he moved in and that has not changed. I watch, clean up, and masturbate. That meets my sexual needs.

Clearly this is in your home. When in public how are things handled, inparticular if your wife and ex happen to be out without you around?

We have agreed to keep it very neutral in public. Even when they go out in public, they don’t hold hands, etc. Doing so has worked well for us.

[germancuck-1]

Considering you are, in a way, what was missing in their relationship to make things work out between them, there´s a fair amount of irony in the whole situation. Hopefully it continues to feel as deliciously ironic for you as it does for the reader of your ongoing story!

Are you and your wife still as much a couple as she is with her ex-husband, or have they become the main item, with you being subservient and supportive to help them enjoy their time together?

[SoFLCuck]

Considering you are, in a way, what was missing in their relationship to make things work out between them, there´s a fair amount of irony in the whole situation. Hopefully it continues to feel as deliciously ironic for you as it does for the reader of your ongoing story!

Are you and your wife still as much a couple as she is with her ex-husband, or have they become the main item, with you being subservient and supportive to help them enjoy their time together?

I honestly feel that our relationship is amazing. My wife and I are still very much in love. We still have romantic evenings and cuddle, etc. While I’ll admit having her ex-husband stay with us and eventually move in with us was something I was hesitant about, I know can honestly say is the best thing that happened to us.

I also know that she loves him too and I am okay with that. In the bedroom I am subservient and supportive and that is something I am really enjoying.

[SoFLCuck]

I have received messages from a number of people that want to stay in touch. If you are on KIK, I’m SoFLCuck.

[coolhandluke11]

I love how this originally temporary arrangement with the ex husband has developed to be the way it is now. So happy for you.

[SoFLCuck]

I love how this originally temporary arrangement with the ex husband has developed to be the way it is now. So happy for you.

Thank you so much. Finding the right bull is so important. Little did we know that her ex-husband would some day become our bull.

[weaver]

hey sofi does your wife have feelings for her ex husband now?

[weaver]

hey sofi does your wife have feelings for her ex husband now?

[LAlurker]

Thank you so much. Finding the right bull is so important. Little did we know that her ex-husband would some day become our bull.
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Glad you feel that he is your Bull too. Do you service him as well?

[SoFLCuck]

hey sofi does your wife have feelings for her ex husband now?

Yes she does.

[SoFLCuck]

Happy Valentine’s Day all. Things continue to go well for us. I took today off from work to make a romantic dinner for all of us. After dinner, I will get to enjoy watching them. I’m just 3 months shy of two full years of no penetrative sex with her.

[p_jimi]

My wife had no husband before me, but she has boy friends whoom she did not fucked. After she started hotwifing she told me she would like fuck her earlier lovers. I did not object, so she fucked all three of her earlier boyfiends, she fucked one of them for more then five years.

[SoFLCuck]

My wife had no husband before me, but she has boy friends whoom she did not fucked. After she started hotwifing she told me she would like fuck her earlier lovers. I did not object, so she fucked all three of her earlier boyfiends, she fucked one of them for more then five years.

That is awesome that your wife is able to catch up with her old boyfriends. Love that arrangement.

[mick_flow]

Happy Valentine’s Day all. Things continue to go well for us. I took today off from work to make a romantic dinner for all of us. After dinner, I will get to enjoy watching them. I’m just 3 months shy of two full years of no penetrative sex with her.

Do you want to have penetrative sec with her again? I’m guessing after two years of being with her ex it’s going to feel very very different from what you remember.