mrs. reese:
Here's one way to answer the question. Is it OK with you if Mike doesn't tell you about his other sexual partners?
If you wouldn't mind that he keeps secrets from you, then at least there's a kind of parity.
A different approach would be to discuss the question of separate lives with MIke. The two of you could then come to an agreement that would put you on an equal footing.
IH
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
IMO with hubby you must tell all, with Mike no obligation.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Hi sweetie,
Check your PM's...
You should keep it your business, and tell Michael on those occasions that you have made other plans.
Reese is your husband, he is the only other person with a right to lknow, in my opinion.
And you are a gorgeous, sexy HotWife!
(like you didn't know that!)
Check your PM's...
You should keep it your business, and tell Michael on those occasions that you have made other plans.
Reese is your husband, he is the only other person with a right to lknow, in my opinion.
And you are a gorgeous, sexy HotWife!
(like you didn't know that!)
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
The Reeses seem to be treading over into poly territory a bit. As such, if she feels some sort of long-term connection to Mike, I'd say she "owes" him whatever is demanded by the nature of their relationship. If he says it's important that he know about her other relationships, and he's important to her, then it'd be reasonable for her to keep him informed, assuming none of that is a problem for Mr Reese.
Personally, if I were in a casual relationship with someone, I'd want to know about her other activities for health reasons, if nothing else.
Personally, if I were in a casual relationship with someone, I'd want to know about her other activities for health reasons, if nothing else.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Hi Mrs. Reese,
Thanks for the thoughtful and heartfelt reply. In focusing on the fun, it can sometimes be all too easy to forget that getting there can be a long, difficult, and at times painful process - even (perhaps especially) when the primary couple is as deeply in love as you and Mr. Reese.
As far as my two cents as to what to tell Mike and when, while I agree that the person you ultimately owe honesty to is your husband, you do seem to consider Mike as a full-fledged boyfriend. I would probably at least mention to him, if you haven't already, that you may still play with others - that's part of who you are, part of the sexiness that led you to Mike in the first place, and you shouldn't have to hide it, particularly since hiding it causes you so much anguish. Given him similar reassurances to those you give Mr. Reese - that you still very much want him and aren't looking to replace him, etc. - and be sure to emphasize that you always practice safe sex. (As Groovy noted that's probably at least part of his concerns.) Then let HIM decide how much more he wants to know. you can always broach the subject again later if something new happens (like going bareback with a new lover) that you feel he needs to know.
Speaking of STD tests, I'm curious (pun kind of intended, I suppose
) as to when you broach the subject with a new FB - do you wait for him to ask about going bareback, or is it something you bring up at a certain point (like when you've decided you want him as a "regular")? Also, are you and/or Mr. Reese getting tested routinely? (Sorry if that last question seems either silly or insulting, it's just one of those questions you'd hate to not have asked if it turns out someone should have.)
Finally, on a somewhat related note, what would you think of having Mario, um, "autograph" a new pair of shoes for you (on the inside or outside) when you're just about ready to leave, then wearing them home and letting your husband wonder what else might have happened (sorry Mr. Reese!)...
... at least until you post all the juicy details for the rest of us pervs. In any event, you've clearly had a fun week with Mike and your hubby already, and I hope you and Mario have just as much fun tonight! Good luck, and keep us posted!
CG
Thanks for the thoughtful and heartfelt reply. In focusing on the fun, it can sometimes be all too easy to forget that getting there can be a long, difficult, and at times painful process - even (perhaps especially) when the primary couple is as deeply in love as you and Mr. Reese.
As far as my two cents as to what to tell Mike and when, while I agree that the person you ultimately owe honesty to is your husband, you do seem to consider Mike as a full-fledged boyfriend. I would probably at least mention to him, if you haven't already, that you may still play with others - that's part of who you are, part of the sexiness that led you to Mike in the first place, and you shouldn't have to hide it, particularly since hiding it causes you so much anguish. Given him similar reassurances to those you give Mr. Reese - that you still very much want him and aren't looking to replace him, etc. - and be sure to emphasize that you always practice safe sex. (As Groovy noted that's probably at least part of his concerns.) Then let HIM decide how much more he wants to know. you can always broach the subject again later if something new happens (like going bareback with a new lover) that you feel he needs to know.
Speaking of STD tests, I'm curious (pun kind of intended, I suppose
) as to when you broach the subject with a new FB - do you wait for him to ask about going bareback, or is it something you bring up at a certain point (like when you've decided you want him as a "regular")? Also, are you and/or Mr. Reese getting tested routinely? (Sorry if that last question seems either silly or insulting, it's just one of those questions you'd hate to not have asked if it turns out someone should have.)Finally, on a somewhat related note, what would you think of having Mario, um, "autograph" a new pair of shoes for you (on the inside or outside) when you're just about ready to leave, then wearing them home and letting your husband wonder what else might have happened (sorry Mr. Reese!)...
... at least until you post all the juicy details for the rest of us pervs.
In any event, you've clearly had a fun week with Mike and your hubby already, and I hope you and Mario have just as much fun tonight! Good luck, and keep us posted!CG
It's always the quiet ones...
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Creampies have been amazing lately guys. As weird as it sounds...I never ever thought I would be licking my wife and tasting her sex after her encounter with a lover. The things I do all in the heat of sex amazes me!
Everyone...thanks for the input...CG, we do have aids check ups twice a year..actually, whenever blood is drawn for a test, we always have our doc include that as well. We really try to practice safe sex. I can not speak on behalf of my HW but I do know that she is very strict with safety and demands that her lover is clean. Honesty is important to her. I believe that she will inform Mike about Mario IF they become intimate. The way she works and of course with my input....but she will ask her potential lover to prove with a current aids test that he is safe. She will be very blunt with her approach and for example tell Mario after a few dates that IF they go to the next level, no matter what happens, he will have to prove with a test that he is safe. She will basically treat this situation like a business encounter. Once that part has been discussed and proven safe, she will relax and move on to making love and being intimate.
I am very nervous and excited about tonight. Losing her is amazing...it stings...it is difficult at times to feel connected to her as she maintains her relationship with Mike and now is infactuated with Mario. She is busy most of the day entertaining through text, or phone calls. It is actually crazy...she is dating and in love with one of her lovers, very smitten by another potential lover, and then has to maintain a marriage to me. I have to share her...I lose her a lot of times ....and other times when I want her I can have her because she is busy with someone else.
It drives me sexually crazy. Is it crazy to tell most of you reading this that I orgasm at least 3 to 4 times a day. Most of the time its over what my wife is doing, or what happened recently...or the expectations of a future encouter!
SHe drives me crazy!!
Everyone...thanks for the input...CG, we do have aids check ups twice a year..actually, whenever blood is drawn for a test, we always have our doc include that as well. We really try to practice safe sex. I can not speak on behalf of my HW but I do know that she is very strict with safety and demands that her lover is clean. Honesty is important to her. I believe that she will inform Mike about Mario IF they become intimate. The way she works and of course with my input....but she will ask her potential lover to prove with a current aids test that he is safe. She will be very blunt with her approach and for example tell Mario after a few dates that IF they go to the next level, no matter what happens, he will have to prove with a test that he is safe. She will basically treat this situation like a business encounter. Once that part has been discussed and proven safe, she will relax and move on to making love and being intimate.
I am very nervous and excited about tonight. Losing her is amazing...it stings...it is difficult at times to feel connected to her as she maintains her relationship with Mike and now is infactuated with Mario. She is busy most of the day entertaining through text, or phone calls. It is actually crazy...she is dating and in love with one of her lovers, very smitten by another potential lover, and then has to maintain a marriage to me. I have to share her...I lose her a lot of times ....and other times when I want her I can have her because she is busy with someone else.
It drives me sexually crazy. Is it crazy to tell most of you reading this that I orgasm at least 3 to 4 times a day. Most of the time its over what my wife is doing, or what happened recently...or the expectations of a future encouter!
SHe drives me crazy!!
Reese!!!!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Hi Reese,
Haven't chatted in a while, but I wanted to express my gratitude to you and Ms Reese, but at the moment, particularly to you, for your contributions to this forum...
Even sacrifices to this forum... lol.
Nonetheless, your candor is revealing to us all of the emotions and feelings that underlie HotWifing, and a couple of other fetishes, where you have been kind enough to share your insights and erotic observations with us.
I have to say, you possibly have the most delicious, delightful HotWife that anyone could imagine (even in our wettest dreams).
Sometimes I envy you and your incredibly hot marriage to Ms Reese, other times I wouldn't trade places with you, because damn those swings are tough. But mostly I envy and applaud your relationship, because in Ms Reese you have a gorgeous, sexy, curious, bodacious HotWife..., who by the way, has recently figured out that she loves this, and is beginning to venture out on her own... to please you, sure... but her too.
Increasingly to please her too... lol
That is a good thing, because there his no better evidence of her enjoyment, than the activities she initiates on her own!....,
Oh yeah..., and for you too! lol
Please keep on keepin' on brother!
and Thanks!
Haven't chatted in a while, but I wanted to express my gratitude to you and Ms Reese, but at the moment, particularly to you, for your contributions to this forum...
Even sacrifices to this forum... lol.
Nonetheless, your candor is revealing to us all of the emotions and feelings that underlie HotWifing, and a couple of other fetishes, where you have been kind enough to share your insights and erotic observations with us.
I have to say, you possibly have the most delicious, delightful HotWife that anyone could imagine (even in our wettest dreams).
Sometimes I envy you and your incredibly hot marriage to Ms Reese, other times I wouldn't trade places with you, because damn those swings are tough. But mostly I envy and applaud your relationship, because in Ms Reese you have a gorgeous, sexy, curious, bodacious HotWife..., who by the way, has recently figured out that she loves this, and is beginning to venture out on her own... to please you, sure... but her too.
Increasingly to please her too... lol
That is a good thing, because there his no better evidence of her enjoyment, than the activities she initiates on her own!....,
Oh yeah..., and for you too! lol
Please keep on keepin' on brother!
and Thanks!
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Thank-you Ballspanking, that was a very thoughtful post, it helps bro, at times, I wonder why I convey my feelings and hotwife play online...and to read the words you wrote on your post puts a smile on my face!
Mrs R was such a tease when she left! This is hard man, but you know, the way she looked walking out of the house...and knowing that she will be home sooner than later....her scent will drive me crazy later tonight. Perfumed, sexy thigh highs with garder straps, black hose, wearing a sexy skirt, she went with the sexy slutty office woman look but wearing a much shorter skirt. White buttoned shirt...OMG...I find it difficult to fully explain how sexy she looked.
Store closed at 9!
I am full of anxiety right now.
She texted me to inform me that she is trying on shoes now.
Mario is all over her feet.
Fuck..this is so driving me crazy!
Mrs R was such a tease when she left! This is hard man, but you know, the way she looked walking out of the house...and knowing that she will be home sooner than later....her scent will drive me crazy later tonight. Perfumed, sexy thigh highs with garder straps, black hose, wearing a sexy skirt, she went with the sexy slutty office woman look but wearing a much shorter skirt. White buttoned shirt...OMG...I find it difficult to fully explain how sexy she looked.
Store closed at 9!
I am full of anxiety right now.
She texted me to inform me that she is trying on shoes now.
Mario is all over her feet.
Fuck..this is so driving me crazy!
Reese!!!!
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"I think therefore I am"
Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
reese wrote:Store closed at 9!
I am full of anxiety right now.
She texted me to inform me that she is trying on shoes now.
Mario is all over her feet.
Fuck..this is so driving me crazy!
Mr. R.
You crack me up w/your foot fetish
(thanks for the compliment, btw).
I, too, am turned on by woman's feet & shoes, but I think I might not be at your level.
That said, THIS scenario is a riot.
Have fun, tonight.
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Aynsley...bro..I cant help it..I was born this way I assume!
She texted me again...she tried on a lot of shoes..every time Mario would massage her feet. She texted me with this....
he luvs my feet, touching all the time, shoes yah! i want him to touch pussy/ that will be next/imbad!
I am waiting for the next text.
Iris...WOW..that pic on your hubbys avantar...OMG very sexy!
She texted me again...she tried on a lot of shoes..every time Mario would massage her feet. She texted me with this....
he luvs my feet, touching all the time, shoes yah! i want him to touch pussy/ that will be next/imbad!
I am waiting for the next text.
Iris...WOW..that pic on your hubbys avantar...OMG very sexy!
Reese!!!!
"I think therefore I am"
"I think therefore I am"
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Hey Mr. R.
I think it's just a matter of intensity between you and I, but again,
I'm smiling.
I know how HOT it is to be getting texts like this....so enjoy
I think it's just a matter of intensity between you and I, but again,
I'm smiling.
I know how HOT it is to be getting texts like this....so enjoy
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Reese wants him to touch that pussy too, leave those feet alone they are his.reese wrote:Aynsley...bro..I cant help it..I was born this way I assume!
She texted me again...she tried on a lot of shoes..every time Mario would massage her feet. She texted me with this....
he luvs my feet, touching all the time, shoes yah! i want him to touch pussy/ that will be next/imbad!
I am waiting for the next text.
Iris...WOW..that pic on your hubbys avantar...OMG very sexy!
Only a fool test the depth of the water with both feet.
A bigger fool than the fellow who knows it all is the one who'll argue with him.
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A bigger fool than the fellow who knows it all is the one who'll argue with him.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
I wonder how many are checking in...
Just i case she posts?
lol
Just i case she posts?
lol
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Sorry guys..didnt post for a while.
Had to take my mind off the event earlier and played some playstation3 hockey.
She came home around 1130??
Oh my god, if I didnt know better, she was cheating on me tonight.
She was just smiling and said something in Italian....amore or something like that.
She smelled amazing.... she was playing with the shoes..dangling them off her feet.. then he fingered her pussy...they kissed as he was on his knees..finger in her pussy....kissing...playing.
She stopped him and he was a gentleman, my wife reported to me that he told her that he wants her to be his mistress...HE is married!
My wife told me how erotic the store smelled...like leather...with all the shoes!
They kissed for a long time..she felt his cock against his pants...rubbing it as she kissed. At least that is how she explained that moment to me!
They have a date again sometime next week. She wants to see him again!
MY wife is asleep....she came home, dragged me into bed( like I hestitated) I refrained from jacking off...and was loaded up for her. WE fucked....all the while she told me her story...I could smell their scent...her lips were swollen...her body sticky....her feet...omg that leather scent...and just before I was about to cum...she told me that she sucked his cock!
Jeez...my wife is such a hotwife!
I am sure she will write tomorrow!
Had to take my mind off the event earlier and played some playstation3 hockey.
She came home around 1130??
Oh my god, if I didnt know better, she was cheating on me tonight.
She was just smiling and said something in Italian....amore or something like that.
She smelled amazing.... she was playing with the shoes..dangling them off her feet.. then he fingered her pussy...they kissed as he was on his knees..finger in her pussy....kissing...playing.
She stopped him and he was a gentleman, my wife reported to me that he told her that he wants her to be his mistress...HE is married!
My wife told me how erotic the store smelled...like leather...with all the shoes!
They kissed for a long time..she felt his cock against his pants...rubbing it as she kissed. At least that is how she explained that moment to me!
They have a date again sometime next week. She wants to see him again!
MY wife is asleep....she came home, dragged me into bed( like I hestitated) I refrained from jacking off...and was loaded up for her. WE fucked....all the while she told me her story...I could smell their scent...her lips were swollen...her body sticky....her feet...omg that leather scent...and just before I was about to cum...she told me that she sucked his cock!
Jeez...my wife is such a hotwife!
I am sure she will write tomorrow!
Reese!!!!
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Please!
Don't make us wait...!
lol
Don't make us wait...!
lol
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GoodMorning everyone!
Where do I start? I do have a lunch date with Mike today then back to his place for a few hours in the afternoon while hubby takes my daughter to the movies with a few of her friends. How this man can handle losing me like this, I will never understand.
Mario is amazing. HE is the best kisser I have ever experienced as a hotwife. I cant compare him to hubby though! On 2 different worlds.
His hands are so smooth. I guess he and I knew that when I came last night, it would be a night of kinky erotic play.
I actually enjoyed wearing all the sexy shoes I tried on for him. The way his hands touched my feet and ankles as he assisted me while wearing a new pair of shoes. He wanted me to take home a few pairs that I really liked, but I said NO!
He touched me in a way that was very gentle, mysterious and intimate. I have never had a finger inserted in my pussy in a shoe store before, the thought of the security guard walking by excited me. We played, we kissed, we were passionate and he asked me to have an affair with him as his mistress, who says that anymore? I loved it!
I took thinks slowly though, I wasnt sure if I wanted to persue an affair with Mario. I have to talk to Mike. I want to, he deserves that. After hubby gave me his blessing with Mario, I told him that Mike deserves to know. He agreed!
So today, I will tell my lover, and hopefully feel him making love to me, I want Mike to work for me, I want MIke to not let me go! I want to feel possessed by my lover, if he lets me go with no reservations, then I will see Mario again very soon.
I did NOT suck Mario's penis, I just told hubby that to push his buttons. Sorry everyone!
Where do I start? I do have a lunch date with Mike today then back to his place for a few hours in the afternoon while hubby takes my daughter to the movies with a few of her friends. How this man can handle losing me like this, I will never understand.
Mario is amazing. HE is the best kisser I have ever experienced as a hotwife. I cant compare him to hubby though! On 2 different worlds.
His hands are so smooth. I guess he and I knew that when I came last night, it would be a night of kinky erotic play.
I actually enjoyed wearing all the sexy shoes I tried on for him. The way his hands touched my feet and ankles as he assisted me while wearing a new pair of shoes. He wanted me to take home a few pairs that I really liked, but I said NO!
He touched me in a way that was very gentle, mysterious and intimate. I have never had a finger inserted in my pussy in a shoe store before, the thought of the security guard walking by excited me. We played, we kissed, we were passionate and he asked me to have an affair with him as his mistress, who says that anymore? I loved it!
I took thinks slowly though, I wasnt sure if I wanted to persue an affair with Mario. I have to talk to Mike. I want to, he deserves that. After hubby gave me his blessing with Mario, I told him that Mike deserves to know. He agreed!
So today, I will tell my lover, and hopefully feel him making love to me, I want Mike to work for me, I want MIke to not let me go! I want to feel possessed by my lover, if he lets me go with no reservations, then I will see Mario again very soon.
I did NOT suck Mario's penis, I just told hubby that to push his buttons. Sorry everyone!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
A master of seduction..., or in this case, you are the "mistress" of seduction! lol
If you didn't feel that oral was called for, who can criticize you for that?
As a HotWife, that is YOUR call!
BTW, I am somewhat worried that Michael may be quite upset by your dalliance with Mario.
Of course, you ate emotionally close to Michael, and ultimately, it's your call.
Cheers sweetie,
If you didn't feel that oral was called for, who can criticize you for that?
As a HotWife, that is YOUR call!
BTW, I am somewhat worried that Michael may be quite upset by your dalliance with Mario.
Of course, you ate emotionally close to Michael, and ultimately, it's your call.
Cheers sweetie,
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Typo:
"If you ARE as emotionally attached... etc"
"If you ARE as emotionally attached... etc"
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Lets see now:mrs_reese wrote:...Mario is amazing. HE is the best kisser I have ever experienced as a hotwife. I cant compare him to hubby though! On 2 different worlds.
His hands are so smooth. .... I wasnt sure if I wanted to persue an affair with Mario. I have to talk to Mike. I want to, he deserves that. After hubby gave me his blessing with Mario, I told him that Mike deserves to know. He agreed!
....., I want Mike to work for me, I want MIke to not let me go! I want to feel possessed by my lover, if he lets me go with no reservations, then I will see Mario again very soon....
1. Best Husband and great fuck - Mr R
2. Biggest Cock and Best fuck and considerate BF - Michael
3. Smoothest hands and best kisser - smooth talking Italian Shoe Salesman - Mario
Outside of extra credit for finger fucking Mrs R and being itialian - Not sure its worth risking 1. and 2.
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Some can juggle balls... others not so well...
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
I am back home, time to R&R with hubby. To be honest, I miss him so much right now. The more I play, the more I end up wanting him so badly. I dont want to act or play for a few days, I need to get back to my steady foundation!
Mike was confused. We talked over late breakfast/lunch. I told him that I had some news to share. I just laid it out there as per hubby's advice. Well, that didnt work so well! Men!! Mike replied that he thought he was enough for me outside of my marriage. I told him that he is, but I have this need and urge to fulfill hidden desires that have been closed up in me. That hubby is ultimately my sounding board, and ultimately, it's my husband that directs my lifestyle if I seek an opinion!
Ok, once Mike thought about it, I asked him if I could explain my way. I told him that someone gave me advice to tell him like I just wrote about. I told Mike that I felt a lot of love for him. He knows how I love him. I told him that I crave his body and reaching for his penis (I felt it grow on touch) telling him that NO one can fulfill me that way like he does.
But I also told him that meeting Mario is for me and hubby. And that it is a compliment to him (mike) that I seek fun with another man. I told Mike that he has become a part of my husband and my life. We trust him, WE love him in our lives.
So why Mario? Mike kept asking sad and confused. I told him again, I need a seperation at times. TO take the seriousness away from my relationship with him(mike). And everytime I get too close to someone, I leave that lover! This is a way to give me a little separation so that I dont freak out like I usually do! I felt that I really couldnt give Mike the answer he was looking for. I felt so selfish! I felt like I was using Mike. I felt very MALE! Sorry guys, but I never could juggle more than one man in my dating life and now I am attempting to juggle hubby, Mike and now Mario! I sat back and told Mike that playing with Mario in the shoe store was just that. Fantasy and fun! I also told Mike that I wasnt intimate with Mario. That we kissed. I didnt tell him about touching my pussy because quite frankly, I just didnt want to tell him!
As long as I share everything with my husband, I wont ever feel shame or the pressure to open up! That thought was going through my mind while I was talking with Mike earlier today.
Part 2 with next post.
Mike was confused. We talked over late breakfast/lunch. I told him that I had some news to share. I just laid it out there as per hubby's advice. Well, that didnt work so well! Men!! Mike replied that he thought he was enough for me outside of my marriage. I told him that he is, but I have this need and urge to fulfill hidden desires that have been closed up in me. That hubby is ultimately my sounding board, and ultimately, it's my husband that directs my lifestyle if I seek an opinion!
Ok, once Mike thought about it, I asked him if I could explain my way. I told him that someone gave me advice to tell him like I just wrote about. I told Mike that I felt a lot of love for him. He knows how I love him. I told him that I crave his body and reaching for his penis (I felt it grow on touch) telling him that NO one can fulfill me that way like he does.
But I also told him that meeting Mario is for me and hubby. And that it is a compliment to him (mike) that I seek fun with another man. I told Mike that he has become a part of my husband and my life. We trust him, WE love him in our lives.
So why Mario? Mike kept asking sad and confused. I told him again, I need a seperation at times. TO take the seriousness away from my relationship with him(mike). And everytime I get too close to someone, I leave that lover! This is a way to give me a little separation so that I dont freak out like I usually do! I felt that I really couldnt give Mike the answer he was looking for. I felt so selfish! I felt like I was using Mike. I felt very MALE! Sorry guys, but I never could juggle more than one man in my dating life and now I am attempting to juggle hubby, Mike and now Mario! I sat back and told Mike that playing with Mario in the shoe store was just that. Fantasy and fun! I also told Mike that I wasnt intimate with Mario. That we kissed. I didnt tell him about touching my pussy because quite frankly, I just didnt want to tell him!
As long as I share everything with my husband, I wont ever feel shame or the pressure to open up! That thought was going through my mind while I was talking with Mike earlier today.
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
So Mike was like the sad little boy that just lost his first girlfriend. I told him that I wanted him so badly, and if he could give me an opportunity, that I would make him very happy in his bed. My Michael didnt hestiate! We went back and I led him into his bed and I told him that I wanted him so badly. I told him so many times that he is my man, that I love his cock so much, that I want to have his baby( that turns him on so I use it with him a lot) and that he is the best lover, better than my husband. That I love his power of taking me, that he is a real man and that I will never leave his cock or his body. That no matter what I am doing, I cant stop thinking of his body, his penis! All of that was bedroom talk, but Mike orgasmed very hard. Telling me that he is in love with me and that he will convince me that only he and my husband are meant for me! That was so sexy for me to hear that! I left him with one last thought. I told him that HE is an amazing lover and NO one will ever take his place in my heart! |
I am home now, and hubby has earned some fun with me later. I am so tired. I am going to rest for a while everyone!
It's hubby and me for a few days.
xoxo
I am home now, and hubby has earned some fun with me later. I am so tired. I am going to rest for a while everyone!
It's hubby and me for a few days.
xoxo
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
Poor sweetie, the life of seductions has you running gagged... lol
Have a lovely weekend to re-connect, guys.
Anytime you want to update... hourly... twice daily...weekly...
I'll take what I can get!
Cheers, all!
Have a lovely weekend to re-connect, guys.
Anytime you want to update... hourly... twice daily...weekly...
I'll take what I can get!
Cheers, all!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
lol
Typo:
The life of seduction has you running "ragged"...
My bad!
Typo:
The life of seduction has you running "ragged"...
My bad!
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Re: Hotwife going out alone/why is it too difficult for me?
BallSpanking wrote:lol
Typo:
The life of seduction has you running "ragged"...
My bad!
I was trying to figure out what you meant. Glad you cleared that up!Two words that should rarely be used when discussing human behavior are 'always' and 'never'!