Should a cuckold get any pussy?

[Snakeofjake]

I have seen a lot of posts mentioning the pussyfree lifestyle, and I want to see what the general consensus is on this topic.

[4herpleasure89]

Hopefully we are hearing from the vocal few on here. Being pussy free is of no interest for me.

[submissivedanny]

I am pussy free and have been for years. The only pussy I get is with my tongue. I can't have sex with my wife because I am so small I really can't get it in her so I use my tongue and she gets cock from her BF.

[Snakeofjake]

I am pussy free and have been for years. The only pussy I get is with my tongue. I can't have sex with my wife because I am so small I really can't get it in her so I use my tongue and she gets cock from her BF.

I'm in the same boat there. My cock is way too small for my fiancé so I only ever get her pussy with my tongue or when she lets me wear a strapon.

[Chrislydi]

Entirely up to the couple if pussy free suits them, best left in fantasy land for us, as no way would we ever want or contemplate such a thing. That extreme LS holds no attraction whatsoever for us. A limited period of denial is different to actually choosing, wanting or submitting to it being a permanent feature, and I've read that all too often on here.

[rockynook]

I am pussy free and have been for years. The only pussy I get is with my tongue. I can't have sex with my wife because I am so small I really can't get it in her so I use my tongue and she gets cock from her BF.

I am a 4"sub-sissy slave and have a similar situation. My wife fucks me once a year on my birthday. She calls this a"pity fuck".
I perform with an audience and cum very quickly.She laughs, they clap,and then I clean.

[elina]

I missed one option:

This should be entirely up to the Lady to decide;
If and when She feels like letting her Cuck have Her pussy, then and only then should the cuck be allowed.

Sincerely
elina

[Snakeofjake]

Personally I am as pussyfree as you can possibly get- my fiancé and I have never had piv sex before and I personally have never had any form of sex with my cock aside from handjobs. We still have sex regularly, however I have to wear a strapon on top of my cage. It gets all of the emotional connection and pleasure (for her) of real sex, and my dildo is way larger than my cock anyways so it is better that way.

[Bent_n_Twisted]

Well, we started with chastity and denial so for us, PIV is used as a 'reward', or a tease as a reminder of what I'm not getting on a regular basis. The idea of cuckolding came later, as a further reminder of what I'm not getting when caged (and having to watch someone else getting it), and because of her wanting to keep me caged but still wanting to fuck [real cocks] too. She says dildoes can be fun, but the real thing is better.

So, my vote goes to 'Yes, but not often.' But that's just what works for us, it wouldn't work for everyone here.

[Bluegrass_Cuck]

I am pussy free over two years now as I can't get full hard like I used when I was 7" thick and ready to pound. Health issues don't allow me to pop blue pills or others so I use fingers, toys and am present when the wife is with her bull.

[PANTIES]

January 2019 since I’ve had any pussy. I no longer able to achieve erections due to my use of estrogen and my desire to be feminine. It is what it is, I’ve become a feminine cocksucker. I’m just sorry it took me this long to become what I want.

Pauline

[starman2]

I have seen a lot of posts mentioning the pussyfree lifestyle, and I want to see what the general consensus is on this topic.

Think a lot depends on how the wife feels about it

[Sub4her]

I missed one option:

This should be entirely up to the Lady to decide;
If and when She feels like letting her Cuck have Her pussy, then and only then should the cuck be allowed.

Sincerely
elina

This^^^^!!!

[Filou]

Should be decided by each couple themself.

While we have sex quite oftenpiv has become something more rare and precious. Apart from the fact that we both love the inimacy of it my wife thinks it best if I have still a rather fresh feeling of what I am denied most of the time.

[Lockedhubby]

I am not been cuckolded, but I am caged. When I saw "pussy free" I assumed it included oral. I can't go without giving her oral. Last time we had PIV was in January 2022, before that it was February of 2021. I think there should be an oral only choice.

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

Hopefully we are hearing from the vocal few on here. Being pussy free is of no interest for me.

Same. I'm not even in this lifestyle, but "pussy-free" would be a deal-breaker for me. By my way of thinking, a husband and wife should share that bond. I've talked to other cuckoldresses who have said "after a while (Of being pussy-free) a cuckold detaches emotionally, and then he just detaches from the marriage itself."

But being pussy-free seems to work for a number of folks on here. Whatever......

[Chrislydi]

Hopefully we are hearing from the vocal few on here. Being pussy free is of no interest for me.

Same. I'm not even in this lifestyle, but "pussy-free" would be a deal-breaker for me. By my way of thinking, a husband and wife should share that bond. I've talked to other cuckoldresses who have said "after a while (Of being pussy-free) a cuckold detaches emotionally, and then he just detaches from the marriage itself."

But being pussy-free seems to work for a number of folks on here. Whatever......

This is how I feel, it works for so many on here and I'm happy for them. I would never suggest such s thing, and if my wife ever did, it would only make me seriously reflect on the state of our relationship. it would make me doubt her love for me and probably end up in separation and almost certainly the divorce courts. Similar scenario if ever a chastity cage was proposed. I would do neither out of choice and wouldn't want a marriage were my partner thought it a good idea either.

[Connecticut_couple]

This is really a decision a couple should make, not the people on this discussion forum. Each circumstance is different. If you asked my wife and I five years ago to consider making me pussyfree, we both would have probably laughed and said "no way". Today, I have been pussyfree for about a month. It is just part of our play. At times we go extended periods of time where she enjoys orgasms from her toys or from her lovers. Other times she wants to have sex with me. Right now, we are experimenting with extended PIV denial. It was an evolution in our cuckold journey. Obviously, if you ask the question on here, you will get a variety of answers. Honestly, I feel many of the contributors on here are just wannabe cucks who use this forum to get off and others are invested in the joys of the lifestyle and want to chat with likeminded people.

[nekkedoutdoors]

This is really a decision a couple should make, not the people on this discussion forum. Each circumstance is different. If you asked my wife and I five years ago to consider making me pussyfree, we both would have probably laughed and said "no way". Today, I have been pussyfree for about a month. It is just part of our play. At times we go extended periods of time where she enjoys orgasms from her toys or from her lovers. Other times she wants to have sex with me. Right now, we are experimenting with extended PIV denial. It was an evolution in our cuckold journey. Obviously, if you ask the question on here, you will get a variety of answers. Honestly, I feel many of the contributors on here are just wannabe cucks who use this forum to get off and others are invested in the joys of the lifestyle and want to chat with likeminded people.

I'd like to ask, "What better place to to have an open discussion about cuckolding than on a forum specifically catering to cuckolding?" Are there those non lifestylers contributing along with those that are seasoned vets that have suffered in the trenches? (Thank You for Your Service) Yes. But, there are no stipulations placed on membership here. Yes, some are with a dick in hand doling out information or options that are off base, but then those who are more experienced can share differing information or opinions and that's beauty of a discussion board isn't it?

Should a cuckold get any pussy? That's the question here. The first question one needs answered is what is a cuckold?

The Oxford Dictionary defines a cuckold as a husband of an unfaithful wife. With that definition a cuckold is a man whos wife knowingly or unknowingly has sex with another partner. That makes for a very wide spectrum from the the most basic Hotwife/sharing to stag/vixen all the way though to the sissy/ feminization end. I think the word "cuckold" is misused and only identified with the most extreme ends of the spectrum and that is a shame because many of those on the more docile side wear those horns proudly.

Connecticut_couple is correct in that the couple is solely responsible for the decisions in their sex life. But if a question is posted to a discussion board it's fair to assume that a wide spectrum of opinions will be shared, even those that make us crazy in their lack of knowledge of the subject.

[Connecticut_couple]

This is really a decision a couple should make, not the people on this discussion forum. Each circumstance is different. If you asked my wife and I five years ago to consider making me pussyfree, we both would have probably laughed and said "no way". Today, I have been pussyfree for about a month. It is just part of our play. At times we go extended periods of time where she enjoys orgasms from her toys or from her lovers. Other times she wants to have sex with me. Right now, we are experimenting with extended PIV denial. It was an evolution in our cuckold journey. Obviously, if you ask the question on here, you will get a variety of answers. Honestly, I feel many of the contributors on here are just wannabe cucks who use this forum to get off and others are invested in the joys of the lifestyle and want to chat with likeminded people.

I'd like to ask, "What better place to to have an open discussion about cuckolding than on a forum specifically catering to cuckolding?" Are there those non lifestylers contributing along with those that are seasoned vets that have suffered in the trenches? (Thank You for Your Service) Yes. But, there are no stipulations placed on membership here. Yes, some are with a dick in hand doling out information or options that are off base, but then those who are more experienced can share differing information or opinions and that's beauty of a discussion board isn't it?

Should a cuckold get any pussy? That's the question here. The first question one needs answered is what is a cuckold?

The Oxford Dictionary defines a cuckold as a husband of an unfaithful wife. With that definition a cuckold is a man whos wife knowingly or unknowingly has sex with another partner. That makes for a very wide spectrum from the the most basic Hotwife/sharing to stag/vixen all the way though to the sissy/ feminization end. I think the word "cuckold" is misused and only identified with the most extreme ends of the spectrum and that is a shame because many of those on the more docile side wear those horns proudly.

Connecticut_couple is correct in that the couple is solely responsible for the decisions in their sex life. But if a question is posted to a discussion board it's fair to assume that a wide spectrum of opinions will be shared, even those that make us crazy in their lack of knowledge of the subject.

I agree with what you're saying. And yes, there will be a wide spectrum of opinions ranging from people that enjoy reading these posts as porn to masturbate to those who are experienced cuckolds/hotwives.

[Chrislydi]

If a couple practice a more extreme form of denial it doesn't automatically give their views a validity others couples lack. There is no room for such a presumptuous and entitled attitude and it does them no favours.

[KBZ69]

In a word no, but it should not be an instant cut off but rather a process of denial by steps that end up with the cuck being almost totally cut off from his wife/gf satisfying him by any means . For me it was at my suggestion that she should make me pussy free and after a while she came round to the idea and we are almost there . Once she has banned me completely it will then gather pace as she will ban me from receiving oral pleasure then soon after from receiving masterbatory relief from her also . These progressions have been laid down by her and will come into effect when she sees fit . The one consent she tells me she will still give is for me to continue to clean her after her dates but yet again it will be at her discretion when she wants this .

[Bluegrass_Cuck]

I like to think it should be up to the Cuckoldress/Hotwife/Domme whether a cuck gets any pussy.
For me, I have issues with ed, and as she puts it, no need to take any pills to help. So I use my tongue and fingers and toys in addition to her getting a good pounding from her bull when she wants.
It's been well over two years since I've been in her and won't be probably forever.

[Open2it]

It’s really up to both the cuckoldress and her cuckold to define what works for them. Teasing and denial can take many forms and change over time. However, if it becomes destructive to the marriage it needs to be addressed and modified. Anger and resentment have no place in a healthy marriage. Sex (even limited sex) should be fun.

[Christinebitg]

I missed one option:

This should be entirely up to the Lady to decide;
If and when She feels like letting her Cuck have Her pussy, then and only then should the cuck be allowed.

Sincerely
elina

This^^^^!!!

Yes, this!! ^^^^

There's no single right way to do this stuff. It's individual and specific to every couple.

Not by my choice, but I've been cut off from penetration for six years. At this point, I really doubt that I would be capable of penetrating her, even if I wanted to.