Should a cuckold get any pussy?

[KBZ69]

I missed one option:

This should be entirely up to the Lady to decide;
If and when She feels like letting her Cuck have Her pussy, then and only then should the cuck be allowed.

Sincerely
elina

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[Mr Mrs Cream]

„Should a cuckold get any pussy?”
Yes by changing his own ass into ass-pussy.
Because health of the prostate is important and because wearing cage, this is the only one way to relief.
So butt plug, vibrator or real cock.

[hercuckslqve]

Every couple is different and for those that don't embrace chastity and service to our wives in such a context it is hard to imagine or find the desire to become pussy free. I would never have imagined I would desire such service and abstinence but now I cannot see another way but to be pussy free and watch and embrace my Hotwives sexual relationships with other men as I caged, pussy free yet totally support and desire Her pleasures.

[Bent_n_Twisted]

„Should a cuckold get any pussy?”
Yes by changing his own ass into ass-pussy.
Because health of the prostate is important and because wearing cage, this is the only one way to relief.
So butt plug, vibrator or real cock.

No, it isn't. "Only one way" is crap.

There are a number of ways a man can be caused to ejaculate without removing the device. Many devices allow room for a [lubed] cotton swab or space where a tongue can touch, if his mind is sufficiently stimulated as well, he can be caused to orgasm. A vibrator applied to the exterior of the device can cause ejaculation. A TENS unit will also work, with a contact pad on the scrotum and a probe inserted into the urethra. In some cases, erotic hypnotism can be used to induce orgasm/ejaculation, or assist in it and modify how he perceives it.

Jamming something in his ass is definitely NOT the 'only' way to get his prostate to empty...and not necessarily the most amusing way either.

[vmb69]

My wife's take on it, is that she still enjoys having me cum in her, even if she doesn't get anything from the act, it's about that closeness and her having me inside her all day. But she also tells me that once we find someone she will more than likely only fuck me on special occasions

[Wooster]

I’m always confused by these “should” posts. I’m happy not getting any, but I don’t believe it’s for everyone. There’s no correct way that things “should” go. Each couple should figure out what works for them and just do that.

[vmb69]

I’m always confused by these “should” posts. I’m happy not getting any, but I don’t believe it’s for everyone. There’s no correct way that things “should” go. Each couple should figure out what works for them and just do that.

I would suggest it goes back to the cuck aspect. Always wondering, always questioning, insecurities. This is something my wife told me was the difference between me and her BF at the time, he would ask he would do, took charge. Whereas I always worried to have her approval and treat her right. She told me she loves me for that but sometimes she just wants to be told, and give up any control especially when having sex

[Chrislydi]

I’m always confused by these “should” posts. I’m happy not getting any, but I don’t believe it’s for everyone. There’s no correct way that things “should” go. Each couple should figure out what works for them and just do that.

This is how we think, it's ridiculous how some say it should always be up to the cuckoldress etc etc, - as that's entirely dependent on how the couple's dynamic works. Men can be cucks by just sharing their wives, nothing more and nothing less, the spectrum is large enough to cover all types not just a particular niche. Noone should prescribe a one size fits all remedy..

A few cucks can be a lot taller and stronger than most bulls, and that includes all their attributes too, it's easy to forget cucks don't all come with small dicks.

[danman71]

Im fairly new to cuckolding and cant really say what anyone "should or Shouldn't" do I think for every couple its probably a unique situation. Ihavent had sex with my fiancé in over 2yrs and only three times total but we communicate and I trust her enough that if feelings and change and things aren't working that the direction can be altered in some way.

[Newcuck614]

I use to be totally against "pussy free", then out if the blue I end up caged and pretty much pussy free and it's been amazing lol. To answer your question though, there is no right answer. A cuck and hotwife should always share some sort of constant intimacy, but sex doesn't mean jist penetration. Since being caged, we've learned all sorts of ways to be intimate without allowing me inside of her. Now, we do still have intercourse on rare occasion, but since having well endowed bulls with stamina, allowing my small penis with zero stamina inside of her is more of a reward for me.

[Loserpaul]

It should be up to those involved. In our case, pussy is reserved strictly for the bulls. I am kept caged whilst a bull is around but not otherwise.

[inivisibletwin]

100% pussy free for the rest of my life would not be something I’d be okay with. I like pussy, and I’m loyal to my hot wife so I’m not getting it anywhere else. It’s hers or nothing for me… BUT, both my wife and I decided long ago that for the rest of our lives she should always have another man who gets her pussy more than me. That’s the way we both feel our relationship SHOULD be… I still get it, but another guy gets it more!

I can do 100% denial long term, just not permanent. With her current boyfriend, we went an entire year wherein I wasn’t even allowed to see her pussy, while he got it whenever he wanted… and he lives with us, so that was easy, and hot!

And I don’t mind being denied and letting him have it to himself, even for a year, as long as I know that eventually I will get it again.

[demale]

My wife has made me permanently pussyfree but encourages me to have as much cock as I care to.

[Farmgirl]

I realize the fantasy of being "cut off" or denied is appealing for many cuckolds, keep in mind the desires of your wife as well. This is about the journey of the couple together so the question can only be answered by the couple. Otherwise, it's just fantasy.

[Naplescuck]

I love being pussyfree, it builds such an angst in me, it’s been over a year, and prior to that a year, so in over 2 years, I’ve been inside of her once…….but I would absolutely be over the moon delighted and fully in love with her, if she said you NEVER get to my pussy EVER again, or any other

[4herpleasure89]

To each their own but to my mind this type of “play” seems like a mental illness. Married people should have sex in my opinion unless it is not physically possible. Short term denial to increase passion makes sense. Total denial long term for the purpose of “angst” seems delusional.

[SailorGuy]

My wife and I had a hotwife thing going for a while - of course it was my fantasy, which she went along with until amazingly another man came into her ( our ) life and made it real. As a fantasy and then when she was first involved with Tom we continued to have sex - fantastic sex, thanks to the fantasy and even better with the reality.
But as I've written before, one evening in his outdoor hot tub Tom demanded exclusivity to my wife's pussy. It was probably the most intense moment of my life. I watched them making out in the tub as I sat across from them. I watched him stand up, huge manly erect cock and great big balls right there for me to see ( of course my wife had been seeing and enjoying them for months, but this was my first glimpse ). Instinctively I also stood up and very soberly showed him what I had. I was aroused as hell; my little 4" shaved cock stood at attention, clearly less than half the length and girth of his. No words were exchanged. My wife crouched down and took his great cock into her mouth for a beautiful moment; then the two of them arose from the tub and walked across the deck and went through the sliding door into his house. Tom - still fully erect - turned and closed the door, and - very effectively to me - latched it. Locked out! A moment later the light came on in a room upstairs; through the curtains I saw two shadowy figures come together and then disappear, no doubt falling to the bed.
That was it! I quickly toweled off dressed and ran home down the street. Just as quickly I was naked in our marital bed, hard as a rock. I placed pillows under my head and swung my legs back over my head. I grabbed the top of the headboard railing with my toes and was able to get my cock within a couple of inches of my hungry mouth. ( When I was younger I was flexible enough to be able to get about half my then-6" cock into my mouth, but no more, sadly ) Knowing that at that very moment my wife had Tom's great cock deep down her throat ( or buried deep into her ample cunt ) I was aroused like I'd never been before. In just seconds I exploded so powerfully I blacked out for a moment. Whew!
That was about - ten years ago? This is still my entire sex life. I don't miss the real thing at all. Hottest thing in the world to be cuckolded by your beautiful wife!

[DDs_sltwf]

The idea my husband wouldn't want to fuck me anymore was the biggest thing that scared me off at first!!

The fact that fucking other men turns him on and makes him want me MORE is why I'm willing to do it.

The honest truth his, he never fucks me better than after he watched someone else rail me first.
Should that ever change, so might my attitude about this lifestyle. My sex drive is too high, and my husband too good a lover for me to give that up!!

[New2itBrad]

Re: Should a cuckold get any pussy?

seems like for me it’s an easy answer,
NO, since I can’t perform or satisfy my wife

[LawyerWouldbeCuckold]

To each their own but to my mind this type of “play” seems like a mental illness. Married people should have sex in my opinion unless it is not physically possible. Short term denial to increase passion makes sense. Total denial long term for the purpose of “angst” seems delusional.

I have to wholeheartedly agree. But it seems to work for a number of folks. But I am quite curious (of course, there's no way to find this out) as to how long a marriage lasts after total long-term denial has set in. I mean, granted, there are many reasons for getting and/or staying married. And as people change over time, I'm sure those reasons change. But total long-term denial? WTF does the Wife then need the Husband for, given that he is now (essentially) a sexless roommate to her? Just sayin........

[redlavish]

we have sex regularly but it would be very interesting if she found a bull and he insisted on fucking my wife more than I do. maybe something like he puts poker chips in a hat; 5, 10, 15, 20. I pick from the hat and he gets to fuck her that many times before I get to. I imagine that I would be begging him more and more to fuck her as the weeks pass.

[Luisbelo]

When her bull decides that she is not allowed to have sex with me, there’s not much I can do…

[Christinebitg]

To each their own but to my mind this type of “play” seems like a mental illness. Married people should have sex in my opinion unless it is not physically possible. Short term denial to increase passion makes sense. Total denial long term for the purpose of “angst” seems delusional.

I have to wholeheartedly agree. But it seems to work for a number of folks. But I am quite curious (of course, there's no way to find this out) as to how long a marriage lasts after total long-term denial has set in. I mean, granted, there are many reasons for getting and/or staying married. And as people change over time, I'm sure those reasons change. But total long-term denial? WTF does the Wife then need the Husband for, given that he is now (essentially) a sexless roommate to her? Just sayin........

There's something you're missing there.

We are in our 60s. When she went through menopause, much of her sex drive went away. Consequently, when she does feel a need for a hard cock in her, I'm not the one she thinks of. I'm not sure I could penetrate her now anyway.

As people get older, the sex drive naturally decreases, sorry to say. But the need for companionship and for mutual support with a person who knows you well don't drop at all. In fact, they may increase.

Relationships are not *just* about sex.

[Bent_n_Twisted]

As people get older...the need for companionship and for mutual support with a person who knows you well don't drop at all. In fact, they may increase.

Relationships are not *just* about sex.

This can be very true, it's how it's working for us.

[Christinebitg]

As people get older...the need for companionship and for mutual support with a person who knows you well don't drop at all. In fact, they may increase.

Relationships are not *just* about sex.

This can be very true, it's how it's working for us.

I especially saw that with my parents, who both lived into their late 90s. It was about taking care of each other. They passed away about 2 1/2 months apart, after being married for more than 70 years.